Absolutely true. How can someone record such level of intimacy and you expect them to keep it to themselves, especially when the couples are not married. I can’t just imagine the level of perversion and how twisted some of this guys are.
Eyaaa. Good intentions are not always transparent even when communicated effectively.
Na N3m plus naim people hang on top like US plane so? If you had share it immediately, na you for the rest now. I am almost concluding that humans deserve no help. 1) Your dad’s younger brother had ulterior motives in requesting for all the money to “invest” for you guys. 2) His motives was expressed in requesting for money to meet a pressing need. 3) Your dad’s benefits isn’t meant for you alone, so bringing up the issues of an MSc into the equation pitched you against everyone.
My advice. Continue to chop the insult, e no dey remove hair from body and find every available means to take care of your younger ones. Leadership is responsibility, moreover na you hold “ALL” the family bar. If you like call a meeting with you siblings. Tell them how much you’ve spent so far on everything including yourself. The investments and others. Your MSc is now categorized as an investment Oo or loan, hence it must bear fruit.
This is one reason you hear people advising against polygamy
I don’t know it all but my suggestion is that you guys should just find away to know her exact whereabouts and how to constantly check up on her. She doesn’t want a relationship with her family for now, so you guys can’t force it. Just manage the situation still her “eye clear” For the rest of you stay closer and stronger for each other
Daniel61111: They also have the strongest currency...u can't compared ur naira to dia currency. They also have strong economy not like yours...we still borrow to pay salaries...its a shame
Well, I think the target specific borrowing geared towards infrastructure developing is a good one. If we can only focus on infrastructure development, it will a step in the right direction
AbujaCitiBlog: Shut up with your prostitute mindset! A virgin has already shown a rare strength of character. Do you think it is easy to win over your body for so long?
Some of you think from your anus! The fact the she could reject monetary offers and other advances from both men and women already says a lot about her character. It shows she has self control and patience, two ingredients for successful marriage!
You can go on promoting your prostitution as your own ingredient for successful marriage! Buffoon!
A virgin is a woman with chastity, patience, self control etc!
Hegoat, you can go and marry your borehole! Enjoy your borehole marriage! Otondo!
I’m not surprised that you would result to name calling just to prove a point, that in its self shows how intelligent you are. I wonder if you read what I wrote at all. I have not promoted promiscuity neither looked down on the virtues of virginity, yet you keep saying I have a “prostitute mindset”. You lack the capacity to engage in any meaning argument. And to think you own/write a blog. This offensive behavior towards people that disagree with you will surely shrink your audience. You’re not worthy of any meaningful discussion, I WON’T be responding to you after now. Go ahead gloating in your stupidity and ignorance my man.
AbujaCitiBlog: And sleeping around guarantees a good marriage abi?
Have you ever asked yourself why our forefather and foremother had very successful marriages?
Most of the women of those years knew only their husbands dick. Their only window to sex was through their husband. Even Almighty God whose standards support virginity is all knowing.
It is now you with your prostitute mindset that knows that being a virgin does not guarantees marriage! lol Shut up!id
You are a disgrace!
If you have any good sense of reasoning, you won’t make such outburst. How can a normal person imagine that virginity alone guarantees a good marriage. In all my writing I never encouraged promiscuity, neither did I trivialize the virtues of virginity. I will say it again and again that virginity alone does not guarantee a good marriage. Other things are necessary for that. Good character is paramount. Haba, what rubbish to suggest that just one ingredient in isolation fixes everything!
Snitch24: U for jst keep quiet This matter be like 7up The difference is clear
Dis one hard me to keep quiet. Fine guy/babe no fit do bad tin again because dem fine, abi because pesin dey talk with American accent mean say him sabi book? If you no talk, one guy go continue with this misconception.
Las las, I don talk finish, if dem wan continue make dem continue, dem don win the argument.
Drink with a cup that was picked from a septic tank.
What does borehole guarantees?
I find it unthinkable that someone would suggest that a single aspect of an item can make it perfect when other parts are not right. This is laughable! I bet you’re not married yet. Forget the context of this discussion, think about life in general. Perfection, peace excellence etc. are a sum total of different things.
I disagree with you absolutely! The virtue of being a virgin as lofty as it is alone, cannot guarantee a successful marriage.
Brand new tyres alone does not make an efficient vehicle. Clean cups doesn’t make great drinks. There are so many important tiny components that makes a good woman/wife.
mugnmuffin: Dear Nairalanders, I have an issue that has been on my mind for weeks now. My fiancé and I have been dating for over three years. I love him and he loves me too. We are physically attracted to each other. We’re both catholic but since I graduated, during my service year I gave my life to Christ, got saved and left the Catholic Church. So I’ve been a Pentecostal Christian since then. He on the other hand is still catholic. I subtly try to nudge him to consider getting saved, iacknowledging Christ as lord and savior and becoming born again but he is content with his laidback Christian life.
Earlier this year, he asked to meet my parents and I let him. My parents like him especially because my younger sis is married and they have been waiting for me too. They’re glad I’ve someone. However, after the introduction,I regret it. I’m now certain that he’s not the one. I think about my spiritual life and how lukewarm he is about the things of God, I think about kids and how we’ll raise the, with such differing views about God and I’m discouraged. I feel like I’m settling because he checks all the boxes on the checklist of physical attributes. Another mistake I made is, I didn’t pray about this decision and that worries me because anything that involves him,I just act with pausing to ask God, but I always ask God about other aspects of my life. So it’s like my associating with him is a minus for my spiritual life and that’s a huge cause for concern.
At this point, I want to tell my parents I am not convinced it’s him but I’m afraid of the disappointment this will cause. *sigh* I’ll appreciate your thoughts, comments, criticisms...
Don’t allow people confuse you. Your concerns are in order. He’s behavior towards God may improve or deteriorate with time, we don’t know. However, God is the one that changes men, he can transform the most rebellious person. Paul is any example. It’s not to late to go back to God in prayer. Remember the star guiding the wise men stayed in place waiting for them even when they strayed from it. Our God is a merciful Go!
My advice is, if he’s a honest man and has the fear of God even though he hasn’t given his life to Christ, then stick with him. He will change with time.
Igbudu1: not necessarily effizy ,but for resale value ..
moreso writing numbers on the vehicle would not prevent snatching ...
Which resale value? Is it not when you have a car that you will resale? Yes, it won’t stop car snatching but it will make recovering of the car a lot easier.
Wickedness of a man’s heart. You keep people stagnated just because you don’t want them ahead of you. Look at the stars up in the skies at nigh and learn. The shining of one star doesn’t prevent the shining of the other. And as my Mum will say, if you are the only rich man in a family or
Your life is worth more than 700k and the embarrassment that comes with a “damaging sms” If you kill yrself, they will still send the message to yr contact. Your memory will be a shameful one and the stigma on your family will almost be indelible. My advice Prepare and bear the shame and dig yourself out of the mess. We all have battles, this is yourself. SOLUTIONS TO OUR INDIVIDUAL PROBLEMS LIES WITHIN THE CYCLE OF PEOPLE HE/SHE KNOWS. Think very well. Pray, las las, you will be fine.
Kondomatic: I had a few opportunities when I was the co-admin of PH Sex Life but I turned them down.
I have not done it.
And I will never do it.
It was during my time there that I got to know how easily some married women sleep around, especially the ones their husbands are living in a different or abroad.
As appealing as it seems to me, I would never indulge in it. It’s a trap with way too many long term negative consequences. The devil will fight for your soul if you try to leave.
Hanibbal: Why are all these G.O grooming their children to be pastors so that they can take their place after they are gone? Christ ministry is now a monarchical and personal business run as corporation. This is what happens when you have made so much money with the name of christ and the thought of ceding the ministry/corporation to a person who has no link to the family scares our G.O like a nightmare.
A simple search about you succeed Bishop Oyedepo with answer your question. The information dates back almost 35 year. He recently reiterated same and was even posted on Nairaland.