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airsaylongcome:
And deploying ERPNEXT or OSPOS is a complex process? For an IT professional deploying these easy apps is a complex process? Software that have publicly documented install process? Compared to your custom built solution that hasn't been used anywhere else?

Okay it's complex. I agree. Go ahead and build one from scratch

Pinkyposh:
Lol. As per alpha male. He should continue what he started.
Marriage is not boyfriend and girlfriend

Pinkyposh:
I wonder what you people were discussing during courtship

NoToPile:
I read some posts and I am truly amazed, some men actually want to ensure the wife has no savings by making her pay for feeding so that she won't make mouth later on.

I don't blame traditional women and full housewives sometimes.

Try to extend the equity to caregiving to the children nau katakata will burst. The equity no dey reach that side lailai, only for money matters.

Magnoliaa:
Why do I feel like you're referring to something else entirely? 🤣

I don't know. Anyhow...well, let me go and breast-feed it. C U L8er. 🤭

Magnoliaa:
😅

Magnoliaa:
Do you want to be its godparent? 🙈

Magnoliaa:
I go for maternity leave. 😁


Thank you. 😊

limcar:
madam, what's your problem? Why do you always pick your feminine side before you talk? Must you be irrational all the time?

zed7:
What is the meaning of traditional? I hate in when boys who can't keep a 2 weeks relationship dabble into adult talk.

Magnoliaa:
👀👀

MartinsD12:
I think you definitely don't understand what marriage is or maybe you are a kid , keep quiet boy, I have seen couples that unite and contribute their earnings for the running of the family, they plan and execute everything together, such marriage tend to last it's more sweeter .

adaperry25:
This is my greatest fear in marriage..selfish women everywhere.
That's why men have many side chicks when they have money because no value is placed.

Discountsempai:
Good afternoon

A few months ago...nay, few weeks ago, you were here complaining that your wife does not give you enough seggs, now you are here complaining that she is not providing enough money for you.

Mr man, Nairaland is not the place to seek advice for your marital problems. Infact, speaking seriously, disregard every bit of advice here, and go and seek advice from the church, or from the elders in your family. Not from Nairaland that is made up of poor males who think women are evil , or females who think men are out to get them, or decieve them

Either that, or discuss with your wife. Talk about finances, and then talk about her needs and your needs. And remember, because it is you who came seeking advice, not your wife....that marriage is not all about you...it is about you being self sacrifical sometimes.

Your comment is too much full of i, i, i, i, i.

Anyway, like I said, go and focus on your marriage, and leave Nairaland alone...and stop thinking too much about yourself. Mind...I did not tell you to give your wife money, or let her walk all over you....I said, stop thinking too much about yourself.

And stop bringing your marital problems here. None of us, including me, is qualified to give you advice on married life.

NoToPile:
Hehehe this table you are shaking.

It's only to share bills equality is discussed on Nairaland.

MartinsD12:
That useless mindset that her money is hers and your money is for you and her is definitely the height of irresponsibility in marriage, marriage is between two people, you both share everything together in other to make it work , not when a woman is having a parasitic mindset, you earn more than your husband, he pays the bills you still want monthly salary, who are you keeping or making your money for if not for your own family, at times I wonder the kind of useless irresponsible mindset some women in marriage has.

Queendera:
some attitude is stinking.

No disrespect intended.

Please ask her what she's planning to use the money for if she's not spending it on her household.

What kind of mentality is this exactly?

You are earning money you don't spend on your own household? What do you want to do with the money then? Take it to your grave?

Some men need to be careful though. This is not partnership at all.

Femmyfamous4u:
Hello all, I need to know if I'm doing some things right or over reacting.

My wife and I just married some months ago and we just spend here and there on stuffs. I bought food stuffs in the house and told her I will place her on 40k monthly to cover for soups and all and I expect her to add to it if it's not enough.

I foot all bills- house rent, Power, and all . She earns a decent 6 figures salary also which is slightly higher than mine without the allowances I get.

She expects me to still give her another allowance apart from the 49k I give her for food.

Each time she buys stuff in the house she always want me to pay back in full; most times, I just pay a part of it which she always frowns and complains about.

It appears she has a notion that her money is her money and mine is ours.

My income is more than hers though.

Do you think I should still give her personal pocket money?

Farfalla:
BRATISLAVA, may I have your attention please?

gard9ner:
My brother!! I guess you’re an Umuahian or went to Ibuku high school. It’s been over 20yrs, let’s just keep mute and watch the show

Seun:
Happy April Fools Day!

I had to repeat my old stunt due to limited time.

franchasofficia:
Why is everybody talking about May this June that, what about Yul the father, or you guys think its easy to lose a son as a father, God forbid, tufiakwa!

Geovanni412:
I was reading a thread one guy posted about how he suffered because of polygamy.

Hmm, who knows what really happened to Yul's son?

mauchiz:
Second wife is not good.

Any woman that is a second wife is a witch,
They end up destroying people so they can take over with their children.

May Edochie,tie ur wrapper very well before they Kill another one.

Pete Edochie warned his son not to marry second wife,he refused,now is morning.

Yul Edochie,wash ur eyes very well,so u can see.
They will donate all ur kids to the coven very soon
Sit up, send that chic back to her fathers house.

iCauseTrouble:
Dem don begin dey do juju to themselves.
There is no polygamous home that is peaceful

uchwar1:
Married when and where?

Klass99:
It is a serious to do list. If only more people understood that marriage and children are life choices, not mandatory goals or achievements we all have to meet, in order to unlock happiness or the adult phase of our lives.

I will never forget a male user here who told me when I look at my children they will make me happy. I went from this ........ to this , in my offline reaction to his comment. It is unbelievable the things people think or assume about parenting and women in particular.

It will take more than that for a child to make me happy, but no, oga in his very logical mind and wisdom assumed all it takes for a woman/mother to be happy is to look at her child. The whole mantra about the joy of motherhood is completely lost on me, it doesn't resonate and I can't relate. I will take a bowl of ice cream, more money in my bank account, pleasant and memorable experiences, over this joy of motherhood, any time any day.

Dtruthspeaker:
Go check it. Forgiveness is based on the fact that it is an issue which is forgivable and overlookable. But when a person crosses that line, it is unforgivable.

And forgiveness comes from the Spirit, thus, we can not forgive unless The Spirit lets us, if not people would do that fake forgiveness where they say "I have forgiven her o but the issue is still paining me."

Klass99:
I suspect most parents regret having children but it is not something they will ever say out loud.....for fear of harsh criticisms and judgment.