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Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 12:07am On Jan 25, 2020
eni4real:
I was interpreting Bukatyne submission on this topic!!!

According to her An inadequate lover= Being bad in sex...

Being responsible, helping your wife's business, providing for the home and Children , staying faithful to your wife etc is bland and nothing..

The only definition of being a good lover to Bukatyne is the ability of sexing your wife to heaves!!!

Modern wives are shallow-minded!!
Another one again.

undecided
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 12:01am On Jan 25, 2020
eni4real:
According to Bukatyne, you are selfish!!
What is Bukatyne business??

Did she help you pay the bride price or help you pay the price of finding a Virgin??

Why should modern ladies see everything in life as Men vs Ladies??

She was even advising Virgin to be reading about sex so that they will score their husband on performance and therefore determine if they are good Lovers..

Being very good in bed is the most important index of being a good lover according to modern wives..

It is so important that if your husband stay faithful and responsible you must score him low and divorce him... Really??


I think modern marriage is seriously pornified!!!!
Is there any reason you are blowing up my mentions after constantly misinterpreting my stance on this matter?

Kindly leave me out of your conjuring. My posts are very clear for anyone WITHOUT an ulterior motive to understand.

In my first post, I clearly said the husband was selfish sexually and went on to apportion blames to everyone.

If men like, let them sleep with 500 girls, it is my business? Or you think the number of lovers determine your prowess?

Don't keep yourselves pure, get married and be open minded to apply yourselves sexually and explore.

Keep jumping about incurring spiritual sicknesses. undecided

eni4real:
According to Bukatyne, you are selfish!!
What is Bukatyne business??

Did she help you pay the bride price or help you pay the price of finding a Virgin??

Why should modern ladies see everything in life as Men vs Ladies??

She was even advising Virgin to be reading about sex so that they will score their husband on performance and therefore determine if they are good Lovers..

Being very good in bed is the most important index of being a good lover according to modern wives..

It is so important that if your husband stay faithful and responsible you must score him low and divorce him... Really??


I think modern marriage is seriously pornified!!!!
@Bold:

Does it worry you that virgin ladies are advised to read on sex so they understand their bodies and know what they want?

Are you one of those who want to marry virgins because they don't know 'anything' and would be satisfied with the crumbs you give them?

That is witchcraft!

It is like saying I will cook water beans for you because you have not eaten porridge beans before.

It is even you that is seeing everything as men vs ladies.

Open your mind.
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 10:49pm On Jan 24, 2020
dgame2k2:
in all donstan18 still made sense. a woman who is a virgin obviously has a low sex drive, a woman with high sex drive can never be a virgin no matter how religious the person is. one bad thing about marrying a non virgin is that some if them have met so many types of guys some even use sex enhancing drugs. when dating it easy to date a girl with high sex drive but marriage definitely a woman with low sex drive because no matter how strong you are, you can never satisfy a woman who is sexually wayward.
@pocohantas
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 10:29pm On Jan 24, 2020
pocohantas:
Lol. I wonder who sold that idea to them. To think they still hold on to it in this internet age.

Well, I guess the delusion helps keep their sanities. grin grin
I don't just like the selfishness jare.

And maybe people are different.

I put something in my mouth for the first time and it is either yes I like, this stuff I will prepare to my taste or Nah! it is so not it.

The virgin might not be able to define 'good sex' which is very subjective however, she knows what she likes and what she doesn't.
Romance › Re: Why Does My Girl Push Me Off Whenever I Make Her Orgasm by bukatyne(f): 10:17pm On Jan 24, 2020
gbami:
It must be serious when sultan of puna ask questions about puna...His own territory ...
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin cheesy
Family › Re: Guys Who Patronize Prostitutes Should Marry Them, It's Only Fair by bukatyne(f): 10:06pm On Jan 24, 2020
I do not know about marriage however, I find it hilarious when a man who sleeps with prostitutes think he is better than them. undecided
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 10:03pm On Jan 24, 2020
don4real:
How she go take differentiate good sex from poor one? Abi nor be virgin?
How do you know between sweet jollof rice and bland one when you have never eaten it before?
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 9:57pm On Jan 24, 2020
Fourwinds:
i always know women like sex a lot but pretend about it
cheesy Na you talk am

Babara1994:
If women really love the sensation of sex, they would cum easily and very quickly. Some of you don't even know where your clitoris is; others haven't tasted orgasm all their lives despite the avalanche of diks available to them.

There is no coitus that would end without the man reaching orgasm first - that's nature telling you that you women don't need orgasm.
cheesy
There is a difference between orgasm and ejaculation. The clitoris is only the organ that is solely for pleasure. Just to let you know these things. grin
Babara, are you talking from experience?

YorubaAmaka:
hmmm

You're not a virgin

So, allow virgins to speak for themselves
I see, virgin detector. grin

This thread is a comic relief.
Family › Re: Man Tells Wife He’s Travelling To Borno,Only To Be Seen Marrying Another wife by bukatyne(f): 9:24pm On Jan 24, 2020
Why do people especially women think getting and staying married to an irresponsible man without demanding better is a virtue? undecided

And how did husbandman successfully court another woman interstate?

Did he travel often?
Family › Re: How Lack Of Sleep Affects Your Baby's Brain And Personality by bukatyne(f): 9:18pm On Jan 24, 2020
Lack of sleep is not good for anyone.

I know what sleep deprivation is doing to me embarassed
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 9:12pm On Jan 24, 2020
Gabbriell:
Man cannot COME and then GO and kill himself all b/c of sex. Virgin wey keep herself all years long no be for my head she go come unleash her fury.

Best thing as married couple is to teach one another and grow together. NO GO DEY DO PASS YOUR SELF, I no wan be Solomon Grundy grin
Solomon Grundy: very nice poem. smiley

Do you remember 'Old Roger', 'Humpty Dumpty' etc.
Family › Re: Please Advise by bukatyne(f): 9:06pm On Jan 24, 2020
Gaggi:
My area of coverage doesn't include young wives. You want to know if there is leverage for a young wife cheating. Since I'm not married to you, your best bet is to ask your hubby. And yes, he may know more than you think. I'm sure more 'saintly ' men actually know more than their wives think. Then again, that's none of my business.
If you think that I want to know if young cheating wives have a leverage, then I have given you too much credit. undecided

And I find the constant reference to my husband funny especially in this post. He is not the cheat here and I like to go to a subject matter expert.

That a man decides to respect his martial vows doesn't mean he is a Saint. And the fact that at a point, you couldn't keep your vows does not mean every man is like you. cheesy

If you were really cheating because you were immature, you would understand that your wife/a woman could also be immature and be willing to forgive.

Your constant reluctance to answer my question shows you know what you were doing at that point and it was not as a result of immaturity, it was because you knew you could get away with it. It also shows that you were not faithful to your wife while you were courting.

On a serious note, this post (and others) were not to judge you (I never have the authority nor proximity to do so): it is to point out:

1. Your hypocrisy: Do unto others as you want them to do. Martial faithfulness was not only commanded to women. You are advising the OP to overlook it because it worked for you. I am sure you wouldn't advise a man to overlook his wife's infidelity.

2. Trivializing adultery: it is not 'immaturity' like a husband refusing to eat because he is angry or keeping malice. It is a husband deliberately stepping out of his martial vows and sleeping with other women.

Good night.

Sorry for derailing your thread at @Great828
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 8:58pm On Jan 24, 2020
Thegoodone13:
I don't understand woman. Which one is good sex and which one is bad sex? U can't satisfy woman. If u do more they will complain that u want to kill them
Your woman would decide.
Family › Re: I Allowed The Devil Into My Home by bukatyne(f): 8:55pm On Jan 24, 2020
MajorWarren:
Au contraire, yes she’s cheated mentally, but that’s only cos her needs aren’t being met in the bedroom by the said husband.
Remember her needs have changed?

The husband needs to be updated.
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 8:17pm On Jan 24, 2020
NigeriaDecides:
Read again and rephrase the bolded. Read and comprehend.
If the woman knew mind blowing sex was most important to her, she should have married the first guy.
Family › Re: Please Advise by bukatyne(f): 8:14pm On Jan 24, 2020
Gaggi:
I just said I don't know if your husband will not mind if you cheated on him. His views will probably be more valid than mine.
I very well pointed out the dangers of infidelity on that thread, while you are choosing to change it to a gender war is what I don't understand.
As per the question you asked me, I said throw it back at oga. Causally ask if it's ok for you to cheat as a young wife and if he'll tolerate it if he knows.
Neither of us think adultery is immaturity of a young husband cheesy

So we might know nothing about it. We also understand the importance of the vows we took and God helping us intend to keep it to the very end.

You the expert in young cheating husbands, educate me. undecided
Family › Re: Please Advise by bukatyne(f): 8:03pm On Jan 24, 2020
Gaggi:
Not a subject for debate. Whether your husband will grant you such allowance or not is not my business.
This has nothing to do with me or family undecided

You noted young husbands are immature and prone to cheat.

It is only normal to ask if such allowance extends to the wives or only husbands are allowed to be 'immature'?
Family › Re: Nigerian Mother Who Lost Her Three Children In New Year Day Accident In Canada, by bukatyne(f): 8:00pm On Jan 24, 2020
correctkidabc:
A Nigerian mother who lost her three children in an accident which occurred on New Year Day in Canada, made a solemn vow to them as she buried them.
https://correctkid.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/actorsvvv.jpg
Source:[urlhttps://correctkid.com/nigerian-mother-who-lost-her-three-children-in-new-year-day-accident-in-canada-buries-them-in-tears-video/][/url]
God console her and heal her broken heart with her husband's.
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 7:58pm On Jan 24, 2020
Obynolee:
These girls are something else, most guys don't f**k with their follow come strength and they will use that artificial strength to put the likes of Talatu in future trouble
@bold:

Wetin Musa nor go read for gate?

Follow come strenght? grin

The artificial strenght is not sustainable so the guy would be weak in future.

So when peeps are nacking, the girls should ask: Is this your follow come strength?
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 7:56pm On Jan 24, 2020
tydi:
So knowing /having sex should be the yardstick for intelligence..

Answer me bukatyne
O Gawd!

Local woman cannot can! embarassed
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 7:54pm On Jan 24, 2020
Jeferious:
Hmmm. You've personalised this stuff very fast. I think I gave you the chance because I mentioned you first. I just wanted to troll. Maybe we should stop the convo at this point.

As for your question, if our paths cross in real-life and we happen to be as close as lovers, then you'd get to know the answer to your question. I will say no more than this
You asked a question, I made you think about the answer.

Nothing personal.
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 7:52pm On Jan 24, 2020
tydi:
shebi if dey talk say 90per naija girl na olosho una go begin go haywire.. But that the fact.. Marry a virgin and teach her the game and she plays according to your rules. why can't you think first before typing?
My brother,

If you had thought before typing and not rushed to answer like a true Nigerian, you would not have responded to me with that post.

Let me spell it out.

There is nothing wrong in marrying a virgin (if we follow our religions well, husbands and wives should be virgins on their wedding night).

There is EVERYTHING wrong in marrying a virgin so you can be a sloppy lover. After all, she doesn't know A from B.

Do you now comprehend?
Family › Re: I Allowed The Devil Into My Home by bukatyne(f): 7:46pm On Jan 24, 2020
Kathleens:
I appreciate
I wish you all the best sis.

Chin up and invest in your relationship.

You will reap the fruits smiley
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 7:45pm On Jan 24, 2020
Ustec:
Selfish?
You ladies are something else.
You even went further to advice the upcoming virgins just to make them feel bad like the lady been discuss.
Miseducation Don reveal all una sisterhood shit.
undecided
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 7:44pm On Jan 24, 2020
Sultannayef:
I married a virgin. Before then I had seen many ladies. Believe, my wife doesn't know what a very good sex is. She is happy with just a lil bit of this and that.
Ok
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 7:34pm On Jan 24, 2020
luminouz:
Nice analysis...
Couldn't say it better.
Thank you.
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 7:33pm On Jan 24, 2020
Babara1994:
You don't understand the power of testosterone. You women should stop thinking of sexual gratification. Nature is even against women sexual satisfaction, and you know that.
Tell me more cheesy
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 7:33pm On Jan 24, 2020
Jeferious:
But on a serious note, do women like sexhuh?

huh huh grin cheesy
What do you think?

Have you made love to a woman before?

Did she like it?
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by bukatyne(f): 7:32pm On Jan 24, 2020
BitCraftman:
Not feeling satisfied? but she had three kids. I insist on my stance.
What has sexual satisfaction got to do with kids?

A woman can steal a random man's sperm and insert it in her vjay to get pregnant.

So how does the number of kids relates to the wife's sexual satisfaction?

And people's bodies/tastes/likes change: what turned you on at 20 might have no effect at 30. undecided
Family › Re: I Allowed The Devil Into My Home by bukatyne(f):
MajorWarren:
Anyone who insults you for your husband not meeting your normal sexual needs is a total buffoon. At least you’ve got morals and don’t wish to go through with it.

That said, talk to your husband let him know how you feel. Worst come to worst you could get a toy that does that but that should be as a last resort. He should be doing that for you as y’all husband and wife.
@bold:
This is not about her husband.
Family › Re: I Allowed The Devil Into My Home by bukatyne(f): 7:26pm On Jan 24, 2020
Kathleens:
Thank you, i have not heard any discussion with him. He thinks he is the best. He is not really good in MouthAction but the penetration he is good
You must have married a wizard if you expect him to know what you want. undecided

He thinks he is the best because YOUR sexual feedback to him is that he is the best.

IBesides, you said your libido increase after breastfeeding so the normal thing is to tell him that your tastes/desires have changed and X, Y Z would satisfy you.

If he is not good in oral, tell him what to do during MouthAction. Not hard.

Or replicate what you want on him and let him reciprocate.

Go on sex vacations so you can both explore and rediscover yourselves.

If you want to stay happily married, you have to work at it.

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