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Tallesty1:
And they continued having sex after. Several uncountable rounds according to the man

Hmmm.

She wanted to get more evidence for the rape case.

Ednut90:
really? so the innocent guy should be punished for a sin he did not commit? U shd do better dear

Women who falsely accuse men of rape should serve same term as men who commit rape.

Fourwinds:
you get wisdom. No sentiments

Thank you

Must we know?

genq:
And women don't?

You said a man providing makes him a liability that, my friend, proves my point. You women are simply illogical, irrational, manipulative beings. Such a stupid statement to make!
Again in view of my original post, I need you to state clearly what a woman brings to table.

Women are blessed with building bonds and social cushion that men are not so old age is not as lonely.

@Bold: You need better comprehension skills

God give Him the wisdom needed to govern Lagos and the heart to receive it.

Enquires:
I'm not new here, joined nairaland 2008, created this moniker to be anonymous.

Firstly, I brought this topic here to get matured and experienced advice, as someone would have been in this state that I am now.

I and "my wife to be" have been dating for over five years now. We graduated from the same university but nothing serious at that time cause she thought i was never serious with my proposals. But, during our youth service, I got in contact with her and the rest as they say is history. However, during our numerous phone calls (cause, she was serving in the east while I'm in the north so, communication was only by phone calls), she told me that she is still a Virgin and the far she as gone with a guy is just to kiss. So, after service year, we met on several occasions , go out on dates, kiss, hugs and even romance but no penetrative sex. she will spend the weekend with me and all through the night and the thought of having sex with her won't even cross my mind as we were both waiting till the night of our wedding...lol.



Now to the reason why i opened this thread, we are about getting married August this year just 2months away and she is planning an honeymoon but I'm kinda not liking that ideal considering the fact that it will be our first time of having sex. Why not on our matrimonial bed? why must it be in an hotel where different people have used that same bed? Is there not any spiritual implications to it ? Moreover, i don't want to start thinking of how messy, stained the sheets will be when we re done. Cause the experienced i had when i deflowered my first gf is still fresh in my head even though its 11years now.

Please nd please, I need suggestions, tips from anyone who as been in this crossroads before.

Thanks

Marriage has three aspects of joining:

Physical, spiritual and soul/mind/emotional with physical joining/intimacy/sex been the final consummation of your holy matrimony.

Irrespective of your sexual status, the ideal is to consummate your marriage on your matrimonial bed.

Thereafter, you can make love/ f*ck yourselves anywhere.

NIA