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carefreewannabe:
LOL

I have been cooking and baking since Saturday and have been in the kitchen since the early hours.
Sweetheart will do some cooking after Christmas. By that time I will not go any close to the kitchen. I am getting fat.

Just want to start today

Company didnot close for Christmas and i am going to work tomorrow (though half day and it's so gonna be half work finished or not ) so gats to do shopping today and start something

Wanted to bake cake but it seems I will just have to repent from the thought and sin again during new year

Christmas.. Official season of getting fact

Thank God RCCG has a fasting program by Feb

carefreewannabe:
Maybe you are right.
We don't know the full dimension of the problem.

OP just dropped story and ran off

Thread is older than some people on NL anyways

I want to prepare banga soup from Christmas and I imagine cooking this for just one night even though hubby offered to wash/extract the juice from the palm kernel

margaree:
Thanks every one for your contributions whether it is to curse me or to offer helpful advice, I really appreciate.
..to answer some of the questions asked, I am doing exclusive breastfeeding and it was the milk that I was taking that he reacted to but I have stopped taking milk in all its different form. And about the use of natural products, I am now using a mixture of Shea butter, olive oil, Johnsons baby Vaseline, Aveeno baby lotion and sebamed baby cream on his skin.

Why don't you take his back to the Ped

Johnsons baby vaseline + Aveeno baby lotion + sebamed baby cream is too much for an adult talkless of a baby! Do you mix them all up or rotate their use or what?

Take him to the hospital

I hope you are not looking for magical results sha

mutter:
The woman is looking for trouble. The way to a man`s heart is still through his stomach.
When the man get´s tempted to eat outside she should not complain.
I cook fresh food almost every day for my husband even when I work full time. Sometimes I come home (very rare) and he has cooked . Sometimes he agrees to eat left overs from the day before, but I know he loves fresh food and when everything is already in the fridge it doesn`t take time at all.

Fresh food is different from fresh food

I can make Yam and eggs (it is fresh) and cook Ogbono soup for one day after work (it is still fresh) or heat up Okro from the fridge and make hot amala (All na fresh)

carefreewannabe:
I don't understand why she is complaining.

I wanted to go the route she agreed to be a housefrau and get on with it but she might have been forced/blackmailed to be an HW by hubby and now she is tired and bored. Truth is not all HW are happy about it.

It is an old thread and they definitely must have sorted out the issue or gone their seperate ways.

LOL! @ fresh soup daily!

Cook Ogbono for one meal, Okra for one meal, Stew for one night....

Phew!

I imagine hubby is on break and he wants rice, stew and dodo in the morning, eba and Okra in the afternoon, pounded yam and Egusi @ night!

Omo, na gobe

HOWEVER,

If she chose the life, she should stick with it

adebisicutie:
That's because her work dosent involve her dancing, can she even dance always ready to defend a porn star but very quick to bash others , focus on conducting your own self with dignity

Do you know what always mean?

If Tiwa is a role model to you, goodluck

Now go and play with Tiwa or do something else.

adebisicutie:
See her pushing baby pram half naked. Abeg Tiwa dresses bad sometimes but we have never seen her full naked unlike Kim (not even talking about the sex tape but the ones she released herself) so please don't try and paint Tiwa to even be any worse

Tiwa's advocate,

I am not painting tiwa to be anything.

I could also dig up pictures of tiwa crazily dressed.

At least, we have not seen Kim twerking for a guy in public since she got married.

They should both conduct themselves with dignity

adebisicutie:
Girl Abeg stop telling lies just paint Tiwa Savage bad

Tiwa is bad so what lies am I telling?

Kim's dress looks like a swimsuit, let's see Tiwa's version off it.

Very ugly dress though

bamidele029:
The same Kim that posted fully nude pics on the internet a month or so ago

Which crazy attitude has Tiwa exhibited off stage ?

She wore a net top with just a bra to someone's brthday party a while back. What about the net dress for one award party?

Kim posed nude true however she has no other outlet to display her madness. Tiwa has onstage & offstage to display hers

@OP:

The first step is to tell her parents everything if this is true. This is a much bigger problem than advices from the net.

What if she gets pregnant tomorrow and he does not want the baby? or another crazy thing?

Biko straight to her parents

kenex4ever:
he is jealous of his side chick having suitor and u r talking about his wife having bf, u will just hear news dat a man killed his wife and hanged himself.

Hahahaa

You are wick.ed#

I was innocently trying to find a lasting solution.

No man/woman who loves his wife/her husband will watch them go cra.zy

Tiwa is obviously a public nuisance and very classless

Granted she is naked because she is on stage (which is no excuse), must she extend her cray off stage? Even Kim K is starting to be sensible.

@OP:

Nice one

cococandy:
It is our anniversary. Hurray!

Congratulations!

Many many more years of love, joy and peace surrounded with beautiful children

KanwuliaJara:
Awwwwwwwwwwwwww. . . . how sweeeeeeet!


*he will still cuss you next week o!*

Lol

NL 's motto is to live for the moment.

Till he cusses.....

crackhaus:
You directed me to the first paragraph, not the rest of the post - though there are still no insults in my opinion.

But okay, apologies...

Can we go back to the discussion now?

Apologies accepted

Expecting your feedback to the other parts of that post

obongproff:
babe, d guy go try sha. I think we've finally settled for 200k. He's just one of dose rigid nerds dat prefer to focus on d marriage instead of d wedding. I no blame d guy sha. He is actually planning with his salary and doesnt want to borrow or get financial assistance from anyone. So he's strictly making do with wot he has.

That your friend strong o!

Wedding is once in a lifetime and should be beautiful within budget

Anither idea is to do engagement in the moring with family only. Do white same day and serve take away after the ceremony (No reception. This eliminates cost of Dj, Hall and deco etc.)

OR

Do bride price paying ceremony with only the family; na fit drink coke after then do white and traditional reception on a weekday

KanwuliaJara:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QRh_30C8l6Y


REAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAL FEMINIST!!!!

God bless her

crackhaus:
This is the first paragraph:


Wherein lies the insult?

Okay you're not over-sensitive, happy now?

Whatever

You did not see the rest of the post.

If I was sensitive not to talk of over, I would not have typed that epistle

crackhaus:
What insults again Bukatyne? Is it the short memory thing?

Na wah with these over-sensitive NL women o..

Reread your first paragraph in that post

Na real over-sensitive NL women

crackhaus:
So of all things to advocate rights for, marrying four husbands is what tops your list?
Can't you see the problem with modern feminism?

I already stated what I think about feminism, it has been bastardized and misused - now it's a mere shadow of a more driven and justified past.

There may still be true feminists among us, but the loonies, clowns, pseudos, and uncultured women spouting it these days overshadow them.

True

KanwuliaJara:
These ones will call themselves feminists?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nvYyGTmcP80

The woman looks sick...

No offence

I imagine this thread was opened by a female

@OP:

Get your wife a lover and your eyes will clear

lilmax:
or you don't want chauvinists to come and catch you shey.you be feminist

That is another one

I surely do not want to be kidnapped

lilmax:
why did you cover your face?

Because wire belongs to PHCN

KanwuliaJara:
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH!!!!
You just took the words right out of my fingers!
The reason I was wondering about the 'waves' angle.
THE SAME THING THE OLD FEMINISTS FOUGHT FOR. . . IS THE SAME THING THE NEW FEMINISTS ARE FIGHTING FOR O.
Old ones die. . . new ones are born! Old SEXISTS die off. . . NEW ONES ARE BORN. It becomes a genetic cycle!
Thanks to 'religion' and 'AFRICAN CULTURE'!
Simple!

Thank you very much!

I agree some so called 'feminists' are distracted. Free the tips is so cra.zy. Which responsible man do they see walking without top? Those people should be locked up

crackhaus:
Projecting!

I have made no comment on NL stating that feminism is evil - I know who did, and you should go argue that with him/them...don't type it to me to earn brownie points!

In case you have a short memory, I should probably remind you that I have dared some of you on this very same board to walk the talk.
I needn't mention monikers, but about two or three of them started listing the work they do regarding social work and motivational speaking...which is still not walking the feminism talk.

Most feminists of today are opportunists, simple.

What do you do as a feminist in the real world to support your cause?

Can't you leave insults out of it?

This is Christmas season biko

Some 'feminists' are opportunitsts, rude etc etc. Yes I agree.

I live my life according to my beliefs. I do not expect special treatment because I am a lady. That said, when the treatments come on their own e.g. telling me to be served first, I take them.

When I was younger, I tried to always say no and I was seen as rude/unappreciative. Besides, it left some of them embarrassed . Now I appreciate them and try to do same to them and others around me.

cococandy:
Men don't leave their families to join their wives families,change names and be expected to please every member of the wife's family.
Marriage especially in Africa is very different for women than it is for men.
The woman is expected to put up with attitude from in-laws and you find husband's brothers and sisters and mothers and fathers and aunts and uncles etc etc always on the look out for what the wife is doing wrong so that she can be labeled a bad wife.
The wife's family will hardly be holding their son in law to standards of their own making neither will you find the wife's siblings trying to bend the man to their will because he married their sister.

That's the reality of African marriage for most women. Except the ones who are lucky to get nice and not too culturally biased in laws

Correct

kaboninc:
If you had looked well, you'd have noticed that it has an 'A' after the 'K'.

Do I look like someone who starts insults?

Sweet dreams...

Heard you had your birthday yesterday...

Heard my birthday yesterday?

You must have gotten the wrong person.

kaboninc:
You should have held your hand when asking me to run along. Or you think everyone here is a kid? If I had told you to 'get lost' nicely will u take it lightly?

Feminism, your own definition is reflected in all you say. So this is not an exception.

Abeg don't quote me again. Not ready for any insult and unnecessary epistle.

Good night.

O Lord!

I must have been on a war against monikers beginning with K, picked you before telling you to run along.

If you are not ready for insults, don't start it

Sweet dreams

ihedinobi2:
If Buky wasn't married....

LOL!

You sure we go cope?

I yam a feminist o

KanwuliaJara:
Please ask am o!
Here I am SUFFERING to come up with original threads by promoting self-esteem in women and being accused of having an unspecified 'mentality'!
All most Nigerian men want is to see women divided, so they can be jumping from miserable poohsie to submissive poohsie!
I opened a thread to state that POWERFUL WOMEN ARE TRUE FEMINISTS against ALL ODDS. . . .

I don't understand some of these NL posters I swear!

LOL @ miserable to submissive

Some guys get high when women are down

kaboninc:
He'll punish you first for insulting me.

So now I insulted you first?

You should have ran when I nicely asked you to.

Suddenly scruffle between two men has something to do with feminism?

Goodnight.