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frosbel: Just to weigh in here for hopefully the last time, and I mean hopefullyi fully concur with this |
All Christians are actually SAVED by Grace |
Ihedinobi: Have read it. I'm not sure what you want me to say.Could the bolded be what is meant by this verse Eph 1:13 ''In whom ye also trusted,after that ye heard the word of truth,the gospel of your salvation:in whom also after that ye believed,ye were SEALED with that Holy Spirit of promise'' Are we then sealed just as Noah and his family were sealed in the ark by God until He deemed it necessary to open the ark after the flood? Mark that we still go back to Romans 6:1-2 ''What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin,that grace may abound? God forbid........'' I feel this idea might give license to some to engage in ungodly behavior but i have to remind myself it's not about my feelings but it's all about what God is saying through the scriptures. i've learnt plenty from the write up already anyway.God bless |
JeSoul: ... people have served God without the aid of 'scriptures' and were declared justified in God's sight. We today just like complicating things...... What is the thread title again? Modesty! in everything! amenIf only we Christians will take hold of the substance and leave the celebration of the shadows.more power and grace to you sister Jesoul in Jesus name @Alwaystrue.prayers no dey too much jare my sister.God bless you again |
wow!! that was so uplifting and edifying your write ups above are wonderful brother.May God almighty bless you richly and increase you in the knowledge of him. It's all about Christ really...nothing about religion |
It's always a thing of joy when i see Christians questioning traditions we were born into and accept as part of doctrine when it's in reality not.As someone earlier pointed out,Jesus was a guest at the wedding in cana not an officiating priest or pastor. Christianity doesn't change the colour of our skins and surely our culture still makes us africans so traditional marriage remains the important thing.Church wedding/reception is mere declaration of surplus money and to show class and gain bragging rights. Some believe anyway that they need to do church wedding to ward off evil machinations.I guess you cant deny they have the right to but it's not a Christian requirement. In my own case,i had already convinced my wife and mum in law to skip church wedding based on my dad in law's recommendations only for my own mum to throw spanner in the works insisting that she had to have a big celebration.That is when i knew my sweet wife just 'agreed' to my plans for peace sake.see how overjoyed she was at the church wedding and reception If you have plenty to spend,do it but IT IS NOT BINDING ON A CHRISTIAN.Registry is more important as a law abiding citizen. @ayemko,sorry about whatever bad experience you had bro.it's well |
[quote author=Bo-large]CANDOUR, IN YOUR CHURCH THAT YOU ARE ATTENDING, HOW MANY ARE REALY SERVING GOD IN FAITH AND IN TRUTH, CAN YOU BEAT YOUR CHEST THAT ALL MEMBERS OF YOUR CHURCH ARE BORN AGAIN CHRISTIANS? IT IS YOUR OWN MIND THAT YOU KNOW, YOU DONT KNOW OF OTHERS. DO YOU KNOW HOW DEEP THE MAN'S STORY YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT HAS GONE IN THE SPIRITUAL THINGS THAT GOT HIM BLINDED? DO YOU KNOW IF THE MAN AS REFUSED TO CONFESS THE DEEP SECREAT EVIL THINGS IN HAS COMMITTED ALONG TIME AGO THAT MADE IT'S CASE WORSEN? THE ONLY THING YOU KNOW IS THAT HE WENT BLIND AND BACK BACK BLINDED. WHY NOT GEORGE YOUR CASE BASED ON THE SUCCESSFUL ONES THAT WENT DELIVERED AND ARE HAPPY WITH LIFE TODAY. AS FOR ME O, MY LIFE HAS CHANGE FOR BETTER AND 5 OF MY FRIENDS ALSO OBEYED MY ADVISED THEY HAVE GONE AND CAME BACK WITH GOOD NEWS. WE ARE RICH OIL BUSINESS MEN IN WARRI TODAY AND OUR ANOINTING STICKERS ARE PASTED AT THE BACK OF OUR JEEP. "MY FRIEND JOIN THE VICTORIOUS ONES AND DONT LIVE BY THE FAILURES" EMMANUEL![/quote]i wish you well with your prophet since he holds the key to you and your friends wellbeing in life. Dont worry about me friend,i'm already victorious in life through Christ |
Alwaystrue: Haba @Candour I don apologise na. Oya sorry no vex o.don't mind me jare.i'm guilty of hasty conclusions.I didn't see your quote @ the end of your post until after i clicked submit. God will surely answer your innermost prayers and desires in Jesus name.Amen |
Ihedinobi: STUFF AND NONSENSE! In other words, you need to define terms and clarify meanings lost over the centuries for the Scriptures to say that sexx is ok for the unmarried.@the bolded is the reason i decided to contribute.I too had decided after the last thread where we trashed this that i wasn't going to give his ideas my time.The guy is an advocate of sexual lawlessness of the most profane kind.I cannot in all honesty call him my christian brother |
@Alwaystrue my sister is derailing the thread o |
Ihedinobi: @AlwaystrueI love this piece my brother.may God increase your wisdom.you're not derailing the thread at all |
Image123: I need STRONGS please, let's put that word in its context.@Image123 I'm not really a fan of STRONG's.you and i have had discussions in time past:go through them again,i never reference STRONG.Not because i hate it or believe it's unhelpful but any good bible translation will not take away from the universal truth of the bible if only we stop cherry picking verses. I like the idea of the simplicity of the early Christians.they didn't need all the fanciful equipments,speech or extravagant attitude we display today in the name of worshiping God.They worshiped him in spirit and in truth.we need to go back to the cradle if we want to have the profound effect they did. I believe you were only trying to poke fun @ me.For you to know i'm not pissed,i'll laugh @ it ![]() Also i'm not a partisan person at least not on this forum.I only found brethren with whom i share plenty similar ideas about the bible and have even had to disagree with on some issues. I always say we can disagree without being disagreeable.I'm sure if Christ or Paul were here,they would advice the same. @Jesoul, No problem my sister.we have to disinfect this site of hate,abuse and acrimony among believers.i'll continue as u requested.God bless you @Frosbel,my brother,don't worry.i believe Image123 was trying to catch fun.i wont begrudge him the right.God bless you @Ihedinobi, you're welcome bro.God bless you @Alwaystrue,you're a wonderful sister.God bless you @image123, oya contribute to the topic |
[quote author=Bo-large]HAVE YOU NOT BEEN WATCHING EMMANUEL TV? START MAKING PREPARATIONS NOW TO GO TO SCOAN FOR DELIVERANCE AND ALL WILL BE WELL WITH U AND FAMILY. PROPHET T.B JOSHUA WITH HIS 5 WISE MEN ARE ANOINTED FOR THIS PURPOSE AND SO MANY LIVES HAD BEEN SAVED. GO TO: WWW.EMMANUEL.TV FOR MORE DETAILS. PROPHET T.B JOSHUA IS WAITING FOR YOU AND MADAM.[/quote]my elderly colleague went half blind to SCOAN,he came back fully blind.He was eventually retired by the company late last year because of this condition.i was assigned to take over his space and i had to evacuate plenty anointing bottles etc. Stop this glorification of a man.he's NOT God |
musKeeto: @str and @candour:@musKeeto It's sad actually but i can hardly blame people because i was under this same set of thoughts from the moment i was born.Looking back with hindsight now i can safely conclude that the dear brother i mentioned in my post died of a liver problem because it was the exact same symptoms a relative of mine exhibited and she was flown to the UK for surgery in 2007.If only he had access to quality healthcare maybe the story would been different. I read a lot of your posts and i appreciate your cultured manner of delivery devoid of insults.Dont worry,i'm praying for God to rearrest you. i tell you it will be soon ![]() God bless you my friend |
Alwaystrue: This is a great message and it has edified me more.you're welcome dear sister.God bless you real good |
striktlymi: Good morning Newl,God bless you for your post. Thats how i laboured in prayers and fastings trying to kill all 'powers of my fathers house' who i was told were behind my supposed woes.All this time my younger brother who was an unrepentant socialite was making waves in his finances,career etc and if not that we are almost perfect lookalikes,i might have questioned my parents about my parentage.Even my closest colleague,a muslim from a polygamous home was not half afraid of everything as i was even as he slept with anything in skirt he saw. 8 days into 70 days prayer and fasting programme of MFM some years back(i was there for 10 years),i decided enough is enough.The head of prayer warriors of our regional headquarters had just died of a 'spiritual attack' and i wondered how i could hope to defeat these powers if this wonderful brother couldn't.If the powers want to kill me,i screamed out loud that night to myself,they could go ahead.i told myself ''if any man be in Christ,he's a new creature old things are passed away behold all things are become new'' 2 Cor 5:17.That day i lost fear of everything,i mean everything.Till today,i can't remember having any strange dream or nightmare.maybe i still do but they mean nothing to me so i don't remember them.3 months later,i got my dream Job in the oil industry after labouring for 8 years in a bank and i'm only climbing higher everyday. ![]() @newloaded Life is full of ups and down and if you don't lose hope,you will come out strong.You are even lucky than most people who married 'angel Gabriella' since you said your wife still has her good job and you're not destitute.Pray with her and seek advice on how to revive your business.Don't let some people destroy your home.If you unrepentantly believe she's a witch,don't pass her through the trauma of staying with you.Let her go quickly so you both can rearrange your lives.may God lead you aright |
Romans 14:16 ''Let not then your good be evil spoken of:'' Romans 14:19 ''Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace,and things wherewith one may edify another'' in line with the above scriptures,my belief on this issue as i said in the other thread is that if a brother and a sister have decided to marry,why not go ahead to the registry and settle it?in the eyes of the law of the land,you only need 2 witnesses and Jesus said ''render to Caesar what is Ceasar's......'' The bible is so clear on this that we do not need STRONG to tell us.Even if you believe you're at liberty,see what Paul said about liberty 1 Cor 8:9 ''But take heed lest by any means this liberty of yours become a stumbling block to them that are weak'' 1 Cor 10:23 ''All things are lawful for me,but all things are not expedient:all things are lawful for me,but all things edify not'' What will it cost a spirit filled Christian to ''hold body'' and get to a registry to concretize the union before indulging his flesh? The example of a marooned brother and sister was raised.My reply to that is must we go to that extreme to prove this point?how many of us have been marooned on an island before? when we bring up arguments like this,we are no different from lawyers and Pharisees who try to find loopholes to exploit in the law.Why not wait until you are forgotten on an island with your 'intended' before worrying about it? According to this theory of 'intention to marry',all i need do is convince sister comfort to marry me today,sleep with her and then do same to sister rose next week then sister agatha follows too. STRONG'S CONCORDANCE is good but it will not replace the bible.My grand mother doesn't speak english,does it mean she's doomed to biblical illiteracy since STRONG has not been translated in my language? Please for the unmarried among us,if you've seen your mate,just go ahead and legalise it.you dont need to provide rice and drinks for anybody.Go to the registry and settle it.The problem is our modern Christianity that assumes you can't marry until you wear a white gown and suit then stand before a MOG in a fanciful church.You can do it @ home or the court premises. If you say this to my pagan grand uncle in the village,you'll be very repulsive in his sight and i wonder how the gospel will be preached to him then. May God help us in our quest for a sweeter and more fulfilling walk with him |
alexleo: Now this is what is killing christianity. So called men of God are so money conscious more than us who are doing our secular jobs and businesses. OP, yes obedience is better than sacrifice so does it mean that if your pastor ask you to commit fornication so as to get a job you will also obey? Where did the bible say that a pastor should command his congregation to give all the money in their pocket? Dont be deceived my dear. Christians who wish to be free will surely become free because the truth that sets free is on their shelves @ home.If only they'll open up and study.your boldness is commendable bro .weldone sir |
Pastor Olu T:You spoken well bro, God bless you real good.Thanks a lot brother.I believe our lifestyle and comportment can actually draw more people to the gospel of Christ than any powerful sermon we can hope to deliver. Christ said ''let your light so shine before men......'' Matt 5:16 Apostle Paul said ''That ye may be blameless and harmless,the sons of God,without rebuke,in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation,.......'' Phil 2:15 Apostle Peter also said ''having your conversation(manner of living) honest among the gentiles.......'' 1 Peter 2:12 I pray everyday that we imbibe these lessons as there's no other way to glorify our Lord |
Modesty - Marks Of A True Christian Paul wrote the Philippians, "Let your manner of life be worthy of the gospel of Christ" (Phil. 1:27). The most impressive part of our Christian profession is the way we live the gospel in our daily lives. The world is neither blind nor stupid. A few hours of observation will reveal whether we are truly Christ-like or just pretenders. One virtue that God expects of us, and the world quickly discerns, is modesty. Paul wrote that Christian women should "adorn themselves in modest apparel..." (I Tim. 2:9). Webster defines modest as follows, "placing a moderate estimate on one's abilities or worth, observing the proprieties of dress and worth, unpretentious." Modesty is defined as, "freedom from conceit or vanity, propriety in dress, speech or conduct." Thus we see that modesty is expressed in many areas of life. 1.Christians should be modest in the apparel they wear in public. Modest apparel is not sexually suggestive or provocative, nor is it extravagant. Clothes were given to cover our unclothedness (Ex. 28:42), not to invite lustful eyes to indulge themselves. Sinners of the world have no sense of shame when they expose themselves before others. Let that not be true of God's people. Paul's exhortation to modesty in I Tim 2 includes avoiding excessively lavish adornment, which is not becoming to those professing godliness (vs.10). 2.We must be modest in speech. This means not given to exaggeration, boisterousness and free from filthy talk and swearing. (Eph. 4:29; 5:4). 3.We must be modest in the used of our wealth. We are not to lay up our treasure on this earth but in heaven (Matt. 6:19-20). We must not use our possessions to make some vain social statement or to intimidate and shame those not so fortunate. God gives us wealth not only for our selves but so that we can help those in need (Eph. 4:28) and support the good works of His kingdom (I Tim 6:17-18). 4.We must be modest in our general conduct. Paul says, "Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God" (I Cor. 10:31). A Christian's conduct should always be within the bounds of propriety, not outlandish and shameless. Paul describes our life style as one of tranquility, quietness and gravity (I Tim. 2:2). We can enjoy things that are recreational, pleasant and joyful...but not outrageous. A good definition of the modest lifestyle of the Christian is seen in Phil. 4:8, ‘Whatsoever things are true, honorable, just, pure, lovely of good report...if there be any virtue and if there be any praise, think on these things. 5.Especially should we Christians be modest in our behavior with those of the opposite sex. Our society is obsessed and awash in things that promote illicit sexual activity. Television, movies, magazines, advertising, music, entertainment all flourish by exploiting and promoting conduct, which is immodest and immoral. Of course Satan is the instigator behind all of this erosion of moral and social values. We Christians are not immune to this solicitation to sin. We must therefore ever be on guard lest we fall victim to his foil (Matt. 5:27-28). The meaning of "modesty" for the Christian is summed up in the words of our hymn: "Let the Beauty of Jesus Be Seen in Me." When your neighbor sees you, can he or she see that holy beauty? Saw this @ www.firstcenturychristian.com you might want to check it out God bless you plenty |
You need to read FOXE'S BOOK OF MARTYRS if you want to have the full picture of what Christians went through to get the gospel to you and i today. It's bound to make you sober and re-evaluate the charade we flaunt today in the name of Christ. You can read up or download free of charge on the net. just google 'foxe's book of martyrs' God bless you |
Image123: All Scripture is inspired by God and useful for the Christian to teach and instruct. All that is needed is a balanced teaching, many Christians know that giving tithe does not buy them eternal life or turn them righteous.Dont generalise.you might know but we have more Christians that do not know.This thread even confirms it with all the threats on non tithers.Name one pastor that says what you said below In the new covenant, Christ is our righteousness whether you do or don't do. Hence, nothing hardly appears compulsory in the new covenant, not tithes, not prayer, not fasting, church attendance, giving, evangelism.i can bet even your pastor has never said that on his pulpit before. Let us sound the truth far and near that a Christian is not under whatever curse pronounced in Mal 3:8-10.Let us get God's children free of guilt inspired Christianity. |
Image123: WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO A NON TITHER? That's a broad question and kinda a trap because you're pushing for condemnation where there was none. What will happen to a prayerless Christian, what will happen to a stingy believer, what will happen to a person who doesn't read the Bible. All these works are good and are encouraged for every Christian but are not a means to righteousness. In the new covenant, Christ is our righteousness whether you do or don't do. Hence, nothing hardly appears compulsory in the new covenant, not tithes, not prayer, not fasting, church attendance, giving, evangelism.i like your reply Image.have you ever quoted Mal 3:8-10 to convince someone to tithe? Do you think it's right to threaten a believer whose righteousness is Christ with devourers? Consider the bolded in your reply |
Bidam: @candour..you lack a good sense of humour...if you will bring up what i quoted humorously and take it seriouslyThank God you confirmed it.i'd always suspected you were joking all along. So which ones are the serious posts then? ![]() meanwhile,you didn't treat the other aspects of my reply cheers |
Bidam: Did anyone say in this thread Christians that don't tithe are cursed?you said so in the following instances between Feb 25th and Feb 27th on this same thread Bidam: tithe-robber, i still dey search scriptures..pay your tithes o..don't let the devil rob you of your destiny.you threatened non tithers with Malachi again Bidam: "Will a man rob God? Yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, Wherein have we robbed thee? In tithes and offerings" (Mal. 3:you called it a sin here Bidam: "Come now, and let us REASON together" says the Lord,"though your sins(in neglecting to pay tithes to me) are as scarlet, they will be white as snow(I am ready to forgive you if you repent), though they are red like crimson. They will be like wool.(isaiah1:bro,you dont think tithe is freewill o.If you did you wouldn't have said all you said up there.If you dispute it then for the records, answer this loud and clear here:WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO A NON TITHER? is it a sin? are they under a curse for 'robbing' God? tenets of good human behavior my foot.. a tiv man feels by giving a visitor his wife for entertainment is also a tenet of good human behavior..Islam encourage marriage of wives and prilgrimage as also a tenet...don't make comparison pls..focus on the bible.a TIV man will not find what you said up there funny o.pls don't say what you CANNOT prove with facts. Agreed we are all blessed BUT NOT ALL HAVE EXPERIENCED THE REALITY OF THE BLESSINGS DO YOU AGREE?The question is are you as blessed as much as you scream it here? The onus is on you to show us the tithe principle is working stupendously in your life and in the life of other tithers as well.Our belief is that God blesses hardwork which is why Bill gates still remains stupendously rich despite his atheism.Warren Buffet is crazily rich and super healthy @ 85 despite his agnosticism.Dangote is richest african on the planet despite his profession of islam. |
Image123: perhaps you should focus on the beam in your eye, while at that, it'll be interesting to see you present where i used abusive language or condescending comments, thanks.No problem.i'll work on the beam.on the abusive and condescending language issue,it was an advice on the spirit of the ongoing discussion not an accusation. |
Bidam: like i said you keep on mixing what Christ said to the pharisee..It was the penalty of the law that Christ came to abolish NOT the entirety Of the law..joagbaje raised a qweshion when he said to honor your father and mother so your days may be long is also part of the old convenant..does it mean it was abolished? NO.It is still relevant in this present day and age as a spiritual principle, like wise marriage, welfare of widows, government etc.This is actually the intepretation of what Jesus said in matt 23.Jesus heaps criticism upon these religious leaders for (1) denying the kingdom of God to others because of their burdensome rules and regulations while professing that they will enter God’s kingdom when in fact, they would not; (2) stealing from the poor while making a great spectacle of themselves by offering long prayers in public; (3) going to great lengths to convert someone to their beliefs only to make them as bad as they were; (4) observing the smallest matters of the law while ignoring the more important ones, i.e. following the letter of the law while ignoring the intent of the law; (5) professing to be the spiritual guides, shepherds or leaders of their time and yet failing to do so; (6) failing to recognize their own spiritual blindness; and, (7) making sure that they were outwardly righteous and presentable while being inwardly filthy to the point that they were dead spiritually.@the 1st bolded,since it's penalty Christ came to abolish not the law,that means the PENALTY of devourer in Mal 3:8-10 that pastors use to threaten people is IRRELEVANT i guess? you think otherwise? @the 2nd bolded,even a HINDI,BHUDDIST or an ATHEIST without reading the bible knows he should honour his father and mother.These are tenets of good human behavior written on our conscience.The attribute that brings them out is LOVE.It is not a legalistic love which you measure.you honour your parents not because of a law but because you love them and want them happy. Matt 23:1-3 is very unambiguous about what Jesus meant.They should keep ALL the laws the scribes and pharisees tell them because they were still under law as Jesus had not gone to the cross.Immediately he said it's FINISHED on the cross,the law was set aside as it was truly fulfilled and finished. I get wary when i hear of spiritual principles because it is only subject to the whims and caprices of the proponent.what if the Celestial church man tells you it's against spiritual principles not to wear white garment to the holy house of God? you know they'll quote Ezekiel and Revelation to justify it. Romans 8:32 ''He that spared not his own Son,but delivered him up for us all,how shall he not with him also FREELY give us ALL things?'' Under the new testament in the blood of Christ,i'm entitled to all blessings freely. My brother,i think we've started going round in circles.The aim of discussing is not to win an argument but to open ourselves to scriptures that hitherto we hadn't seen before and evaluate truth we'd not known before.i believe we've succeeded in this regard.Wish you the peace of God. If there is anything you feel we left out,maybe you could let me know cheers |
InesQor: There is a large difference between making a living off charity, and inappropriate use of public funds. correct word.Needy people in church are given some mudu of rice each from church funds in the name of catering for saints.Pastor acquires a prado jeep from church collections too also in the name of catering for God's people,how do they match? the ostentatious lifestyle of pastors cannot be justified using the bible |
awodman: Saying they have moles is a security strategy to create distrust among the boko haram camp..they may or may not be moles..but what this has done is to make the boko boys to start suspecting themselves which might lead to in-fighting and will give the jtf oppurtunity to penetrate further into their ranks ..*my thoughts though*my thoughts exactly.It's an aspect of psychological warfare and its meant to throw the leadership of BH into panic mode. |
Bidam: are you asking me?..or rather ask yourselves why aRE YOU NOT HONORING GOD WITH YOUR SUBSTANCE? and the scripture you quoted is specifically talking about the HYPOCRISY of the pharisee. Jesus never said the tithing they did was wrong. Their problem was doing things to be seen of men and lording it over men.@the bolded.WRONG answer.He asked them to keep ALL the law the pharisees ask them to observe.The Pharisees only kept the part that was convenient for them that why he said ''they say and do not'' read the verse again Matt 23:1-3 ''then spake Jesus to the multitude,and to his disciples,Saying,The scribes and the Pharisees sit in Moses seat:All therefore whatsoever they bid you observe,that observe and do:but do not ye after their works:for they say,and do not'' Yes i ask because you and i agreed that tithe was part of the law.i told you i'm no longer under the law,you quoted Matt 23:23 saying Jesus retained Tithe out of the law and i quoted the above to show you that Jesus asked you to keep not only tithe but THE ENTIRE LAW WHICH THE PHARISEES were teaching. tell me why you're not honouring Jesus by obeying his injuction above |
Akanniade: Its a greater torn in one's flesh when we have Judaizers as parents or siblings, whom we love with all our heart.my brother i can identify with you.It's really sad |
Bidam: ii still maintain tithing is NOT one of them because Jesus taught,you quoted Matt 23:23 but see what Jesus said in Matt 23:1-3 ''then spake Jesus to the multitude,and to his disciples,Saying,The scribes and the Pharisees sit in Moses seat:All therefore whatsoever they bid you observe,that observe and do:but do not ye after their works:for they say,and do not'' Your Lord and my Lord spoke the above himself.you can see there is no ambiguity or loopholes.no matter how you twist the scripture it is clear there THAT YOU SHOULD OBEY ALL THE PHARISEES command you. So how many laws of the Pharisees are you complying with? |
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