₦airaland Forum

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

She should be respectful? Vecause you paid for a cs to birth your own child? Something men do globally, everyday without demanding "respect"?

How old are you? This is male fantasy.

qtguru:
Anything above 28 is good for me even 31.

Goodness gracious! You sound like you're still searching.

kevwemike:
One of the greatest mistake I made in my life is the woman I marry, pls my brother calm down do alot of test on the woman, I mean hard test, pretend as if u are broke for several months see her reactions, as am telling u now I live alone 😭😭😭 with my 2 boys 5 and 7years old taking care of them all alone no help from anyone, sometimes even to go Hussle is hard bços to live them alone at home na war and now school go soon resume, house rent is there too, but I still believe God will provide. Pls brother marry a woman that have head oooooooooooooooooooooo, no go make mistake for ur life. God bless you.

A lot of single women do this and much more, and are still called slu_ts, abused and cheated on by men looking to take advantage of them.

Do you want a medal for doing your job?

The male IQ here is indeed terribly low. The type of comprehension and logic that going on is a disgrace to men who aren't Nigerian, the men who really made the world

MrSinister:
A cow can only gore someone to death, not ram someone to death. @nlfpmod please edit the topic. Thank you.

By the way...

RIP to the dead

They say it headbutted him to death. Maybe it was a calf and didn't have horns. But imagine a Roman reigns cow.

Aren't all guns gas powered?

Marry an atheist and stop disturbing the internet. Paid writers.

Kaybaba5:
Some women. Beg for beating......

As do some men.

Myphonearena:
What about women and their mistakes?

Whataboutism.

The man is speaking to men, or do you think messages are only made for women? 8 big mistakes and all you can ask is "what about women". Are you a woman in need of pastoral guidance? Or his points rub you the wrong way? Like, you're guilty of all 8 of them? One of the reasons some men stay undesirable and blame women—the refusal to accept that they are flawed creatures themselves.

jesusjnr2020:
You can see how they started and different stages they used to get to that absurd level.

If they were born that way, what will they say?

It's surprising why one would like to look like an extraterrestrial or a demon.

jesusjnr2020:
Will A Pretty Damsel In Her Right Mind Do This To Herself? (Before And After Photos)

These are the before and after photos of a pretty young girl who turned herself into a scary looking 'monster'.

https://www.informationng.com/2017/11/checkout-19-year-old-girl-looking-like-monster-undergoing-50-surgeries-photos.html

Lol.

Is that even a real human being or a bad batch silicone doll? The movie Ugly Dolls forgot to capture this one.

Origin:
Abeg carry your myopic world view away from here. So many uneducated ladies with 2-3 prior marriages but you are using famous divorces to judge.

And in this archaic and myopic view you all believe that divorces are caused by women? That marriage successes are based on the efforts of the wife....

That Mr A will read and it is Mr B that will pass the exams? That as educated as you are you would base the success of a marriage on an uneducated woman. Or that you would choose an uneducated woman as the mother of your kids.

I love all women in whatever shapes they come and would hope that even if one falls for an uneducated woman one would do their utmost to make them educated.

Preach.

Maybe it's epidemic stupidity among male posters or it is really how people reason, but everything you said yes true.

Marriage success: it's because he married s good wife
Marriage fails: it's because he married a bad wife
Man dies: it is his wife who killed him
Men succeeds: it is his wife who is hardworking

These people have chalked everything up to the mythical/unrealistic qualities of a woman/superwoman, yet they claim to be the prize but are lazy and cannot commit to their own responsibilities on relationships or marriages. It's easy for them to throw everything at the woman and do absolutely nothing themselves but fantasize.

They aren't even bothered that as the logical people who they claim to be, their ideals are all fantasy.

No wonder they have a lot of scammers on the Yahoo spectrum scamming there.

Did you do the Yahoo Yahoo scamming you wanted to do, or is this a false story?

Abusive, bad men always look for teenagers to "teach" and "mould" because they know that women their age will see thru their bullshit and evil.

This is really a topic?

Nairaland boy trying to get rich so that he can get all the women in the world to do his bidding.

Ladymillion:
what a myopic analysis, the so called thick marriageable doing all within thier power to loose weight?

Lol

ruffhandu:
I agree. But for me, she na lepa be my spec, so when the fat come she will just be there, highest a little chubby.

Lol

Cromagnon:
women will learn the hard way

Men are already learning the hard way, killing themselves in wars all over the planet, facing the music in foreign countries for spouse maltreatment and having to cater to their families. It's really hard.

Kobojunkiee:
WOW

That's it?

Interested to know if the documents that caused the arrest were known to be fake by the OP.

ruffhandu:
Lol, thick may not.neccessqrily be fat. But ma thick ma fat, I know like

The thick they must refer to that irritates some husbands must be fat. Never really liked sitting long haul next to these "thick" people.

Angelfrost:
Please, check again...

Quietly and patiently check through my profile, especially of me defending women vigorously.

Thereafter, return with an apology.

I will wait.

You defend occasionally and castigate/denigrate. You are like a coin.

Angelfrost:
This is not about Halle Berry... If I generalized about women or men on any thread, call me out on that thread.

Let's stay on topic, if you please.

...And if you have no solid points for rebuttal, do well to have a good day.

Why are you listing male celebrities without mentioning the female ones, on a bid to prove that men are fit? Was the topic not about unfit (thick) women?

Everyone knows that married men let themselves go. It's why it's called dad bod. Leave your celebrities out of it. Or include the female celebrities when next you want to claim that men get ripped after marriage while women don't, too.

Angelfrost:
Another weird generalization...!

Are Will Smith, Dave Chappelle, Mark Wahlberg, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, Van Vicker, etc, single?!!

After you, Mr Generalization himself.

And you forgot halle Berry etc. The hypocrisy is pathetic.

ruffhandu:
I never, and still don't like thick ladies

Thick or fat? What is all this thick talk.

Angelfrost:
Why exactly are you generalizing?!!... How many Nigerian men like slim girls?!!

You Mods just approve any and every topic to front page. SMH.

You've never complained about it being a generalization when the genders are switched.

Frequently we see such threads about women. But just this one today and you're talking about topics being approved. Even through the last 5 pages and then complain.

Ppn247:
Most men don like thick women.

The real question here should be why do women maintain their shape and beauty before marriage but throw all away after marriage?

Same goes for men. Men don't get ripped after marriage. They just develop potbellies and man boobs and get lazy AF, wanting to eat with their legs on the couch and can't even run after the kids. It's a shame, really.

Jomonix:
Kai, photo shop

You haven't seen an adult crocodile before?

Kepukepu:
please kindly type "Sub-Saharan Africa" on Google so you can understand me better

Explain here. Google too far.

Kepukepu:
Don't you understand what Sub-Saharan African means?

Isn't that Nigeria and Ghana? In West Africa? Or you mean that croc got there from Egypt?

Kepukepu:
says who?

Because it's called Nile crocodile does not mean that is found only in or around Nike River.
Nile crocodiles are found in most Sub-Saharan countries and in Egypt and Sudan

But we are talking about the Zambezi river here. And that's not in West Africa.

This is a misogynistic post disguised as journalism, and it's not surprising the writer will be a Nigerian man.

"Women are powerful", because a man forcefully kissed a woman on the mouth, on center stage, without invitation to do so? A lot of Nigerian men are little more than neanderthals and reason like absolute pillocks. You would prefer your wife, daughter or sister accepted such a kiss to prove your version of "equality"?

All this "article" does is whine about undue privileges and reeks of nonsense. "Women have a long memory and they hardly forgive." Really? From a journalist or a red pill mor_on writing through the supposed agony he feels for other men?

The "cheating" point goes further to prove that it is a retard-ed man who authored the so called article. That is the reasoning of backwards men. Men like this.