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Try to remember your wrongs too. “Wrongs” here is trying to say you should not totally heap the blame on this person. You should take part in the blame too. It could be your good heart, over niceness etc. all these are wrongs but we totally ignore them because we always think it’s the right thing to do.


If you can always remind yourself that “na me fvck up” over time you’ll get better and wiser. Getting triggers for revenge means you have not dealth with the underlying cause of why the issue between you and this person happened in the first place. You should know these triggers will always remain, whether you avoid social media or the general public or not. These triggers will remain, it’s left for you to see them as a reminder of your shortcomings and fix them.

Ndipe:
That it is tradition does not mean it should be respected. Female circumcision is a tradition amongst certain tribes in Africa, do you endorse it?

Did you read anything about female circumcision in the thread? Gayism is a culture in the western world. Do you endorse it? Since we deviating from the topic.

teebaxy:
imagine your wife of 5 years sleeping with your in law husband because she is an Aunty

Why do I have to imagine it when it’s not going happen?

I am not from Uganda. I’ll still say it, respect other people’s tradition!

donmik:
We know someone like you must support the wrong anytime.

Nonsense.

Go and marry from there na

I also support Messi! The goat. Am I also wrong?

samuelson06:
You are talking sh!t. So, all foolish traditions must be respected because it's tradition.

You are eating shlt. Go there and stop the tradition then. Idiotic element!

Jagabanarmy:
So we should bring back the killing of twins since you said we should respect their tradition. Oga, not all traditions should be respected, the ones that are not good should be discarded

Why is it paining you people? The fact young men are enjoying both wife and aunt Abi which one? Leave them with their tradition na. Shuuu

Neddstark:
Some traditions were created by drunk unintelligent ancestors and are complete shit that needs to be discarded. Europe had more crazy traditions but when civilization came, they embraced it fully. Hence the reason why tradition-oriented Africans want to run over there.

But it still remains their tradition. We have worse in Nigeria. Leave other countries with theirs. Even some part of Europe also have crazy traditions till date.

tenpipsperday:
Yes every tradition must be respected like female genital mutilation and killing of twins.



And yet when counting mad people hardly will anyone know you are mad.

Lol. Why don’t you go there and stop their tradition. Idiotic element.

Don’t mind them. Stingy fellow. I detest stingy people with passion. That was how I told this girl I urgently needed her pvssy to cure Konji, you should see her reaction. She started telling me stories of how several men have pounded the pvssy without coming back. Common pvssy o.

She wanted me to wait some days but I told her to keep the dirty pvssy if I couldn’t have it there and then. That’s how they will be looking for true love but can’t offer common pvssy that’s littered everywhere on the street.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
These people are very cunning that's why they are called con men.

But mehn I give it up for the guys who go physically in person to locations to carry out their fraudulent operations. These are the daredevils

Imagine someone having the mind to stroll into university premises and succeeded in convincing lecturers, PhD holders, professors to part with their monies having listened to sad, pathetic tales like the one above narrated to OP.

Most of them Nor be be ordinary eyes. I have a friend back then in college that will challenge me to walk up to a person and ask the person for money to buy snacks. When I do it I always get turned down with “I don’t have”. This friend of mine will walk up to the same person while I watch from a distance, I don’t know how he does it, he’ll come back with either 200, 500 or 1000 naira. Later on he graduated to walking into lecturers office to sort out test and exams he didn’t write. There was a day a lecturer ordered him out of his office, turned out whatever he was using didn’t work on this particular lecturer.

Omon!!!

Dshocker:
You ask your self a question and you answered it.

Sorry nor vex.


Oya you don catch me.

Let’s take it again.

Are you a celebrity? Are you a big business man?

Dshocker:
Most Celebrities and big business men in society sleeps with different girls, and are still progressing.

Are you a celebrity? Are you a big business man? The answer is No. you think these caliber of people you mentioned are doing what they do without spiritual guidance? This is why people fail in life because you see things from your innocence eyes. Even your closest friend can be getting spiritual support from his mother or one baba without telling you a thing.

Another thing is we were all born differently. Some people were born with 100 percent energy while some were born with just 10 percent. Tell me how these two set of people can do the same thing in life without getting affected individually. Energy in the sense that a mother or a father could be physically or spiritually sick before giving birth to a child, which the child has to live and suffer for it. Tell me how that child can indulge in what others are doing with ease without getting affected negatively. Except for divine intervention. Some people carries the burden of their parents.

Kingosytex:
Some of the happenings and traditions I see daily makes me question people's sanity and state of mind. Can a whole people be foolish at the same time?

Why call it foolish?


It’s their tradition. Respect it.

Strafudeen:
My own strategy has only come now because my eyes have seen the direct link between this fornication and my failures. If I don't stop now, then I should be killed and thrown away into the evil forest as a fool that refused to learn .

I am a Christian, so I cried and repented to my lord and saviour Jesus christ. The resolve to never do it is already here because as it is ...omo...I'm already scared of where this thing can land my life.

So I was able to do 3 months without sex during one of my studies on myself...the moment I had sex again...the dreams and the misfortunes hit again...I swear like magic.

Now I'm very sure I won't do that again. Woman dey even fear me now sef

I went through all your post I can’t help but laugh at you. I laugh because you have not yet started. The battle has just begun. Be prepared.


The more you realized sex is your problem the more the forces send women to tear your guard down. I have been there. A time will come when things are going fine for you and you are actively fighting to stay away from sex and women, women will come for you and offer you sex freely. From left to right. You’ll be like a gold mine to them. If you are not careful you’ll fall for it and return back to square zero.



This is not about prayers. It’s about knowing when it’s happening. The fact you are already aware of this has already made you a target for women’s satisfaction. They will take away this knowledge from you and leave you with nothing. The moment you indulge in the sex with them, all the memories of this knowledge will disappear from you.

..

From a Nigerian female?


When you show up for the trekking she’ll still ask you where did you park your car, to be sure if you are worth trekking with or not.

What happened to marrying the both of them?

Men are pvssys these days.

RoadMozart:
Motion Moved and Seconded by Me

Please you’ll have to stay on the queue. You are behind me. When the OP finish with my training, you’ll be the next person. I don’t think he’ll be able to cook food for more than one person at a time. Things don cost.

On behalf of every other person that will view this thread, we want to ask you what training are you giving this Nairalander?

If na better thing, I am interested. But it must be be free of charge and you’ll cook food for me during the course of the training.

Vs marry woman that will not become sexless after marriage.

Dc14:
i cover my ass with blood of jesus

When I am done disvirgining your assx, your blood will be all over the place.

Dc14:
Bleep u

Bend your assx over, let me teach you fvcking lesson.

Dc14:
i no blame u

We don’t blame you either.

GogetterMD:
Apologies OP, not spoiling market or anything, but the interior looks pretty boring and basic for a whip that costs that much.
Happy sales!

It has captain seat. Oroplane on wheels

chidiokay:
It really just hard to comprehend things you say sometimes esp. when your emotions are all over the bedspread

How does a domestic chores amount to slavery or women abuse, don't you gurlz do it in your father's house, undergraduate days and single years .. but the minute a modern woman marries cooking for her own children and taking care of her home is percieved slavery ... even kim kardiashian cooks, kourtney do chores like its nothing
How are women over worked that men are not over worked,or you think providing easy

abuse is not only pertinent to Men, women abuse men tew

This should tell you that most women that complains of slavery in their husband’s house were never useful to their parents.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
How did he became a drunkard?

If you ask the husband this question now, he’ll trace the problem back to his Augustwife.

Una don turn Nairaland family section to season film.

Later your husband will come out with another story. No matter how you guys are painting this marriage thing. It cannot stop me from marrying 3 wives. 2 on the same day and a third one when the first two are getting older.

Angel55555:
He was the bomb few years ago, but he spent his money on useless things without investing.

You know this?

virginprincess:
When i said pray to God for your type of person i meant character and attitude wise,besides this money money you people are talking about how many men in this country actually has the money,70% of women still end up marrying broke men even though they don't pray for one,the truth is that most Nigeria men are broke and they are still marrying the same women that don't pray for broke men even in their brokeness,so this should not be a topic for discussion because it doesn't hold water.

Exactly. Your response says everything. Allow men to also advocate for virgins even if they do not end up marrying virgins.

When you to to a restaurant, first thing first is to order the food you want to eat, if the food nor dey, that is when order something else.

Tonnyray:
He's grabbing the ass of a 7-8/10 chick in public. That's real feminine of him

Her ass is being groped in public and she's not slapping, elbowing or even pushing him away.. that's no interest.

Even a rookie in women mattaz knows that expression is the typical "I'm still pissed off at what you did" expression.
And these are the experts.
Just twisting things to suit preconceived narratives.

Lol. I can’t believe you are still having different opinions with guys on this thread. But on this, you are 100 percent right. In fact women that put up this kinda face wants their asx teared up after. It’s their little way of seducing a man.

Smartb0y:
You cannot be saved.

I rest my case.

Bro you don tay for woman matter, you shouldn’t be the one saying this. This isn’t a matter of redpill. The face the lady is putting up could mean a lot of things but not “low interest” like you said.

I think guys on this thread are heavily invested in learning red pill but low interest in understanding women and their body language. Red pill can tell you one thing, and a woman’s body language will say otherwise. I dated a lady that sometimes when I peck her, she’ll use her hand to clean it off, with an angry face. Whenever she does this, it’s her little way of seducing you to sex. she put up an angry face but the next few minutes she wants you tearing her asx out when she realizes her angry face is not making you back off or getting angry at her for being petty.


Women shows shakara with body language normally. Whether they are heavily invested in you or not.