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ihedinobi2:
What was the context in those places you mentioned, bukatyne?




I believe it was Priscilla and Aquilla. Both of them. Is it a far-fetched assumption that it was Aquilla's authority supported by his wife rather than an idea of the woman's exercise of authority parallel to her husband?

dicefrost:
Please please stop quoting the bible out of context! The marriage arrangement is carefully spelt out in the bible, the man is the head of the family. It is not a democracy. If you don't like it, then don't marry, or better still find a man who shares your 'belief'

coogar:
God's plan is irrelevant to this issue. eve fell since the first chapter of the bible & she was rightly punished for it. from then on, the place of a woman is below a man.

QED!!!

coogar:
stillfire has replied you for me....

Stillfire:
Are we to debate a secular view or a religious view? Which one?
Religion is indeed patriarchal and demeaning to women. That was not God's original plan though.

damiso:
Stillfire this my Male boss employed even worse than passive aggressive techniques.Everyone knew he had an lssue with me because he was always picking on me.

The man did not even approve my annual leave and I went to work the day before my traditional engagement.and me I can be an efiko so when people kept on asking me 'what are you going here are you not meant to be getting married in less than 24 hrs '. I made sure I rubbed it in that he intentionally did not approve my annual leave and I was not going to take unauthorised leave.I was going to go in on my engagement day as well but another unit head I worked with said it was ok not to come in.My dad sef was so pissed off.

Very horrible man .He Transfered me to Alaba intl market branch one time just to stress me it took someone in HR to plead on my behalf esp when the Person he wanted to swap me with lived in Festac.His excuse was he wanted to reshuffle and inject new faces into new areas yeah right.i almost fainted when I heard Alaba.

Very childish and immature behaviour you know like when pre pubescent boys pull the hair of girls that they fancy I knew he fancied me but I frustrated his life by being over the top formal and professional with him.He said call me my name I insisted on adding mr in front of it.

ednut1:
how are u sure she has changed. U dey live wit am ni. Or because of her showoff which may be fake anyway

tintingz:
[size=15]You are On Your Own(OYO)[/size]

rattlesnake:
Self deception

ednut1:
Brokeass husband

Stillfire:
They know they can't flirt with a female boss or use 'bottom power' to get their way. I don't take them seriously at all.

coogar:
you are the only person i know that loves to preach feminism in christianity. we can as well disregard the other teachings in the bible just because you cannot accept your inferior position. a woman will always be under her man - that's what the scripture preaches.

if you were a scientologist or an atheist like many of the feminazis here then i won't even bother cos they are not bible-believing. however, to keep telling us men & women are weighted equally in the bible is the highest level of hypocrisy. feminism & the bible are polar opposites.

coogar:
the same bible says....

12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet. 13 For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve." (1 Tim. 2:12-13).

there's hierarchy or seniority in God's kingdom!

Timbuktou:
Nice try. However, the factors that make for good fatherhood and husband-hood do not necessarily apply to motherhood and wife-hood.

dre11:
So I ask if you think that good manners does make a relationship between a man and his wife works and better



Or it's just one of those things that is hyped about good manner making a relationship work.
And do you guys believe that a good manners is not an ingredient to make a relationship better

veave:

This thread made me recall an event that happened in my childhood.
So we had this neighbor with a leaking mouth, she practically had no secret.
After a while, her husband was laid off were he worked and paid off too. You can imagine the worth of 350thousand naira in the early 90s.
Darling husband brought the money home because it was friday and banks had closed, when oga took a stroll, madam as usual brought her friends and showed them the money. Guess what? That night, thieves came, beat them up and made away with the money and every valuable thing they had. Afterwards, things got so bad they had to relocate to the village.

sukkot:
bukatyneeeeeeeeeee waz gud wiff uuuuuuu

Timbuktou:
What makes a man with a love child and/or mistress a bad husband or father?

Huffington:
I never said men and women were not equals, what i'm implying is that we are different and so have different roles to play in all aspects of life including marriage.

chaircover:
Thank you for saying all the things I was too lazy to write
Coogar hope you dey hear
Obviously he doesnt eat in the office canteen
The things I have heard men say

Agrika:
I bet you your previous boss may have done the same thing but because he is a man you failed to notice those "flaws"....why because it has been "something-cally" programmed into your head to only respect and "submit" to a man...thats why a lady will deliberate make snide remarks on another lady why is that so, because she is jealous or even insecure, Wetin come bring the jealousy or insecurity na because by virtue of the fine dress wey the other one wear or maybe the fine car wey she dey ride or her "enviable" position in the company, she has somehow consciously or unconsciously managed to look "superior" to her, which she can't tolerate because a fellow woman is not suppose to look or even be superior to her only a man is allowed such "benefits"...so Mr. O.p, you wanna know why women despise themselves so much, it boils down to these three letter words; MEN!

Frankenstein:
A woman just wrote a lengthy half-assed article about her exclusive personal experience to castigate her gender, and generalized everything without conducting a proper research.

Yes, women are their worst enemies.

SAMBARRY:
Gbam

sukkot:

mutter:
Invite her home and introduce her to your wife. BEfore you do that make sure you tell your wife and plead with her to be accomodating.

pickabeau1:
ok..

babeline:
Stop watching stupid Africa magic movies with stupid storylines!

Misogynist2014:
You are right, the slave mentality has really eaten deep into their cerebellum, you hear some saying 'WE fought for our right to vote', when none of their ancestors ever stepped on foreign soil, neither were their mothers ever denied from voting. Some are really obsessed with feminism e.g VickyyB and the only way to put them at bay is to give them a touch of Dick Masterson, a bit of raw misogyny, that's what they need. Arguing with a woman can darken the precious white matter in your brain. I'm not a misogynist, I'm only critical about women and their behavior, seeking answers to where even zeus has no explanation. I don't hate them, God forbid! But anything women don't understand is tagged hateful, hence, my moniker.
I still meet sensible women on Nl, who known what their duties are as a woman, who knows life is too short to compete with or defraud their partner, the Pslams 31 vs 10-31 women, all hope is not lost. Sighs!

SirShymex:
Your handle always crack me up. But I understand, bruv. A lot of black women are the biggest problem facing black men today, due to their confused state of mind, loutishness, the pseudo-white women wannabe rhetoric. And they need to be judged lol.

Keep judging them!

pickabeau1:
ok...i get

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so is this advice only for married women

single women dont need to watch or men for that matter

moscobabs:
ok....ur opinion ?

moscobabs:
alrite ....

pickabeau1:
so wats your premise