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Martinez39s:
No o. It's not me; na skepticus. Guess what? I saw skepticus doing Christmas romance and blues with his nawalt (pictures below). I tried to warn him, but he said I am a broke loser and na small pikin dey worry me. He said I should get my money up and nawalts will come. I tried to help him, but it's more difficult; I tried to put effort, I did not see result.

Christos!

See Skepticus NAWALT and close marking. . " NA wa o".

Calibrator, how much is engine oil now? Black market?

TRP1:
i sent fund for local Turkey sir
I’m just a broke masturbator (even though I don’t masturbate lols )

Got it!

Thanks man. I'm still a masturbator even though you remove the shame of brokeness from my life.

I sincerely appreciate.

God bless.

Calibrator:
You really can't shame the shameless.


If too much wisdom no kee this man, too much sarcasm will

"Lemme alone o".

"Me nor haff entitlement mentality ".

I need to upgrade my keyboard and buy the real extra virgin olive oil, those ones in dark green bottles...you know what I mean. Winks!

I still need some proper calibration in my life...Martinez39s has left me alone after he found a single mother and a sugar mummy with 4½ kids. I'm all alone. (Tears starts flowing).

TRP1:
UBUNJA (I need to Bless you heavily from my heart )
CaveAdullam
CAPSLOCKED
Martinez39s

Please kindly send me a Dm or if you can drop your account details here no problem sirs
I need to fund you Bosses some stuffs for Christmas

If you know anyone that have contributed massively to this platform kindly do well to mention their name and let me run some check also

I’m just a broke masturbator though

Me that's broke, and here is urgent 2K? Haaa...


Thanks man.

Divinefavour1:
It is well.

Just don't be depressed.

Do you have a PC, it yes, why not do web development.

I will mentor you.



I am divinely favoured

I've been looking around and watching some tutorials about web development but have been unable to get hold of it, kinda confusing.

Please, I will sincerely need your guidance. Thanks.

The union is dead, the more effort you put in trying to resuscitate it, the more you become invested and slowly slip into some psychological shits.

Your focus should be on your kids, though it will not be easy but try you must because they are still young and their mother's effect hasn't corrupted them that much. Take the kids along with you or look for a well reputable adult to help you take care of them.

As for your wife, forget about her, she has long gone for good even before now. Never, I repeat never bring her to oversea else, you will totally damage yourself. She will feign repentance, submission, meekness, but don't give in because its superficial and manipulative.

Leave that woman alone!

Thanks.

@BLOODYSPERM deactivated his account. Huh!

Enjoy your sabbatical/monk mode bro.

Sigh!

As usual, anything from iLegendd is superb! Kudos!

In addendum:

1. The secret lives you explained can take different terms in different textbooks, however, it all boils down to survival. Hence, men and women must oscillate among these lives so that they can continue to exist or via their genes. It's just the game of life be it moral, immoral, amoral or a mélange of it.

2. Social media is a conglomeration of individuals from a plethora of different political, cultural, economic, social, religious, intellectual backgrounds. There is a quid pro quo of ideas on these media which serves as a template for learning. Notwithstanding, human nature is same anywhere or everywhere; the differences which contributes to these inherent nature(genetics) is as a result of the zeitgeist of that person's location or nation.

America or the Western nation might be pointed fingers at but their exposure and interaction with people from other indigenous nations helped in exposing human nature especially that of women. It is what it is.

Western nation has other good sides in which other second or third world countries ought to have mimic, but because humans first react to their basic needs: food, sex, pleasure, they tend to gravitate towards it, after all, America and other first world countries has a variety of it and are the best dealers.

Third world countries are able to copy and mimic these bad sides or corrupt part of western societies because it blends or overlaps with their low IQ state. Africa/Black communities has the lowest IQ among the major classified races!

3. Women has this dark nature, social media just helped in exposing it and bringing it to the awareness of all who are ready for it. As usual, it is an imperative, though, environment has really contributed to it. Religious and traditional restrictions which didn't came out as a result of conscious and deliberate thinking but by natural selection came into place in order to checkmate women's dark nature. The patriarchy was for a reason!

4. You subtly dropped it somewhere like kinda accusing men for women's misdemeanors, but understand: adult men are not responsible for the behaviors of adult women. Each has their own freewill and any decision not made under threat or coercion should not always paint one black or the man as the villain! Men want to fvck around; if women agree, they both will fvck. Man ought to have restraint upon his libido, however, when it calls and wants to respond and women are available, he will definitely bolster his notch counts.

In these era where more women are claiming independence, feminism, egalitarianism, "what a man can do, a woman can do it more better", you don't expect men not to follow suit and respond with game or machiavellianism. Men can only be responsible for women when women agree or come to the awareness that they are just little above adolescence and teenagers or better still, that they are 'adult children', and that they require masculine wall to guide, protect and lead them. Anything beyond this makes the game continue; and every man or woman wants to win.

5. Getting virgin women or women with lower body counts is extremely rare in our contemporary age. It is advisable for men to continue with their game rather than commit to a used wh0re! He has nothing to gain from a used wh0re except to fvck.

If he must commit, it must be a virgin or nothing regardless of the zeitgeist of that place he is, and must vet her to be true. It all depends on where he's looking at and the amount of time and energy he's ready to put into in order to get these kind of woman. Not that this will guarantee an interminable relationship, but at least, while the ship sails before it finally capsized, he enjoyed the melodious voices of the beautiful sirens from the hollows of the woman he committed to. All materials don't last forever, however, starting with a quality one ensures work success. This is better rather than struggling with past memories and ghosts of ex fvck mates.

These kind of women starts manifesting as from the age 13, the ones coming of age to be used and dumped after their passage rites. He must keep his eyes on this circle. Though many will fall on the way side, but at least a good number still make it to the age of consent: 18yrs, and here he must clutch her and take her for his own and possessed her. If he waits for her to gain more experience and become more mature, then, the woman he finally wants to commit to has been rammed, used and dumped by various sizes, colours and lengths of d!cks.

Thanks.

God bless.

COOL10:
It's funny how you go from 'we don't know the whole narratives' to you judging the guy just because he displayed his aggressive side.
What's the difference between you and those thirsty ass simps on the streets who rush after a man who's quarrelling with his spouse. No one tries to hold the woman who's running her mouth like a water faucet or is even trading blows with him.

Women are allowed to be as rude and aggressive as they want but when a guy finally snaps after possibly years of restraint, he gets ridiculed. He gets shamed by men like you whose only concern is what a man should and shouldn't do. Paying allegiance to a bar set by society to extort and manipulate the very builders of that same society. What does that make you?

You shame his level of maturity because he threw the wine bottle on a rug covered floor and tried to tip over the cake stand. He didn't even beat the lady but you shame him anyway. What's the difference between you and other simps who are experts in shaming men for likes and online validation?

Have you thought of the possibility that he probably found out on the wedding day that the girl cheated, he then told his parents who despite all evidence, adamantly said he would get married anyway? Listen to the music in the background. That indicates they're probably an Arab family. We all know how they are about arranged marriages.

You talk about the sanctity of marriage and respecting his guests. Do you really think women give a horse's ass about any of that? Jesus Christ, dude. Stop being a puppet . Open your eyes man.

Once a woman knows you hold something in high regard, SHE WILL use that against you. Don't tell me you're one of those guys who stand moping when their wives/girlfriends are busy decorating their faces with slaps. Even with their long fingernails scratching your face and your expensive shirt looking all rumpled from the incessant dragging, you keep quiet anyway because you don't want to be seen as unmanly.

You'd rather have your dignity wash away before your very own eyes. You allow your illusions of manliness keep you subservient to the female narrative. Guys like you are easy to manipulate because they know you'll never do anything to tarnish your values.

You're a man (at least I think you are) and I respect your opinions on this thread. A LOT.
But shaming a man just because he goes against your illusions of marriage and because he's offending who you think he shouldn't be offending is a no no for me. You should know better(as you're a man).

Have a nice Monday. Peace.

On a norms, I know this post doesn't worth my reply because it reeks of emotional vituperations, ad hominems and low pragmatism. However, I will for the sake of readers and followers to know how to observe and try their best possible to determine the various ways an order/phenomenon can occur rather than, stick to a particular narrative and run amok with it without considering other underlying sheets. No man is an Island of knowledge, we know and share in parts. OK?

In the post you quoted, I mentioned "we don't know the whole narratives", meaning that apart from the two claims that you're making: (a) that he caught his bride cheating and (b) forced marriage, which of course you've not proven to be true beyond reasonable doubt and in addendum to my former post, there might be other narratives which are:

1. Perhaps, the whole scenario was a prank.

2. Perhaps, it might be a movie show.

3. Perhaps, the family of the groom are against the marriage and in order to prevent the progress of the union, they poisoned the groom's food/drink.

4. Perhaps, the family of the bride are against the marriage, so in order to prevent the progress of the union, they poisoned the groom's food/drink.

5. Perhaps, the groom is against the marriage, hence he needed to act that way to forestall the progress of the union.

6. Perhaps, the bride is against the marriage and poisoned the drink/food of the groom so that she can prove a point.

7. Perhaps, the groom is suffering from a psychological problem. Etc.

There might be other narratives we still don't know, hence, we must thread carefully before hastily coming into any conclusion. And not in only this matter but other matters as well.

Are you gonna consider the above too or continue to cry me a river?

Have a nice day too.

Thanks.

COOL10:
If a woman is aggressive, she was triggered.
If a man is aggressive, he's a violent, misogynistic, piece of shit.

This is the stupid logic these whiteknights, feminists and monkey ass simps want to feed us. Watch the video of the wedding in the link below. Very few people could sense that it was probably a case of an arranged marriage or that he possibly just found out that she cheated. These are reasonable explanations for his reaction (for anyone with a working brain).

Virtually everyone took the side of the woman and called the guy despicable names. Read the comments.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HOmAcFYVNC8

Whatever he is called, he deserves it! Even if he's not considered as an adult in his single life, at least going into the marriage institution already portrays him as one. Since he's old enough to get married, therefore, it means that he should be old enough to make quality decisions that will not jeopardize his life in the long run. From the video, we can't really decipher the whole narratives, however, from the short clip, the man is at the wrong side.

He knows already that this holy matrimony has its foundation on a desecrated ground but yet choose to go in. Why? We don't know! But it is better he had shunned it---the marriage union, and stand on his ground rather than start behaving like a convulsing toddler in an occasion that has the presence of people that respects and hold him in high esteem.

This reaction from my Gee is a no no. Or, perhaps, it is a psychological problem.

Thanks.

Emotionss:
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The chosen techniques is not meant for everyone. For you to successfully use this technique, you most be above average in all that concerns you.

Your mental,emotional,physical,fainancal maturity must be above and beyond Average..

Let me give you an example.

I once attended a wedding I left the reception venue with 6 phone numbers (5 from females and one from a guy I suspect to be gay) I didn't not approach any of them they simply recognize and appreciate the Aura I was oozing out. I can't go a week without being approach by at least a single woman. (In some rear cases a man)

Some men are meant to approach women. Others a meant to be Approach By women.

Anyways I am still insisting that Sex is overrated !!!

1. That emotional rush a woman feels when coming to you without you doing little to nothing is very exciting. This was the case of the last woman I was with. When we finally got in contact properly, I pretended I wasn't able to see her number when she wrote it down on a paper and she had to write it again and paint it bold with her name attached to it for me to be able to see it. We had fun, and I swear we didn't chit chat on mobile neither did we made phone calls...she was the one coming. Why? I was CHOSEN!

2. Yes, at the first time, even after greenlight she was forming 'shakara'. However, I just expressed my sexual self to the fullest and allowed her do her thing.
Common ground like you have said is the way I used in approaching women be it inside a bus, around my vicinity etc. That common ground makes rapport easy as she has already taken time to examine you unlike cold approaching her from behind.

3. Even if a man is low, but once he's able to express himself with confidence, always neat and with great personality, women will always be attracted to him no matter what. He's just like a flower by the wayside who does nothing but attracts insects who at the end still helps in pollinating it.

4. Anyway a man should do what best suits him, if he choose to be a wild cat e.g like a lion that finds thrills in chasing and getting hold of his prey fine. What matters is how he manages his TEAR(Time, Energy, Attention, Resources). He must not neglect these alongside his ambition, passion and motto because he wants a motley of vaginas.

5. Personally, I think abundant mindset is knowing that you won't miss out on women, because definitely, there are more and more women in the future. Rather, the little time you have, use it on yourself and let women be the one wasting their time on you.

And as you must know, women are attached to men that supply them their emotional fantasies. Once you are that man, forget it, they will come.

Regardlessly, whichever method of game you choose as each one has it own pros and cons, serves you better and makes you win.

Thanks.

Smartb0y:
Yeah, I mostly just admire the ones I encounter really.
Unless we got something in common eg we find ourselves in a common ground, I don't engage.
That's just my kinda person bro.
I can't be an extrovert in 5 secs just because I find a pussy attractive
But I get what you mean

@bolded got me laughing since morning anytime it strikes my memory. Loooool.

Nairalanders and mouth; 5 & 6.

showafrica:
No i buy coins 1$ each... Made more than 100% within 2wks. Waiting for 2nd wave of bull runs

Please, how?

Junnior:
Trading words with a girl is petty. If he replies her insult, she would reply his as well and it will turn to a back-and-forth.
Besides, there will certainly be white knights and simps on the group that will take sides with her.

I would totally ignore her online and offline starting from that point she made that comment.

She would feel stvpid around me thenceforth and try all she can to get on my good side.

I did this a lot during my uni days.

excerpt from the post: "...NB: I know that different situations calls for different approach, but you must learn to decipher each and serve the right quantity of coffee".

Thanks.

Ronnnie:
News of a girl planning to raise her body count to 1000 guys before she clocks 30...and somebody will still wife her....even for a guy this is disgusting to read

Martinez39s, search no more, the Lord has found a wife for you. Don't miss this opportunity bro.

Qpid5:
Help me please, whenever I click BUY SHIB, there will say the total must be greater than 10..
Can someone explain this to me?

Increase the amount of your shib buy from 9.17 to 10usdt. Since your available usdt is 12, I think you should buy shib with 100% of it in order to meet with the required amount. The minimum amount you must spend to buy coins on binance is 10usdt.

Thanks.

Martinez39s:
LOL. That aside. Your post made me remember one usual irrationality and refrain of detractors (I have been encountering this since when I started talking about the red pill). One thing I usually notice is how many people conflate saying unflattering or harsh truth about women with misogyny, apportioning blame to women, and inability to get laid. They make it seem like women are special and angelic beings who are infallible and irreproachable, and all men are just seeking to get laid, hence any unflattering or harsh truth one says is simply from the frustration and failure to get laid.

I don't take people who think like this seriously in a discussion. People who think like this are not susceptible to the liberating and harsh truths of the red pill; dem never ready.

AWALT is the litmus test. They thought we'll emotionally separate our mothers, sisters and other close female relatives out of the feminine mystique. Yes, many of us have good mothers and sisters but that doesn't in anyway obliterates their nature and what they are capable of when given the leeway. Many of these accusers are lost in the matrix and can never be redeemed, they know that the redpill lessons are true but because they've invested so much in the matrix, they will rationalize their way around it and remain in their bluepill delusion. The pill is red for a reason; red signifies pain and danger and majority of humans can neither handle nor endure it.

Notch counts doesn't count when these women want to demonstrate their instincts; hypergamy doesn't care either! Fvcking women or spending heavily on them cannot obliterate feminine mystique. It is what it is!

Thanks.

Martinez39s:
Be wary of the way you build rapport with females, to avoid things like this. Familiarity gets into their heads easily; like play like play, dem no dey know their mates again. Familiarity breeds contempt; avoid familiarity and see finish. If a girl appears to be rude, cut her off. No need to reply her impertinent remarks. Reserve friendship for your fellow trustworthy males. As for females, leave the ones that serve, or will serve, your aim as amiable acquaintances. Finally, don't talk too much each time when discussing with females, keep it brief and don't say more than necessary.

This is how I roll in real life and I still get along with both genders.

Nb: I didn't go into details, but I hope you get the drift.

True talk bro!

These women sometimes whether consciously or unconsciously do move away from the mark to shit test you. The lady in question might be a jovial and playful type, but maybe that day, she one way or the other decided to cross paths. It is not a new thing. Immediately you detect it and serve them back their own medicine they do come to their senses and return to their former state. Even male friends do it too. Definitely, the arrogant and abusive ones who wastes no time in dishing out their vitriolic are easily noticed and must not even from the first time considered as friends or allies except otherwise.

My number one philosophy in life is that nobody is useless regardless of how stupid that person may behave. I find where to put each one and see whatever lesson or profit I can get from them. There's a place for tolerance and also a place of chastisement and discipline.

Thanks.

Hotspotbro:
[b][color=#0088BB] I KNEW SHE'S THE KIND OF GIRL THAT HAS ONLY MOUTH WORKING FOR HER[/color]She say she wan beat me and her punches sef no get weight[/b]wo...She ain't my issues anyways.

"She can even buy your future" is a shaming tactic, to remind you of your present condition with contempt". Average human cannot separate truth from wealth or status, once you're rich, high status and/or powerful, whatever you say or do is the truth and very correct. Dumb people always falling for the authority bias!

Personally, that your reply was too mild for such an insult, you would have returned to her a taste of her own medicine and see how she will mellow down. That will make her to think well before spilling thrash next time.

Example:

Cave: it is what has value that celebrities buy. Nicki wouldn't even considered yours because you don't have any future and even if you do, it's wasted!

NB: I know that different situations calls for different approach, but you must learn to decipher each and serve the right quantity of coffee.

Thanks.

Lordcassy:
You don't understand or maybe you have not got to that part of the redpill...

Men don't cheat, women do...(oo the misogyny lol)
Yes Men don't cheat and even God knows it...we are polygamous by nature and so can't be with one woman for a long duration of time....please note Men are polygamous yes but not all men can pull it off...

The problem that are always experienced in human's sexual relationship is lack of awareness of their mating strategy: polygyny, casual mating and sole mating(monogamy). However, not really our fault because our instincts is not wired for the modernized environment we are now: "evolutionary mismatch".

Of the three(3) mating strategies, men rank far and higher than women and of which, monogamy is our primary mating system.

Lordcassy:
Woman cheat, yes they do...because of hypergamy...hypergamy is not fucking a bunch of dude..hypergamy is getting the best dude...it is their nature to stick with one man that fulfills a reasonable criteria...

Very correct my lord!

As a result of hypergamy which is looking for the best men, women indulge in casual mating(promiscuity). She's not gathering men that will fvck her constantly because the cost of pregnancy is high for her. What she really wants is a dude who can give her good genes(kids), protection and provision. Women can have a lot of men orbiting them; friendzone, but what they are really looking for is that particular man that will provide them their needs. Since this is almost not possible in this modern era, in her orbit, she will fvck the one(chad) that has good genes:alpha fvcks...single mother... and eventually settle down for the one(simp) that will take care of the provision part: beta bucks...female dual mating or sexual selection strategy.

Men on the other hand want to fvck women regardless of socioeconomic status. As far she's a woman and of sexual maturity, men want to fvck! He needs to spread his genes and satiates his libido. According to Roy Baumister, "men are doomed to be h0rny". Testosterone is a b!tch. And testosterone hormone which controls libido is of larger quantity in men compared to women.

Lordcassy:
In the good old days that criteria used to be...does he have a hut/house, does he has a farm we can both work for our daily bread, can he take charge of farm and take care of me if I am pregnant.....if you were a privileged chief daughter you can maybe on rare occasions add, is he handsome..

Even as simple as this criteria is Women can't still fulfilled their needed hypergamy alone...Society ordained the girl Father to check for her...and make the decision because women are easily decieved..

Then feminism and romance...Women in their almighty wisdom developed new hypergamy for themselves...things like.. dick, chiseled abs(do your exercises bros),smooth talker etc you know the rest...
you check the 80s magazine to find out

then 21century hypergamy you know the rest.

I concur!

Even in our culture and environment today, women still desires those things as of old: " huts/houses, farm lands etc. which signifies good provisioning and handsomeness, d!ck size, chiseled abs, smooth talker" etc. which signifies domination and protection.

Fathers were there to guide their daughters to particular men who has these things or has great potential in achieving them. So, instead of allowing their daughters to monkey branch, they search for these quality men and match make them with their daughters for long term relationship. What feminism, dating apps, social media, romance novels and movies did was telling women that they have enough options and shouldn't settle for less. But they didn't tell women that it's not possible to get all of them. They provided raw data of options for women, yet, women are still unable to settle down for one. This bolsters women's avariciousness when it comes to a man and his resources. So, in an attempt to get the best men, they increase on their level of CASUAL MATING OR PROMISCUITY. It is only when they've reach epiphany phase they do realise that they've really messed up themselves.

Lordcassy:
SO HOW DO MEN CHEAT I MEAN, LORDCASSY IT IS NOT FAIR, I HAVE A SISTER BLAH BLAH BLAH...YOU ARE JUST BITTER?..

Lordcassy replies
Men do cheat but not the way women do...polygamy is my mating strategy and hypergamy is your...well you got me to put a ring on it didn't you....so I would like to think you fulfilled your sexual strategy but what about me, do you want me to sacrifice my sexual strategy for you....never!

A man only cheat me if . he break his vow he made before God to his wife...
TO LOVE AND TO HOLD...yes I sleep around but I still love my wife and she is still in my house...
TO CHERISH TILL BLAH BLAH...Yes she is the mother of children, she will be cherished by me and our children.. Soo...

The point is A MAN ONLY CHEAT IF HE ALLOCATE THE RESOURCES NEED FOR HIS WIFE AND OFFSPRING NOURISHMENT TO SOME DUMB HOE...THEN THAT MAN MY FRIEND IS A CHEAT AND HAS NO HONOUR...

A MAN IS CHEAT IF HE SIMPS AND CHASES HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN UNPROVOKED OUT OF HIS ABODE AND BRINGS IN A NEW VIPER....THAT MAN IS A CHEAT...

Apt!

However, this seems like a dilemma but it isn't. The population of people that have problem with this are those who don't have an understanding of the human mating strategy. On this note, Islamic religion really did a good expository, though, it stands on religion but it strikes a great rhythm in men's POLYGYNOUS MATING STRATEGY. Women getting married to these men already know that their husbands can get married to more women if they chooses and that's not cheating because their religion approves of it provided them and their children are well catered for. She made a vow consciously to remain loyal and faithful to him and instinctually, hypergamy already signifies this man as high value.

The Islamic counterpart who are christians labeled this man as a cheat if he decides to venture into his polygynous mating strategy. And here christian men has been gaslighted! In order to solve this problem, christian men must understand their other mating sides aside monogamy and decide if to ignore it and uphold to the vow of monogamy. It becomes infidelity or cheating if he doesn't makes this known from the onset like the Islamic group.

Is there a double standard here? No!

A woman must understand that it was hypergamy that chooses her monogamous husband and she cheats if she breaks the vow because her husband ventures to his other mating side. By the way, the women their husbands frolick with are taken care of by their husbands and the only risk they face is STDs/STIs as their husbands still cater for the home. But if the wives cheat, the man faces the risk of STDs/STIs, paternity fraud and solely sponsoring a woman who other men are fvcking which is financial theft.

So, the vow before marriage after considering these mating strategies is what determines if a man cheats or not.

Lordcassy:
MONOGAMY IS UNFORTUNATELY NEED FOR SOCIETY TO FLOURISH...BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE TO BE WITH ONLY YOUR WIFE JUST DON'T BE A FOOL...

I can go on and on...but the MISOGYNY..LOL

Society flourish much better on monogamy than other of human's mating strategy. Monogamous societies have high level of mental and social energy and tend to be more rationale, more productive, more peaceful etc. Polygamy(polygyny) breeds violence as resources and mates doesn't always go round in same fraction.

As a result of this mating strategy and how each of the sexes react to it differently makes their sexual selection "combative rather than cooperative" when they decides to become a union. For there to be success in their relationship, they must welcome tradeoffs and compromises; one must go down for the other to succeed and to ensure the progress and stability of the relationship. And as far as the redpill is concerned, women must do the tradeoffs or compromise by clipping on their hypergamy. However, not to be a dumb mediocre woman. As the woman improves herself, the man must improve himself 5x and above because as he become much better and faster than the woman, the woman's attraction for him increases.

Thanks.