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ubunja:
True,, that's what men need to understand about the game. Men and women are opposite. What applies to men, flip it up side down, and it will apply to women. That's the key to mastering intergender dynamics. The formula.

As you've said, a man is high value when he deals with many women while a woman is low value if she does the same - that is, deals with many men. It's how the game goes.
Eg As much as men detest a high body count female,, that same thing on a man makes him highly attractive to women. Even a virgin girl desires to be disvirgined by a Player, because he has done it plenty of times before and has the required experience for the job.
Which reminds me of that catch22 situation where Women want men who are good in bed but they can't teach a man, so if a man isn't good no woman will want him but for him to be good at it, he needs to be given a chance to practice but no woman will give him a chance if he's not good in the first place. It's like those frustrating job situations where companies want someone with experience but for you to gain experience you need to work but you can't work without the experience in the first place. Impossible situations....

PUSSYHOE:
Apologies my man it may not be me next time, i shit you not someone will reply. I give you my words.

ubunja:
Pre-selection. That's what it is. As others have said already.

Pre-selection is when a man is already wanted by other women, or already "selected" before a woman accepts him. It makes the man wanted because him being already wanted vouches for him. It's like a letter of recommendation. The simplest way to see this in action is when you're single, no woman wants to talk to you. But when you get a girlfriend, suddenly all these women are interested in you. What has changed? A girl likes you now. And that broadcasts to all women that you're a good guy after all not some awkward loser.
Think of it like money. If you want to deposit your money do you choose a bank that looks broke or do you choose a bank that looks rich? Obviously the bank that looks rich. That the bank has its own money already broadcasts to you that your money is safe with them. Same thing. When a man has a woman, or women, it broadcasts to a woman that she's in safe hands with a man who knows what he's doing. That you've a girlfriend tells other women a lot about you instantaneously- that you can provide,, you're not stingy, you can fucc and you can protect. When you're single it's not easy for women to deduce these things and for any woman to get close and try to test you, it will take too much of her time and effort. So women rely on Pre-selection to get the job done. They want another woman to do the work on their behalf. To test and choose you first.

Why do women want married men? Pre-selection. Why do female friends steal each other's boyfriend? Pre-selection. Why does a guy who makes 1 girl pregnant usually make another girl pregnant soon after? Pre-selection.

Just like it's easy for a rich man to have more money because money goes to money; it's easy for a player to have more women cause women go to where other women are.
It's easier for a man in a relationship to get another woman than it is for a single man to get a woman. Pre-selection.

I can stop here or I can go on:
If Sandra is dealing with two men who want her: one, Lazaro who does everything and moves heaven and earth to show her. And two, Martinez, who doesn't do anything really to show her love, but instead has other women moving heaven and earth to show HIM they want him, who will Sandra choose?

Martinez of course.

Why? - - - - - - - > Pre-selection.

A Woman wants a man everyone wants. She wants that man to then ignore everyone and choose HER. That makes her feel more special than having only one man move worlds to prove his love. Women want to compete for a man. Not men to compete for them. When men compete over a woman Yes it's a special thing for her, but not as special as when she herself beats ten prettier women to get that one guy all women want. It's why women will literally exchange blows over a man,, that man is Alpha. But when men exchange blows over a woman, those men are Beta, regardless of who wins. A woman wants to win her man.
The man she wins she'll submit to,, but the man who wins her, ends up submitting to her in fear of losing her. Therefore the man she wins is her Alpha while she's his beta. Whereas,, the man who wins her is her Beta while she's his Alpha. Remember Alpha gets the power, Beta gets the fantasy. The chaser/competitor is the beta who gets their fantasy but does so at the expense of power.
What is Power in a relationship? Well when there are fight and disagreements, who usually apologizes and compromises to keep the other happy? The one without power. This must be the woman if a relationship is to work, and Masculinity and Femininity coexist peacefully. Women must have the fantasy, men must have the power. By "women must have the fantasy" I mean women must be the ones dating their dream man.

Coming to the pic below,, it's not a good feeling for a woman to see you trying to get other women but dismally failing because it broadcasts to her that you were lucky with her. And that fuccs up her hypergamy internally. She feels like a loser for dating you whom no woman wants.

It will make your girlfriend's ego sky rocket if she went through your phone and saw YOU turning down women in your DMs or texts. Her pucc would flow with the juices. And not because you're faithful,, but because WOMEN WANT YOU. She stays feeling like a winner. Listen, you can cheat on your girl, but if the female you cheated with is drop dead gorgeous, many times better than your girl, your girl will forgive you. By demonstrating you can get that woman who is a 10, your girlfriend who is a 7 feels also like a 10. How?. If a guy who usually fuccs female celebrities fuccs a nobody of a girl, that nobody will feel like one of the celebs. Pre-selection.

That's why being single is never an option. Always be dealing with women. That's how you get women.

Iyaebe:
Professor I'm not a troll lol,I've actually learnt a lot from this thread as well(understanding perfectly how men think and what they truly want), the normal redpill helps both men and women, it's just that you have a lot of bitterpillers in your midst and are always trying to mixup bitterness with redpill.

Iyaebe:
Just very few of you don't exhibit the bitterpill character,majority of you are so bitter and still not redpilled.It may interest you to know that bitter men are the easiest to manipulate if been handled by a wise and cunning woman. The hardest of men are the calm and collected ones with very sound communication and interactive skills, you can hardly have your way with these set of men,they end up subduing you into total submission after exhausting all your manipulative skills as a woman, but those of you with very bitter and aggressive habits are the easiest to manipulate, just make them a figure head while you lay low and manipulate the hell out of him,he'll never realize he's under any manipulation because you are never going to challenge his bitterness and aggression else he becomes very alert and unnecessarily sensitive. So far, so good,the only true nairaland redpillers that can give the greatest manipulative woman a hard time are (1) ubunja(only very few women who ties their wrapper to the right instead of the normal left would succeed with this one) (2) Bloodysperm(he's very unpredictable). (3) CaveAdullam(you can hardly know where to grab him,he's too alert and overly conscious). The rest of you are no stress,you just haven't met your match.

iLegendd:
ATTENTION

I need only 20 people for a start. Below is a list of 30 people who have shown interest.


I'll pick 20 out of the 30 below. If you haven't dropped your WhatsApp number, quote this post with it.

I'll create a group to add all of you. After I have taken your number, I'll quote you to remove it.

I want us to handle the first transaction before the month ends, then another one on the 1st, 2nd, or 3rd of next month. I'll explain everything I can't expose here in the group chat.

If your name/moniker appears in the list below, drop your number if you haven't. I'll remove all the numbers later for your privacy sake.

Theinfomayniac:
I do not own a paid group but i belong to several paid local and foreign crypto communities.

I recommend the one on my signature.

Oyin2212:
Bro check out his signature on his profile. You'll see the link to qualify there.

Theinfomayniac:
There are no hard and fast rules to this.
It's basically research.
The easiest way is to be in the community of crypto preneurs.

There are telegram groups, discord servers, Reddit and youtube channels, but be careful as some of them only shill projects they have interest in, not necessarily because the projects are good.

Your best bet are paid groups where only quality is delivered. Saves you tons of stress and endless research and mistakes.

I will continue to post as many quality projects i come across here.

Negroid001:
I'm so sure some of the guys claiming Red Pill shi here are simps in the real world.

iLegendd:
I bank with almost all the banks. I want to give 5k each (on the 2nd of December) to people that bank with Zenith Bank.

To qualify you must possess the below

1. NIN Slip or Drivers' License or International passport
2. You must be above 16
3. You must have a Zenith Mastercard that hasn't expired
4. You must be able to recieve OTP with your phone when doing a transaction with your card
5. You must not be a scammer
6. You must have an Android phone with a front camera
7. Your Nairaland moniker must not be a new one (it must be at least, 1 year old)
8. I may give you a video call
9. You must be on WhatsApp or Telegram

Late comers won't benefit from this.

I'll send you 55k this month to do something with it. All the profit will be mine, but on the 2nd of December, I'll send you 60k to do the same transaction with 55k and the remaining 5k will be yours. Yes, 5k is too small for a big boy/girl like you, but Rome wasn't built in a day.

We'll be doing this every month — as long as you don't runaway with my money and you'll be making 5k or more.

Criminals and dishonest people should stay off. I'll do this for other banks in the future if this one is successful.

Theinfomayniac:
Percentage increase of some cryptos in the last six months

AXS- 1817%

SHIB-1070%


SAND-993%

GALA-754%

SOL-637%

MANA-626%

RMRK-629%

NAKA-367%

AIOZ-300%

MOVR-288%

TLM-193%

What is the annual interest rate on a fixed deposit account again ??

dadrenaline:
Good morning folks. I am always in awe of the words of wisdom that men who have been in the field put out here near every single day — save for the few times distractions come in. You guys have been a blessing to many of us who just come in here to read — and if we're registered members — and click the "like" button.

I say a big thank you to everyone who has genuinely taken his time to teach men and boys true masculinity. Thank you so much.

dadrenaline:
Now, I don't usually bring my personal dealings to public, but in this case, I might have to compromise this one time.

dadrenaline:
As much as the red pill is amoral; I am someone that follows the path of Tonnyray, in that, I have a different perspective on the application of the redpill.

dadrenaline:
I have been soaking these pills since the inception of this thread, and while I didn't really have a platform to display what I knew, I had no idea that my mind was slowly being "renewed."

dadrenaline:
I am in my second year. In my first, I barely played around with girls, and generally avoided them. But not too long ago, I changed Church and started attending this student fellowship. I didn't like it at first, but I slowly grew my tolerance level and just did my thing. I noticed they had a lot of female leaders, and this was something that had never happened to me before, but I adapted quickly.

Like I said, I did my thing. I flowed more with the guys more, spoke little with the females and just generally avoided trouble.

Until recently, when I heard from my group leader that people (the female leaders including the Branch Pastor) were complaining about me. I supposedly have issues with submitting to authority; poor response and the fact that my words were never said in the right tone.

Her accusations shocked me but I overlooked them at first, until I noticed that the female leaders I played and joked started changing their approach towards me. They became harsher and more often than not, we tend to clash these days.

I really don't like that because I know just how dramatic women can be, especially when they know they can seem to get their way with me. They want me to bend to their whims, obviously, but that's not my person. I am a very agreeable person and most time, very sacrificial so long it involves the church, but other than that...it has to be my way. No negotiations. They seem to hate that.

dadrenaline:
Now, there are reasons why I can't leave this church, but my first question is how to get around authoritative female leaders with less friction? This is very important.

dadrenaline:
My second question has to do with my cell leader who invited me to the church and has been on my neck ever since. I have never seen such an aggressive green light signaling before in my life. She would force herself to dance with me; defend me on numerous occasions, even to the displeasure of our leaders; use my personal items such as handkerchiefs and others things time won't let me mention.

The act that truly got was after a particular vigil, work was still ongoing in church, so there was limited space to lay down and sleep. Naturally, spaces were divided to boys and girls, yet she left her female end and moved over to my space, and laid next to me...

My residential Pastor refused vehemently and called her out. She was to move over, but she refused saying that she had a phobia with sleeping in the middle of people. All said and good, oya move over to the end of the female line, she said no. She started crying and saying that no one likes to hear her point of view.

It was a serious affair that early morning, as none of the two women wanted to bend to the other. It was until this girl took her bag and wanted to risk her life to return home in the dead of the night that she was finally allowed to do her thing.

I was told to face the other direction while she slept. I did, but later changed my body position as anyone would while sleeping. Only for me to realize not long after that she was slowly moving her butt to touch my body. Now this girl was attractive — tall with long legs, sizeable bust, thick lips, and a moderate ass, just the way I like my girls —, so I tried hard to control myself. But she wouldn't stop until her butt was firmly glued to my Johnson. How I didn't go beyond half-mast that day was a miracle. But this was the height of it and I intentionally withdrew from her for a long time as I didn't know what she saw in me.

I am a regular joe, fairly tall, a good writer and has the voice of a Light Tenor. That's it. Yet, this girl has been acting like she wants to get Will Smith.

I was at a her place two days ago for church discussion, but she quickly used that opportunity to start her shenanigans again. As much as I like her, I don't want to date anyone now, but I do not want to lose the usefulness that comes with having her obsessed with me. How do I go about this?

Cc Martinez95, Tonnyray, Caveadullum and others.

RikudoSennin:
CaveAdullam sire, if you have the time to spare, when I land in Nigeria, please lets have some drinks together. You emit wisdom.

Martinez39s:
Oh no! I can't believe I listened to the lies of the devil and let toxic redpillers influence me. I can't believe I advised others to ruthlessly put themselves first and not play Abraham and Sarah with any woman. Even if it is a churchy post-wall girl who was bleeped by bad guys in the past who rubbished her in the other room and treated her like trash, I should understand that she is now a new creature in Christ Jesus even when she did countless abortions for them and damaged her womb. Love does not judge by the past and is there through thick and thin. The love between me and the girl should be like no other love.

I think I took the amoral nature of the red pill toooooo farrrr. Where is my sympathy and compassion? May God help me and deliver me from joining bad gangs like Ubunja, CaveAdullam, skepticus etc.

Martinez39s:
I think what CaveAdullam is saying is that men do try to achieve things, package and improve themselves just to impress and get women. This happens and in this case, women are inadvertently a source of motivation. We have even seen cases of men flexing for women and feeling good when they procure female attention, validation and approval. This is a natural tendency of most men, if not all men.

But as red pill men, we have come to think differently and we have conditioned ourselves differently. We now do things for us. It is better like that because the self-serving drive, purpose, intent and discipline that comes from within lasts longer and is not dependant on anyone's attention, presence, approval or validation.

Tonnyray:
On fvcking point as always! Do you know at some point I discovered I was studying hard more to continue impressing and holding her spellbound than to pass?
What you have succinctly iterated here is the eternal balance man has to strike; between the destructive (distraction from purpose) and the constructive (motivation to self development) effect.
By the way @Junnior, the motivational effect is more often than not subconscious/unconscious not overt.

Oyin2212:
If a woman is not fertile or barren, is it always due to recklessness like sexual promiscuity?

Can it be genetic?

Junnior:
Women never motivate me.

I never feel like I need to get better in order to attract more women. Using women as a source of motivation doesn't work for me. So I don't agree with women being a motivation. Well, this is for me personally anyway. When I start getting close to a girl, I find myself withdrawing quickly because I start getting terribly distracted. That's all.

Isaacmacdon:
It might be tough, but if you find out she can't take in due her past, DIVORCE HER ASAP.
There are other younger fertile women out there.
Don't waste your time waiting for a miracle. Same way a woman won't wait for a broke guy to get RICH.
Be selfish. You can't just sit and expect things to change when there are fertile women out there.

Only the Redpill.

Tonnyray:
I actually missed this, apologies for the late response. Men have ONE major distraction: Women/Sex/Yansh/Pussy.. whatever you wanna call it. I call it the curse of testosterone. Women are however not distracted by men. They are far more purpose oriented, the purpose mainly being their welfare and wellbeing (and of course that of their progeny when they start breeding).

Case in point I had a reading partner while in med school who cornered me to just herself cos she saw me as being highly intelligent. Pretty, curvy and intelligent chick but somehow insecure of her academic prowess. She convinced me to start coming with her to Anatomy department for all night study which was contrary to my own modus operandi. Now even though I'm the type that can go 5 hours on my bed without dozing, I complied like the mumu I was back then and what was my reward? At exactly 2am I got to suckle those perfect, yellow pendulous boobs in our routine smooching sessions
Last last I discovered I hardly assimilated anything before 2am (because everything in my body was anticipating, and by 3am when we were done (and I'd cum to my senses.. though we never had real sex, it was mainly heavy making out culminating in handjob/fingering) we would get back to our desk and I would doze off immediately while she continued reading like nothing happened. When I failed 3 tests back to back, nobody taught me to do the needful and cut the crap. Guess what? this girl, after continuing by herself for almost 3 weeks because she felt I was forming for her, started coming to my BQ to study. Of course things graduated from there but I had learnt to prioritize my own priorities too. And I had learnt that essential thing about women, they are far more focused and purposeful (which should be the other way around unfortunately). I always had the answers and clarifications to her questions. She didn't mind giving up the coochie to this broke student just to secure her future pass in our MB part 2.

Uyi168:
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inability to sort our your leadership and management problems may be as a result of low IQ

Nothingserious:
I don’t think that this is correct.
Can we do a control experiment?
Place representatives from the other continents in Africa and place some Africans in the other continents and try again after a while?

We have had Africans leave Africa for other continents, go there and excel, sometimes topping their contemporaries. Does that not count for Africa ?

Africa has myriads of problems with mismanagement, poor management and bad leadership. I don’t think low IQ is one of her problems.

CaveAdullam:
1. I don't really fancy this term: "It is Nigerian girls/black women mentality". It is all about women! Women doing their thing, and following their instincts in different locations and demographics.

2. Now, in advanced and developed countries were basic amenities are available and unemployment rate is low, women will seek for dudes with athletic figures (good genes and protection) because the economy side of hypergamy (provision) has been provided by proxy, that is, via the government.

While in an underdeveloped nation like Nigeria, women will gravitate towards men that will be able to fund and satisfy their economy side. They do frolick with broke dudes though, but for a short period of time or within intervals. The beta man is always their last option for marriage or long term relationship.

Shift back a little and you'll see clearly that hypergamy is at play whether in developed or underdeveloped countries.

3. Even in Western nations, there are still cases of Incel, simpidenmic, suicide rate, male virginity amongst others which might be weak but positively correlated with men not having access to women.

If hypergamy cannot get that one particular man, it will spread her tentacles!

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
Hypergamy works the same way everywhere around the world. However, the coin flips somehow when it comes to short term mating strategy, especially the alpha fvcks side of hypergamy. Since a beta man will always be available long term, both women in the different nations( underdeveloped and developed nations respectively) already have him at their paws and claws and will stick to him long term.

In the short term, the developed woman will outrightly portray her alpha man and speak of love, while pretentiously sideline the beta man but at the end stick to him after retirement. She can still fvck her alpha or other alphas stealthily if chance.

In the short term also for the underdeveloped woman, she will outrightly broke shame her alpha, sideline him but still fvcks him secretly. While she outrightly portrays her beta man, speak of love and appraise him and eventually get stuck to him after retirement. She can still fvck her alpha or other alphas stealthily if chance.

Hope you understand the matrix, how it twists, the differences and similarities. I trust you though!

And as for the bolded, you always do a good Job. Kudos bro!

CaveAdullam:
"Oga may dey cost aka my sponsor".

On Twitter, you will observed that western men are challenging their brothers to go do their assignments in the gym, learn game and get women. In Nigeria, a man is advised to go make more money so that he can get women.

Right here, the nature of the economy in these two different nations has affected the sexual market. And hypergamy which never dissapoints is always ready to finagle her way to get what she wants. Indeed, women are blessed! Because they will always get what they want no matter the condition. However, there are consequences that are inevitable for every of their actions. To sum it up: they are smart not wise! Only few among them which are rare and in the same genealogy as unicorns are able to maneuver successfully.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
Women don't want to be associated with failed men, hence, they always seek for the best. However, since hypergamy got two sides it must fulfil it. That's why even though Richard got a bad reputation as a philanderer, a talkative, a bad boy, Jasmine still found one way or the other to fvck him while outrightly condemning him. The protective and good gene side of hypergamy---alpha fvcks must fullfil and manifest itself cerebrally through good fvcking!

Gerrard is already a safe long term plan because society don't like men like Richard and hypergamy doesn't share her economic side with other women; she wants it all alone for herself and children. Ergo, Gerrard must be portrayed as the official boyfriend and must be prepared graciously and effectively beforehand to fulfil his beta bucks side of hypergamy.

Lightheaded, I have entered your zone. Lol!