Career › Re: Akwa Ibom Asks Health Workers To Take Oath To Prevent Japa by bukatyne(f): 10:56pm On Apr 28, 2025 |
Angelfrost: Pure Wizardry ma...!
These people know what developing nations are doing to better their countries... It isn't Rocket science.
But, corruption and greed won't allow them replicate these here.
It's difficult to see a brighter future for this nation. It is well  |
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Career › Re: Akwa Ibom Asks Health Workers To Take Oath To Prevent Japa by bukatyne(f): 4:01pm On Apr 28, 2025 |
Angelfrost: That won't prevent them from relocating...!
Any young Doctor with the means can relocate, study medicine again, and start practicing.
You guys still don't get it...!
Forcing them to stay and suffer in the deplorable conditions is not the solution.
These same people forcing these Doctors to stay back will never allow them treat them and their families.
Even the Minister of Health and most Health commissioners don't use Nigerian Health care facilities.
No matter how you design the laws to force brains from leaving, nations that value and need them will fashion ways to make it easier for them to come in.
If, for instance, Australia needs 1000 Doctors urgently from the developing nations, they know precisely what to do to bring them in from their nations...! Our rulers are too exposed to claim they are ignorant. This is just wizardry in daylight. |
TV/Movies › Re: Korean Movies Chatroom by bukatyne(f): 7:38pm On Apr 27, 2025 |
Kaczynski: most instresting movies are not on Netflix
watch im a cyborg and that's okay
our boy, rain is innit  Thanks. So what platform do you watch? Is there a subscription fee, a mobile app and how much is it? |
TV/Movies › Re: Korean Movies Chatroom by bukatyne(f): 7:27pm On Apr 27, 2025 |
I was watching First Frost but I have gotten tired of it.
I think I need short movies right now.
Please the house should recommend good Asian movies available on Netflix.
Daalu. |
TV/Movies › Re: Korean Movies Chatroom by bukatyne(f): 7:25pm On Apr 27, 2025 |
Kaczynski: since there's no interesting kdrama that's out
time to move over to cdrama  What drama is this please? |
TV/Movies › Re: Korean Movies Chatroom by bukatyne(f): 7:24pm On Apr 27, 2025 |
Kaczynski: our girl is entering Hollywood  There's something off about the picture. Asians look fresh and easy on the eyes in their space (makeup, clothes, picture angles etc.) She looks washed out & tired in this poster. Her attire also doesn't flatter her body shape. |
Family › Re: The Provider by bukatyne(f): 5:17pm On Apr 27, 2025 |
Maeve7: If a man can’t provide or provides only very little (for reasons he can’t control) and his wife does because she makes much more, what is the husband’s role? To be honest, a husband's role is much more than providing financially. He is provide emotional stability, jointly train the kids, love his wife actively, create a safe space for his family, nurture their dreams, participate in chores etc., such that if he falls on hard times financially, the only challenge will be readjusting the house expenses until he picks up. However, the average man can only offer financial provision so need to be held to it. Else, what exactly is his use since he has decided not to step up in other areas? That's why the saying 'when a woman makes money, she no longer needs a man' may ring true. What value do you want to add to her life commensurate to her investment in yours? |
Family › Re: The Provider by bukatyne(f): 5:11pm On Apr 27, 2025 |
Maeve7: This comment of yours from another thread is a better answer.
@Kobojunkie
Welcome to 2025   |
Family › Re: The Provider by bukatyne(f): 3:36pm On Apr 27, 2025 |
Kobojunkie: There are those still alive who have yet to arrive?  I had to look at when the topic was created again  Your banter with Maeve is funny 😁 |
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Celebrities › Re: Why I Rejected A 40-year-old Man’s Proposal” – Iheme Nancy by bukatyne(f): 2:27pm On Apr 27, 2025 |
pocohantas: I don't know why they keep crying like bushbabies. As if they marry down out of kindness. They marry down for control and the set of women that appeals to them are mostly young starters who most times do not match them financially.
Nobody is stopping Nigerian men from marrying rich women. They don't want these women. They say they are not submissive. They are evening newspapers. They cannot born pikin.
So marry your young broke girl in peace. But to think you can be 40 and broke, then have your pick is simply delusion. Male or female, it wouldn't work! If Naija women no gree, he should try foreign women. Those ones marry for love.
Shebi they said men can marry at 95 to a sweet16? Now is the time for this one to prove it. Men age like wine. Ngwanu.  I cracked up when they say 'men can marry a poor woman and brush her up' but women can't. If they engage the logic they claim to have, they will understand why. |
Celebrities › Re: Why I Rejected A 40-year-old Man’s Proposal” – Iheme Nancy by bukatyne(f): 2:09pm On Apr 27, 2025 |
Acidosis: They were ruthless at some point. Many just got f00led or lured, my sister. The ruthless ones are minute out of the pool. |
Celebrities › Re: Why I Rejected A 40-year-old Man’s Proposal” – Iheme Nancy by bukatyne(f): 2:08pm On Apr 27, 2025 |
Acidosis: Marrying down may earn you the above, but it has created significant societal problems over time. Every woman, whether rich, hardworking, lazy, or poor now believes she deserves the same kind of man (odogwu para-nonsense). Obviously, most will not get this man in a poor society like Nigeria, so they settle for (and, in some cases, resent) the available man.
We are gradually destroying the era of building together, from nothing to something. When was the last time you read about couples who started their relationship on campus?
If we are not telling the abroad guy to come back to the village to pick a wife, we are advising a girl without a job in Sango to go to Lagos Island clubs and position herself for her dream man. We are not helping the younger ones at all. Many of them will never experience real love. Acid, the true reason women today are wary of 'building' with a man is because they have seen their mothers and grandmothers building with nothing to.show for it. Most of the older rich men sleeping with young girls, or marrying young blood were men whom their wives built with. A man marries the woman he needs when he is young and then gravitates to the woman he wants when he has made money (if he doesn't have the fear of God). Muslims have made it official: marry a 'let's build together' when he is young and struggling then starts picking hot and sexy younger hajias to warm his blood. At least if the man is rich and he betrays you in future, it wouldn't pain you so much. |
Celebrities › Re: Why I Rejected A 40-year-old Man’s Proposal” – Iheme Nancy by bukatyne(f): 1:51pm On Apr 27, 2025 |
GloriousGbola: You are not emotionally intelligent, you will not actively support her dreams, you will.not be faithful, you will not respect her, you will not sexually satisfy her, you will not pick domestically around the house, you will not jointly care for the kids and yet, you don't have money?
this madam, haba! takj eit easy now! you wan kill pesin? all this ?
oya take 4/8  Mbanu, 5.5/8 with the potential to reach an 8 and we have a deal  |
Romance › Re: To Find Love As A Fine Boy Hard by bukatyne(f): 1:50pm On Apr 27, 2025 |
AllBlack: It is sarcasm to you because you are not a man. Just the way it sounds like sarcasm when a man cries of rape. many of the things men go through has been intentionally left unsaid or subtly smothered by society but the issues still repeat themselves. It sounds like sarcasm because it sounds like a girl's post turned the other way. If the OP is however serious, I wish him the love her deserves |
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Crime › Re: Access Bank Staff Secretly Filmed 400 Videos Of Naked Colleagues In Office Restr by bukatyne(f): 5:03pm On Apr 26, 2025 |
I hope the girls get justice.
Jungle or Jurdisial. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pope Francis Broke Some Rules When He Was Elected The Pope On 13th March, 2013 by bukatyne(f): 3:44pm On Apr 26, 2025 |
Pythagoras001: Matthew 19:21-29 New King James Version (NKJV) Jesus said to him, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me.” But when the young man heard that saying, he went away sorrowful, for he had great possessions This was a message to a SPECIFIC person. |
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Politics › Re: Pope Francis: Akpabio delivers Nigeria's Letter Of Condolence (Photo) by bukatyne(f): 3:33pm On Apr 26, 2025 |
Why not the Head of CAN or the most senior Catholic official in Nigeria?  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pope Francis Broke Some Rules When He Was Elected The Pope On 13th March, 2013 by bukatyne(f): 3:31pm On Apr 26, 2025 |
Pythagoras001: This is BS conspiracy theory. have you read any of his encyclicals? what do you mean by introducing lgbtq
there are catholics who want to follow the life of jesus more closely so they take the vows of poverty (would not personally own material wealth but use things in common with other's) , chastity (abstain from sex and sexual relationships) , obedience @bold: But these are not the life of Jesus  More like a version of the Pharisees. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pope Francis Broke Some Rules When He Was Elected The Pope On 13th March, 2013 by bukatyne(f): 3:27pm On Apr 26, 2025 |
descarado: He was the first jesuit priest in the history of the church. That's why he can't wear red shoes.
Jesuit priests according to hierarchy are the real pope behind the doors. They are called black pope. Pope Frances broke the record. They are the real owners of Catholic church and only them can affect change. The reason he introduced lgbt and no Bishop said pim.
Forget their common look, they are very dangerous. Reminds of Dan Brown's 'The Davinci Code'. |
Celebrities › Re: Chizzy Alichi Welcomes First Child (photos) by bukatyne(f): 3:18pm On Apr 26, 2025 |
Congratulations Chizzy and hubby 🎊 |
Celebrities › Re: Annie Macaulay Shines After 2baba’s Surprise Traditional Wedding To Natasha by bukatyne(f): 3:15pm On Apr 26, 2025 |
Anne should stop trying to 'prove' that she is fine and live her life while acknowledging the pain she is feeling.
Everyone knows that she is not bouncing back from her obsession so soon; she was too deep for too long.
Now is the time to breathe, surround herself with true friends and try to rebuild her life outside Tu-Face.
That way, she truly heals faster and better.
It is well. |
Family › Re: .... by bukatyne(f): 3:11pm On Apr 26, 2025 |
Herbalworld: Please read and share in all forums / blogs
Living in this part of ikorodu is the worse decision I made in my life. How can someone have light for few hours within 3 days and then the light will spoil for one week? No light to pump water, cook, bath, nothing nothing.This has been my experience since I moved to Iogun logun in Igbo olomu, agric, ikorodu.
Why do some areas enjoy light in ikorodu and others suffer for light? My friends that live in Oko Obi, elepete, also said that they have not have light for 5 days now. Imagine that.
This morning, I feel like crying in bed. imagine yesterday I have to do short put because there was no water to use in my toilet. Have been using pure water to bath for days now.
My question to Ikeja Electric Plc is do people living in logun logun, Oko Obi, solar, psychiatric, elepete at Igbo olomu agric Ikorodu offend them? Or they just choose to be wicked to us.
There is no month here that light won't spoil for days. I don't owe electricity bill yet you people won't bring light for us to at least make us feel like a human being for once. From my window I can see light in agbede and other places around us but here in my area it's a no no.
I pray Lagos state government sees this because I don't know how long I will do this short put and litter the bush with my poo when I am living in a flat that have all the amenities I needed.
Please share so @Ikeja electric and Babajide Sanwo-Olu can see this. I'm literally living in 1906 in 2025 honestly and I'm tired. They should fix our light please. I'm mentally drained.
We just got out from not having light since November last year till February this year 2025 ( We were completely out of light for good 3 months) I suffered during this period and now they have continue to put us in darkness again.
Please we need help...
Seun and other moderators please me move to front page. If it is not your house, relocate to the areas with light. If it is yours, save up for solar or get a loan from the bank (if you have a salary account), get it done and repay. In the interim, you can also get water tanks or storage to buy water from water tankers so you are not stranded with regards to water. Sorry, it is well. |
Celebrities › Re: Why I Rejected A 40-year-old Man’s Proposal” – Iheme Nancy by bukatyne(f): 3:03pm On Apr 26, 2025 |
Finally, women are getting wiser.
What does a broke 40 year old Nigerian mam have to offer in marriage?
It's not like a 'typical Nigerian' man will provide any other type of support apart from financial.
You are not emotionally intelligent, you will not actively support her dreams, you will.not be faithful, you will not respect her, you will not sexually satisfy her, you will not pick domestically around the house, you will not jointly care for the kids and yet, you don't have money?
Then what exactly is your value?
Your last name?
Perhaps if you develop yourselves to offer more than money, women will begin to see more value in you outside money.
A poster above said a rich man is not always available and abusive; well Ibadan and Igbosere courts are filled with cases of Baba Segun and Mazo Okoro battering their wives. |
Celebrities › Re: Why I Rejected A 40-year-old Man’s Proposal” – Iheme Nancy by bukatyne(f): 2:57pm On Apr 26, 2025 |
Acidosis: Majority of women are very ruthless when deciding on who to marry. They don't care about your feelings. They won't marry you out of pity. If women were really ruthless, 60% of Nigerian men will not be married. |
Romance › Re: To Find Love As A Fine Boy Hard by bukatyne(f): 12:51pm On Apr 26, 2025 |
Why does this thread sound like sarcasm? |
Family › Re: Mother Inlaw Selling OGOGORO (dry Gin) by bukatyne(f): 1:28pm On Apr 25, 2025 |
CivilEngineer90: Have we noticed how the police do everything but solve any issues these days? When last has anyone taken a case to the police and actually got a solution. Even my sister that is one whatever issue i tell her she be giving civilian advice. Smh  |
Food › Re: Your Personal Preference For Some Nigerian Delicacies by bukatyne(f): 1:20pm On Apr 25, 2025 |
placeofallure: My own is, I like beans. I can't resist anything made from beans. That's why I wonder why I don't like gbegiri soup.
From the list below, I choose Akara first, then Moimoi. I am not a foodie. I don't like to dip my feet in untested waters, so I don't know how okpa tastes. I don't think I'll ever try to know in case it spoils my taste buds. @ bold: Same here. I eat beans alone, however garnished with loads of crayfish, dry fish, suya spice, cameroon pepper & Efirin (scent leaf). It's akara I don't fancy as much. |