Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,153,554 members, 7,819,982 topics. Date: Tuesday, 07 May 2024 at 07:53 AM

Buchman1's Posts

Nairaland Forum / Buchman1's Profile / Buchman1's Posts

(1) (2) (3) (4) (of 4 pages)

Family / Re: My Wife Got A Job As A Paramedic In The Uk by Buchman1(m): 5:06pm On Oct 31, 2023
honour7:
Let her go with the baby and marry a new wife, there is an 85 percent chance you have lost her
Stop yapping BS. I coped with 3kids(girls) for nine months with my MIL's support.
Joining my wife next month.

Op brave up, get a nanny or your wife's relative to cater for your 5months old.
Keep on hustling still
Travel / Re: UK Skilled Worker Visa / Health And Care Worker Visa / Qualified Teacher Route by Buchman1(m): 9:25am On Oct 09, 2023
tintall:
Congratulations!
You didn’t submit your bank statement?

No,Sponsor covered maintenance for MA and dependants

Travel / Re: UK Skilled Worker Visa / Health And Care Worker Visa / Qualified Teacher Route by Buchman1(m): 1:20pm On Oct 08, 2023
Visa Alert!
Visa type: Dependant. (Joining my wife, picking up kids later)
Applied: 13th sept
Biometrics 18th sept
Pick up mail 5th 0ct
Decision/BRP 6th 0ct

Documents submitted
Church marriage cert April 2014
Local govt registry cert April 2022
PCC
T.B test result
Children's birth certificates
Tenancy agreement (dating from Feb 2016)
Couple of wedding/naming/child dedication pictures.
My wife's BRP, Passport page showing entry permit/ last 4months payslips.

It is noteworthy that the decision letter bore 20th sept which means that it was approved within 3days.

All glory be to God. For those still waiting, be optimistic and hope for the best

8 Likes

Travel / Re: UK Skilled Worker Visa / Health And Care Worker Visa / Qualified Teacher Route by Buchman1(m): 8:51pm On Oct 04, 2023
AdekunleFelix:
Skilled worker visa alert!!!
Dependant Visa
Biometrics: 22nd Sept
NSF: Non
BRP: 1st Oct
VAC notification: 2nd Oct
DHL mail: 3rd Oct
DHL Delivery: 4th Oct

Standard application
Glory to God!!!

Wow this is so fast. Congratulations. Biometrics on 18th sept myself,dependant though. Still waiting for the beep
Travel / Re: UK Skilled Worker Visa / Health And Care Worker Visa / Qualified Teacher Route by Buchman1(m): 5:13pm On Sep 16, 2023
amehrada:
Visa alert!!!

Type: Dependant Partner
Application date: 5th August
Biometric date: 15th August
TLS: Ikeja, Lagos - Standard
BRP mail: 3rd September (Decision made 30th August)
No NSF

Application still dey DMC sha when I track on TLS website.

Documents submitted
1. Marriage certificate (3 months old)
2. Photos; casual, intro, trad and registry.
3. Whatsapp call logs (7 months duration)
4. Whatsapp chat (1 year duration)
5. TB certificate
6. Police character certificate
7. Bio data of my passport
8. My wife’s bio data page
9. My wife’s BRP
10. My wife’s certificate of employment
11. My application form

In my wife’s CoS, maintenance was ticked and there was a sponsor’s note that said maintenance is only being certified for sponsored migrant which I thought meant I have to provide proof of funds during my own application. But I didn’t cause my wife told me that her older colleagues got the same CoS and that their partners applied without pof and they got their visas.

Hello. Please for the WhatsApp chat n call log, did it cover after or before your partner left?
Travel / Re: UK Skilled Worker Visa / Health And Care Worker Visa / Qualified Teacher Route by Buchman1(m): 2:56pm On Aug 25, 2023
Hello house,
Please I need enlightenment on this. My wife travelled to the UK earlier this year on a skilled work Visa, joining her soon by God's grace. My question is this; we got married in 2014 in church n just recently did a registry back up. We have kids aged 8, 6 and 2 whom we are hoping to bring when I'm settled in. Does the year reflecting on the registry certificate in any way impact on the visa grant for our kids?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by Buchman1(m): 2:40pm On Jul 13, 2023
angry
jide05:
A full boarding school located in the outskirts of Ikorodu is in need of teachers in:
1. PHE
2. Further mathematics
3. Food and Nutrition
4. Music
5. Mathematics
6. Basic Technology
7. Social Studies

All applicant's are expected to have a Bachelor's degree/HND.

Residents that live within Maya, Imota and Ikorodu axis would be preferable.

The PHE teacher is expected to have a degree in Physical and Health Education, Health Education or Human Kinetics.

Send your cv to: jidel5715@gmail.com

CV sent Sir

2 Likes

Romance / Re: This Is What All Men Want At The End by Buchman1(m): 8:44pm On Jul 10, 2023
DrAda:
Sad to think that you believe that being best friend with your spouse is enough to sustain a marriage

What else is required ma'am ?
Family / Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Buchman1(m): 9:32pm On May 24, 2023
eventainment:
How's the sex event been? Boring? Same styles? No pre-intimacy? Quick ejaculation? Is she happy in the marriage? Do you down-talk her withany opportunity given? Are you maltreating her? Is she over worked?

Confirmed Marriage Counsellor!
Family / Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Buchman1(m): 9:01pm On May 04, 2023
beekind:
I am a 38 year old Nigerian American citizen dating a 26 year old Nigeria girl.
I grew up in Nigeria but travelled out to the USA when I was 25 years old, I am a citizen now and doing really well for myself.
I met a beautiful and godly Nigerian girl on facebook and we have been dating for some months now we are now thinking of marriage, she is in Nigeria while I am in the USA.

Some weeks ago my dad asked me to do some tests and send to him, (He is a medical doctor), I did them, turns out to be fertility tests and all was perfect.
I just told him about my fiance and my plans to get married in some months time and he said she has to do fertility test before he can agree to the marriage.

This was very shocking for me as he insisted that it is his position, I haven't told my fiance cos I dont know how to and my fiance is scheduled to pay my parents a visit for the first time in Port Harcourt in 2 weeks time.
My fiance is from Delta but lives in Portharcout as my parents while we are from Port harcourt.

My dad has said if I cannot tell her that he will, what do you guys think ?

Honest advise please and admin kindly push to front page for wider advise.

Thanks.


It's not much of an issue. Use your discretion to talk to your woman and run the test.

I believe you trust your parents.
Travel / Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 5 by Buchman1(m): 6:58pm On Apr 20, 2023
leef2022:


No, it won't.

So I can apply for the visa with my current passport by August then subsequently apply for renewal later?
Travel / Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 5 by Buchman1(m): 12:06pm On Apr 20, 2023
Hello House. My wife recently travelled to the UK on a work Visa route. I hope to begin my application in August.

My intl passport expires May 2024. My question now is will this date in any way affect the outcome of my Visa?

Experienced hands should please attend to my quest please.

Thank you
Travel / Re: UK Skilled Worker Visa / Health And Care Worker Visa / Qualified Teacher Route by Buchman1(m): 10:49am On Jan 26, 2023
@Dampops, my wife picked up her Visa on 10th Jan and is booked to travel on 13th Feb. Her sponsor mailed her yesterday to inform her that if she does not arrive UK on or before 9th her Visa will be cancelled. Says start date on CoS is 15th Jan.
Issue is flight's been paid for and all.
Please I need closure on this
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How A Company In VI Treated Her New Chef Staff by Buchman1(m): 2:46pm On Jul 21, 2022
The warped sense of reasoning here is so appalling and heart wrenching.

That a lady who was expecting a decent accomodation as part of the contract of a job met with such a shitty apartment is disgraceful. If an employee can be treated this bad an entry level, then worse is more to come!
To y'all yapping about the girl not been humble, decency has eluded you.

3 Likes

Politics / Re: Northern Muslims Criticise Peter Obi Branded Praying Mats by Buchman1(m): 10:51am On Jun 30, 2022
omenka:
Toh!! Ipob cum Obi supporters, you see your lives? We warned you about your attitude, but you never listen. I suppose you think the North never remembers.

Oh well, news flash, they've got good memory.

You curse the region, curse thei religion, curse them down to their revered leaders, call them cows, tell them they're the only problem the country has, call them almajiris, born throway, etc. They're back to collect their pound of flesh through the ballot.

Learn to tone down your hatred dear Easterners. Everyone can't be wrong about your attitude towards them.

What an irony! Practice what you preach

1 Like

Politics / Re: Buhari Replaces Ex-Ministers, Sends Nominees List To Senate by Buchman1(m): 2:50pm On Jun 21, 2022
post=114011886:
Good development.

6 Southerners and one Northerner!

Now, we no go hear peeem from children of hate, frustrations and perdition.
The bitter and frustrated animals in our nation.

We guess they are all disappointed by now,
But we are damn sure, they will still have something negative to pour out from their ever bitter souls.

Awon werey 100%

I thought ministerial selection is based on per State.
Family / Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Buchman1(m): 12:38pm On Apr 01, 2022
Ma'am start kissing your husband so he'd stop cheating on you.

Oni reason�

1 Like

Politics / Re: Lagos Releases White Paper On EndSARS Panel Report, Dismisses Killing by Buchman1(m): 2:08pm On Dec 01, 2021
christistruth01:



He whom Jesus Christ has blessed no one can Curse

Jesus Christ multiplies all Curses into infinitely abundant and Wonderful everlasting glorious blessings

Why are you afraid?
Family / Re: What Could He Be Doing Spending 4hours And More In The Bathroom? by Buchman1(m): 8:51pm On Sep 02, 2021
poiZon:

Ur cousin brotheris ur cousin also..
Why waste space n time with the brother again.....
Op was just stating her cousin's gender
Politics / Re: Charles Awuzie: DCP Abba Kyari Is Innocent, Was Only Manipulated By Hushpuppi by Buchman1(m): 8:57pm On Jul 31, 2021
ebukajay184:
Charles Awuzie, a Nigerian Cyber Security expert based in South Africa believes that DCP Abba Kyari who has been indicted in Hushpuppi's fraud case is innocent but fell victim of Hushpuppi's manipulation, IgbereTV reports.

Charles wrote on his Facebook page;


https://www.facebook.com/100000090018585/posts/4615108428502112/?app=fbl

Total crap!
Politics / Re: Sanwo-Olu Presents 10 Cars To Outstanding Civil Servants In Lagos by Buchman1(m): 8:58am On Jul 07, 2021
Governance should not be selective but rather prioritized!
Igbogbo Bayeku Offin road is in ruins!

1 Like

Family / Re: I Transferred All My Salary To My Husband- Nigerian Lady by Buchman1(m): 11:34am On Apr 04, 2021
wwwihy:
#Copied


My salary came yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid. Oga thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was

Almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him. It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it. That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining.

He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much, he struggles to pay without asking me. He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions. I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility, he married an helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single. I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband. Omo, oga went to the market without even telling me, stocked up the home. Cooked and served me o, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about. I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not superman.

https://mobile.twitter.com/jagzangel/status/1377989341801250816


My wife does this every month, no biggie
Family / Re: Kaduna Pensioner Burns Down His House To Prevent Estranged Wife From Returning by Buchman1(m): 6:35pm On Feb 21, 2021
Righteousness2:
House Gone! Money Gone! Certificates and Documents gone! All because of a Terrible spirit of Destructive anger..
When the issues of Life overwhelm you, unburden it all at the Feet of JESUS.
Burdens are lifted at Calvary..
Are you married?
Politics / Re: SGF Mustapha: My Four Children Tested Positive For COVID-19 by Buchman1(m): 2:44pm On Dec 22, 2020
With all the shi ty precautions you have been spewing since March, your children still contacted COVID 19!!!
Politics / Re: Para-Military Service Chiefs Pay Courtesy Visit On Bola Tinubu (Photos) by Buchman1(m): 3:38pm On Nov 25, 2020
FuckOsuPigs:


You don't write good Eglish. Really, are you a graduate? I once read a comment where you referred to your NYSC days. Did you graduate? Read what you wrote and correct yourself bro.

I mean no harm please.

* English

1 Like

Health / Re: Three New Cases Of Coronavirus Confirmed In Nigeria, Totaling 25 Cases by Buchman1(m): 9:06am On Mar 22, 2020
kponkedenge:
Our government is very irresponsible. I kept shouting here for them to learn from what is going on in Europe, but they refused. See how the number keeps climbing daily.
The reason we have not yet started recording deaths from this thing is that our health care workers are not yet overwhelmed.
Is only a matter of time. And I hope this thing gets to those foolish leaders that refused to take drastic measures on time.
Stop hyping what is not!
Family / Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Buchman1(m): 8:39pm On Mar 13, 2020
Vyvyanvyvy:

Thanks for nice advice. You are right my son has become a thief due to the way my sister in law has being treating him , depriving him from food and many bad things the boy had no other choice than to steel. Since I’m alive I want him to be with me and I will take good care of him
How about giving your brother some sort of feeding allowance specifically for your son since the contention here is food?

1 Like

Crime / Re: Housewife Stabs Husband To Death In Ekiti by Buchman1(m): 2:47pm On Nov 22, 2019
Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

I just posted a thread on nairaland yesterday about the deep truth of marrying ladies or men in their 30's.

https://www.nairaland.com/5542927/dark-truth-couples-above-30s

I received backlashes which I expected because the truth is always bitter.

And although they have been married for years, it still prove my points. They claimed are case to be psychological. Hmm.
So all those honey phase years, she didn't have or exhibit such altitudes?

This case still makes my point valued. Most people above 30 both men and women are damaged, some how or the other.

That is why marriage is never an option. It is a pure scam. It always end up terrible over the years. Either physical, mental, emotional or financial damage always occur. Most married people dont talk about it. It is now a survival phase and codependance case. They believe they can sort it out or heal one another. Hmm greatest error. Staying in a messed up marriage with a psychological demented partner.

End result is the above case. Hmm

But if you feel you really want to marry. Marry between. 18-25 yrs. But at the end you might still end up experiencing some troubles.

Qoute me at your demise. Move to the next comment jeje

Stop writing Rubbish
Celebrities / Re: Ini Edo Blasts Omoni Oboli For Missing Uche Jombo's Movie Premiere by Buchman1(m): 7:44pm On Dec 02, 2018
Luciferdevil2:
"Rife" isn't the best word to use dear. It means abundance, plentiful and something big. You can use enemity, that's fine.
Could be a typo, guess she wanted to use 'rift'
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: A School Principal Needed Urgently by Buchman1(m): 7:33pm On Aug 16, 2017
I applied on someone's behalf. when should he expect an invite?

(1) (2) (3) (4) (of 4 pages)

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 51
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.