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WITH ALL DUE RESPECT, YOU DON'T QUALIFY TO BE A PART OF THIS THREAD OR IN A GATHERING OF REDPILLERS/ALPHAS IF YOU'LL ARGUE THAT GREETING PEOPLE AS A SHOW OF BASIC COURTESY IS SUCH A BIG DEAL.

ALL OVER THE WORLD ESPECIALLY IN CULTURIZED COUNTRIES (INCLUDING JAPAN, CHINA, NETHERLANDS ETC) PEOPLE GREET EACH OTHER AS A SHOW OF RESPECT OR ACKNOWLEDGEMENT. SO IF YOU'RE GOING TO BRAG THAT YOU DON'T GREET ANYBODY ANYWHERE YOU GO THEN THIS IS NOT THE THREAD FOR YOU.

THE TRP ISN'T MEANT FOR ROMANCE AND WOMEN ALONE BUT ALSO TO TEACH PEOPLE LIKE YOU SOME SIMPLE DECENCY AND HOW TO BEHAVE PROPERLY WITHIN A SOCIETY.

IF YOU'RE THE MAN THAT DOESN'T LIKE GREETINGS OR SHOWING PLEASANTRIES OR ACKNOWLEDGING THE PRESENCE OF OTHER ADULTS (AND EVEN CHILDREN) AROUND YOU, YOU'LL HAVE MANY SERIOUS ISSUES IN YOUR LIFE. FIX THAT HABIT TODAY INSTEAD OF ARGUING THAT IT'S ALRIGHT TO ACT ABNORMAL.

CHEERS.

CaveAdullam:
A lady I visited yesterday narrated a story that almost follow same line as yours. Though the said man was into cybercrime, he made mad loads of money and spent it recklessly. He is now back to square 1, hits his wife almost on a daily basis and depends on neighbors for food some times.

On the issue of excuse, it is a feature in the human psyche: it serves as a media to escape shame, the feeling of guilt, being ostracized, and to maintain status and reputation. Excuse is an escape route, a useful one at that for the human species.

That young man is doomed! With a quiet retrospection, he will know that he fvcked up his life by himself rather than apportioning blame to both existing and non existing entities. But he wouldn't like to take blame for his recklessness, poor choice and decisions, hence, will quickly allocate cheap excuses to counter anyhow that tries to hold him accountable for his deeds and how competent he his.
It will be more difficult for him to even lift a spoon now because he has tasted the sweetness of life and ego wouldn't allow him bring himself low and start from the bottom to the top. People like this hardly change, most times, it's good you relegate them to the bottom or deal with them from afar because no matter the help you try to render, they either see it an attack on their ego or a mockery of their current state.

Thanks.

McOluOmo:
"The way to a man's heart is through his stomach"

Gurus in the house please enlighten us more.....

Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

ubunja:
Lmfao

Smartb0y:
I want to share a typical story many will find similar.

There's this guy,he made a way out for himself couple of years back only to waste most of the millions on booze and women.

Fast forward, for almost a decade he found himself struggling due to lack of planning.
The funny part is that he blames the spiritual for his circumstances and not himself hahaha.

As if that's not enough,he got himself a baby mama for a gf.
She's been with him for over 4years if not more.

He had to pack out of his apartment cuz he could no longer manage with the house rent.

He now lives with the parent and the baby mama still comes around to stay,is that not madness

How can someone think this way guys

Some people are just doomed tbh, no matter the help you render them.

They'll always give in to their compromising nature hence they'll never grow.

For me it's the lack of shame of the said individual and inability to accept he's his own fault and enemy.(imagine blaming your faults on something that doesn't exist hahaha)

The ability of some individual to live in such redundancy is alarming really.

AntichristXXX:
Life doesn't get easier when you get a woman. It gets harder. Honest people know this.

Yet one of the most unpopular truths that provokes ridiculous reactions even in men is to say that women drag you down more than they help you.

People hate hearing this. Makes them defensive.

Martinez39s:
These girls always do their homework. They know the brilliant ones. It is the boldness and senseless audacity for me: to have demanded that you took a risk that could've led to rustication or expulsion and then get offended when you declined. She even reported you to your roommate. Chineke.

As for that your friend, he is very stupid. So he really thought you ought to have risked a rustication or expulsion because of a woman? How blue pill is that. Not even a guy is worth that risk.

heartofcity12:
Exactly, you get the drill. Sophisticated hoes call themselves “independent women” now.

Uptheante:
But the hate is mutual.
I mean prostitutes also hate non-prostitutes.
What is the explanation for that?

RAGGA40:
Cc caveadullam
you ave a point, the rate in which young men are marrying chaffs every saturdays is alarming, you don't managed a marriage on love, one needs enough redpill before committing to women. One of my friend who is an aspiring pastor wants to marry by all means by next year, i'm looking at the guy and i'm like, what's going on. I don't want to depend on salary i want to earn money from different sources.

Martinez39s:
100%

No.

Martinez39s:
On my way home this morning from the gym close to my place, I boarded an okada. The motorcyclist happened to be one hausa guy I was familiar and cordial with since he and other motorcyclists usually hang around my bus stop and estate gate. They have been there for years now.

While on the speeding bike, he and I were reminiscing on the good gestures of my mother towards them every Christmas. He then jokingly told me "oga, no forget do small Christmas for me" and he laughed. Along the way, when we stopped for me to buy something before finally heading to my house, I gave him the transport fare of #100 and I added #2000, which was all the physical cash I had in my pocket, as a gift.

What really surprised me was the way this man looked at the cash in excitement like he had won a lottery, and he couldn't believe his eyes. He was shocked and riveted to the spot before collecting the money. It was as if no one has given him such sort of gift before. He repeatedly kept thanking me on the way. He kept telling me in excitement that I have really tried for him and he was thinking of going to Ogun state today and my gift will come in handy. After I got down, he repeatedly kept thanking me and he zoomed off. I was enthused to see an elderly man old enough to be my father gyrating like an excited child who finally got for Christmas the big gift he has always wanted.

I didn't want to share, but I just kept reliving that encounter and I couldn't help it.

Heryormilekan:
Why you use Lekan nah? You for you use CaveAdullum or Martinez39s

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ubunja:
its been a tumultuous year bossman and '22 doesn't promise any reprieve...

As for the song, This side we just grooving without any real understanding of it. It's a beautiful now that I get the message. These songs are uniting Africa more and more. Im here for it

ubunja:
literally a whole year. Time travels fast doesn't it.


Guys have a happy new year,, I know in Southy we'll enter the new Year a full 1 hour ahead of you...take care.

And how popular is the song below in naija? Cause it's doing the things this side... "you wanna chill with the big boys!!"

Herculex03:
Earlier today my younger sister logged in her Facebook on my phone and forgot to log out so I decided to read her chat with her close friend,and I guess I saw what I came looking for the girl was telling my sister how she got bleeped by a guy without condom and how she feels pain and can't walk,my sister prescribed some drugs for her
Alot going on my mind now based on the fact the chat dated back to April this year
I'm not surprised thanks to TRP but I'm getting shocked because this girls are both 17 and 16yr olds.

siofra:
You're correct.

Men are generally smarter than women by 4 IQ points. Not a big difference. But I think it's social conditioning where men tend to be more into STEM related occupations.

But men too are generally dumber than women but it's not obvious because most of the men that fall on the left side of the bell curve are in special institutions.

siofra:
99.99999% of nairaland misogynists/redpillers are too dumb to interpret that graph.

Very dumb set of people

tayewomi:
I watched one film yesterday titled "mask"
the guy is a University graduate with no job and he has a gf.so he went to learn shoemaking and he's managing in a small shop with his skills,so his gf female friend always complain abt the guy and telling her Fri the guy gf that he's too poor meanwhile they both loved themselves.
so for financial breakthrough the went to engage in shady deals:ilegal stuffs to bring in money to take care of the girl,attimes he do take the girl to boutique to buy her clothes and spend heavily on her.unknownly the girl is a police officer,even the guy didn't know,one day the guy went to operation to deliver ilegal stuffs,on getting there he met her gf who shot one of them they are two who went to deliver the stuffs,so she killed the other guy and spare his own bf,they later got home and the girls keeps questioning the guy how he got involved in shady deals.so the guy told her it's all just for them both to be comfortable,all the while the girl didn't know the guy was into the illegal stuffs,so the girl later invited the police to come arrest the guy coz she need promotion at work badly and she needs rank and wants to Carry out her job.the guy cried when he's being taken aware his gf is part of those who pushed him up the van to station.Guys don't commit atrocities for any damn body,go legal and don't forget this ladies won't think twice to Carry out their wish.Nothing like love..

RAGGA40:
God i don't understand some men's thinking or should i call it daftness.

NeroStealth01:
You don't have to get burnt before you are truly REDPILLED. Saying men have to get burnt before they are considered solid REDPILLERS is one of the dumbest thing I have ever heard. It reeks of bluePILLED mindset.

Men don't need to experience heartbreak before they are unplugged from the matrix and become REDPILLED. In fact the best and luckiest of men are those who never got burnt by female nature before accepting the REDPILL.

Someone was still talking about how a former secondary school mate of his committed suicide just because of a bad love experience. What do we say about that? How does the dead learn from his experience now?

Don't ever fall for it whenever you are told you need to experience something before you truly understand it. When you can clearly see with your own eyes the damages it has done to others before.

That is how some dumb men will also tell you that you have to experience raw sex. Now when you go ahead and experience the raw sex with a prostitute, and you get infected with HIV. How do you come back from that? How do you recover?

Some experience, you don't come back from it.

One of the best ways to learn is to learn from the experience of others.

The only experience you need is the experience you want to add to your CV so as to get another better paying job in a more reputable company/firm.

#TAKETHEREDPILL
#STAYREDPILLED
#STAYCOLD

Smartb0y:
I do not completely agree with your statement.

There are two ways to learn in life, either from experience or wisdom.

For instance,if you're told "don't put your hands in the fire" but you go ahead and do it anyways,result being you getting hurt.

On the other hand, if you adhere to wisdom, you save yourself the burns.
Now, the interesting part is this, why didn't you put your hands in the fire?

Could it be that you saw how the other person got burned putting his hands in or you knew that putting your hands in the fire won't do you any good.

Same can be said about guys who have been hurt and those who avoid getting hurt.

CHOICES,Yes it's all about choice.

The fact that Mr abstainee chose to avoid engaging in such act and the resultant effect is him seeing others getting hurt proves that he's just as equipped to handle such state.
If anything, Mr abstainee is even in a better position to make better future choices.

"Experience is the best teacher" ----> this is a lame man's way of thinking, to give excuse for his falsities.
Do you know that most people that use this statement still go on making the same mistake over and over again

Train your mind ....let it make good choices whether it stems from experience or wisdom.
You don't have to be hurt to know how it feels to be hurt, you can always learn from other people's experience to make better choices (wisdom).

It is when one fails to learn from other people's mistakes that they themselves create experiences of their own.

I'll will always advocate that we learn from wisdom (other people's experience) instead of our own experience because there's no guarantee we will learn from such experience
Talkless of the damage that comes with learning from experience eg time wasting.

Redpill is wisdom, I don't see why Mr abstainee won't be able to understand what it means to be redpilled since he's already operating under the modus operandi of wisdom.

If anything, it's Mr experience that might find his thoughts conflicting since wisdom was never his strong suit.

So No, you don't have to fall in love to be redpilled

iLegendd:
I have the worst IQ as a kid. All I did was fight and beat people in school. I was the definition of trouble. I didn't know how to spell anything.

My brain opened after my mom promised to buy me those fancy shoes with light and colorful plastic watches next Christmas if I carry 1st position or at least 3rd. Lots of rich kids had these things and I wanted them at all cost.

She bought a Queen Primer and started teach me things like

ONE - 1
TWO - 2
IT — it
ON - on
Coconut — Akimbo
Plantain — Okinima, etc.

I moved from olodo to the second best in class and from there to number 1 in class and I have maintained top 3 in all the schools I have been to in life. That was the bait/ginger I needed to grow.

So, yes, my IQ used to suck as a kid, but I improved because I challenged myself. Don't get me wrong, it sucked academically as a kid, but I could repair almost any electronic without being taught unlike the intelligent kids.

How many blacks are willing to challenge themselves? Few. They prefer being online watching porn, abusing people making progress, scamming, gambling, TV, complaining day and night, etc.

If I tell you the things I have invented, you'll doubt. Don't worry, some of them will have mass production in the future.

So, my IQ is no longer low, but it used to.

CaveAdullam:
1. This is a very bitter pill to swallow but the truth is that what the op posted is accurate. Genetics contributes to the intelligence of every individual and as well as the environment. If you are deep into neuroscience studies you would have discovered this long ago.

2. IQ test study is (one) of the studies with the highest number of samples and replication taken from all continents.

3. IQ is highly influenced by genetics. Environment also play a significant role. However, the effect of environment on IQ declines as from 14-16 years of age as genes takes over from there: the Wilson effect.

4. The polygenic risk scoring and genome wide study are still working out seriously to determine the exact genes that are responsible for intelligence.

5. Scientists currently know this accurately by the SAT and ACT scores. All scores are normally distributed using the bell curve. Mean average intelligence for Blacks is 85, America and Europe 100+ and Asians 105+

6. The twins studies has also proven this fact. Twins raised in different environment still had same IQ and environment played only little role. (The twins I have observed personally also made me confident on its findings).

7. Admixture studies still did same. White or Asian hybrids of kids did better than black hybrids.

8. Africa is backward today because of low IQ, and low IQ positively correlates with low income, crime, high risk involvement, low academic performance etc. Black American community in the USA also proves this.

Don't think too far, if you've lived long in Africa, you'll know that the above is accurate.

9. Though genetics plays an important role in IQ, but if the African environment is built to a good standard her citizens can still do wonders.

Note: in every rules there are outliers, but outliers proves the point. There are Blacks with IQ above 100, but they are rare, extremely rare to the extent that you may only find 1 in more than a 100,000 samples in the black community.

Thanks.