₦airaland Forum

Fira09:
Your state?

Who would want to live there? Noisy, dirty, hot, wet and disgusting, disorganized/crazy, claustrophobic and the stench.

It's always surprising to see the way people on this forum praise that place.

jesusjnr2020:
You are right though... That's why I've been very careful before acknowledging such to ensure it's not just a gimmick.

I have been observing Justin Bieber for several years after I first heard about his testimony. This was the first time I heard him speak about it himself and it seemed quite convincing, so I thought I should give him the benefit of a doubt.

Time would tell if he's for real.

Thanks for your concern though. God bless you.

He seemed very troubled before his Christian phase, though, so perhaps he's truly doing some things right.

As you say, time is the true determinant.

God bless you richly.

Smelly, stuffy, disorganized place. Horrible to live in.

KingLennon:
War should always be the last option. Why didn't the US army send their own soldiers to the frontline to defend Ukraine? But yet, they are supporting Nigeria against Niger. If the war happens, Nigerians will die and Nigeriens will also die. The winner will be the fuckèn whites

There are no black Americans? Or it is a racial war they are fighting? Help us understand what you posted.

One can't trust repented celebrities. They mostly produce crocodile tears.

R Kelly went through this phase. Even Britney Spears and Michael Jackson did. The tradeoffs for fame and fortune get heavy on them, but few of them can truly walk away from it entirely. Some even use this as a gimmick to reconnect with their fan base.

maasoap:
They are not even discussing females here, the title though

They are. They always get round to it if they haven't already. 98% threads here are to that effect. The rest is bigoted politics.

This one isn't hiding it from the getgo. Just look at the topic. Men didn't die for such apartments, only girls did. What a pity.

Racoon:
I still remember this disaster. I was in the University then. It was a news the world watched in horror. It is understandable that air disasters are always catastrophic and fatal.

What a terrible end for the doomed passengers watching themselves helplessly to their own deaths because of pilots errors. Worst is the pilot should have listened to his first Officer and abort the takeoff.

A Concorde that never had any fatality over 20 years of its beautiful existence suddenly had one! And that kill the future prospect & advancement of aviation science in that line. What a sad end for the Concorde.

Abeg let the indomie generation here learn history and the future pilots to be learn a thing or two so that lives will be preserved.

You're much older than I thought. And you have a good memory of the incident. It was quite the day on the news.

It must've been the shortest and yet longest moment of terror for all of them.

Klass99:
The Brat . Na this kind debate you dey like, abi?
I have finished preaching o, they will soon tag me a bitter feminist now, for pointing out what their ideologies look like when turned around on them.

I don't like such debates. People shouldn't even have them. But wherever I see bullshit designed to oppress, denigrate and subjugate women, posted as the unchangeable milk of life, I will post.

There's been an increase in such BS recently. They're tired of meting election violence and are back to their staple: misogyny.

Klass99:
@ The bolded, no, not at all. I am not mocking marriage what I am mocking is the negative and illogical thought processes of men/male users on this forum.

How most of them open their mouths waaaa to say blood is thicker than water and your wife is not your blood is unbelievable. Their own blood relatives will often leave them to their wives to manage in times of poor health or chronic illness.

It would have been nice to see the same set of people encourage the OP to prioritize his blood over the husband like they eagerly advise men to remember/do. Why sing a different tune now? Is it because of a car? Yes, the fellow hasn't been scandalized and I have nothing against him, I am only flipping male logic so we can see what the other side looks like, when they say blood is thicker than water and a wife is not your blood.

There's nothing wrong with the OP buying the car in her name alone, either. Like someone said the husband's brother will not be asking this question if he wanted to buy a car for his brother.

Prrrrreach.

illicit:
Ezigbo na weyrey ni

Playing hide and seek with 11 year old girl

Who does that

No chapters? No preaching about men and the evils they have brought into the world? About how to raise male children? About their value as custodians of homes in the society? Nothing? Just this slap on the wrist approach?

Every second another thread about females. This is what poorness does to men. Nothing else to think of but how to discuss girls and find ways to denigrate them, to compensate for not having the bunnies they crave.

Nigerian men at work, thinking of how to develop the world! Later they will tell you about what men built. It can't be men who create and market such posts.

This is low level Tateism. Nigerian men, backwards minds. Only few of them escaped it.

Kobojunkiee:
If you want to buy a car for X, shouldn't you put X's name on the car? I mean this isn't rocket science at all since the gift typically bears the name of the one whom the gift is meant for unless you have ulterior motives for presenting said gift.

He knows why he's asking. If not to stir the misogynist pot, why else?

Look at the quoted comment above mine. LMAO. People are so s*****d and aren't afraid to show it.

Pauliaette:
Why even allowed this guy to live in Lagos? I hate it because that same lizard will grow to hurt him in future. Animal Na animal as the name implies ANIMAL.

He's not complaining if it's hurting him. Plus it seems to like him a bit and he likes it too (for whatever reason).

kayperry:
shush it jare !! you girlz have to change the narrative just to save face,
why does "BUILDING" infuriate nigeria gurlz so much, to a average naija gurl Building literally means to go nd suffer cos the guy must be poor
Even Davido aka OBO had a starting point,does it mean he was poor and can't he afford basic needs, "BUILDING" is not only pertinent to Money .. you can build a career, a family/home, an empire e.t.c

I hope one day i will meet a naija lady that can differentiate btwn Poverty elevation scheme and a Relationship.

Only angry, embittered poor men boys write epistles like this to romanticize suffering and poverty.

Who do you think wants to be an unpaid laborer at your sorry building site? As if you have anything to offer any lady who will be in a relationship with you except money. You won't give her peace of mind.

Relixy2k:
This number 093011467 called me with claim that she is from First bank that I have an interview for a Receptionist role with email Adeola.Abass@firstbanknigeria.com and copied adeolu.adebari@firstbanknigeria.com and also omowole.p.orimoloye@firstbanknigeria.com. They use real first bank domain address and official signatures. However, the address is 35 kakawa street lagos island as against the real 35 marina road, lagos island which is the genuine address of First bank in marina. They sent a well addressed mail to me for front desk office role. Name on true caller for 093011467 is ikechukwu. Kindly take note when you get invite from them.

Are you sure it's the same domain name? You clicked a link to get there?

Most likely spoofed.

OdogwuJesus:
Clap for yourself. Indeed , what a coincidence. A lady dump a baby same place yahoo boys used for there rituals. Indeed a coincidence

Lol.

Don't mind them. Coincidence from birds of a feather.

MrBroke:
I don't know If attention is what you seek but this comment you made you gonna get the same response when someone dear to you is killed for something similar. I hope you enjoy it

They don't care.

When they kill women they gloat over it, now they've killed a baby so gruesomely and they say it's business to them.

It is worrisome that people like that have integrated into society.

coputa:
This generation of get rich syndrome is getting out of hand,hardwork is no longer Sort after.

The government should set up a program tagged "operation show the source of your wealth".if you can't,prove It,all your properties should be confiscated and the person sent to jail.This should be targeted at the youths.

It's not a get rich syndrome.

It's a Nigerian men syndrome (NMS). The likes of zonefree and his colony of goons will never address it. Today it's a baby, yesterday it was girls Nigerian boys felt deserved it. Tomorrow it will be the next target. Seasons come and go, but they are always killing without condemnation as the ones behind it. Nobody is preaching to fear men or that men are evil. The saga continues.

Nationally, you guys aren't ready to handle yourselves. Or tell yourselves the truth.

Your men are some of the most murderous on Earth. You aren't at war, but the figures of those killed by Nigerian men daily is staggering.

He's a murderer, why are they hiding his identity? So that done other innocent woman will encounter him without knowing who he is, then he will murder her? Or perhaps someone will employ him as a gardener and he will do the same?

Crime should not have anonymity. His face should be exposed. We should know who the murderers in society are.

Obierika:
Would you support your daughter or sister to go for a guy who can't afford to take care of her so that she will end up drinking garri every day?

He's commenting based on his state, not reality. As most of them do.

motymop:
Many Nigerian men love a grass to riches story that is why they like the idea of a woman staying with her boyfriend in rags and in riches.

In Nigeria, a woman suffering with a man in poverty is a sign that woman likes the man, if she is beautiful it is the ultimate sacrifice...this is a weird mentality.

Suffering does not always guarantee a success story, if something is not working, it is high time to move on.

Mr caicedo story is just one in a million story, it is also a story that can also put the woman future in jeopardy, now that he is rich, he can break her heart and go after women that are more beautiful than her.

Suffering doesn't guarantee loyalty.

The way they romanticize suffering and poverty is a sign of the suffering and poverty they are immersed in. It's worrisome the way they reason. And that reasoning/logic is common in men forum users.

Skyview01:
I literally go livid on my kids for pressing a toothpaste like this.

It is better to break off a relationship than get into marriage with a wrong person.

You will blow a gasket if you're getting livid at children.

This Forum is truly run by some of the most tribal and religious bigots alive.

Trump's mugshot is out and they're talking about this?

yemi1504:
Why not just go ahead and divorce? When a man doesn't have peace of mind anymore, he has to do everything in his power to restore it. Just make sure to be in your children's lives, they will be fine.

Is he giving her peace of mind to begin with? All these selfish ideas about relationships in which peace and all else belong to one side, the side that can never replicate those things, that logical side, are getting tiresome.

Abagworo:
Some women and men as well have lower than average sex urge but this your case is different. Your wife suffered from childhood sexual abuse which her mum knows but asked her to manage and get married to you. Most victims of abuse suffer from a trauma that each sexual experience acts more as a negative pain reminder than as pleasure. She didn't open up to you before marriage and has still not opened up to you .

He's violent and probably cheats on her. He also said that he twisted facts. Boldly. Read his tale. If he hasn't gone to change those parts.

It's the same template a man who claimed he was being emasculated by his wife used, and his wife later came to bust him after all the insults and millions of pages to it.

Violent man wants advice.

He claims he threw a TV remote at her and she fainted and needed to be rushed to the hospital. Wow. A right bowler we have here, yet he's never participated in any cricket tournament.

Say the truth and tell us why your touch angers and disgusts this wife of yours so much.

What did you do to her the day she fainted? Nobody believes a TV remote put her into a short coma. Can bet you're an angry, abusive cheat who is complaining because she's not accepting it the entitled way you expected her to.

This is exactly how the other one told us his wife hates him and always says that she hopes he dies. He gave us many instances of how she said it to him. He sounded more innocent than this OP, and was very free to describe every terrible thing she had ever done to him, how her parents used to beg him because she's such a terrible wife, how he threw her out and took her back after they begged him, how he was so tired of the marriage. Turns out he was an abusive and unrelenting serial cheat who expected her to love him unconditionally afterwards. He claimed he used to "touch her a little" yet dedicated pages upon pages detailing her horrible treatment of him. Everyone was against her. Read what that "innocent" man posts and you will see why the woman is "evil" to them.

All of them are like strungup79. What they gain from the insults their wives receive online? Only they know. He's even admitted to twisting details and nobody sees that. The logical gender in particular.

Yet another male fantasy.

Only heaven knows what the mods and fantasy writers gain from these stories that perpetuate lies about women. The forChan misogyny on this forum is pathetic.

But that is the owners key feature.

Dexy4yah:
Common sense is not actually common...
People like you always learn the hard way, keep dating toxic people ok...ode

I'm not the cause of your misogyny. You don't sound any better than the murderer. In fact, you sound exactly like he would.

Poverty doesn't make men good candidates for dating. They will preach about how girls are killed by people richer than they are, but they will never tell you how many poor men like themselves have battered and killed women for water inside plastic bags and worse in their slums. They'd like to make you believe that their poorness is a virtue and indicates that they are good men. Don't believe them.

Check their hearts if they're full of gloating, anger, bitterness, envy, rage and revenge. Beware of their lopsided preaching. Run from toxic men at all costs. They aren't preaching because they care or are good people. They are preaching because they didn't get to date the girls who got killed and feel envious of their able mates.

Dexy4yah:
you're in a toxic relationship but you couldn't let go Because of enjoyment and fake luxury lifestyle.




I rather die than to leave him..
I rather die than to allow another girl to take my place...

Now look at the result.....

As the brain of the sadly murdered lady, you knew this is what she was thinking.

Anything to help you gloat about all the girls that wouldn't date you because you poor.

Farfalla:
From where does he get the money to entertain himself anyways?

Wife material.

36 pages of frothing and preaching at women. O lawd.

BronzeTiger:
That's because the tales are fake and the OP is a scam.
I can't believe most people actually believe this after seeing the OP withhold vital information.

OP must give you all the details of their life, so that you will turn around to use it and still rubbish their case?

What does the info you guys seek have to do with the matter at hand? Because you want to accuse the sister of being a toxic woman who chased her husband away and that's why the deadbeat didn't move a muscle when she died?

Yes, the stories are fake, if that's not what suits what you really wanted to hear from her.

They are all over the place pretending they don't know and aren't deadbeat fathers.

There's no scenario brought here that their default isn't to blame the woman.

The orphanage is the best place for them. OP is considerate. The emotional blackmail from men here is needless. Men abandon their own blood for less, she is doing it because she has no other choice.

int0x80:
The level of wickedness amongst some Nigerian women feminists these days is becoming so pronounced. I read about one bragging of starving her own blood brother all in the name of feminism!

She wasn't starving him. He refused to cook.