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richie240:
Even without d money finishing, she can still retrace her steps to the one she truly loves.
This will occur d moment she is financially 'viable' and can stand on her own.

Does she truly love the first man if money could take her away?

djlinda77:
We are good.. thank you all

Thank God

What happened?

BuBuB:
PM sent.

I apologized to her over and over and over and over, she's okay now, she only accepted to talk to me properly this morning and also apologized for the disrespect and not wanting to own up to it, which was what triggered the anger.

I told her not to apologize though, hitting her outweighed the disrespect, I guess I just lost it probably because I had restrained my self a lot of times, even when it was worse than what transpired last night, I restrained myself last night too, but she came back and it was all provocations. In all, I was wrong and shouldn't have hit her, I know better now.



I'd do better next time, thank you.

What triggered the beating?

What a tragedy.

With little patience, Regina would have been big enough to afford a bit of this life for herself.

She has acted for more than 13yrs now.

See how the mother is smiling like she has won a jackpot.

Her mother is the definition of what a mother is not.

Olorunnim:
What if he wasn't home and just came back to see that

A possibility.

It sounded like he was home though.

Shelloween:
COMMON INDOMIE.... Yet you had to post it online.
Dear ladies... Stay away from niggas that post everything that goes on in your relationship online. These are the ones that are capable of leaking your nudes and sextapes!

I agree.

Davash222:
But she’s the one cooking

So the noddles was burning and he couldn't check?

Let's put aside the zee world part.

If she went to the loo or got entangled with something else, he couldn't check a meal burning on fire?

What if his house burnt to the ground?

Tina26:
So ladies what option would you chose in this case of a friend at work.
- has a girl he wishes to marry next year ending. Both families have met and all.
- he recently heard about canada express entry and due to the rumours he heard about upcoming elections in canada he decided to pursue it. Every thing is almost set as he passed ielts and has 2 weeks to get his assesment.
- due to the cost involved he wants to include his babe using court marriage only and taking her along.

Issue
Madam says no , he should go alone come back for their elaborate marriage and he fill for her [the filling can take 18 months).


He cannot marry her in a big way and also run the express entry too. And he may fall in love with someone else there too

Is she being silly or reasonable

Is the girl really interested in relocating?

You say the marriage is slated for Dec 2020 and process is almost clicking: what happens if it clicks before the wedding?

Does the guy have a backup plan for them till they find their feet in Canada or he just wants to pull the plug?

The guy does not sound serious: what does he mean by he can fall in love with someone else while filling for his wife? What happens if he/ his wife has to work out of their base for a year?

@lady:

Why does she want an elobrate wedding? Is she thinking of a send forth kind of thing? If she relocates, she might never see some family members again.

What is she willing to contribute towards her dream wedding?

If it happens that they can't afford both, is she willing to wait till a milestone anniversary say 10 years?

Have the both of them discussed before the guy presented it to you?

thelastorca:
With all that paper she can get a male sex doll

Very true

Hope the doll wouldn't be confused for human sha.

truthsayer009:


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Abcruz:
Is sex food?
Is sex a leisure?
Is sex a job?
Does sex guarantee peace?

Have you heard of a man who died for not having sex in his life time?

Sex is meant for procreation and not a casual act of fun!

Do not copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.--Romans 12:2

Sex is not for fun?

So a couple who intend to have two kids should lockup thereafter?

Same Bible that tells married couple not to abstain from sex too much so they are not tempted. That tells men to be satisfied with the breasts of their wives?

Read Songs of Solomon and learn about sex.

Do you realize that marriage is for children, sex and companionship?

Please don't mislead people.

If the woman was beautiful (all those 'his mom looks like his babe' type), I would have understood.

Well, the current French president is married to his teacher and as testified by his wife and others, he is an intelligent man.

UPMIKE:
Good day nairalanders.
please I need matured and honest advice from matured and honest minds in this honourable house.
I am a single parent
aged.. 41 yrs
lost my wife in 2016
I have three children all boys.
The first boy is 12 and in J s s 1
The second is 10 and would be in J s s 1 by this September.
The third boy is in primary 3.
it hasn't been easy taking care of my family single handedly .
I wake up by 4am to cook and prepare my children for school, I drive them to school, then to business.
in the evening I pick them up from school then to the kitchen.
I do everything in the house.
Am somehow getting used to these things but it's not all that easy.
Initially I had the intention of remarrying.
But am changing my mind now.
Am considering the problems associated with stepmothers and step-children
the peace and happiness of my children,
the problems of women in the family,
having to startt all-over again pampering and taking care of a pregnant woman, nursing mother and new born babies,
catering for a bigger family in this next-level government.

Am now thinking of getting a house-help,
adopt a baby girl,
live my life
give my children the best I can
to full adult-hood,
get married maybe at 60 to a menopaused lady of about 40 to 45 yrs. and enjoy my remaining life with her, God willing.
some people advice me to remarry while some say I should wait and train up my kids.
please great comrades, what do you think.
matured and brotherly advice please.
Remain blessed nairalanders.
THANK YOU ALL



dp

How have you been coping with sex?

She should have keep it very silent like Agbani

Goodluck to her.

Daisy17:
So instead of telling her husband she needs attention, she signs up on a dating website? Is the husband a magician to know what his wife needs? @op from what I can tell your wife is bored and she is looking for fulfillment in the wrong place. Sometimes we are the cause of our headaches. Instead of your wife looking for ways to spice up her marital life she goes looking for excitement outside. What does she mean by you both rushed into marriage? She is an adult and if she was not ready for the commitment of marriage she should have said no to your proposal. I believe that in order for your marriage to move on from this rough patch, she would need to fully recommit herself to the union, apologize sincerely, stay off dating sites, communicate better and maybe keep herself fully occupied so that she doesn't have time for adulterous activities.

I completely agree with you.

crackhaus:
Nigerians with the 'Nigerian life' experience, living anywhere in the world, are among the most uncultured & discourteous set of humans. Not just in relationship dynamics, but also in basic social interactions.

I guess it's upbringing.

Even amongst mates, we look for whatever makes us better than them.

Na them sabi.

MissRaine69:
An atheist makes the best husband.........

Interesting.

Why?

The ritual lets her self service....

There is still hope.

She would need lots of it.

Deepfeel:
This guy you are such a bitter soul, so she refused to give you her number she automatically became an enemy, you have an unknown tendency of a serial rapist

I want to assume all these threads coming up are from trolls.

If there are real, young women have a lot on their hands o.

To revenge not giving number again?

They all aged well.

They should tell us their secrets.

fcdgrand:
just know this! every actions bring reactions & every cheating bring public disgrace! she should have think about her family before cheating, oh! she think the man will not find out?

Look at this:

A man insulted me and I slap him.

Unfortunately, he slumps and dies.

Would anyone hear story that he insulted me first?

Tosinayoko:
She would never cheat in her entire life again... this same fate befell a female friend of mine. I don't know why you have to cheat when you know you would end up with him.... Low self esteem ladies.. Ladies enjoy complicated life so well

I hope you would prescribe this if men cheat.

thesicilian:
Can't they just declare May 29 an annual public holiday once and for all instead of having to make the announcement every year?

They declare independence, Christmas, boxing and new year as holidays even though they are static.

Organizations does same.

I guess it's just protocol.

tfash96:
en everybody's blessed with mouth even if her husband has no evidence let her come out and prove herself innocent

I have not said the wife is innocent.

He should have walked away.

Lifestone:
I am sure you are single.
I am married, so you should listen to me. Once you sign your marriage register in the Church, you are a married man. Reception na ceremony..
All these noise can only be if he walked before signing the marriage register, but if he backed out at the reception as the report indicated, then I will presume that he already finished with the church which includes signing of the marriage register.
He is married and only the High Court of Justice can separate them

Very true.

fcdgrand:
beg a cheat?

Beg a woman and both families he humiliated.

Do you realize the impact of what he did?

To his family? His wife's family? His wife?

Jman06:
*absolving

Thanks

SageMK:
Your wife —

1. Disrespect and insults you.
2. Display psychotic behavior.
3. Keep malice with you and others.
4. She's unapologetic, rude and defiant.
5. Have no respect for your close relations and friends.

How the hèck did you wife a woman like this?

I understand people pretend doing courtship, but you've to be literally blind not pick up on any alarming sign or maybe you'd but you simply ignored. Wow. Love is blind.

Anyway —
I am against you eloping. If you want to leave her do it properly. You have no right to run away with her child.

Your daughter needs her mom and a home to grow.

I suggest you tighten your belt and fix your mess like a man instead of running away like a coward. Take charge of your home. Sit her fúcking ass down and let her know it's fix or break. Give her an ultimatum to change.

During this period, If she wouldn't talk to you, talk to her. If she wouldn't cook, then cook for everybody. Drive her insane by refusing to fight back. Embrace her and show love. You can even pay her to pretend again brother.

Just try dammit!

Na you be this?

That is a second wife not a side chic.

Akuruoulo:
Quote the bible abeg

Matthew 1:18 - 25

Profkenny1:
Y'all females are the most evil creatures on this planet! I bet you wouldn't have written such gibberish if the roles were reversed.

BTW, your irrational God just finished sucking my phallus!

Fool, be careful how you address God.

tfash96:
abeg no give us flimsy excuse no dey tell us story wey no match am here.. Se anybody bang Mary when she conceive Jesus ni and even Joseph sabi how d story go 2ru spiritual contact.. U no sabi how God value "bed undefiled" go read your Bible wella na bkos say u too u no be virgin u dey cheat too.. Y u no go support her birds of d same feather u kuku b with her.. I wish to talk more but make I make am short for u

Comprehension is not easy I guess.

Joseph at that point did not know that Mary was still a virgin or about the conception of Jesus.

Remember he had not slept with her so it was really her word against his.

Everyone is free to do as they please.

When things no longer work for them, they start to run from pillar to post.