₦airaland Forum

Aldebaran:


Even “Make America Great Again“ cap is made in CHINA

It's like Trump was sent to torment the Americans.

As always, posts like trigger discussions on both sides.

If you want to japa, know what you want to achieve and stick to it. Some are able to survive, some cannot.

It is well with the no japa crew, the japa crew and the japada crew.

jowhyte:
After 25 years of earning hard $$$ currency a medical doctor probably a consultant returned home. Interesting

At that age, especially when money is not a problem, people start thinking of impacting lives, making names for themselves and having a fulfilling life.

Mmaita:
Tomorrow now, if the man dies, his people will want to come and claim the property saying it belonged to their son of brother.

That one sef dey

Mitsurugi:
I don't blame the guy. She'll use the ownership as a weapon in every fight and worse, tomorrow she fit vex tell the guy to move out.

Are you afraid she will do what men do also?

Abi where did you get this experience from?

Mcslize:
Mo na repent o. The wrath of God is coming against all you women wey dey maltreat children wey no be una own.

If you're are good woman, your husband will tell you everything. But majority of you have very black hearts.

We men celebrate good women. Women that are good. We only regard good behaviours not women with evil minds.

There is no place for evil women in the kingdom of God. Know this and know peace.

All this turningoniown to avoid accountability?

I asked a yes or no question:

I guess if a woman doesn't tell the husband she had a child prior to the marriage, it is because the husband is a bad man?

Na simple yes or no answer.

Don't worry about my black heart, just answer the question

Team If the man was rich, she wouldn't try this nonsense, we see you... If women are advised to marry only rich men because a man must bring nonsense to the table, you will be vibrating like a naked person in harmattan.

Team the man knows the woman is ill behaved that's why he hid it, we also see you... I hope you maintain same energy when a wife calls her son her nephew.

While the woman is free to react as she deems fit, sense should have told her to keep off SM so that everything is contained in her house and finding a solution is easy.

Those who claim that she should faced the man alone is definitely delulu.

1Sharon:
Then why is he with her? Why didn't he date a good woman?

That's what his sexually currency could buy

Awon oniyeye

Bringbackmandat:
Problem of women is that they cannot control their emotions. That woman over reacted.

You mean you will calmly accept the situation if happened to you?

Your wife brought in a boy as her nephew and you found out that it is her son?

You need to hold a masterclass sir!

Don't let this ability go to waste.

Mcslize:
Such a shameless woman. If I say some women don't have shame, they will say I don't know what I am saying.

The earlier you understand that women view marriage as a contract, the better for you as a man.

If you were a good woman from the onset, he would have told you. But because he knew you are a bad woman, he couldn't come clean with you because he knew you won't accept the girl if he told you she was his daughter.

There is no way a man won't open up to his own wife about certain things if the woman is a good woman.

Now that you have put the video of your family online, who is now embarrassed? You the fóolish woman or the innocent man that was trying to protect his daughter?

What do you gain, if you drive the innocent girl out of the house?

Heartless, shameless woman. Oleburuku.

Even Doggedfighter won't do this type of thing as a young woman that is still growing up.

I guess if a woman doesn't tell the husband she had a child prior to the marriage, it is because the husband is a bad man?

Sense is very very far from some of you.

Farrason:
Oga.... English doesn't solve everything. Sometimes act much and talk lesser or not at all. This is a wife and not girl friend. His best speeches worn her heart already to be his wife. His action now is to confirm her decision that it was not a mistake or out of confusion.

And you think the husband should not put effort into maintaining the relationship with his wife?

Congratulations Arsenal 🎊 👏 💐 🥳 🎊 👏

ask4bk:
Spaghetti.

Hate that stuff.
Cancelled it in my house.

Why would you cancel something because you don't like it.

Are you the default cook or allergic to it?

Dhoneymix:
She called it off because the groom's mother was a major part of the decision making. The decision of the church to attend is just one of the various interventions from the mother.

She's right to have walked away.

She is a wise woman.

Loving your neighbour has yourself is having consideration for others in addition to other things.

Don't litter, dispose dirt with dignity, treat your domestic / corporate staff as you would like to be treated, treat your landlord's house with regards, treat your tenants with dignity by building respectable houses, don't kill the breadwinners in your family with black tax, treat your employer as you will treat your business, treat your spouse/friend/lover/neighbours as you will like to be treated, if you are an artisian, deliver quality, don't underprice artisians etc.

You get the idea.

Some nations have the curse of natural disasters, Nigeria has the curse of inept leaders, aka manmade disasters.

Jonathan:
No!

1, BUT IT'S BIBLICAL FOR WOMEN TO COVER THEIR HAIR ESPECIALLY IN CHURCH AND WHY PRAYING... na why God no dey answer una prayers...

2, IT IS BIBLICAL FOR WOMEN NOT TO STAND ON THE PULPIT TO PREACH IN CHURCH. THEY ARE EXPECTED TO KEEP QUIET AND IF THEY HAVE ANY QUESTIONS, THEY SHOULD ASK THEIR HUSBAND WHEN THEY GET HOME...

Unfortunately, this is a generation of HYPOCRITES AND SHAMELESS WHORÈS...

You see them today not obeying BIBLE clear laws and doing what pleases them.


According to 1st Corinthians...

If you put in a little more effort, you would realize that the opposite side of the coin is men not covering their hair in church.

How was a man unable to raise N500k for his wife's emergency capable of raising N500k for burial?

I totally align with Kobojunkie's thoughts on this.

Women SHOULD
1. birth the number of kids they can care for.
2. Prepare for emergencies
3. Walk into a government facility and get birth control.

Biko engage the brains you have and stop this senseless death/loss.

The said man will wipe his tears (if any), marry after six months and expose the other kids to danger.

Funky123:
Update is that she got married to a fellow nairalander at 24
5 years of marriage now , has a child and living, loving, working, blooming and living each day as it cones

Congratulations 🎊 👏 💐 🥳

dealslip:
I am not sorry to say this but many men especially African men are emotionally lazy and emotionally unintelligent. They are too focused on appearing Macho than connecting emotionally or be vulnerable with their children. Every human naturally connects to the person that expresses emotions towards them. Children don't understand the concept of money or school fee. So claiming the Father is hustling is a sorry excuse. Many women also hustle, those women who sell stuffs to us in the market are equally at work and they take time to emotionally connect with the children. Those female bankers, lawyers, engineer are working in the same environment with men. They resume and close together and everyone goes to their family but the mother will still sacrifice to connect to the children. The man will sit down after work and be expecting that same woman who went to work just like him to serve him and everyone should treat him like a King while all he just holds on to is that, I am providing. No one connects with such people. My husband so plays with our children, that for sometime my sons can only be carried by their Father even me has to beg them. My Father is like that too I love him more than my Mum because he is very approachable and understanding. If he is sick, I start panicking and crying. He will be hiding sickness from me.

Extra virgin olive oil dey your head.

Let them keep yapping.

They want to continuously have their cake after eating it.

Women don't work, we cross our legs watching telemundo all day.

Numerouno94:
Exactly. A little on ur children won't kill ur financial plans.

But I tink the Genz fathers are changing the narrative. They grew up like us, and knw wat it feels to be detached emotionally from the father. So they are trying fill the void; spend on their kids financially and emotionally. Funny, some Genz will tell u they prefer their Dad to Mom. Men are stepping up from that old fashion behaviour exhibited by our fathers back then.

True.

Fathers are getting more involved now.

id4sho:
You think finding money is easy? Having a husband na protection for women

Protection against what?

gigabyte13:
Person wey give you breast suck for two years
You think say breast easy to come by.....
That one na one

Two
Men think say, na only to provide be them work
Mtchewwwwwwwwww
They are not emotionally attached to this children.
Any small thing
Go and meet your Mummy.
Na that go and meet your Mummy gan gan the matter take bend .

@bold;

Apt!

It is nice to see that guys are the ones pointing out the issues.

It shows willingness to improve and do better.

Goodluck!

nairalanda1:
Because father's don't spend time with their children.

Most father's just come home sit down and demand food. And watch tv , and shout at the children oftentimes.

Most mothers even the working ones make time for their children.

@bold:

You DESERVE a trailer of your favourite nonalcoholic drink.

ddippset:
Note that one this subject of sexual harassment she could lie to the entire world but not her husband..

So you want her husband to call a meeting with Akpabio to Adriana issues of him sexually harassing his wife?

So if you have a wife and your friend harasses her sexually, you will call a meeting with him to "resolve" it?


Weldone.

What wouldn't someone read here?

RZArecta:
They're doing everything but give this woman a fair hearing so who be mumu ? This whole shenanigans is proving her case of witch-hunt right every damn time even though there's a possibility that she's lying and that's why there's always a process to these things so why don't they want to follow that process of fair hearing ?

These are the issues.

You have the energy to probe her attendance at IPU however, cannot be so swift to probe her allegations even if it is to clear the SP's name.

MonkeyMods:
No VVF center in Anambra, Imo etc only one in SE?

Hmmmm

How many women have VVF in SE compared to the North?

Obesity:
Most of the actions in the definition of sexual harassment are usually done by some ladies to guys daily 😂.

Imagine a girl touching a guy butt at will without getting a reaction, She can twist a guy's tiny nippleeeeeee and laugh at it 😂, touch the guy Tommy and do other things as on the definition of sexual harassment. This make me to ask, "Is sexual harassment related to ladies only or people use it to take advantage of others ?

Sexual harassment is determined by the recipient of the actions although some actions are off the mark.

If a girl twists a guy's nipples (and I want to assume that they have some sort of sexual relationship/ thing ongoing on), it is harassment if the guy doesn't like it and warns her off. If she twists a random guy's nipples, then it is harassment irrespective of his reaction.

Anyone can be harassed by anyone.

sparko1:
There are two major reasons I don't believe her.

1. She's a Senator and should know that accusing someone without any evidence is just publicity, nothing will come out of it

2. She's the second wife with two more children for different men, from what I can tell, that is a big red flag, she's for the streets.

Sexual harassment is a very difficult case to crack, throwing around accusations doesn't help the next person.
I understand the need to be strict, but he someone tries to harass you and you are sure you don't have proof, it's best to let it go, this public outcry will damage her more plus the Internet doesn't forget.

2. He is jobless so he stole the money. Senseless innit?

helinues:
Even your husband is acting wayward lately

And what this got to do with the issue at hand?

Very classless