₦airaland Forum

Why do these LGBTQIA~ push for right to adopt when biologically, their system of intercourse cannot reproduce?

Shouldn't adoption and other assisted fertility means act as support to the natural system?

From rulers who do nothing and loot billions, it is rich saying that the minimum wage should match productivity.

Diamond1605:
Lies lies you won’t say how you beat her like a drum, you won’t say how you cheated more than 8 times with 8 different women.

You won’t say how you always insult her and her family.

You won’t say how you step on her while beating her.

You won’t say how you made her feel like she is not a human

Those your friends advising you will definitely lead you astray

Come out and say the full story
Coward

Are you the wife

travelzcruix:
Women will never share. Very greedy gender. That aside, even if you are a born again, learn those things that will keep your husband coming for more. How to manage a home, reading your husband's mood like a pro, know when he needs distance, how to cook, love his friends like his brothers, don't go about sleeping around with them cause they will definitely find out. Most women have used nagging and quarrel to chase men from the home just because they are lawfully weded wives.Update, most men don't complain anymore, they find their peace of mind somewhere and let you display your foolishness.

@bold:

I did not that men are generous and like to share their women.

CyberHustle:
Why not do it to save the union?

That is the real question. Perhaps he thought the wife and his daughter wasn't worth it.

Because she didn't just get up and divorce him; she must have begged, nagged, threatened, complained and given ultimatums before she divorced him.

It is a needless sacrifice sir

ednut1:
🥲Died poor

My goodness!

Lack of foresight! Instant gratification

TechBaron:
The type of things that we celebrate as a nation is just amazing!

Fulani herdsman, speaking fluent English is news in Nigeria in 2024..

Anyway, trust these normads at your own peril. They will settle km away from your community, acting very friendly and humble.

They will learn your language, be part of your culture, then start multiplying like roaches.

20 to 30 years later, they'll launch a crusade to take over your land and everything.

That's because we have weak men who allow people run riot under the guise of being 'woke'.

LordIsaac:
A human being died…one you have once being with! There shouldn’t be pretense in showing sympathy. It just speaks volumes of how women regard themselves, and the kind of wife he has.

I hope you have same beautiful epiphany of how men regard themselves if a woman is mourning her ex in front of her husband.

pazienza:
Anioma land is already well defined.
It is called Delta North Senatorial District. Ned Nwoko didn't need to provide the detail, any politically aware Nigerian should know when Anioma is located.

Second sentence highly unnecessary especially for someone passing knowledge.

I guess when all you have is a hammer, everything begins to look like a nail.

Where is the proposed Anioma state supposed to be carved from?

That detail is missing from the report.

I thought the minimum wage discussion closed at N100k?

Our rulers are just evil.

You drag your feet on minimum wage yet earn outrageous sums monthly. As if that wasn't enough, you increased the judiciary salary by 300% while dragging N60k with NLC.

I hope Nancy doesn't let this girl drag her down under the guise of 'supporting' her sister.

Anyways, Nancy's husband serms to have a good head on his shoulders: an assertive and loving patriach.

LovePeaceJoy:
No man?...lol...Here in the US that even pornstars marry everyday. Rich respected men o

Men globally are not like most myopic nigerian men...Wake up from your delusion.

@bold:

A man deciding not to marry a prostitute or promiscuous woman is myopic?

NoToPile:
Now later if this man starts saying nonsense about the church people will be saying it's true.

Lots of Nigerians christains are not Christlike pastors included.

If you cannot take discipline, you really are not a christain.

Ordinary posting - resignation lool.

If it were some other churches Gan just for his wife inviting flavor to her birthday. Both of them will be suspended and sit at the back of the church for long and he will do it in good fate because it's discipline.

G. Os are trying honestly. When churches begin to grow with many branches different fruits begin to yield, the wolves will join the sheep and the greedy nature of Nigerians begin to show. How many places G. O want to be.

Both parties hands are not clean in this case.

It is just that the pastor & wife has lost the support of their major patrons hence the exposure.

SIRTee15:
I think this is the crux of the matter. I doubt RCCG will make a move to remove him if powerful members of the church didn't request it. Adeboye only approved it.
The decision to have him removed must have come from within the church itself.
If above is the case, then Pastor ID goofed. As a pastor of such powerful church, U have to be highly sensitive to the feelings of your members. U should also avoid decisions that polarize the church because the outcome is always controversial.

I pray the church pull through this challenge because major actions like this could split that church or even tear it down.

That birthday party made them loose the support of very powerful members of his church.

Unfortunately, at their level in life, their patrons' support is as equally important as their handiwork.

And this applies to all areas of life.

Marvfem:
you don't know what you are saying,are you trying to justify they shouldn't do any remittance to the main headquarter.there is always a percentage that the parish do take not all taken to the head

You know nothing

pocohantas:
You are not earning in Naira.
You are earning in Pounds. Please stop converting and pay the money

Very annoying something 🙄

Negroid001:
You can see that the hypergamy shi is real. When a man makes money, he feels he needs a woman to complete it, when a woman makes money, she tells herself she needs no man in her life.

We're almost the same age, and we're not yet married for the same reason. Leeches.

When you've worked hard to a point, you become suspicious of everyone around you.
Na the same thing dey worry dj cuppy too.

@ bold:

It is not hypergamy; it means that men (generalization) have shown over time that the major value they bring to the martial union is money.

Now, a woman with money has to think if the price of maintaining a marriage is worth whatever financial addition the man is bringing.

Often times, they judge it not worth it.

anyilalaz:
It should surprise any sane person why banks keep posting huge profits while the real sectors that drive any economy of the world top economies are declaring losses, insolvency, deinvesting, closing shops.

The profits do not have impact on the economy because of corruption, round triping, causing deliberate efficency in banking process. Imagine you want to withdraw 100k from an ATM, to do that you must break it down to 5 withdrawal, unsolicited sms that will benefit them, etc

5 times or 10 times?

I am waiting for GT Bank.

They deducted about N5k for monthly maintenance, VAT & taxes.

Imagine doing that for 20m customers

Pecoleee345:
Bro I was a victim of this situation myself in 2022.....my business went bad and I was on a low.

My wife was carrying the house and that experience made me realize we men are just useless without money to be people we labor for.

What was the dynamics of the marriage when you had money?

Was there strict gender roles I.e. you provide while she is in charge of the home front?

MrBrownJay1:
some of the most confuse women out there are women, yet you listened to your female friends and now failed miserably (to exactly become what they are aka bitter lonely women). i suggest you go blame your female friends and destroy their marriage the same way they destroyed yours ( simply because you had something THEY wanted)

@bold:

Exactly

Namaster:
The woman is free to go wherever she wants. Take your kids and go back home.

However, the woman must make sure her next destination after the party is her father's house. Have her properties waybilled to her.

NEVER tolerate any slight from your woman.

That simple.act of her getting into a party while you couldn't will make her think she's better than you. And that'll lead to a cascade of more disrespects and insults that will culminate in a FAILED marriage.

Best to fastforward to the end.

This means you do not hold the institution of marriage in high esteem.

You think it can be easily discarded.

Jman06:
This argument of yours is not making any sense at all.

And for your information, men are not loosing out anything because it is still your gender that gets kicked out when the bubbles burst.

I see more lamentations about paternity fraud than getting kicked out.

I didn't expect my argument to make sense to a red piller

Jman06:
Any married lady who cannot say a simple NO to sexual advances from other men is just a wh0re and shouldn't blame her infidelity on the men who woo her.

She is a LovePeddler, yes, you are correct

A man who woos a woman when he is in a committed relationship is also a LovePeddler.


In this war of the whores, the men seems to be losing out more.

Since you do not see the part men have to play to mitigate/drastically reduce the issue, I say goodluck.

Jman06:
Why should a woman who is married say yes to another man's sexual advances Remember it is not always written on the forehead that a woman is married. So, if random men comes to woo a married woman, the responsibility is hers to refuse such advances!

You don't stop a cock from making sexual advances to a hen. The laws on rape are made to protect mostly women because they're expected to refuse inappropriate sexual advances from men.

Why should a married man pursue another woman?

Since men are cocks with no self control, they shouldn't complain about the consequences of their actions.

And this is not a threat, this is our current reality.

Jman06:
There's nothing like double standard there. Since it is natural for men to ask for sex from women, married women should simply reject sexual advances of men who ain't their husbands. Simple!

This thing is just like willingly dashing out somebody's money in your possession to a beggar only to turn around and blame the beggar when the owner of the money demands his money. Can't you see how ridiculous it is

@bold:

Are the men here married?

Anyways, the rate of paternity fraud proves your point moot.

So it is either you (men who think it is OK to be promiscuous) realise that it takes two to have a sexual faithful ecosystem or you continue with the status quo.

Fortunately, this bites the propagators hardest.

Jman06:
How is the man she cheated with the cause How you ladies come up with this view is mind boggling!

Except in the event of rape, women have sex willfully and with whom ever they fancy! They're the gatekeepers of sex as sex will not happen if they don't want it. What stops her from saying NO to the man proposing sex to her

Why should the woman say no IF she wants it?

If a man irrespective of his committments has the right to proposition any woman, why can't a woman irrespective of her commitments accept him if she wants to?

Besides, do you lots want to be frustrated? You want to keep asking women for sex without success?

GboyegaD:
Oga, I am a man for starters. When men chase after other people's wives and these women commit paternity fraud in their husbands, same men still act like they are the victims. The summary of it is "If we all act responsibly, it will reduce the incidence of paternity fraud."

@bold:

100% correct.

spiceadole:
2 degrees in 2 federal universities in Nigeria.

And I can't relate to this sexual harassment thing that ladies always lament about.

I may be wrong but I still think that majority of ladies who claim to have been victims were unserious students,refusing to study hard,looking for favours from lecturers who decided to take advantage of them.

If not,how does a lecturer single you out of a crowd of students to fail you?

How did the lecturer even know you?
Attend lectures like others,burn the midnight candle,study hard,write your exams well.
Don't go about meeting lecturers on personal basis.
Never had any lecturer 's contact except my project supervisors in final year.

Sexual harassment? I can't relate.
Una sorry oooh

Like you said, the lecturers have a target market: average & dull students. So it is easier for the lecturer to say 'sleep with me & I will move you from F to D' or another ridiculous grade.

The evil lecturers ( I actually think it is evil to prey on weak girls academically) have co-evil students who act as identificators of their target. These students are so crazy that one in my school was in charge of notifying the girls and taxing the boys who were to 'sort' to pass.

I also observed that if lecturers know a girl to be promiscuous, they want to 'collect their own share'. And if a girl sleeps with a lecturer, the other lecturers in the click who have an influence over her grades want to do so too.

In all, I have seen girls rather fail than sleep with the lecturer. In my school, a girl & her boyfriend set one up, another girl got her parents to beg, another one ran to her fellowship and they made him a prayer point.

While the girls capitulated out of fear & desperation, it is not rape except he physically forces himself on them. If a lecturer is harassing you for sex and invites you somewhere, common sense will tell you that he wants to at best continue the harassment and at worst sleep with you.

I hope there is enough evidence outside social media rant to nail him.

Judolisco:
On a serious note, I don't know how a lecturer will fail me deliberately..... I jst don't know.... Ino be girl oh... But even some of d girls I know during my time in sch... I knw some of them dat a lecturer can't fail... Eno possible, some people no fit fail course they are jst 2 brilliant

They often targeted average and dull students. How would you fail or threaten an A student?

xin5:
A girl I am currently seeing is telling me the cost of her bride price is #120 that once I pay that..20 naira will even be handed back to me because she is not for sale. I asked her if that's all for the traditional marriage.. she said from there if we want to do big ceremony it's our choice. I think I am about to be scammed into marriage, something I might regret in the long run.. and I still wonder why her elder brother is still single (in his 40s) if marriage is cheap over there.

I wouldn't want a case whereby after doing that I will be presented an unexpected list of things to provide.

She's from the south.
I want confirmation if this is true

I really wonder when women would stop this nonsense of positioning themselves like cheap meat for marriage.

When this man doesn't respect her three years into the marriage, she would open a NL thread and her comrades would her to confirm all men are scum not knowing she chose the scum herself.