₦airaland Forum

Zooposki:
Just make sure you also teach your son how to cook so he won’t be a burden to women later on.

missyblissy:
You all agreed that is true, please where is the proof? Yes she's has a dirty life style but the man is also bitter as Korra has moved on and he can't move on!!!!. He wants to tarnish her image by all means possible. Social media has many people crazy. Who told you to tell the world that the slept with he friends fiance while pregnant, why is the said friend not saying it publicly.

Don't get me wrong, I don't support infidelity/adultery in marriage. This is really a dirty break up. Please Oga move on!!!!

Mystery9:
Did you seek my advice before sleeping with her

G00dharddick:
Dating a Nigerian girl is the third most foolish thing on earth 🌍

You don't date them, you bang them and move on to the next hoe to knack

SweetDipBenny:
Why the Christian song

Pojomojo:
Yes of course.

Daviestunech:
Quite unfortunate.

Infact I just got a job on the island lekki to be precise .

I was told I will resume 8am ND close 5pm though I might work beyond that time in some cases.

Though the salary is better

I discussed with my friend if I can stay with him on the island and he gave me assurance .

I resumed yesterday at their branch at Glover road ikoyi

The hr explain somethings to me about lateness that 3k will b deducted if I come late ND so on.

Unfortunately my friend texted me that I can't stay again at his place because it was his company that provided the lodge and they won't allow another person to stay with him.

And mind you I stay on the mainland which I can't make it to lekki exactly 8am but 9am is still ok.

Moreover,I already packed my belongings inside my brother's car which I drove to ikoyi yesterday thinking after closing I will just drive down to my friend's place and return my brother's car on Sunday.

Immediately I got the update I went to the hr office yesterday and wanted to tell her the new challenges I'm having but she wasn't around I had to tell her assistant.

And if possible the organization has accomodation they can provide they should let me know.

Naso I left yesterday ooo.

Till now I haven't heard anything from them and no pressure about it.

Even though I have done all my documentation with them yesterday.

I can't kill myself 8am to 5pm
Monday till Saturday
No public holiday

ogawisdom:
Marriage is 50:50

Anything short of that you must totally submit to a man if he will be the sole provider.

franchasofficia:
You are right, but then, you are a female, you will never understand the sexual pressure men experience when it comes to having multiple sex partners. Naturally, men have a default in that aspect but it can be controlled only through supernatural and divine intervention through strong adherence to spiritual guidelines and divine help, but if you think a man's desire to mate with more than one woman he finds sexually appealing can be controlled through self discipline and decision or for the love of the woman he is married to or dating, then you can go ahead and believe that.


I repeat, without spiritual/divine grace and strict adherence to spiritual guide and doctrines, no sexually active man can mate with just one woman for the rest of his lifetime, whether he loves the woman or not. Quote me anywhere, any time, any day

franchasofficia:
Op you are right with some points and not entirely correct with some.


Men don't crave for honor, they want absolute respect from their wife. As a lady, respect your husband and he will cherish you, this can be called honor by some, but it all boils down to true and absolute respect.

If you want your husband to worship you and do whatever you ask, respect him, if possibly honor him if I am to borrow op's words. Stop dragging headship with your man, you are wonderfully made as a woman, you women are the flower of life, maintain your feminity, don't try to be a man.


As a man, whether you are living in Washington DC, London, Sydney, Cape Town, Seoul, Tokyo, Kingston or Casablanca, please if you want to enjoy your marriage and enjoy that natural respect from your wife, you must be ready to be the provider (financially, materially and otherwise). Don't copy western culture of sharing financial responsibilities 50-50 with your wife, if you do so, whatever you see in that marriage, take it and do not complain.


Women naturally are not created to provide, so in all your prayers as a man, always pray to God to keep you financially buoyant enough to take care of your family and manly responsibilities.


If your wife must come in, let it be partial contribution, don't mind all these small boys looking for a woman to cater for them, if you are a man, act like a man, provide for your family solely and let your wife assist when necessary and where necessary but don't ever share financial responsibilities equally with your wife if you want to enjoy your marriage. Take your eyes off from your wife's income.



Dear ladies, cheating is beyond every sexually active man's control. It is not as easy to control by men as it is for you ladies.

It is a natural fault. It is a natural flaw that only God understands. Don't divorce a good husband just because he cheated, don't judge a good man by his lack of sexual control, only the God that created him can judge him because he alone understands the battle he is facing in that aspect.

excanny:
And you will be fine if someone forces you to sell below your cost price?

excanny:
And this makes sense to you?

excanny:
So what are they going to do about inflation? It's still high up.

successmatters:
The main reason is media manipulation. people cannot still buy dollars at their advertised rates on government media.

There is now internet price and market price.

flokii:
Definitely price will fall.. the greedy, selfish and self-centered ones hoarding dollars with the hope that naira will continue to fall and prices of goods and commodities will rise so they can blackmail reasonable people that rejected their candidate in the 2023 elections will be put to shame.

I think the Federal Competition and Consumer Protection Commission (FCCPC) should be charged by the President to go after retailers and business owners who fail to reduce their prices nationwide in line with the FCCPC Act.

Prices of everything in this country will come down.. whoever isn't ready to comply should move his/her business out of Nigeria.

Stephaniegold:
But if I bought my goods on high side like 1650 , do you expect me to come and sell it cheap when it is now 1070 naira

PotatoSalad:
An economist knows that these things are temporary fixes. They're only buying time.
When they exhaust all the fixes, dollar will gradually go back to its original rate.
We need more industries, foreign investors and export. That's the only way to truly appreciate the Naira

jayce232:
This is even the bigger problem & nobody is talking anything about it. They are all shouting dollar is falling for over a month now, but goods still keep increasing. Cement is still high & I'm very sure a lot of these increased product will never come down if govt don't take serious action. Dollar keep falling in the news, but things keep increasing in reality.

Gggjhhj:
Baffles how you people celebrate dollar fall with no significant value to the poor masses, food prices are very what have you done. All you do is praise sing your principal with no overall impact on the economy, tell them to go and regulate prices, not to be snapping dollar and naira value everyday

Friend22:
Stop being childish!
Who marries "underage" girls?

Let's compare: a girl of 15 years from the South is likely to have been slept with by a bf,but in the north a girl of 15 will gladly marry a man who can take care of her and be responsible at that age.

Fact is,marrying a 15 years old girl is very rare today in the north except for certain religious and moral reasons.

1Sharon:
They should stop black washing historically white characters though

Elsueno:
I actually did not like how the whites ganged up on d young girl.

But to be fair, let's be honest, Juliet should not be black just as much as black panther cannot be white.

its much better to look for or create an original story that requires a young black actress.


It's a shame really, I perfectly understand how she's feeling sha

Charly68:
This is a mentality of untrained woman who is not ready for marriage . Marriage is a mutual partnership ..it is not a burdensome relationship. God can bless a woman because of her husband and it can also be the other way round. God told woman to submit to her husband..it means if she is a billionaire she must submit her account too for the running of the family. Whoever can't run marriage like this should never go into it .. Though man must take care of the family as a bread winner. But the situation can change and we need understandable woman

tollyboy5:
I'm from Lagos state Epe that's not the culture I met with my grandmother. (RIP)

tollyboy5:
First of all do you think to pay house rent is easy?
I'm sorry I grew up with an apt ideology and I'm still trying to understand relationship matters. Because I don't understand many things I have come to notice and understand.
My parents for instance are old fashioned.
My mum does little trade while my dad provide almost everything.
My mum got established by my dad in the 90s and later my dad lost his job.
We moved from our quarters in garki Abuja then back to Lagos. My dad was the bread winner of his family back then.
After coming back to Lagos my dad then returned to Abuja to start working as contractor, things were not as good as before but my mum was never prepared for this newly kind of life.
She came from a nice family also and she's a strong willed person.
Immediately she started doing more also to provide for me and my sister her nagging increased. There is not always peace whenever my dad return from Abuja. I was the mummy's boi so I always took side with my mum no matter what, while my elder sis is always compassionate towards my dad now reverse is almost the case tho.
My daddy being a gentle person reduce his visit to Lagos. Despite being the landlord lol. My mum was 70% in charge of the house.
Fast forward till now, me and my dad are not close while me and my mum are no more close like we use to.
The last time I went home and wanted to demarcate some extension of the building my mum challenged me that I dare not.
I did not waste time to tell her to return to her father's house if she's not pleased.
I've imagined all the wahala she gave my dad wen I was still her strongest ally. If she felt my dad was not providing enough as a man she should have gone outside to rent 3 bedroom flat and a shop to know if my dad did not provide shelter.

If a man provides shelter for his family I feel he has done a good job. If both party contribute feeding as 50/50 there is nothing bad about that.
The man will still need to pay school fees and other house related bills etc.
So with all this provision and expenses if a lady feels he must also provide all feeding. Then what is the support she's giving to him?
Thanks I'm just trying to learn so I won't be expecting more than I could get from a lady.