Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,039,120 members, 7,455,512 topics. Date: Thursday, 08 June 2023 at 12:57 PM
Nairaland Forum / Busygirl's Profile / Busygirl's Posts
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (of 55 pages)
|Romance / Re: Your Dating Mistakes That You Have Learnt From by busygirl(f): 11:03pm On Apr 14, 2012|
Interesting topic. Mine was being too emotional, a bit too clingy, and lacked a bit of confidence. I fell too quickly and was totally predictable. I have realised that in relationships, a woman cannot afford to make it too easy for the guy. He needs to work to get you, that attract many guys. They love the chase. In-confidence and low self esteem is also a huge turn off. I'm working on me.
|Romance / Re: Ever Had A Crush On Someone In Your Workplace? by busygirl(f): 12:38am On Oct 31, 2011|
I have a crush on this blonde guy at work. I don't know if the feeling is mutual though. We stare a lot at each other and he tries to flirt with me. He pokes me randomly on my hand. I really really like this guy, but I don't think we can work
|Music/Radio / Re: Naija Music Request Thread Part 3 by busygirl(f): 11:11pm On Oct 04, 2011|
I need a kind person to help me with so beautiful by timi dakolo, thanks a lot.
|Romance / Re: Opinion About High Maintenance Ladies by busygirl(f): 9:52pm On Oct 04, 2011|
Owu gal:@Owu gal, you went innnnnn! I like your comment. I have read some interesting replies on here. Thanks guys.
The only reason I decided to write this is because of blank stares I get at uni when I dress up. I don't know how to go out without dressing up (I have my limits tho). Unfortunately, most people tend to judge one from the outside thinking you are vain or plastic before getting to know who you truly are .
|Romance / Re: Opinion About High Maintenance Ladies by busygirl(f): 9:47am On Oct 04, 2011|
iice:innit dear! I don't like my natural hair because it's thin even though its long. So, I'm kind of addicted to weave, especially the long ones. The longer it is, the better it is . All these things costs money
|Romance / Re: Opinion About High Maintenance Ladies by busygirl(f): 3:11am On Oct 04, 2011|
@Mrbrownjay I like your response. I don't necessarily buy designer stuff all the time, I go to bargain shops too but, I like quality stuff and I know it when I see it. I actually believe I have so much to offer character wise and all, but I wasn't sure if guys place some sort of stereotype on ladies with long weaves and their dress sense.Thanks for the responses.
|Romance / Opinion About High Maintenance Ladies by busygirl(f): 2:21am On Oct 04, 2011|
Hi people, this post is just to have an idea of what men think about high maintenance girls. First of all, do you judge women by how expensive they look? I happen to fall into the category of ladies that like designer bags, brazillian weave etc and I spend quite a lot fixing myself. I pay for my own stuff and I am not a gold-digger. So to the guys here, would you still go after a woman knowing clearly she is high maintenance, or would you rather not consider a high maintenance chic at all.
PS; I know a few nairaland members to be quite insultive. Pls no insults. Thanks!
|Romance / Re: Females Handle Breakups Better Than Males by busygirl(f): 11:53pm On Sep 22, 2011|
I must agree with 2buff. Whoever does the breaking up is less affected by it. This is very true. Someone also mentioned that the party that invests more,suffers more. This is very correct. As we all know that no break-up is ever amicable, someone WILL definately HURT. As for the theory about women, it is not exactly what it seems on the surface. I haven't quite recovered from my last relationship which ended close to 6-7 months ago. I try to be a very strong person on the outside but inside me is not the case. I cry myself to sleep occasionally, but in the morning I will have the biggest smile and act like everything is o.k. I cry not because I want him back, it is just the rejection that hurts. I am not in a hurry to move on, and I somehow enjoy crying because I feel better afterwards. Most women are strong enough to pretend, that doesn't mean we don't hurt. Just like I said earlier, the way the trauma will be handled is totally dependant on who left who.
|Romance / Re: Can You Attend Your Ex's Wedding? by busygirl(f): 3:40am On Aug 02, 2011|
|Romance / Re: Can Heartbreak Kill? by busygirl(f): 3:14am On Aug 02, 2011|
It doesn't kill but you have to be strong to keep going. I have tried being strong, but the heartbreak plus some external factors has had me showing symptoms of depression. So now, I'm looking up and down for a therapist.
|Romance / Re: Your Achievement In Last Relationship by busygirl(f): 1:42am On Jul 27, 2011|
I have become stronger. No one can hurt me now because I have developed a thick skin. I spent a lot of time in pain that right now, trusting anyone is far from my mind. I can only trust me.
|Romance / Re: Have You Ever Realise That You're The Problem? by busygirl(f): 3:31pm On Jul 06, 2011|
applelady:applelady link=topic=705806.msg8655752#msg8655752 date=1309881366:
Aww, I guess it is a normal thing for everything sensible female because we possess that motherly instinct. Had a similar problem too. I think balance is the keyword here. It is good to call but don't overdo things. Make him miss you. That I have learnt.
|Romance / Re: Let's Discuss Why Relationships Break Up. . . by busygirl(f): 2:48pm On Jul 06, 2011|
[/quote][quote author=Flaix link=topic=707501.msg8662532#msg8662532 date=1309959550]very well said! Almost 7 out of 10 relationships die as a result of boredom.
|Romance / Re: Dating A Religious Zealot Can Be A Challenge by busygirl(f): 3:12am On Jul 06, 2011|
There's no need for all these noise, abeg! Anyone who is truly born again knows that once you do, Jesus becomes your life. Everything you do revolves around him. You have to respect people for what they believe in. If you can't stand the heat, then leave the kitchen!My advice is simple, find those you share the same mindset with to date.
|Romance / Re: What Do You Like About Being A Woman? by busygirl(f): 2:14am On Jun 29, 2011|
davidylan:that's not true
|Romance / Re: The First Relationship Will Never Work! Is This True? by busygirl(f): 2:11am On Jun 29, 2011|
Like someone said relationships have no guarantee. All you need to do is enjoy the moment and just let things flow naturally. You can never be too sure about any guy unless he has placed a ring on your finger, so don't get too attached.
|Romance / Re: What Do You Like About Being A Woman? by busygirl(f): 1:57am On Jun 29, 2011|
How can I forget how grateful I am to God for not having that thing between a man's legs #Nooffence. I really appreciate what he gave to me!
|Romance / Re: What Do You Like About Being A Woman? by busygirl(f): 1:54am On Jun 29, 2011|
I love the attention. I actually enjoy it when a cute guy is trying to woo me . I love shoes, bags, clothes, and make-up. I love the fact that I can pull off various looks with my outfits and people would still comment. I like the feeling I get when I cook and clean. I look forward to being there for that special person with my love and care in the sound of my voice.
|Romance / Re: What Use Is It Being Attractive: by busygirl(f): 12:37am On Jun 25, 2011|
awwww I can relate. But, like someone said, life goes on. Being attractive is like beauty, very subjective. The good news is that irrespective, there is MORE than one person for everyone.
|Romance / Re: What Have You Done To Hurt Your Ex? by busygirl(f): 12:14am On Jun 25, 2011|
Nah, life is too short to be wasting precious time on people that don't want you. Once a relationship is over, pick up the pieces of your life and move on. Revenge is not worth it. You don't even need to do anything before they realise their short sightedness and loss. Time does that .
|Romance / Re: I'm Scared I Wont Find A Wife If I Dont Compromise by busygirl(f): 11:20pm On Jun 22, 2011|
Since when does appearance have anything to do with personality?? Please do your research well. @OP, You need to go back and speak to God concerning this, Nairaland cannot help you.
|Romance / Re: Mystery: Great Men Fall-Outs. Is It So Hard To Run? by busygirl(f): 10:50pm On Jun 22, 2011|
Well said twinnie. The men of today need Jesus! Odikwa very serious for the situation as the things in between their legs never rests
claremont:Cuddlemii link=topic=696847.msg8571386#msg8571386 date=1308774834:If only the devil didn't use women to tempt these men, they would still be enjoying their careers. Is it so hard for a lady to dress decently so men don't need to fall into temptation
I hate it when people decide to put the blame on a lady's outfit. Even though some people dress very extreme, but hey! we all have choices. A man chooses to sleep with a woman, he is not forced. One thing with men is that even if you are wearing a flowing gown once they like you, most of them will still want to sleep with you.
|Romance / Re: if u are beautiful, r u likely to be a sad person?/ by busygirl(f): 9:30pm On Jun 21, 2011|
Thanks for your advice. It's duly noted
|Fashion / Any One Tried Clinique Products? Please Share Your Experiences by busygirl(f): 7:25pm On Jun 21, 2011|
First of all, I used to be a good fan of MAC. Later, I lost interest as I got very unimpressive results with the studio fix powder. Someone tried CLINIQUE SUPERBALANCED MINERAL POWDER on me and I feel it is a very good product. It is not as heavy as mac, lasts longer and doesn't get sticky. Anyone who has tried this particular powder or any other foundations/powder by clinique, please share your experiences and reviews about the product.
|Romance / Re: if u are beautiful, r u likely to be a sad person?/ by busygirl(f): 10:20am On Jun 21, 2011|
I think the poster has a point somewhere. I will not speak for everyone, but I will speak for myself. A lot of people do say I am pretty and often get surprised when I say I have been single for ages. In fact my relationship life is really sad, and I'm so far from being happy. One of my fears is that even with all this beauty, I may end up being alone for a long time because I see people who are no so pretty getting good guys. So right now, instead of paying attention and conscious effort to the physical, I'm trying to get to know and build the woman within. That's because beauty radiates from the inside.
|Romance / Re: No Matter How You Swear To Love Anyone, Do Not Trust The Person by busygirl(f): 9:57am On Jun 21, 2011|
|Romance / Re: If You Were In My Place, What Would You Do? by busygirl(f): 1:49am On Jun 21, 2011|
As they say sha, 'Agoro is a bastard'. smh at you. You have to move on regardless, so please do apologise to her. Make sure you mean every single thing you say.
|Romance / Re: Broke Up With Boyfriend Want Him Back -help by busygirl(f): 1:29am On Jun 21, 2011|
The highlighed part makes me . I'm sorry to sound negative, but these days you can never be too sure. With all you claimed he did to you, that is quite far from being caring my love.
|Romance / Re: Broke Up With Boyfriend Want Him Back -help by busygirl(f): 1:20am On Jun 21, 2011|
@OP If you continue like this, many guys will take advantage of you. I am not going to tell you off coz I know how it feels. But for the sake of self respect, the only people you need in your life are those that need you in theirs. I have come to realise that if a guy really wants you, he will fight to keep you regardless. You have got you and that's all you should be proud of, never make anyone feel like your life ends when they leave.
In this world, not everyone needs to like you and they don't have to like you. We all have choices, he made his so MOVE ON!
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (of 55 pages)
|Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health |
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket
Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)
Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2023 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 133