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Martinez39s:
You have said it better.

Tonnyray:
Awesome take as always.
You never fail to deliver.

Martinez39s:
Gbam! Female nature is universal. Nigerian is hard, hence women put more effort in looking for a financially stable spouse for marriage. It is adaption to the harsh economy. However, their mating strategy is still the same as that of women all over the world, same as the sexcapades and sexual attraction. The fact that they are putting more efforts to secure a financially stable beta doesn't mean they are not still following their nature behind the curtains. The red pill truths that are valid with Western women are also valid with Nigerian women. I don't know if I have done a good job in conveying my thoughts.

heartofcity12:
Can you just imagine
This proves you’ll feel more positive effects of the redpill (as regards to getting girls) in a saner environment, not here where everything is monetized. Stay redpilled.
PS Getting girls is not the only reason for the redpill education, don’t get it confused pls.

ElasmoBranchii:
I took my time to educate myself on what emotions are. That is why I like discussion like this. This is what I found out
"Our emotions are controlled by a group of brain structures called the limbic system. The limbic system releases chemicals which spur on our emotional states. The type of emotion we feel depends on which chemicals have been released. For example, the hormone oxytocin allows us to experience feelings of love"



Please read this
https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20131125/how-the-love-hormone-works-its-magic



"When we are intimate with someone, oxytocin, also known as the "love hormone" is released into the body "during intercourse and other forms of intimacy," Dr. Sal Raichbach"

"Oxytocin release causes the sense of trust and makes us miss our partners. People with high levels of testosterone may probably not feel the connection, because this hormone suppresses oxytocin activity."



Love is an emotion how does it teach?
Are you sure your understanding of love isn't based on the western fantasy which you attack.
I never knew you were meant to love one woman your whole life. Men of the past didn't love like that.



Love exist and just as any other emotion is caused by neurophysiological changes.

A man's love is unconditional
A woman's love is conditional

A man loves a woman just because she is a woman
A woman loves a man cause of how he makes her feel and what he provides.

Lightway:
Our forefathera never fell in love. In fact, there is no word Igbo language to pronounce love.

Men think that providing for a woman is how they show love. Tell a man to prove his love to a woman without spending a dime and he will go dumb..

Men don't fall in love. Men see themselves as providers and that's why women manipulate them with ease.

I can't believe redpillers are fighting to prove that men fall in love.

Check this out

heartofcity12:
When you fight for gender F, you’ll be served a pill that’s much harder to swallow than the redpill. You’ll get the dreadful ‘Blackpill’.
Few years ago this simplord was busy outlining what low value men do, only to discover this women are the ones choosing those men. If you’re fighting for women, you’re fighting a lost battle because they won’t play in the same wavelength with you. Now what he’s asking for is extreme, that’s how black pilled men are, they become extremist after facing the harsh realities of female nature. Redpillers do not place a figure on what their partner should earn, we are fine if she’s self sufficient with provable income.

Tonnyray:
Lol. Na we we na
If you roger your aza I go monetize the mic and wine with my widower's mite.
I actually owe over 80% of the wisdom I've garnered on this thread to you bro.
No kidding.

Tonnyray:
Lol. Na we we na
If you roger your aza I go monetize the mic and wine with my widower's mite.
I actually owe over 80% of the wisdom I've garnered on this thread to you bro.
No kidding.

Tonnyray:
Lol. Na we we na
If you roger your aza I go monetize the mic and wine with my widower's mite.
I actually owe over 80% of the wisdom I've garnered on this thread to you bro.
No kidding.

Tonnyray:
Which do you prefer, mic or megaphone?
Preach bro!
Preach!!
Preach!!!!!!

Junnior:
Please, which pdf reader is this?
I love the colour coding

Ovo200:
This guy is just a simp
He has been brainwashed by feminism.

Lightheaded:
Pics Mic
The Red pill is like a large tree with several branches yielding various fruits. However, I'd say it has a single root - The enlightenment of men .

Taking us back memory lane, we'd notice in the past, there was no redpill, no MGTOW, no this or that, why? There was no need to. Society was rock solid , it held the family together as the family reciprocated. Until things took a turn and voilà here we are.

Are we going back to the past? By the past I mean the fairy tale love we were sold in Titanic, Yemi my lover, and the 3 hours long Indian movies we watched when we were younger (those guys took romance over the top if you asked me) . NO WE ARE NOT, maybe it existed maybe it never did, I don't know. Just come to peace with it and lower your expectations mate.

Marriage has existed for centuries and may probably exist for centuries more, Cave, Martinez and other contributors have done more than enough justice to the pros and cons of marriages, why people sign the contracts and why they exit the building. But then life is a game, a game is an activity controlled by laid down rules and played using well thought out decisions by the players. Your immediate society you find yourself in and nature has laid down the rules , the decisions you take are in your hands.

You have society and the hypergamous nature of women to contend with (already tempered by other factors). Are you still willing to play the game?

I've said it before that the redpill can be compared to a guide book, some games come with guidebooks, but the redpill adds an extra, it makes it feel like the guidebook is a cheat book. You're not surprised by the new levels the game manifests, you've seen it before (or read it), it becomes expected. But can you shield yourself from the effects of the game, probably not, you can only dampen it, hence be wise.

Like I said the redpill has different branches and marriage is one of them, if you want to get married please do , we're all built or in this case our society and differing communities (including our families) have all built us differently. If you are willing to take your chances don't let people on a forum tell you otherwise (as much as they mean well) , even with a hundred failed marriages there's also a thousand functioning ( I didn't say perfect, some require some jump starting and spark plug replacement if you know what I mean ) unions. However don't expect a fairly tale bliss, be prepared to face reality. I'd recommend the redpill. Every ying has an accompanying yang, if you've decided to compare the good and bad sides of marriage it favours you, it's a personal choice.

Somebody recommend studying the Philosophy of morality as a hobby and I'd take that up. Cave and doing justice to topics, 5 and 6. Cave what did you study? I want to check something.

We might say redpill is amoral and all but then think about where the society stands without morality. We'd talk about women being hypergamous without remorse, more like them lacking conscience but then it's just being amoral, so why the fuss if they're indirectly doing what we're preaching, they put themselves first innit. You just happened to be on the other side of the 2 by 2 plank .
Society will crumble without morality, I'm not here to preach about morality, but not everybody will be moral and not everyone will be "amoral" or "immoral".

Machiavellianism will introduce you to the perks of morality and amorality and the ways of using them, don't shoot yourself in the leg by screaming redpill is amoral everywhere you go. Know control.

But I suggest everyone should know that you being moral doesn't sideline you from the consequences of the actions of the amoral or immoral. Just like saying because you're good means you won't be duped. Life doesn't work that way.

One of my friends was bullied as a kid and it did quite a score on him till today, he asked me why "nemesis" doesn't catch up with bad people (this case his bullies), despite him being a good person. His bullies are still doing good according to him, but he was expecting some fvxked up shvt to have happened, well life happens and I didn't make the law of karma and nemesis.

There's this intersection between what's right, morality (moral, amoral, immoral), what favours one (selfishness). Not everyone will get the intersection and make the best decision. It's dicey but let's think about it.

Sharing memes and stories is a major way of keeping the thread alive and continuous reminder that we shouldn't lower frame and not exactly complaining, I think Tonny might have misconstrued it. However, if you're still complaining about the female nature, just go back to page 1 of this thread and start all over, you should be beyond that by this time.
My hands in the the air for those that keep posting , heartofcity you too much.

Why are women women? Think about this.

"A lion in the wild is primed for preying, it's jaws, claws, muscles, athletism all incorporated into every nucleotide in its DNA.
However a lion cub, unexposed to the wild, groomed and trained in the house, behaves as a house cat, until its very basic nature is triggered knowingly or unknowingly and from there there's no going back."

This might be a rant, but it's just my thoughts.
Drops mic.

seanwilliam:
What we see everyday

sulmeza:
You seem to have a solid ethical orientation; that explains the reason for your strong conviction against the typical, and somewhat radical, aspects of the redpill. Kudos to you for knowing where to draw the line.

My issue with you is your tendency to "over shalaye"......trust me, it ain't necessary! You need to understand that many of the guys here are neckdeep in the redpill matrix, and have very little, if any, regard for morals and societal ethics.

So, please stop trying too hard to justify your stances each time they appear to go against the tenets of the radical/amoral aspects of the redpill. Just drop your comments and meuve - you don't need no one's validation.

People with discerning minds know how to filter information and absorb what is relevant (discarding what is not). So, please do not stop sharing your views.......

Peace....

heartofcity12:
Modern women. More reason why men don’t want to marry anymore.

heartofcity12:
See what some men’s future wives and LOML are saying. Same hoes want you to treat them with utmost respect when you’re involved with them. Don’t settle for less kings. Take her past very seriously when you want a long term thing with a woman. This is why a woman’s virginity is very important. Women more easily go back to a dick they’ve had than men going back to pussy. You’re busy trying to raise her interest to convince her to go on a date with you, while she’s hooked on someone’s dick. “Toxic dick” has little to do with size but the feelings and experiences it gives them. That’s a dude that probably never calls or take her on dates. Never let modern woman treat you like an option, it’s high interest or nothing. Never fall for that “getting to know you crap”. Women often times throw caution to the wind once they got high interest in a dude. #trp

heartofcity12:
If she’s not your wife or mother of your kids, you don’t owe her no masculine duties. Modern women would constantly cry about men doing the barest minimum or compare us to men of older days. Even while they’re performing no feminine duties. Men of these generation don’t even consider finding a virgin to start a family with, which was normal couple of decades ago. They’re ladies that can’t cook to save their lives, yet they’re proud of it and expecting someone’s son to find them. Modern day feminists single handedly destroyed chivalry yet blaming men for their decisions. #trp