₦airaland Forum

tbabs10166:
something will change if we all stand up and speak against it..afterall the so called one man show is not even owned by a Nigerian,

Don’t even go there, you country men will sell you at the slightest smell of money. If you doubt read the story of Ajaokuta steel company very well. There are old men/women of your fathers age who will steal documents, leak mails and do all manner of thing just for selfish interest, while the youth will celebrate such a person as been rich

NairalandFAYOSE:
pardon my blunders.
I was aware she has a baby before we met but still continued the relationship because the baby is with the father. she told me it was a mistake and the guy's family doesn't support their relationship. so they went their different ways while the guy kept the baby.

when we started, I found out she's humble, hardworking and she's everything I ever wanted in a woman. so we got married 4 years ago and have a 3 year old son and 2 beautiful twins (just 3 months old).

now the problem started when she went to church and her ex brought her 7 years old daughter unannounced. that he's married now and can't continue taking Care of the girl.
she called me from church and told me. immediately I told her not to bring a child thats not mine to me. she now took the baby to her mom and came home to meet me with my kids.
she has been begging me since to allow the baby in our home because the mother gave her 3 days to come and take her baby from her.

nairalanders pls I need your advice on this. those it make sense that I take the baby while the father is out there enjoying his life.

OP, I have read a lot of the comments on your issue and I would give you this candid advice. I know the energy it takes to bare this kind of issues. Right now in my parlour is my wife’s six year old nephew, a child from her youngest sister. He just came visiting for the long vacation. I don’t approve the boy fraternizing with my children because he is very stubborn and I can’t wait for the break to be over. However, your case is different, the girl is your wife’s child the most reasonable and humane thing to do is accept that child just because of your wife. Marriage is hard as it is already, you don’t want a sad wife as part of it. Refusing the child will bring complications into your marriage and turn your wife into something else. If you do this singular thing, you would have guaranteed your wife’s loyalty for life.
Finally, don’t doubt that you may not have the grace to handle this issue, you already possess it that is why you could marry her against all odds. God bless you.

God mark of holiness is so high, it only takes grace to achieve it. In my small Christian journey, direction and obedience is key/critical. God help us!!!

MhisTahrah:
Are you a hunter?

Which kind bad mouth be dis?

We can complain from now till eternity nothing will change, it’s a one man show, therefore anything goes!

akinszz:
sorry... I can see you are PDP member ... I am not interested in any party.. Infact I don't vote. Coward ? How do you mean? In what sense? Must he leave APC for him to be your hero

Bros, pls vote, it’s your right and your voice. You might say your vote doesn’t count but voting is the voice of your choice. Back to the Sani guy, he is a coward because he speaks from both sides of his mouth, also has all the things he accused the state and APC government of doing wrongly changed? Perhaps he also had appetite for the carrot. He mustn’t defect to be a hero but he ought to maintain his integrity by standing by his conviction. Objective criticism is what refines governance.

dodelight:
That doesn't change the fact that you're still a Coward!

Modify: For those quoting me and saying rubbish, and thinking I belong to the indomie generation.
Well, I was born into Buhari's first reign.
Being a coward has nothing to do with your past achievements or heroic feat.
Did you think Shehu Sani changed his mind about defection because he has Nigeria's interest at heart? Only a fool will believe that. The change of mind was forced on him by lack of support from his political base. So wise up. He is a coward!

I have lost all the respect I have for the dude, thought he was sensible! Look at how he is been treated even by the APC officials at the ward level. Obviously he is an empty barrel

After now they will say he is 21 years old or that he is Goliath?

Thought she should be having a girlfriend. Didn’t her father teach her otherwise.

Rooneyboy:
She also has a military background and has been in alot of wars.

Help me tell am befor him move from political section go dey cry for romance section

Which kind yeye handshake? Instead of you to vacate your sit for him, abi is he not doing a better job of protecting his fellow citizens than yourself?


Between, don’t go and pollute his mind abeg, cause we know your type!!! Nonsense handshake indeed!

fergie001:
Mtchew....na Croatia I wan go jhoo

Be properly guided pls, dat their president, abi na prime minister is not single Oo, upon ontop of that, she get plenty admirers

hisgrace090:
Many say Fulani, others says its political my question is WHO IS KILLING NIGERIANS?

It’s fulani politicians using Fulani jihadist to kill Nigerians.

Congratulations to the fine officer, avoid the midget and politicians. Let professionalism prevail!

Ortom need to look at the fate that be fell Fayose and act fast. The only positive thing he has done his assuming office is the anti grazing law. He has refused to pay workers salary and treated them like lepers. If he doesn’t pay attention to the welfare of the workers NOTHJNG will save him.

AnanseK:
you mean the “masses” on Nairaland? Or the selfish NASS members who see Buhari as an obstacle to their money sharing philosophy?

The sysmptions are clearer not need to waste further energy with you.

AnanseK:
Sorry Sir, but you are dishonest. Look at the list again. He has a point.

I assume that you are not in the insane category of course.

How dare you refer to me as being dishonest or insane. I’m I a politician, did I tell you I don’t pay my taxes or I’m about to have my assets ceased by AMCOM or did I beg you for free money? You should have yourself checked.
Asked yourself what suddenly happened to the popularity Buhari enjoyed prior to 2015 and why masses have turned against him

For @BashirAhmad small mind him don get work. He should go and ask Lai Mohammed on how easy this job is.
The people revolting again the president don’t belong to the list he just made, those crying out are the ordinary people that support and voted Buhari into office that he has failed

Ortom no get sense na, he stand to be the biggest beneficiary of the terror attack on Benue state by standing with the people, but he is foolishly playing politics and digging his own grave at the same time. If he thinks he counts at the National level, then he is duller than President Buhari!

What’s the difference between them and a Mafia group now?

You not the only one. He should be an errand boy not someone in the position of leadership. His a ticking bomb, an embarrassment waiting to happen. He will just shit with his mouth, and the stench will chase people away.

They will never hear

You’re forgiven, thanks to your sincerity.

I for one never support him... I had my doubts, he didn’t disappoint me. But I’m truly shocked at his woeful performance, I doubt we are even talking about the same person

seunmsg:
The police and DSS should have their reason i supposed. I and you don't have access to the security reports at their disposal. We should allow them to carry out their duties without politicizing it.

The police has already politicized everything Saraki is a public figure, his house and office are well known to the police. They have their motives, hence these actions. Moreover, I can’t remember reading that he is evading arrest or has the police issued a warrant of arrest on him?

We all know that these is a case of witch hunting your political enemies by the presidency. Shame on him, Mr integrity my foot. If he has put the same amount of energy into stopping the herdsmen mayhem or revamping the economy, he wouldn’t need to do all these to stay relevant ahead of 2019.

bjayx:
Dicks r cheaper than pussies I think

Not good dick. Some are selective and have good sense of reasoning, those are the good once!

Is this one news, mtcheew, “they” neither have party or God. Their belly is their god and their glory is I. Their shame.

Hmm, I hope El Rufai will not seek him out. They will say he has committed and haram

Why are we so senseless in this country, so they think burning down a constituency project will hurt Dino? Did he carry out the project with his personal money? And to think that a local government chairman will be part of those depriving his people of their right beats every sense of reasoning

Food don do, make critic come chop

Yes Oo, dey matter don reach this level since blackface no wan rest. Let the court settle all these once and for all

But Tuface you for still dey cool temper na

Does Kelechi live with Mikel Obi in the UK cause I have seen this same picture of the house and this same car parked in the front as Mikel Obi’s house.