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Nnamdipapa:
When I go near the door, I always get the question, ' dad, where are you going?" I am being constantly monitored and surveiled.

Faposky95:
See the ish ?!
Still dating at that age .....
No settle down make Oga shout ya name make yu go pound yam for kitchen....
Another Funny black Naija lady AFNL

Nonexisting1:
It baffles me why someone that should be on a grandma level at this stage in her life should be talking about dating when she should be discussing highBP and diabetes management.

Skydivine:
Medical error particularly medication error is not an easy and pleasant thing to happen, both to the victim and the perpetrator.
However, the standard of care as enshrined in nursing curriculum has not changed despite the use of technology. The principal and the responsibility of the nurse for medication administration is what is known as the 5 rights;
Right patient
Right drug
Right dose
Right time
Right frequency
This is the standard of practice with or without technology. Every nurse learned this at school.

Now question now is, why did she not follow this basic rule? It is easy to get caught up in technology but when the chips are down and there is a case of gross negligence, everyone will revert to the basics .
Particularly for this case, the reoccurring question would be, what would another nurse with the same qualifications and experience do in a situation of such system glitch?
Obviously, the system glitch presented a situation for increased mindfulness, absolute concentration with zero distractions in proceeding with the medication administration.
If in doubt, seek help from your supervisor.

There is a guts instinct that comes with experience. If something does not feel right , most times, it is not right. Double check! Cross check! It takes only a few minutes to do so.

We know it is always a busy schedule and heavy work load, with lots of tasks demanding your attention at the same time, but remember, your life and the patient’s life is at stack.

NotOfThisWorld:
I am so glad she is not black. She should face the consequences of her actions. RIP to the patient.

Gerrard59:
So what's the mentality of women who can legitimately afford a place of their own? Where does a lady who graduated from Unijos but works in Lagos (where she knows no one) reside?

Teymanhenry:
I think people misunderstand what the post truly mean. Some women with lavish lifestyles might have questionable income sources. If the boyfriend visits her two-bedroom flat and notices expensive items, he might wonder how she affords them on her salary. Worst case is if she's not working, that could raise suspicions about her financial situation. We know most of our girls na. Nobody go tell us

penusturtle:
Which house rent is N300k?

Nazgul:
She specifically mentioned couch as the major barrier to getting married. As long as you don't have a couch yet, you're still marriageable. But if you buy it, no more husband.

pocohantas:
My friend rented a mini-flat and all she put was mattress on the floor. She had those small clothe wardrobe we used in secondary school and plastic baskets for her clothes. Then a tiny ceiling fan. It was my first time seeing a ceiling fan that tiny. Her sitting room was empty and filled with nonsense load. I entered her flat and I was disappointed. I asked why she is living like this and she said "Here na camp. When I marry I go enjoy".

How do you convince a man you are good for enjoyment when you have suffered all your life? Love yourself and let the man know how you love to be loved. Funny she was always giving her fake suitors gift and money, but found it hard to spend on herself.

Na me carry her to Thermocool office at Dopemu to buy fridge and AC. Introduced her to my furniture maker. Paid for her driving school. Taught her parallel parking. Introduced her to the late Gazz to overhaul her car. We even bought a big gen from him and she uses it till date. I told her "eat your money. Put on AC make e dey cool your head, see as your house hottttt. When husband come, una go discuss the way forward". Everything isn't about man and what they care about. You are not on earth for that.

emmaodet:
Oga abeg leave that.
No ancestor is channeling the family blessing through me.
That is gaslighting.
The family get plenty ancestors to channel enough blessings through the few currently alive.. not only me.

mytime24:
No more paying of house rent

Zooposki:
Religion is even more of a scam.

GloriousGbola:
this is the actual meaning of Nepo baby

and it has nothing to do with wealth

as an example my parents are retired surgeon and nurse. my sis read medicine. studying medicine as the child of successful practitioners gives you an edge. your parents can guide and advice you through your career from med student to house officer to consultant. you have access to their networks.

if you choose to follow in your parents career or something adjacent to it - you immediately have access to a plethora of resources , experience, methodologies, etc.

gweneth paltrow, jayden smith, keifer sutherland, scott eastwood, those are nepo babies.

neither davido nor cuppy is a nepo baby, since their parents are not entertainers

nigerians just latched onto a term they do not understand and ran with it.

rant over

FreeIgboho:
Wrong! Marriage is DEFINITELY designed for women BUT they also bring more to the table (as it ought be because marriage is for them!)

theredaddy:
If Marriage was designed to benefit Men ... why are the wives mostly next of kin

if Marriage was designed to benefit Men .... why is the wedding day regarded as the Bride joyful day

If Marriage was design to benefit Men... why does it impede polygamy

if Marriage was design to Benefit Men ... why are mothers the main recipient of children benefits at old age

if Marriage was design to benefit Men ... why are the Men expected to sacrifice the most nd die for the family

Rubyjade:
That's a bold claim — that marriage was designed primarily for the benefit of men, and therefore women bring more to the table — but it doesn’t hold up fully under historical, biological, and social scrutiny. Biblical Interpretation Is Often Misused

Yes, Genesis 2:18 says “It is not good for man to be alone; I will make a helper suitable for him.”
But that "helper" (Hebrew: ezer kenegdo) is not a sidekick — it’s a powerful term used to describe God Himself in other scriptures (e.g., Psalm 33:20).

So the woman was not created as less than, but as a complementary equal — not proof that she brings "more" or that marriage is for men’s exclusive benefit. The Bible doesn't suggest women are superior in value — but equal partners.

Historically, marriage benefited both genders, often protecting women.

Modern data shows men may gain more in health and stability, while women often carry more emotional and mental load — which is why they leave more often.

Marriage is not about who brings more, but how both partners contribute fully and fairly.

Nonexisting1:
Did you read what you typed or you just love to type? Many men don't even know they have children somewhere. The women know who their children fathers are but instead of taking the children to them, they will hang the pregnancies on their unsuspecting husbands. One woman in my estate has been avoiding going to the USA with her husband saying she is scared of flying. Recently, the son came back and took her to Lagos for holiday and she entered plane. Now she has changed to she can not stay inside plane for long but we real Gs know why she dey avoid traveling to America. American embassy sabi expose people with that their DNA test. Samantha, advice your sisters here in Nigeria to stop the paternity scam.

esnbrutality:
Try and be intelligent. Everybody shouldn't be slow in life.

Truly...the wife of macron is a MAN and even in France a french court just struck out a civil suit instituted against 2 bloggers that also exposed him as a man.

Remove your eyes from APC propaganda and see the world from a better prism.

gunners160:
What if there is more to this story? Just asking. Truth is everybody would always want to paint the other persion black. What if the man is fustrated with the mothers constant abuse? We have not heard his own part of the story

safarifarms:
Ok. Not LAPO and definitely not NEPO. Neither here nor here.

Kaido:
I don't support physical or verbal domestic violence. And I won't tolerate another man humiliate and intimidate me in my own house. It is either I retaliate on the whole family or divorce their b****y daughter, to have my peace of mind.

TheStranger:
Don't miss your wife while you are with your girlfriend

Originalsly:
What will happen if another man spray her with more money? ... or gift her a better car? The husband should know what goes around comes around .... that she can be bought by another man .... his friends wives and her friends will know ... she has no problem snatching men from their women. Hope we can get an update on the wedding in six months.

werisetogether:
Exactly

Adesina is a skilled writer, so I wonder how he missed the irony in his words

That one dey.

How about Gen Abdusalami Abubakar?

Watched on Channels TV as Gen Abdusalami calmly mentioned how he was in the same hospital in London with the late Buhari

Let's not even talk of the "pilgrimmage" of Nigerian politicians who trooped to London to express their condolences.

Is it any wonder why politics in Nigeria is a do-or-die affair?

Because more people would want to live this sort of charmed life above the hopeless masses grappling with harsh reality day by day...