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DAY 361, REDPILL 2021

The most successful manipulations comes with incentives. And the higher the level of gullibility, the higher the incentives; not that the incentives are as valuable as the resources being exploited but that they are veneers to blind the man from becoming aware of how far he has been exploited. If this manipulation by pure serendipity blends with the intended results of the manipulative act, the more the victim go down but still be glad because he has 'received the intended results'.

For example, the government do it by providing state and federal programs after high taxation and exploitation of a nation's economic resources.

Employers do it by adding paltry sums to employees salaries or give them freely after a strenuous work which is not part of their duty. These paltry sums do not continue per say but it is a bait to ensure obsequiousness and the employees always succumb because they are expectant of some goodies in return.

On women?

There are many men that go about on social media celebrating their girlfriends or wives for a good gift given to them. Not saying that a woman gifting her man is a bad job nor a man showing appreciation for a gift is stupid. However, if these men look beneath these gifts, they will find out they've done more than immeasurable when compared to this act of love. These women use these gifts to get these men glued so that they will continue to siphon more resources from these men. It is a manipulative tactic, a game where the parasite mimic being beneficial to the host. Even a mind blowing sex is not left out of this tactic.

Humans by nature always default to their emotional state and that will make it extremely difficult not to fall for one form of manipulation or the other. However, to curtail the frequency of manipulations and to limits its effects on you, you must first determine the value a receiver is offering that worth whatever you are giving. If you constantly provide without positive returns and appreciation, sequester yourself from that loop.

Don't be a simp.

Authority: maintain frame.

iLegendd:
I clicked on his name and stumbled on a comment he made in Ashawo Beer Parlor asking for Christmas whatever on Telegram. I just laughed and ignored. I don't know if I should blame Buhari, APC, or our laziness as humans.

Whether the poor state of the economy, bad government or individual misdemeanors, everything boils down to the root---low IQ! I'm very candid about this.
But if you inform Africans/Blacks about their low IQ they do get upset and run amok with emotions and raging. The first way to overcome our predicament is to understand where our problem stems from and become conscious enough to work with nature and uplift ourselves. Else, the mess lingers as the cycle never gets to an end.

Thanks.

iLegendd:
Unquote him and remove his details. He's only being appreciative and giving a reason. It's not a crime. Thank you for your understanding, Sir.

My instinct most times, 98% of the time, never fails. Few days ago, after reading the complaint of this dude on a particular thread, I wanted to send him some funds but as I was about doing it, my instincts told me to forget about it. Today, I'm shocked seeing this same dude bashing you and pulling your legs. I would have bit my tongue several times today if I had not followed my instincts.

A whole lots of adults need to grow up. Anyway, I won't really blame them because Africans/Blacks were never favoured by natural selection when it came to IQ---very low! It's deeply rooted in their psyche, hence, such kinds of absurd behaviors from them which is a reflection of their low IQ.

Whatever you do Mr ilegendd, keep on grinding, you worked for it so enjoy to the fullest. God gat haters so nothing to worry about.

Ride on man.

Adeja:
Good morning. I really wish any of y'all here can choose to have a communication with me (maybe WhatsApp DM) before I make a lifelong decision of investing my commitment in this woman. A lot of redflags but my brain is telling me otherwise. Thing is she wants the commitment now now. I stay abroad for now and she's staying back home


This account is new but I used to silently read your stuffs here with my old account

@caveadullam, @everyone else

"A lot of red flags...wants the commitment now now...I stay in abroad".

You have your answers already.

Have a nice day.

hebenz:
Thanks for this Boss.
We shall count on you.
More men that are willing to trade share their secrets are still needed.
Programming
Data analysis
Import and Export
Affiliate marketing
Investing
Stocks...
So many more can come in.
2022 must be a year of Elevation.
If you can invest that your 5k or 10k into stocks and you make Profit from it.
It's better than to give that girl that's not loyal to you, to me , or to anyone . She is only loyal to herself.....
Elevate yourselve before you do that for a leftover.

Good idea.

I am working currently with some nairalanders and one who is active on this thread about the materials relevant to data science, web development and software development. I'm also about buying a bundle course for all of these programs and other related specializations from a nairalander so that I can share it freely to others that are interested.

No matter how small our capital may be, 2k, 5k, 10k, sleepless nights, data, time, patience, tears, discipline, knowledge are investments that will go a long way in the future.

Please, you can create a thread for this and link us all so that this one will not be derailed.

Thanks.

JESHAL:
@ CaveAdullam how can we balance painful redpill realities with global or at least national socio-economic realities, escapism of porn, social media, video games look like short term solution to long term problems, Tonnyray has spoken about what can be done on a macro-societal level which effect he has no control off, I'm a pragmatist, I deal with what I can control, but I'm still young and in my early 20's highly neurotic in nature but willing to seek counsel from people I respect

Dear uncle Jeshal,

Reality is reality, it is painful because we've been raised in falsehood. Truth is that emotion rules and rationality just lie behind in the hearts of the populace. The outliers that are as pragmatic as you are just the exceptions. Emotionalism has its good side though, and we must see it as a part of our psyche. However, we must ensure that truth rooted in objectivity is never neglected: this is the first step to a great change which is radically and incredibly difficult!

Aiming for a national change stems from a very positive mindset but you must understand that if you are not among the elites, among the kingmakers, your voice will lose quickly like the crows of dawn. Do you know that most successful revolutions were spearheaded by the elites? Although, by continually teaching and educating ourselves, our memes will spread and there might be good possibilities of change even though we are not among the elites. For now, change can happen with specific changes as an individual if you take control of your life and your immediate family if you decide to become a patriarch. Though there might also be some limitations that may stop or slower you.

Porn, social media, video games got their good sides too, but because they tend to appeal to our emotional psyche, we invest much of our time in them and as a result become addicted to them thereby making known their bad sides. If one is addicted to the aforementioned, he must work steadfastly to overcome or balance it; it involves conscious difficult deliberation to starve your urges, and live above it.

Are you sure you're really neurotic or you must angry about this messed up matrix? If it is so you must consider meditation so that you can improve on your calmness level. Since you are pragmatic, you will easily become neurotic when you see people talk and react from emotions. Know that 99% of everyone you come across on a daily basis are emotional and rely on sensibilities and this is why you must meditate always so that you will be calm when interacting with people. This also involves work. But you'll be successful in all of your resolutions if you hold yourself accountable and choose to remain competent even in the dark.

Also, the more knowledge you gain, the more pain you'll have to bear and more corruption you'll have to deal with. The game was never meant to be easy; it is survival of the fittest!

Take it easy on yourself and do the best you can for yourself first. Or, you can decide to go into solitude and live the life of a minimalist because truly and at the end we'll all die and take nothing along to our grave. But should in case you want to leave an impact behind and enjoy some merriment while you still exist, you must push the plough.

Take care dear uncle Jeshal.

Thanks.

Susily:
Merry Christmas brothers, I'm a silent follower of this great thread and have learnt a lot from it to elevate myself and become a better version of myself

Concerning what you said boss about teaching our craft to redpillers here so they can become a better version of themselves this coming year, I've gladly volunteered to FREELY teach in my own little way US STOCK MARKET INVESTING

I invest in the US stock market and it's quite an interesting experience

We'll go through Value Investing (Warren Buffett investing style) which entails identifying HIGH QUALITY BUSINESSES that increasingly generates CASH FLOW year-over-year and how to determine it's INTRINSIC VALUE to determine if it's Overvalued or undervalued when compared to it's share price in the market

Once again Merry Christmas

Very good.

Please, create a thread for this and mention me.

Thanks.

CAPSLOCKED has forced emmaodet to buy his bitter coffee. Fvck!

ubunja:
Merry Christmas Red Pillers

Same here king.

Fiscus105:
What about men who don't even knw how many gfs and concubines they have? what about guys that will be toasting another lady even In the present of his girlfriend? Let hear ur view on that sir.

1. A single woman sips enormously from a man. So, as the number of women in a man's portfolio rises, he loses greatly. Man gains nothing except satisfying his sexual lust. Conversely, for women, they satisfy their libido and as well gains a man's time and resources.

2. If (one of) those concubines, wives or girlfriends fvcks other men, the man loses again because he's paying(not really money) for a woman/women other men are having their turns with. If she's a prostitute, that man wouldn't bother because he already knows about her from the onset.

3. Apart from STDs/STIs which both can be guilty of, the man bears every expenses when it comes to her well-being and he also faces the predicament of being a victim of paternity fraud---a woman is free of all these.

So, you see, whether a man fvcks one or more women he loses and those women gains.

4. OK, I get where you are coming from: double standard right? However, if we decides to go this lane you will know that there are a whole lot of double standards where men suffer most e.g the military, rape case, sexual harassment, jail period, etc.

I don't really like classifying human mating strategy as a double standard because it is nature! However, even if we decide to take it so, understand that limiting women's promiscuity is a blessing to them. But if they decide to rank and rub shoulders with men when it comes to promiscuity they will be affected most. Note: women don't want a man other women doesn't want. While a man wants a woman that hasn't be d!ckmatized by other men. Women don't want virgin men because they lack experience and men want virgin women because they lack experience.

5. In our contemporary day, women are not worth any commitment because they don't deserve it. Outliers proves the rule. And if this is the case men shouldn't bother committing but should have their turns too and move ahead(spin plates). The woman is free to frolick with as many men as possible, and since he's not committed he has nothing to bother of. Ditto for her.

I know that this a kind of messed up situation, yes it is. The game will continue this way until women become competent and accountable.

Thanks.

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6908518/man-catches-girlfriend-another-man

When I say women are for fun and fvcks these guys always push me to the guillotine, they want my neck slice. Never take these women serious, don't waste your time and resources on them. Take them as they present themselves as they are not ready for whatever is meaningful.

May God help men not to do relationship in 2022 and beyond except a hurricane kind of change comes to stabilized the nonsense current intersexual dynamics.

Even during fun and fvcks, avoid the damaged ones, never look at them, don't go close to them, run for your dear life. Better to die in solitude than spend years with a toxic women.

Thanks.

Regex:
Have you noticed how boys/men take pictures nowadays? Pouting their mouth, moving their face, head and body in a childish yet irritating way but somehow they managed to convince themselves that it is cute. Does that irritate you too? I can not be the only one who finds it irritating, even when women do it.

I can bet my balls that you and SOZINN ate from same plate and drank from same cup today. The 'toxicity' is just too much. Hahahahaha.

'Make una nor lash babe this period o, make una nor go kill person pikin'. Loooool. Better still, move to the oil and Vaseline club.

I come in peace.

@Tonnyray, nice summation about the importance of fatherhood. In addendum:

1. The effect of masculinity both in the lives of children, women and society can never be over emphasized. Once it is degraded, everything declines alongside with it. Positive masculinity with a good dose of testosterone, not only help the man but also helps in debilitating the effect of depression, anxiety, recklessness amongst women and children. Women and children are whatever nuisance as they are today because that virile figure, the great wall that surrounds them, that patriarchal fortress has fallen down like the wall of Jericho.

2. Positive masculinity is as rare as precious gems today and what we've is a caricature of a man, a comic figure for the enjoyment of the depraved society. The most painful of all is that the genes of these weak men don't care, their testosterones are impatient, hence, more weak men are birthed, and even less better than every of their predecessors.

3. Won't really blame men because our society is extremely political! The government are of the highest authority and man can only express a little authority if the uppermost authority are not ready to join hands with him. Money comes first in politics you know.

4. Traditional rulers and clergymen were the last recourse we had, but as it is now, politics has taken over shrines and divine altars.

If the government are not going to do anything about this, our help will be microscopic, effected only within few areas. Or, from this microscopic level, we can rise gradually into the corridors of government to effect change. But how long? And how competent are we to stay true through tough times amidst lust, money and politics?

5. Our society rewards nonsense today, women are free to do as they like in the midst of the sanctity of holy matrimony and the family court/divorce law will still pay them for their childish behavior. Even parents are scared in disciplining their kids because the uppermost authority is mute.

You see, men can't be encourage to be more masculine because they aren't rewarded for it; the weak keeps getting more powerful because the strong are just met to tolerate.

6. At this level, man can only rise on an individual basis, hence, he must always put himself first. In concatenation with other men, at least a small change can be observed within the area they cover---testimonies on this thread are examples. However, for a massive change, the government presently must be overthrown. How this is gonna happen I don't know, but I know that masculinity will become great again if men will look beyond money, politics and lust.

Thanks.

CAPSLOCKED:
NONSENSE MEN ARE NO GOOD EITHER. ANYBODY, MAN OR WOMAN, THAT'S NOT BENEFICIAL OR CONTRIBUTORY TO YOU AND YOUR AFFAIRS --- BLOCK & DELETE.

THIS LIFE HAS TO BE ABOUT GIVE & TAKE IN A WAY OR ANOTHER. SO IF YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE GENUINELY GIVING YOUR TIME, ATTENTION, RESOURCES, AFFECTION, RESPECT, LOYALTY, OR ANYTHING IT IS, AND YOU'RE NOT GETTING THE LEAST SUBSTANTIAL QUALITY FROM A PERSON YOU'RE ASSOCIATING WITH, THE BEST FOR YOU TO DO IS KICK THEM OUT OF YOUR SPACE, BECAUSE GIVING WITHOUT RECEIVING WILL DRAIN YOU AND LEAVE YOU IN A LOSS, AND YOU DON'T WANNA BE A LOSER!

Learn to serve your coffee hot! This one is too COLD!

Anyway, this one is very sweet.

TRP1:
Now the function of pill


I would have dated this girl back then if not that I’m more focused with my life and she’ll have drain me even though I’ll still be financially Ohkay but one thing is that I’ll be pained if I wanna move on because she never contributed any value to my life but the reason I’m not pained right now is because I did same help to everyone and not only her )
Another thing is that as I Dey upgrade my phone I’ll be upgrading hers also and that’s what a lot of guys do
Why upgrading her lifestyle when you’re not the cause of her misfortune

Another thing in this life is Be a person of VALUE
Update your life with infos so you can be valuable to people
The moment people s notice value (especially the uncommon one ) in you no matter your character they’ll start clinging to you it’s now left to you to just trash all of them or use them for any choice of yours

You can't shame the shameless(Skepticus, calibrator 2021).

My man, most of us here share same story with you, hence, we are able to resonate whenever we read such.

I would have mentioned you another thread, but like the quote above, ain't ashamed when it comes to upliftment. I got a couple of plans for fams here in year 2022 but only for those that are ready.

Please, I want you to reconsider your stance of not helping people, here, ain't asking for help as you've done so without being coerced but relate with us on your line of business and how we can start from the bottom with the little we've got.

Is it a skill? We'll learn it? Is it crypto? We'll start small? Is it freelancing? We'll start registering.
It's good we start redpilling our finances come 2022.

Mention me in another thread for further details so as not to derail this one if are willing, if not, thanks for your story and contributions to the thread.

God bless.

Well done fams.

Pvssy and boobs are appetizers.

If she wants anything on the table, let her come along with it.

Trade by barter!

Random sh!t.

Women start fast but hardly finish their race.

Thank God you are a man, though you started slow but victory is imminent. However, never allow base women talk you down.

You are better than them, continue moving.

Random sh!t.

My man, don't help women in wasting your time.

Random sh!t.

You don't need to hate and fight women. Reverse their 6 to 9 and let them see that you understand the game they play.

She ask for 2k, no problem, ask for 20k.

She wants a helper, no problem, how much sacrifice can she pay that worth the help she requires.

Just mirror these criminals and see how they go into oblivion.

Random sh!t.

If you say you are the prize, then, don't chase carcass!

Random sh!t.

If she doesn't ask for your account details after broke shaming you, have it in mind that she's projecting her broke state towards you. You are better than her man.

Random sh!t.

As you give to God what belongs to God, also give to parasites what belongs to parasites: parasiticide.

Stay toxic against parasitic women.

Random sh!t.

Nothing is wrong with you man. Don't force any woman to appreciate you. By the time your value speaks louder, be sure not to allow these parasites come near you.

Random sh!t.

Better to be an introvert developing your life than being an extrovert wasting time over women that their values aren't worth more than your monthly subscription fee.

Stay grinding and kick out nonsense women from your domain.

Random sh!t.

My man, just calm down, 2 years from now you will slap yourself for infatuating over that girl. Wait, you'll soon see pot belly and obesity.

Random sh!t.

Stop sobbing between the confers of your pillow and mattress, that lady you are head over heels for doesn't know how to operate a java phone. You see, you a way better than her.

Random sh!t

Women want love they can't provide, men give love that can't be reciprocated.

Random sh!ts