Romance › Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by CalmElder(m): 10:41pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
carl90: When I am settled financially and see the love of my life,na marriage na next. I wouldn't raise a family that I can't take care of their needs and wants. However,what I don't subscribe is being in an unhappy marriage. If it's not working,na japa o. I am optimistic sha  If I will eventually marry and I'm not happy. Na divorce str8...no time. |
Romance › Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by CalmElder(m): 10:30pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Yamiriflathead: Please fvck the hoes good and have some children now. If you must marry, do that in your 60s to a virgin like Regina something with tight kpekus in her early 20s and with fresh blood Women want resources and we mustn't give it to them freely.  Bad son of a good father. |
Romance › Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by CalmElder(m): 10:29pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Gamesmart: Exactly!
While your "responsible" mates are divorcing or divorced despite all their "wisdom" and "achievements".  |
Romance › Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by CalmElder(m): 11:24am On Mar 26, 2022 |
I'm 43 and single. I will marry when I'm READY. |
Family › Re: My 17 Yr Old Sister Is Pregnant... by CalmElder(m): 8:49pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
OP don't abandon your sister. Don't pressure her to marry unless if she insists. You can express anger and still be supportive. She's carrying your nephew or niece. Encourage her to go back to school after birthing the child.
I understand that it's embarrassing, but na beg me I dey beg u. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by CalmElder(m): 6:20pm On Feb 16, 2022 |
Mercychen: Who told you that? Abi na them craze pass for sex.
Get your facts right abeg. Men tend to enjoy sex more as they age, but the number of women available for the age range that OP mentioned is so insane, one has to advise himself that there is more to life than sex. |
Family › Re: Adam Was Too Simple! by CalmElder(op): 6:31pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
Kobojunkiee: Resist the urge to create a thread for every vomit that oozes from your mind the rest of this year abeg!  How is it vomit? |
Family › Adam Was Too Simple! by CalmElder(op): 3:12pm On Feb 14, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Campos Ogundare Accused Of Using Thugs To Disrupt Voter Education Exercise by CalmElder(m): 10:16am On Feb 11, 2022 |
NOC1: You can’t just come in a place and start performing, you must get permission.
If there is break down of law and order, you will still blame the political leaders of that place.
Do the right thing and stop whooping unnecessary sentiments ... and the chairman did the right thing? Unnecessary sentiments? Shame dey catch me for you. Walahi. |
Education › Re: Oromoni: Black Substance Found In Victim’s Intestine - Pathologist Sunday Soyemi by CalmElder(m): 10:21pm On Feb 09, 2022 |
endy69: When the rich and powerful commit crime in Nigeria there would always be an excuse for them to invade justice. I was thinking that this case would be difference but no I was wrong. Nigeria my motherland when will you know the true meaning of justice? When will the powerful and mighty pay for the crime they commit? I also thought that Lagos State Governor was better and won't bow for pressure but that wasn't the case. All they want to do is for the public eyes to get off this case so they handle it their way. Professionals forget ethics of their profession and lie when they see money I'm not taking sides, but why do Nigerians hate rich people so much? |
Celebrities › Re: Kanayo O. Kanayo Advises Parents As He Pays Son Surprise Visit In School (Video) by CalmElder(m): 10:36am On Feb 09, 2022 |
Those of you bashing Nwamaikpe must be new to nairaland. |
Sports › Re: Senegal Vs Egypt In Pictures : AFCON 2021 Final by CalmElder(m): 8:57am On Feb 07, 2022 |
paulolee: congrats Senegal for your win.. its nice seeimg fifa president and all other representituves matching with AFCON cup to gv cameroon president paul biya sitting upstairs for him to present to the winner..... thats a huge sign of respect coming from them....it seems.African leaders are now commanding alot of respect.. It was unnecessary in my opinion. Let African leaders earn respect if they want it. Some African have the respect of the international community, some non African leaders don't have. Na by performance. |
Family › Re: Things Disappear In My House All The Time. by CalmElder(m): 4:53pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Blackdisciple: Hmmm, na me dey do myself Sha...
I don't learn from previous issues sha Na like so me self be. Dat one no mean say I no go help my paddies dem again. I just no go too tolerate rubbish again. |
Family › Re: Things Disappear In My House All The Time. by CalmElder(m): 2:19pm On Feb 02, 2022 |
Blackdisciple: Honestly ooo.
Na fridge matter oo... According to him after I reach house from work one Friday last month because I don't usually go home everyday, the neighbor's wife came saying their fridge is kinda faulty pls he should help her put some things she cook in the freezer and he accepted without notifying me first if it will inconvenience me or not.
I came back that faithful Friday evening. I open fridge to get chill water oo, na so I carry see plenty bowel of cooked food and so on, at first I thought my guy done cook food ooo but thank God I didn't touch any , only took water and action bitter and I left for sitting room.
Through out that weekend I didn't have peace within every few minutes someone will be knocking at the door wanna pick up stuff from my fridge, this my guy just came in to stay with me for a little time not up to a year , I had to confront him what's all those in the freezer before he decided to tell me who has those things saying he forgot.
This have been going on since January till date, I do go with my own key and now because he sometimes goes out for work he do leave my house key ( spare ) with her Incase she wanna pick up her stuff from the fridge.
Recently she took one of my plates to her house without notification it was when my babe came and noticed a plate is missing because she actually bought those plates so she knew all of them and how they are.
And my guy thought because we and her husband sometimes seat to talk and get some drinks he thought I do all these neighbor things of which I don't and he freed her to use the freezer , later my babe went to her house and collect the plate oo not that she returned it, last weekend that's how this woman came and took a cap that belongs to my girl meaning if no one is around and she comes in to pick her stuff she don't go to fridge alone she do walk and search my place, you see how some humans are, when u give them an inch they will want to take 2 to 3 inches, am not happy with my guy atol because I don't have a business with her.... Pele o..... Lagos people generally allow themselves too much freedom when squatting. It ends in enmity at the end. |
Family › Re: Things Disappear In My House All The Time. by CalmElder(m): 10:01pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
iamL: Some people are just naturally useless.  |
Family › Re: Things Disappear In My House All The Time. by CalmElder(m): 10:00pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
sisisioge: Wow....so sad. Look at how he allowed himself to be mislead. My own neighbour's ward wasnt hungry. She was just a mischievous girl who loved trouble like air. She was daring and fearless....didnt even confront her till she left here....the note sufficed. In all, the violation of my privacy and outright disrespect were not major issue. It is jare. I know of one when I was a child. This lady had a key to almost every neighbor's kitchen. The mom got fed up and brought out the keys, called everyone to come identify and pick their keys. That's when we all saw the spirit that has been stealing nothing apart from food from neighbor's kitchens. It is well. |
Family › Re: Things Disappear In My House All The Time. by CalmElder(m): 7:22pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
Blackdisciple: Hope a crazy neighbor has no access to your house sha. Because mine just started recently oo just because my friend gave access of my room to a neighbor's wife, the other day was it was a plate it was my babe who discovered it me sef never know say plate is missing. This time around na my babe winter cap babe still went and retrieve it too and my babe is kinda angry with me now. Your friend gave access to a neighbor's wife? Elaborate please. |
Family › Re: Things Disappear In My House All The Time. by CalmElder(m): 7:02pm On Feb 01, 2022 |
sisisioge: And check that an unauthorized person doesnt have your keys. It has happened to me before.
Modified: For those asking for the gist.
So what happened to me was that my landlord's foster daughter took my extra key from their custody and would let herself into the house after I leave for work. She would eat from my fridge, use my perfume and help herself to some cash. I didn't notice until she started locking the fridge after herself, something I never did! What I did was to simply leave her a warning note to stop entering my apartment and put an extra lock on the door. Issue resolved.
Moral of the story, dont overstress when you perceive leakages, simply find the leaks and block them. Issue resolved. My next door neighbor noticed where I hid my key. I just opened a bakery, and I could be away for weeks, to build the business and he was out of work. I noticed that he will let himself in, take foodstuffs. Another neighbor also saw him and told me. I kept mute, but stopped keeping money at home, but continued stocking up food. I even use to give him cash atimes. Prior to this, he was with a lady that had a baby for him and had to go stay with her parents because of hardship. My neighbor soon got money, because he had experience working as a laundry man in a hotel, I encouraged to setup a dry cleaning and second hand clothing business, bring back the girl and open an open air restaurant by the side of his shop for her. He, instead brought another girl home, who advised him to stop work because 'he is a big boy now', squandered almost a million naira on her and her friend, he became broke, even worse than before. The lady left. I stopped keeping my keys, after hunger reset his brain, he did the same thing he had been doing to me to another neighbor, that one confronted him sharpaly. After being unable to pay house rent for 3 years, he was advised to packed out, after selling all his electronics and furnitures. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Philippines Sing In Igbo At The Lord's Chosen Church (Video) by CalmElder(m): 11:31pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: If only they could get back to their Senses. Religion is a disaster..pls stop singing to an imaginary creature.. The fear of that 'imaginary creature' is the reason why many of us are not into crime. If not for the 'imaginary creature', my conscience, plus other people's will be dead, imagine how society will be. You won't be happy that there are God fearing people in Nigeria, until e red. |
Family › Re: I Have Depression And I Want To Vent My Feelings . by CalmElder(m): 7:15pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
Arsenate: And if the marriage collapses, the girl will be scapegoated by that woman. Such a terrible situation for anyone let alone a teenage girl to find herself in; abused by a family member and being made to believe you are at fault for a failed marriage. It could severely damage her self esteem. Awful avoidable situation. I just dey pity d gal. Chai! |
Family › Re: I Have Depression And I Want To Vent My Feelings . by CalmElder(m): 5:32pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
That girl is in hot Okra soup, because presently, without doubt, your wife is accusing her of causing friction in her home. That unforgiving trait runs in their blood. |
Career › Re: Help!! My New Job Is At Risk by CalmElder(m): 5:00pm On Jan 29, 2022 |
1st, it's your job, not your passion. That's why your creativity is not flowing naturally along that line. Girls will bring customers, think of a way to make them (girls) come. Get young people, aspiring MCs, and musicians to be using the place at a discount. There are some areas where customers prefer to sit and share private moments, create the space for it. Barbecues, sharwama spots, suya spots, nkwobi, isi ewu, catfish pepper soup, grilled fish/chicken, should be some of the attractions. How do you pay your customers for loyalty? I suggest that you celebrate their birthdays and get them to invite friends and relatives. |
Family › Re: The Will That Calmed My Friend by CalmElder(m): 3:48pm On Jan 29, 2022 |
My dad would have done worse. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Checkout The Drip On These Malian War Fighters That Got People Talking (Photos) by CalmElder(m): 5:01pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
BuyAndSellStuff: Russian AK-47s all through. The go-to assault rifle everywhere in the world, yet US media wants us to believe that their own weapons that nobody else is using are the best.
Lol This is beyond what you are seeing. The coup in Mali, Guinea and Burkina Faso happened shortly after a certain Russian security outfit we're invited to assist in fighting jihadists. All three coup plotters fought together along with the Russian forces, in Burkina Faso, I think, against ISWAP, and became friends. The Malian and Guinean coup plotters, left for their respective countries, were appointed as heads of units in charge of security, only for them to topple the sitting government. The president of Burkina Faso was advised against appointing the present guy as security head. They pointed out that his friends are in power, which will be a temptation to him, Mr President didn't heed. With his appointment, he pressured the president into inviting the Russians. Well... what they feared that he will do, he did. There is more to the story behind the Russian AKs you are seeing in the pics. |
Romance › Re: Help! How Do I Tell A Senior Colleague I Am In Love With Her by CalmElder(m): 12:44pm On Jan 27, 2022 |
Marry her joor. Science has advanced to the point where ladies can get pregnant at any age, if na dat one u dey fear. |
Romance › Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Bride Price Was Paid, Says Her Husband Is A Scam by CalmElder(m): 7:20pm On Jan 26, 2022 |
This new generation of weakling take pride in 'na d gal dey spend for me'. A man should be proud to be the provider. It's okay if she is supportive though, but it shouldn't become a habit by allowing her to carry your burden. That's selling of birthright (leadership). |
Celebrities › Re: Sammie Okposo Apologises For Fling With American Lady, Seeks Forgiveness by CalmElder(m): 11:20am On Jan 25, 2022 |
ednut1: When ladies say i want a God fearing man I usually laugh lol. He lash house of the rock choir babes too that year before they ex communicated him. Pastors and gospel musicians to me are just con men and hustlers. What's the solution? To stop having pastors and gospel musicians, or not attend church again? |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe And Funsho Adeoti Dancing On Their Wedding Day by CalmElder(m): 10:32pm On Jan 24, 2022 |
sureteeboy: Yea. They wrote hits like "From This Moment On", "You're still the one" and lots more together Confam! |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe And Funsho Adeoti Dancing On Their Wedding Day by CalmElder(m): 8:41pm On Jan 24, 2022 |
sureteeboy: Not as legendary as this one here.  True, they got back at their exes, but Twain's career went downhill, the man also. He used to be her manager and song writer and was excellent in both roles. The songs he wrote for her were hits. The divorce affected their careers. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Training! Training!! Training!!! by CalmElder(op): 12:52am On Jan 23, 2022*. Modified: 10:42pm On Sep 27, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: Meat Loaf Dies At Age 74 by CalmElder(m): 4:52pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
It's all coming back to me now... |