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I no know where pesin go start to talk Niaja matter from. Everywhere you turn Na so so stench. Sometimes I wonder if we are human beings

Yes. I’ve got one I bought from from Dr. SIM that I want to sell

Our military officers getting killed from ambush sounds fishy to me though. Rest In Peace gallant soldier.

Maybe the heading of the post should have been “Obaseki to mock Ize-Iyamu at his church on Sunday”

Hahaha!!! Dis kind wife ehn? Make dey man continue to drink again

What are you expectations in return sir?

Go pay bride price she go pick your call.

Ooops, he just spilled the content of his mind.

Deborah98:
Tell your friend simple,did you say the wedding is two months away? Chai this is wickedness ooooh, what again is she looking for,why are women into this act of double dating,to me it doesn't make sense cos one day you will be caught in your own web, your friend don't deserve to be married to such a gal reason his belief and faith will be questioned when things take a rough ride. So you mean she dropped from the bus simply because she has another guy to smash,hmmmmmm things are happening..

Come and take, mmuah!!!

Hmmm,

Your parents know your steal from them and they are crying in their closet at how you have turned out. Too many people are disappointed and embarrassed at you.

Your rightfully pointed out that your life is in a mess, I know the mess is DEEP.

You can blame anybody for how you are turned out but las las bulk of the blame lies at your feet.

Bros, I BEG YOU, ADVICE YOURSELF!!!

Competitor God dey alivd

Before, should they have made you choir mistress for Secretly going to running commentary

Kpele Oo, illegitimate parents be that.

johnnychuks:
. I know that some guys will get it twisted in Nairaland that is a crime to discipline a child.

Read my post slowly. Why should a child been punished for doing something wrong suddenly become a celebrity and featuring in the Celebrity section?

Fajoe2020:
Is it a crime to discipline your child when he or she does wrong?. "Spare the child and spoil the rod"

That is your view which I equally share, However current event suggests otherwise to the extent that the boy has become a celebrity today.

MyGODdidit:
Crime to discipline her own child?

Nope! The boy did something wrong which he himself clearly acknowledged, but the situation has been twisted into making the boy a celebrity today. What example does this set for our kids?

Something wey suppose dey crime section don become celebrity news abi

Continue to boast, you fit light fire but you don’t know how it will burn and how far it will burn.

Every time I see a headline about Oshimen to Napoli, I just feel sad and think why the rush. If another top club is not coming for him, he should spend another year in Lille for God’s sake.

Must he leave now?

Super story. Do you know the amount of testing that goes on before nd IVF is done? SS slip up from a donor will not be allow at all.
Dey story nearly sweet sha

Let me sit and learn as well.

Bayelsa! If only people know the details of the kind of atrocities going on in that beautiful place.

Hmmm, I don tire for GTbank and their tiffing things. If I use my account dem na go use. So if money enter immediately, I go shift am straight.

Someone care about you. Not everyone has turned their backs on you. You will know several people, random strangers care about your in ways beyond your imagination. Just ask for help and don’t assume. You’re not entirely worthless the you are looking at yourself right now.

Ask for help, you will get the from the tons of advice, counsel, insults, insights that will be offered here.


Finally, God cares about you. Trust Him with everything. Don’t rely on you own understanding. It’s the devil that tells us we are worthless

Thomas Cook never die? What are the Cheques worth?

Oshiomole will see dis one as last fight the way we dey see am for film that.

Him no go gree lie lie

Perhaps the president has a liking for certain traits.

Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buys clothes, cooks, always wants me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than me.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment - 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing. All the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen.

Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen.

Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.

Most advice given here are treatment of symptoms. I will give you this honest advice as Someone that has been married for over 9 years and as a Christian, you need to sit her down and bare out you mind to her. It may result into a quarrel but then you would have made your point and you guys will eventually make up. If you don’t do this early enough, you will be judged to have condoned it, so why complain. My wife has mood swings and I know how annoying it can be.

Talk to her, let your frustration out in a controlled manner. If it gets out of hand, let her friend, sister or parent in on this dysfunctional behaviour.

It will get worse after you guys are married

Tedpgrass:
Besides the point,.....
they should have declined!!!

I tell you to put hand inside fire, you go fit
They better pay sharperly before the fine is raised or corrected at today's rate.

The money isn't my concern but justice must be seen to be done.


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Do you know what lies the Nigerians would have told the operators. They would have told them how powerful they are even with proves, not to talk of the thousands of pounds they will pay

Myself2:
Even at that, the operator should have declined because they are the ones to be held culpable for violating aviation laws/restrictions, never the passengers. In fact they are more culpable.
I actually feel N1 million naira is too paltry and a huge let off

Do you know what lies the Nigerians would have told the operators. They would have told them how powerful they are even with proves.

With little investigation, you will discover that it was Nigerians that asked to be either dropped off or picked up.

Las las, we don’t have any respect for our own laws.

Divine89:
Hello everybody. I am Nigerian based in France. My English it is not 100% perfect but I will try to make it possible for you to understand me with the help of google french to English translator and my story is also long sorry for that.

When I was 9 years old I joined my uncle, my mum's younger brother in France. He declared me as his daughter. During that time he only had one child, 2 years old. He and the wife were so loving to me. I never lacked anything in their house.

But when I turned 12, I went to secondary school. I met some bad friends there. This is where the problem started.I became a very difficult child. I will go to school come home late. My uncle will beat and beat me but I never listened. I smoked my first cigarette at 12 and had my first sex at 13 and I started running away from home to stay with boyfriends. Sometimes I can go for a week and when uncle reporta me missing, the police will be looking for me, then they will bring me back home.

Then at 14 I went to school and lied to my teacher that my uncle was abusing me. I told them he was beating me with belts, electric wire, they don’t give me foods and I really said a lot of bad things about them doing to me to make my teacher believe my story so they could take me away from them because I wanted freedom and my teacher believed me and reported to the police and child protection, they are people who take away abused children from their parents. They took custody of me and my uncle three children, the youngest was 6 months old to their care and they gave us to this white lady to care for us and my uncle and wife were arrested for child abuse and the police were doing some investigation.

After spending 1yr 9 months in care of the white lady I dropped out school. They found out that I was a difficult child that I lied to get freedom so they have decided to give my uncle his children back to him while I stayed in care of white people but my uncle had sworn because I made him lost his children for 1yr 9 months that I will never found happiness in my life and I will never enjoy the fruit of my labour which it is true as I am typing this.

I have given birth to 6 children by 6 men and none of the children is living with me. The first one was taken away from me at 2 months old because I beat her up and fractured her hands and I also tested positive for heroinn (drugs), so that did not stop me from giving birth second child was removed from my care 4 hours after birth she also tested positive for heroin the same way my other children were removed at birth too so I carry on with my lifestyles. I did not care about my children at that time all I care about was sex, alcohol and drugs this is what I wanted and I have been to prison several times for selling drugs and fraudsters. The longest I have spent in prison was 2 years then after i left prison, I met with this sister who introduced me to this church she attended so I went along with her, the pastor told me to confess my sin to him and promised it will be a secret between I, him and God which I did repented and accepted Jesus as my saviour. To be honest, my life did changed a lot, I fell the peace in my heart , enjoyed going to church every Sunday but this pastor went tell his wife my life story and the wife told everyone in church my life story and started using it against me so it made me so angry that I left the church in November 2017 without looking back. I have decided not to attend any church again. I have stopped alcohol, taking drugs and sleeping with men I no longer do it. I prayed at home, read my bible and behaving good and it's almost 2 years I havnt slept with a man and i went to look for my uncle asking him for forgiveness but he has refused and I send him many text messages begging him to forgive and I still no heard anything from him or the wife even their children I have tried to ask them forgiveness they have blocked me and they all want nothing to do with me even my own parents and siblings in Africa they have rejected me, none of them want to talk to me, my parents said i am dead to them, it is so painful I cry everyday in my prayers, as for my children 4 of them are adopted with new family. I can't see them again maybe until they are 18 years old If they want to know me if they don't want I will have no choice to accept it and my 2 youngest children i am only allowed to see them once a year in a children play centre with someone supervise because they don't let me to be alone with them and soon I will stop visiting them because they are planning to adopt them to a new family too that will mean I will have nobody on this earth.

I regret my mistake so bad I wish I could change it but it will no be impossible. I can't have more children because they will be removed from me like the others and I am only 31years old. I don't know if my repentance was genius because my family has refused to forgive me and my question goes like this if they never forgive me will I ever found happiness again or I will just have to accept it until I died?

Please, advise me in a Christian way maybe if there's more I can do and also prayed for me so my family will be able to forgive me and also pray for my two children that nobody will adopt them so I can get custody of them and i promised to be a good mother to them, please I am begging you in the name of God.

Wao, so deep. Straight from the heart.

My dear, you are not all alone, you are currently at the right place is life. Hold on a little, pray more for direction. Pray fervently to avoid making any wrong moves. The less mistakes you make the better you will become.
Very soon you will turn the curve and people will see the new you and come around. Your family might not become your friends but they will forgive you and respect you.

Pick up a skill, learn something, age is very much on your side.

You are not alone, you are on track, God for you cover and you’re headed right up