₦airaland Forum

LordReed:
This as far as I am concerned is just another level of excuse for a man to get his cheating on. I mean for heaven's sake when you married her, her couchie was not smelling now that it is you don't act like a husband to know the details of why the couchie you've been enjoying is now smelling (it could be the sign of a serious infection detrimental to YOUR WIFE'S HEALTH) and help look for solution instead you want to run around like it doesn't concern you. Only foolish husbands behave so senselessly. "I told her now" is the cry of a juvenile.

okotv:
your posts in the family section is always laced with wisdom, devoid of vulgar languages and godly...what else


Lol


my thoughts

okotv:
you would make for a good marriage counsellor.... my thoughts

Maamin:
Hmmm...yea..but one has the most priority, so which?

Maamin:
So which/what are you interested in?

scribble:
Lol. That's what the feminist movement wants you to think. If you had money already, from birth, you would want a family. It's poor folk, angry and resentful people, or money miss road people that downgrade the importance of a family.

In my opinion

okotv:
I don't know how to prepare it well and I don't want to learn this style cause it might be difficult to change

zemaye:
Lol at the bolded

alutacontinua:
Bukatyne once said something about a game where we paint a picture of Familylanders' ideal partners!

E.g. pickabeau's partner should be a strong, nice, sweet, caring lady who puts up with his very stubborn attitude

Might be a good idea, I think!

zemaye:
I love am but my boo no like am and e like make we chop for one plate I only get to eat it sometimes I just use the local spiced pepper

okotv:
I don't cook at home, can't complain cause I am not giving them money to cook...still student and things are not rosy

iyatrustee:
The disparity between educated and non educated hausa's is just unforgivable. Haba! The groom fine sha



So long the Op is lalastical, Dis flight is front page bound!

okotv:
the way it is been prepared at home, I don't like it.

okotv:
it would take Gods grace to like okra again

sccofield:
@ Khalessi That name "Khalessi" am sure hv heard it somewhere

LaurelP:
She just happens to have a very understanding man as a husband. If not, all dis one na story for d gods

zemaye:
Make I share
fried rice and peppered fish
semo and vegetable my favourite with chopped meat, kpomo and shredded fish

cococandy:
very sick and nausea inducing thread. Eww.

cococandy:
one guy in this forum once told me that the only thing black men have going for them is their control over their women. Take that away from them and they are nothing.
I rebuked him for insulting our black brothers but it obviously seems like he knows what he was talking about.

Misogynist2014:
Pray that the spirit of bukatyne doesn't fall on her

aventura:
what happened to slapping her back. In a law court it would be seen as self defence. shikena

ihedinobi2:
Did you conjure up these new things by yourself or other people were involved in your learning them?

Young men are typically unconfused about the fact that they need to learn. We typically hang out with each other to exchange notes and with older men to make new notes. Those young men who are confused about that are because of the softening of masculinity that results from feminist ideologies that some mothers raise their sons with these days.

ihedinobi2:
That was non-negotiable.

I know about young women. I keep hearing young women say that we don't all think alike/we don't need to all think alike, or that all the arguing is senseless because nobody's view changes and people can't affect how others think. All this in the face of the fact that these young women's views change from time to time as they interact with people. Each time I hear it I wonder if young women ever actually listen to themselves.

That's what I'm talking about. Why do you believe that? Are all of your current ideas the same ones you had last year?

ruuudboy:
We have always heard about husband abusing their wives. How is it always like, the other way round? I have never laid my hand on any lady before not to talk of my wife and i don't think i can do such.

As a husband how do you handle it if your wife lay her hand on you either by slapping,punching,biting or rough handling? As a wife, how did your husband handle the situation?

I have been married to my wife going to 4yrs now and yesterday was the second time we had misunderstanding that led to serious confrontation.....Initially when it all started around 9pm, i kept quiet and didnt respond to her ranting. When she realized i wasn't responding, she moved close to me, started punching me, bit me and somehow slapped me in the process with serious ranting "you'll kill me today."

I tried as much as not to retaliate and removed myself from her, ran to the visitors room and locked myself in there....she continued talking and started hitting the door with a stick, after which i realized that with the way things are going, neighbours on the next flat might want to come and asked what was wrong, which i do much detest.

I started begging her from inside after which she calmed down and i opened the door.....we talked it through till late in d night and settled our differences which she later apologised for raising her hand on me and promised never to do that again no matter what happened.

The issue now is, i put myself in another man's shoe that how do people handle things like this in marriage as a husband?

As a wife, how did your husband handle issues of misunderstanding? The first thing that came to my mind yesterday when she hit me was the word of my boss who always say, AT THE HIGHEST POINT OF PROVOCATION, ALWAYS EXERCISE CAUTION.

Married peeps, how do u handle this?

ihedinobi2:
I am very curious why young women seem to think this. Do you really believe that you are a mental island totally unaffected by how other people think?

Perhaps I haven't o.

Eya. I hear that that's the life of adulthood.

zeb04:
Op don't listen to any of the advice here esp from the women.

Divorce/Seperation because the woman was banging on his door?
Didn't Op say he has settled with his wife and she promised not to repeat that again.
You all giving such advice are sick in the brain.

Since when did marriage become childplay.
Nansense.

okotv:
those guys who responded, are they educated

The problems of Africa are in numerous but the leading cause is poor and archaic mentality