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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by bukatyne(f): 10:07pm On Apr 21, 2025
descarado:
Happy Easter darling. Coming late kiss kiss
Hope you all are fine.

I do eat pepper but my kids, I doff my heart.
We are all good o ,thanks smiley

Don't mind me, na yesterday my morning break cheesy
Family › Re: Divorce Wahala by bukatyne(f): 10:05pm On Apr 21, 2025
Mariangeles:
Abi? 👀
No spouse has the monopoly of being a challenge. 😬
Don't mind them jare.

How can you seek to be a problem?
Family › Re: Divorce Wahala by bukatyne(f): 10:04pm On Apr 21, 2025
Mummytoo:
As a woman, pls answer this question

If u married a man, he has a different kind of love style, like he is a man with principles, doesn't enter kitchen, doesn't value pre-intimacy (making u as a woman hate s*x due to painful penetration), at a point he is no longer sexually attracted to you. Your mom doesn't like him because he slapped u in the presence of your mom because u caught him cheating. Financially abuses u by collecting every money u earn but make u beg for anything u want to buy. As a woman u don't even have one wrapper to your name. At the end of the day u got tired of everything because I were going mentally drained and packed your things and left.

When you left, he fought u and almost arrested u because u fought to collect one of the shops u built with him with, he threatened to arrest u That u must go empty handed his family supported him.

Along the line a young man loved u , and gave you all the love you were begging for, treats you like a princess.

Husband now desperately needs you back, threatening he will commit suicide if u don't come back, he is not ready to collect back d bride price.
Using God factor, that God doesn't like divorce and even saying he has changed

Pls my fellow women, what will u do in this kinda situation, do u go back or continue to enjoy this love that was denied u all these years.

The men of God should answer
He has a different kind of love style? He is a man of principles?

Ejoor, what love and principles has he displayed in your post?

What changed him?

Except a woman deeply hurts a man who once loved you, I can't understand a man maltreating a woman then turn round to say he 'changed'.

OP, please use your tongue to count your teeth.

You fit be good dustbin to dump their rubbish.

Sha find the catalyst of the change.
Family › Re: Divorce Wahala by bukatyne(f): 9:51pm On Apr 21, 2025
EmperorIsaac:
What is the "..or worse..." clause in marriage vows for? I need help here. Or is it only the "...for better..." part they mean?
For worse means when life (not your partner) throws challenges at you. Job loss, sickness, special needs kids etc.

I am sure you get the idea.

And if a man decides to be a challenge like life, you treat him like one wink
Education › Re: What Happens To You At Age 40! ( From Experience) by bukatyne(f): 6:09pm On Apr 20, 2025
franchasng:
You sound like a medical-spiritual-psychologist cheesy



Almost 100 percent accurate grin
@bold:

You say? grin cheesy
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by bukatyne(f): 5:38pm On Apr 20, 2025
descarado:
Maria to the world kiss

You love spicy food.
You and my kids should become family.
Did a little addition and subtraction and noticed that pepper cost me more than 300 quids last year. I make chilly oil and before I will remember I made it, it has finished. My mum said my dad will hold pepper for hand,eat, take a bit and continue eating. They are worst than my dad cry
Warris this cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

People have called me a fake Yoruba girl; pepper gives me headache.

I rarely use ata rodo (scotch bonnet), I only use bawa and shombo.

Happy Easter to you and yours.
Business › Re: A Nairalander Keke Driver Breaks His 2 Months Saving Box (Pics) by bukatyne(f): 5:21pm On Apr 20, 2025
emoboy4u:
Lol, I cringe at the way you people bastardize white collar jobs. Yes I agree, there some that can be useless but there are alot that are good too.

An average Graduate trainee of a Nigerian bank get nothing less than 300k per month, that's about 13k per day if you divide by 22 working days. This is a fresh graduate with a 2.2/2.1 in any course and an NYSC certificate, no experience whatsoever.

Tell me what business will net you about 4Million annually without investing 10x as capital.

The truth is entrepreneurship and 9-5 can coexist. You don't have to demean one to praise the other.
kiss

Thank you for doing the Lord's work.

I can now exit the thread.
Family › Re: My Review Of Broken Hallelujah! Major Spoilers by bukatyne(op): 2:11pm On Apr 20, 2025
Happy Easter Everyone!
Family › Re: Characteristics In The Opposite Sex You Beef- Fun Thread! by bukatyne(op): 8:32pm On Apr 19, 2025
mardis:
For the one multipurpose cream/Petroleum jelly part, like life just easy for them. No stress on skin and money 😆

The long lashes, edges and full hair or thick well aligned eye brow, like what exactly is all this beauty assistance doing on a man's body ehnn? For goodness sake lol 😆 anytime i see a man with some of these i just stare and wonder undecided grin
grin

Don't mind them; they have left their focus embarassed
Family › Re: Characteristics In The Opposite Sex You Beef- Fun Thread! by bukatyne(op): 8:32pm On Apr 19, 2025
Helpout12345:
Women taking hours to dress up and getting ready for outing.

If you need to depart by say 8am for an outing with a woman, tell her it is 7am so that you give everyone a buffer of extra 1hr because of madam' dressing time.
grin

But what happens when she is done? cool
Celebrities › Re: Idris Elba Leaves Hollywood To Build "Black Hollywood" In Africa by bukatyne(f): 8:28pm On Apr 19, 2025
We don't want a 'black hollywood'; we need a well developed localwood.

Anyways, goodluck.
Family › Re: Pastor Ends His 7 Year Marriage:says His Wife Was Too Perfect For Him To Keep On by bukatyne(f): 8:22pm On Apr 19, 2025
mu2sa2:
Christianity! Christianity!! Christianity!!!
How many times did I say Christianity?
What has Christianity got to do with it?
Family › Re: Pastor Ends His 7 Year Marriage:says His Wife Was Too Perfect For Him To Keep On by bukatyne(f): 8:19pm On Apr 19, 2025
tobore4u:
I thought the pastor supposed to be living a righteous life? grin
Toor! shocked
Family › Re: Men, Pay Close Attention To This. by bukatyne(f): 8:11pm On Apr 19, 2025
Nazgul:
You can't travel out of the country as a married man with just traditional marriage. You'd have to present verifiable evidence at the embassy that you're legally married.

What you should be worried about is finding the right partner and making sure that you yourself is a good partner as well. Not telling your partner which marriage you'll do and which one you wouldn't.
@bold:

You would assume that this simple straightforward statement will be obvious to the logical gender.

Anyways, women are waking up.

Men of timber and calibre are doing multiple weddings to their wives, a man who can't gather two kobo is paranoid of his plastic they want to dig. undecided
Family › My Review Of Broken Hallelujah! Major Spoilers by bukatyne(op): 8:03pm On Apr 19, 2025
I love love love Bimbo Ademoye's Broken Hallelujah

Good evening Peeps, happy Easter!

It is my vision of a Christian movie come to life! A movie that can actually preach Christ while integrating normal societial relationships; a movie that shows what it means to be a married Christian couple. I loved that how she used Biblical references as voices overs while the scene depicted it i.e. show not tell unlike the standard 'Mount Zion' movies where they are quoting it. I especially loved that the challenge was not a terrible husband; it was unexplained infertility.

Christian movies depiciting terrible 'Christian' husbands whose wives has to pray and grovel for irritates me A LOT! For better for worse references life's curve balls and you two standing together to overcome them.

My Diya that was crushing on brother Okudili the drummer boy while she should be singing praise worship grin and brother Okudili returning the crush! Thank God he did not misplay his drums because he was smiling at Diya, the defender of the universe cheesy Interestingly, Okudili was also a defender of the universe and his shop razed by fire touched me. Again, it was well done! it was more realistic than having the agbero bribe the justice system so he is proclaimed guilty. I loved his apology when he made fun of her dressing and makeup during the Pastor's party; making a dress for her was a befitting apology. And him indicating that the Holy Spirit prompted him to apologize; apt! I know that the 'Nigerian' version of the Holy Spirit seems not to convict men especially in relationships & marriages of their wrongs and prompt them to make amends however, He really does. As Christians, He is available to help us be better people all round: spouses, kids, parents, neighbours, colleagues, bosses, employees, etc.

And their married life? On point. A couple can be Christians, have a great sex life, excel in their businesses, and have a colourful life not withstanding the storms of life. Their lives must not be drab, boring with them relating like robots. The also did well to constrast the relationship between the husband & his partner viz a viz the wife & her partner. Evil communication truly corrupt good manners and I applaud the movie that the husband held on despite his partner's influence. Even his near encounter with Beauty, it was the partner. Constrast to the wife who had Hajia to encourage her to keep holding on. I imagine it was someone like the serial babydaddy; she might have told the wife to try someone else since it was unexplained infertility.

On to Beauty ..... 'Oh Jesus, this is so good' was truly an escape for daddy wa and I love that he literarily fled the scene; the Bible says flee from temptation. And when his wife caught on, he did not justify himself. He apologized; geniunely apologized! So so refreshing. Yes, his wife's disobedience and the resulting events instigated him... however, he could have gone to drink; reported her to the Pastorate, the options were limitless. It is also a pointer that 'we take heed least we fall'. I am sure that if he was asked a week before if he would sleep with beauty, he would have said no. This leads asking about boundaries; while we can claim that he was professional while measuring 47 inch hips, it could start something that will lead to late night fittings and other wahala.

The MIL's desperation which resulted to visiting an herbalist was great. I loved that her shortcoming was slipping away for a bit and looking for help outside God than the classic evil MIL troupe. And it was great that the herbalist's stuff did not work; that would have been solving a temporary situation with a permanent problem.

The husband praying for the wife and her overhearing him, golden!

The wife's gradual loss of faith, translating to other aspects of her life? Well depicted.

Who else thinks the elderly wise ghost was her mother? Her advise for her marriage made a lot of sense; it takes two to tango. And I loved she reached out to him since he was stretching his hands, waiting for her to take it. It was fresh that he was the one making the effort and not her as in classic movies. I was lowkey waiting for the other shoe to drop with the husband; it was great that he was even a better husband than boyfriend. kiss

All in all, a good movie cool
Family › Re: 84-Year-Old Kenyan Man Returns Home, Discovers That His 2 Wives Had Remarried by bukatyne(f): 12:03pm On Apr 19, 2025
purples25:
In the article it is stated that he got a Tanzanian lover and even had a child with her, during the long period when he left home. His Tanzanian lover has not kept contact with him so that he could see his child.

He abandoned his family to go and enjoy life, yet thinks that the wives he left to suffer on their own and raise kids alone should be waiting for him. Maybe he is a narcissist.

He didn't care for his family as his allotted duty. But he wanted to enjoy them anytime he strolled back in.

I don't know sef, he thought he is a man and has the magical ability to roam around like an animal and come back and meet the women he kept there. No shame. That's true for men, Africa makes it a possibility, they feel they can go round and do this thing. But in his case, he overstepped, overdid, believed in his 'man magic' too much, that it backfired on him.
grin cheesy
Education › Re: Why Does NEPA Take Light When It Wants To Rain? by bukatyne(f): 11:54am On Apr 19, 2025
Because they need to spread the wires cheesy
Career › Re: "16 Years In Banking And Still Nothing To Show For It" — Banker Laments (video) by bukatyne(f): 1:00pm On Apr 18, 2025
Contract staff or a full staff?
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Is A Social Media Candidate, I Won't Support Him In 2027 - Wike by bukatyne(f): 12:57pm On Apr 18, 2025
What happened to the Fubara you supported?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid vs Arsenal: UCL Quarter Finals (1 - 2) - Live by bukatyne(f): 10:01pm On Apr 16, 2025
UP ARSENAL!!!!!!!!!!! 🎊 👏 💐 🥳 🎊
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid vs Arsenal: UCL Quarter Finals (1 - 2) - Live by bukatyne(f): 9:58pm On Apr 16, 2025
GOAL!!!!!!!!!!!
Romance › Re: She Refused To Cook, So I Taught Her A Lesson—now She’s Gone With My Kids! by bukatyne(f): 8:13pm On Apr 16, 2025
Oga nor vex.

Marry the working class babe cooking late night Egusi.

We will help you look for your sons.

I am sure the egusi cooking babe will also be a good step mother.

Lucky you!
Foreign Affairs › Re: "Transgender Women should not be legally classified as women" - UK Supreme Court by bukatyne(f): 7:43pm On Apr 16, 2025
ogascomax:
Good one but they need to do more. But in my on opinion I think that the supreme court was trying to sugarcoat the transgender group.
What more should they do?

They have ruled that there are two sexes; that is enough.

Anyone can identify as anything; don't just expect people to partake in your madness. Likewise, no mad person should be harassed for being mad.

I think it is a fair position.
Romance › Re: Who Is The Silliest Here? The Guy Or The Girl? by bukatyne(f): 7:36pm On Apr 16, 2025
brain54:
Shebi the guy is getting value for his money...


Let him enjoy the fruit of his hard work.

Biko.

The girl is also cashing out.

How is cashing out or spending on what gives you value and satisfaction silly?
cheesy
Crime › Re: Trans Woman Drowned As People Filmed Her And Told Others 'Don't Help Her' by bukatyne(f): 7:34pm On Apr 16, 2025
Was it drug related or trans related?

Either way, no mother deserves to see their child die that way; may God console her & all the deceased left behind.

It sounds like the government knows the culprit and instead of fishing them out, do usual whataboutism to close the case.

While I understand that the spectators might have stopped potential helpers due to fear; the constant madness that makes people record such situations should be checked!
Family › Re: 99% Of Men Fall For This Marriage Trap – Don’t Be Next by bukatyne(f): 6:59pm On Apr 16, 2025
So African women and Western women are both problems?

If memory serves me right, white men/black women dynamics last longer than white women /black men marriages.

Nevertheless, I agree with you; women are the problem. However, I would have thought that the logical gender will embrace the most obvious solution: leave evil women and get married to themselves.

But no.... they will whine, whine, and whine and lament to high heavens.

Women are evil; then leave them alone.

Women these days think they get too little for the investment of marriage and they wisely choose to remain single.

You guys should follow suit......

HOWEVER DON'T WHINE ABOUT MALE LONINESS!

I have never seen a set of people produce abysmal return on investment and still whine this much!
Celebrities › Re: “All These Things Don’t Matter In Heaven”– DJ Cuppy Regrets Over Luxurious Shoes by bukatyne(f): 1:54pm On Apr 15, 2025
CentralBank:
angry

There is something intriguing about the age of 30. A lot happens in a person's life when they cross the third decade of life.
True.
Celebrities › Re: “All These Things Don’t Matter In Heaven”– DJ Cuppy Regrets Over Luxurious Shoes by bukatyne(f): 1:53pm On Apr 15, 2025
FreeSpirited:
Her spiritual quest and growth seems real. I'm so impressed and pray she will continue to grow in the Lord.
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If I meet a lady at this stage of spiritual awakening and awareness. I will marry her cos it will save me lot of headache.
Unfortunately most Nigerian church girls haven't even gotten to this stage of spiritual enlightenment that Cuppy has reached in less than a year of baptism
Can you share the headache you think it will save you?
Family › Re: What Is The Nigerian Dream? by bukatyne(f): 7:23pm On Apr 12, 2025
Nigerian dream is to make enough money to be worshipped in the society and given positions of power/influence (merited and unmerited).

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