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heartofcity12:
Redpill. Males shouldn’t be jealous, that’s a female trait- Jay z (Heart of the city)

This message is nuanced. But on the outlook, men shouldn't stay all day whining and develop a feeling of schadenfreude when others succeed. Rather, they should channel that energy used in expressing anger and jealousy to better themselves.

However, it must be understood that jealousy is an evolved trait in the human species. Why? Because of mates, resources, offsprings and territories. Men and women express jealousy differently, but in respect to the above reasons. Anger and violence has these as their underlying causes.

According to recent research, the female human oestrus cycle is concealed because of female-female violence. You know why?...you got it now. Lol!

We are no longer in the wild, but we must understand that we've being shaped by millions of triats structured for the wild, thereby making us behave in certain ways that seems anathema to the modern world. Hence, the term "genome lag": having structures/traits that don't suit our current environment.

A whole lot of tweaking of our psyches will be needed to get accustomed to this recent changes especially as technological innovations are running faster as never before every seconds.

Sometimes I don't want to fault men because of these traits they aren't cognizant of, but other times I just get angry seeing my gender allowing themselves getting used and dumped!

Anyways, the redpill is doing its best in helping us.

Thanks.

olamoses75:
Omor, seeing this type of stuffs just dey piss me off. It better be some joke.

Why I love women: no matter how much the sexual market gets saturated or deregulated, this specie still finagle possible ways to cashout---the gender with sex as their only/single most highest value.

Men who got the ball, court and advertised for spectators to come in don't even know what winning entails. They are Lazaruses struggling with dogs for crumbs beneath the table.

It is very true that who ''pays the piper, dictates the tune". However, it's so bad that the modern man has been bastardised and scared of the bull not to even talk of holding its horns.

Sigh!

heartofcity12:
Imagine that

Women have men to always fall back to.

But men only have themselves and/or God. If he falls, the ground will bury him!

Even when God is absent in the equation, men will always be there.

Women are overfed with attention from a truckloads of men, hence, they don't know the importance of men.

Men are women's goal and retirement plan.

Women are useles* without men.

MJBOLT:

CaveAdullam, check the year for day 15

Done.

Thanks.

Special Notice!

Hey bros, I was robbed of some of my files and devices few minutes ago. Therefore, my activities here will be limited until I fix myself up. I promise to contribute my share once I'm up again.

Please, you guys should not argue because I can't afford to read many blank pages. Lol!

Thanks.

Algebrah:
Alright boss
I'm Akure based for now, what about you

I will first send you the details of the course bundle before planning on how to send, so that you will know what it contains and if you'll like it.

Check your email.

Thanks.

ubunja:
Women are unpredictable. Women are confusing. So men must fold their hands and resign themselves to their fate? And make no attempt to understand? No.

What if you misread the signals?
As a rule you never work with one greenlight. I explained you add several greenlights together to come to your conclusion. Eg,, she calls you to fix the light, then she changes into something revealing because "it's so hot today!" And makes all excuses to be in your personal space especially when she keeps touching you.

Now, how you respond is not by suddenly stopping and kissing her or whatever. You can be misreading everything!!

What you do is YOU PLAY THE SAME GAME. You mirror and copy her! She comes in with a smaller blouse claiming it's hot, you take your t-shirt off in agreement.
I can give you various scenarios to do but I'm wary because it must never be about you memorizing what to do, but being resourceful enough that you can think on your feet and adapt to your situation. That's what's important.

Holla me via whatsapp and I'll save your number I might just start a sort of group. I'm still deliberating on it. Check my profile for it.

In addendum:

>When it comes to greenlight many guys like to play it safe, so they will want the woman in question to just say "hey, fvck me"...it doesn't work that way.

>The fear of rejection is still a factor, so they will ensure the zone is safe before escalating.

>The lose of reputation is also a factor, so they will like to ensure everything is set so that should in case things doesn't work at well, their reputation is slightly eroded.

>Greenlight from a woman can be just mere words or tiny actions that only a man deep in the matrix can understand as a mating call.

>The key to getting hold on greenlight is to always act and talk sexual. Once she responds to any, follow up except otherwise.

>Acting sexual/sexual escalation is masculinity. Though, not as an unrestrained boar with thick testes. And without fear and rejection.

>Ladies will not quickly give in even though they show greenlight because they don't want to be shamed and deemed cheap by people around. A man just have to understand the environment and decide how to go around it.

So, acting sexual, making sexual suggestions, sexual plays etc. are the best way to finish up on the greenlight approach instead of waiting for the woman to lead to bed.

Thanks.

Zabiboy:
Nice...
Web dev is one of my side hustles...
Html, css, Js, react js, php ( still on it), and other frameworks...python and django knowledge on the side too..
Would have been done with backend if i had so much free time...
If you have issues on the web dev stuff, i can chip in my opinion...
Same to you bro @caveadullam
Backend pays more tho, so try to make sure you learn JS well so Node Js becomes less work and you can blend.
My advice would be to learn Git first so you can have a github set up quickly and start pushing your projects there as early as possible.. Creativity is also very key especially in terms of UI/UX
Goodluck man WAGMI

For me it's full stack and will patiently devote the necessary time required, at least for the basics. As for UI/UX...coming there later.

Thanks bro for the assistance ahead.

Algebrah:
My own line is IT based too, I'm a web application developer, but I want to switch to proper web development with HTML CSS and JavaScript in view. I'm interested in the course. Kindly share the course to me.
Thanks Chief

Sharing is via flash drive. And location matters too.

I got my hands on the IT bundle course some days ago. As it is, the field of IT is evergreen and if young men can by anyway lay their hands on the basics first, perhaps the door of opportunities may increase.

So, in addition to my current line of work which I will soon abandon for IT skills, I welcome you all to this great field.

The course bundle has more than 10 IT specializations, and those that have PCs and interested in the field of IT can signify and get any course related to their line of interest for free.

Right now, as a newbie, I'm rolling with web development. Superb!

Thanks.

Calibrator:
You will never know how much inner strength you have wasting away till you leave your comfort zone.

From my own personal experience and in my own opinion........ "Comfort Zone is the antithesis of the Redpill"

Man must challenge himself, only then can he be able to know the beast that inhabits his inner faculties. The only thing that can eventually crumble man to the lowest state is poor state of health; other factors like poor environment, poor family background, poor governmental policies etc. can also crumble him. But if he still try a little, luck and time may favour him.

To be candid, out there, it's not easy for man. But settling down for comfort is self extinction except in the presence of favorable factors.

Sigh!

Lordcassy:
My gee...
My writeup sums up to Rollo famous words
"WOULD RATHER BE RIGHT OR WOULD YOU RATHER BE HAPPY

Lol.

Only a microcosm of humans can bear the pains of being right to being happy. When it comes to the redpill, the average human will rationalize their way around it and eventually stick to what makes them happy, after all, life is short! "Do what makes you happy!".
Search for comfort is what has led us here today, and we are still trying to make life more easier and simpler because life is really tough on all angles. Comfort is our default setting!

The only way one can be right and happy concurrently, is when he or she is versatile and or ranks high in the personality trait: openness. However, even when not happy but right, one's soul is blessed! Ignorance has its own consequences!

The term alpha, real man or beta means different things to different people. And that's why there seems to be a kind of soft vendetta wherever it's mentioned because every man thinks he's an alpha or a real man and not a beta. And another thing is that a man might be an alpha in one book and a beta in another book. So, there cannot be a solid definition of the term. For this reason, I share same sentiment with Rollo Tomassi when he says "alpha is a mindset". And the definition of the term, "alpha, as a man being successful in whatever he does" by Illimitable Man.

As far as I understand, it all boils down to the nature and knowledge of the game you're playing and not allowing yourself to get manipulated and cheated in the long run.

Thanks.

Truth be told, for our divine gods @CAPSLOCKED et Lordcassy, except I'm not reading clearly, both of you are on same page. I think it's just the usage of terms here and further explanation that's making it seems different, overall your posts correlate positively.

And I agree with both of you.

Thanks.

vicosir:
Pls guys help, been trying to withdraw from binance to my trustwallet since yesterday. It kept showing me the image below Instead of taking me to otp and Google authentication.
Please what am I doing wrong?

Click on the last icon below. "I understand..." Then, confirm before it takes you to verification page.

Cc. zayyadidris

Thanks.

hebenz:
Premium Tears

As a result of human intelligence, social and state regulations, men and women can behave in ways that either prospers or causes troubles to their relationship. Or, for their selfish individual benefits. Anyway, the mating strategies of both male and female are not collaborative! That's why during the marathon, it's expedient both makes some compromises for the success of their relationship.

That young woman might be lucky to game that young man after graduation successfully. But if the man in question is weak and emotional like that tiktok influencer or rapper that killed their spouses, she too will end up in her early grave. It's one thing to manipulate others but another thing to keep your enemies on check.

I had a maternal aunt who lost her life through this stupid game, not exactly same line though. The bad guy's protective instinct turned into twilight homicide. She messed up with the wrong dude and paid dearly with her life. May her soul rest in peace.

Relationship is getting worse these days because weak men and women in their multitudes abounds.

Thanks.

I have signed up.

RAGGA40:
There a constant pattern that i have discovered about women, they don't like owning up to their shits, they like shifting blames to another person including our mothers just like my mother shifting blames to my father because of my young brother beating up my sister for disrespecting him..

1. Excuse is an escape technique for the average human. Accept blame and get seriously mistreated by people around. Though, men accept blame more than women and will take full responsibility for their actions, hence, the domain of men is a place of honour and braveness.

2. Women aren't as strong as men, so if they accept blame they can't fight their accusers. Unlike women, men can withstand the heat and will try to fight back. This fine tunes with the fact that men are risk takers while women are conflict avoidant.

3. Accepting blame will corrupt her 'harmless angel nature'. Just imagine people getting to know that she is not what they think she is. Hence, that image must be protected by shifting blames.

NB: All of these has a strong evolutionary basis.

Thanks.

Hedgefunds:
As promised PLS Get some Turkey Sir.

Thanks sir. I do appreciate.

God bless.

Sincere appreciation to whoever is ***JE *****Y TRADING.

THOUGH I DON'T KNOW YOU HERE, BUT GOD BLESS.

THANKS.

WE MOVE!

CAPSLOCKED:
Soon we are going to discuss about how men sacrifice their health, time, youth, labour and money to cater for their children, wife and oftentimes the wife's family; but the children grow up detached from their father and connected to their mother.

Oftentimes, their mother maybe a very low income earner, or a high income earner who would rather use her salaries to buy wrappers, head-tie, gold jewelries and others.
Yet when the children start earning they take care of their mother, bring her overseas while they buy dry gin and leather sandals for their father.

The man's wife out of Serpentine greed will poison the children's heart in order to remove their father from the equation, and become the sole beneficiary of the children's gifts and care.
We are going to change that narrative and put our father on equal salaries and gifts.
Never Again!
A man is not saved until he begins to apply the truth to his immediate family. #SaveNigerianMen

-AllahKaduna Nzeogwu via Facebook. January 2 at 7:13 PM ·

DAY 6, REDPILL 2022

Yeah, there are deadbeat dads!

1. Deadbeat dads don't cater for their kids. They are weak and are not seen as a template their kids can rely on. Their masculine sterility is a disadvantage to their kids. The neglect of kids by deadbeat dads produces an overlapping effect as the care shown by single/deadbeat mums: unstable kids.

2. However, before the labeling 'deadbeat dads' starts going round, it must be understood that women are the gatekeepers of sex. Sex will never happen except a woman agrees. Non consensual sex like rape are rare exceptions. It then implies that a woman saw a characteristic feature in a man before she decides to have sexual intercourse with him or procreates. Consciously, the woman may say to herself "he got good ambitions, purpose, goals etc." Or, subconsciously, "this man got good genes, can protect me and the kids". Whether consciously or subconsciously, hypergamy always sees something higher than her, better than her or useful to her in a man before she has sex. If eventually things didn't turned out well, it's her fault, because she ought to have vetted that man efficiently before committing herself to him.

Now, this doesn't indicate that a woman must bear the blame solely and being whip mercilessly. Change is a characteristic feature of the human nature. As we experience political, economic, cultural and social change, we tend to adapt. And her man and others may change either for the positive or negative in respect to these various changes. But this should not be an avenue for lack of competence, accountability and responsibility.

3. Attention is womanly aphrodisiac!

A. Men by nature are sacrificial, and they don't go around trumpeting their good deeds because they see it as a part of them and it's expedient to show love and care to women, children and society at large---no wonder great civilizations are as a result of men's efforts.

B. Women have a higher biparental investment in children than men especially when children are young and fragile. While men are at work, women stay very close to their kids, and is at this age environmental effects can play a great role in the lives of kids.

C. Remember that hypergamy always want and goes for the best. At the onset, the man might be doing well but as a result of the changes or zeitgeist at that time or as the case maybe, he falls out of line and no longer able to meet the demands of his woman's hypergamous tendencies. The woman may then wear the man's shoes and step into the line to cater for the family. Because of womanly love for attention, and that society will always give regards to women who exhibit positive masculine trait like provision, coupled with her closeness to the kids, their father becomes a 'deadbeat dad'.

D. Father becomes deadbeat because he's outside trying to make ends meet but comes home empty handed. He's deadbeat because as his woman occupies his position of providing the major share of the household, respect and submissiveness dwindles. And it is at the stage the children starts maturing more psychologically. They never saw what father did in secret, was not always around, hence, "we believe mother because she has been the one standing close to us since childhood".

4. Many dad becomes real deadbeat because rather than upgrade, they became weak, and allow their vices---smoking, drinking, philandering, belligerence, take full charge over them.
He can't provide. He can no longer attract respect. He no longer has authority over wife and kids. His mode of control becomes tyrannical and forceful. Ego takes over as he doesn't want to be seen doing things below his standard; so, rather than work at the bottom, he prefers doing nothing.

They neglect the kids entirely and absent themselves from providing the children moral support even though their financial state is unstable. They abandon the kids for the women, and since women love attention, they will enunciate their good deeds and sacrifices, and right there, the children got substantial evidences to not take (good) care of dad when he grows old or fall sick.

5. Children will still see their mothers as their god and angel because of that closeness from birth and will never consider their mums as 'deadbeats' or manipulators. But they don't always know that the true love flows from the father.

6. Fathers are at a disadvantage because they are not always around. Or, have been too paralyzed to stand up again as a result of the zeitgeist of their time. Or, his own faults.
However, though incredibly difficult, fathers should get more closer to their kids at their tender age and always take care of themselves and store ahead for the future by staking good investments and insurance for their old age.

Authority: Put yourself first. Positive masculinity.

Cc Kaymicheal852, JoshuaVibes, Tonnyray et al.

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