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plaindealer:
Nathaniel Solomon spoke to Punch how his brother died at Lekki Toll Gate, but same Nathaniel Solomon also died inside the panel’s report.

This panel no go kill pesin with lafta sha..

I must really commend your efforts! Kudos!

sajmark:
"There are some GOOD ONES and there are some BAD ONES, but there is no ONE"

AND STUPID ONES TOO!

adambeatz:
Bro, your first mistake is that it would seem you have not mastered your emotions cause if you did you would find reasons to counter what you don't like and maintain friendlies with them at the same time. Remember no man would want to shoulder another man's responsibilities (your sister's husband i mean vs your dad).

First step bro is to work on acquiring more skills to add up to what you already have.

Secondly bro, stop bitching around when is comes to your sister's family around, you want respect you've got to earn it the hard way. They've already stuck their neck out for you and anyother thing else you think you are entitled to is an insult to the help they've rendered to you. Because you know they can afford something doesn't mean you get to complain why they choose not to, this is another level of see finish even if they are your family.

Bro, hustle this is nairaland, as a digital marketer you can research for side gigs to raise you money to become self sufficient. Learn graphic design(start with figma) and website design as a additional skill.

May Heaven help you as you help yourself bro

Nice summation!

@paygram, in addendum:

1. You are at the bottom of life, still coming up and same with many here and the outside world ( like me, you know I'm a broke masturbator). It's not easy anywhere bro.

2. Since your brother in-law and sister are supporting you in your education you must be grateful and allow some things slip away. It's not easy, I know, but you don't have any option. If you become rebellious you will suffer because you don't have any escape route at the moment.

3. What you need do is to dance to their tune, inflate their ego, praise them always, do chores before been asked without grumbling so that you can be able to gain much from them. In as much you get from them your basic need, you must work for it. Remember, it's a positive sum game! No whining about it!

4. Try as much as possible to develop all your skills in whatever way you can and at the right time, you will hit big. It's a matter of time, luck and life, and I pray or hope you get there.

There are a whole lot of lessons you will learn from your sufferings, be patient, these problems you see today, you shall see no more.

And in addition to your skills, make sure you have a binance account.

PS: my account is bearish now, but with the amount of bearish candles, I know it can cook for us small oil rice on Monday evening in your hostel. So, send me your account details via email.

Have a nice day.

Well done @adambeatz

KiNg0G:
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I REFUSED TO BE MENTIONED HERE!

I REFUSED TO BE MENTIONED!

"Wahala be like bicycle" Loooooool!

Instead of you to calm down and learn. Lol!

Anyway when you're ready to learn, may the gods of the land direct you.

See your wide mouth like "I refuse to be mentioned". Kikikikiki

Martinez39s, "come carry your Shakara girlfriend go inside".

Looool

Bon voyage!

CaveAdullam:
1. ..."at least 5 hours...." you said. You are talking as if you you and the op's wife are the only married women on earth. Fine, the nature of the workplace is not structured for women because it is tough, rough and slippery and base on the female's psychology, it will take a whole lot of tweaking to get used to the terrain. But you must understand that:

A. The economic and political climate of the African Continent and world at large isn't conducive for "full time housewifemanship".

B. And we are in a political era were women are screaming equality and want to prove " what a man can do, a woman can do it more better ".
Therefore, you can't necessary blame anyone for allowing women into the workplace. At least it will make them have a first time experience in observing the tugs of war men fight in order to bring food to the table.

2. By the way, I can bet my balls that men will 100x more prefer to switch jobs with their full time house wives and will do much better if their wives are willing to enter the workplace.

You are talking as if you go to the market and cook everyday; mop everyday; wash and clean everyday. Men also involve themselves in taking care of the kids. If not for their jobs that take them away from their kids early and come back late from work, they do a better job in raising kids than women!

3. If you use 5-7 hours in a day to do the normal housework at your own convenience and do school runs, what then happen to the remaining 19-17 hours?
Remember: most men are hustlers, even the few office workers that stay in the office from 8am-4pm and above, do their works under pressure, bootlicking their bosses and clients so as to secure their jobs. The other men who are in the majority, stay under the sun, or inside the inconvenience of their cubicles or migrate from one road to another in search of clients or customers. And you think it is easy and comparable to full time housewifemanship right?

4. You women already see men as your retirement plan, no wonder each and everyone of you is bothered about marriage, and when it's not forthcoming, you all caterwauls from dawn to dusk, running helter skelter from pillar to post; fry pan to fire! And yet when you eventually secure a (beta) husband rather than behave yourselves and act accordingly, you start whining and murmuring about house chores because you all have entitlement mentality rooted in yourselves.
You are not willing to transcend, but settle down for mediocrity and expect a reasonable man or human being to take you seriously. You all don't want to grow and improve because a man is already there to clean your asse$ and mop your shits.

5. The op wants his wife to be productive, a good plan from a good man indeed! Yet, you and the wife don't see the need because of women's lackadaisical attitude and complacency, but later will start yelling and screaming equality and feminists bullsh!ts.

6. Is there anything wrong for a woman to run a small business of her own to support her husband? Is there anything wrong if the woman learns her husband's kind of work in order to support him? What if the man die, how is she going to run family affairs?

Hahahahaha! You want to do 5hours work everyday, then after, spread your legs wide to watch TV, gossip and browse the internet during the day, and serve a stale boring sex at night.

7. You women should learn to grow up. I understand your natural tendencies, limitations and psychology, but despite that, growth and development is necessary for every individual, both male and female.

With these few points of mine, I hope you get my point.

Have a nice day!

@emmanuelbrown26, you will like this too; it tastes like colostrum mixed with vanilla.

Thanks.

Elsueno:
In summary, he should partially starve his wife, partially make her life miserable by reducing comfort.

And if all fails, he should divorce her right?

I think some of you don't even realise, but being a full time house wife is also a job on it own...Cooks ur food, sweep the house, mop, wash the bathrooms, take care of d kids etc.... that stuff takes at least 5 hours a day!....But Bros Fredamanda u won't understand all these until she starts doing another job & warming leftover foods consistently for a week, always tired to give u attention. That's when u will miss the house wife

1. ..."at least 5 hours...." you said. You are talking as if you you and the op's wife are the only married women on earth. Fine, the nature of the workplace is not structured for women because it is tough, rough and slippery and base on the female's psychology, it will take a whole lot of tweaking to get used to the terrain. But you must understand that:

A. The economic and political climate of the African Continent and world at large isn't conducive for "full time housewifemanship".

B. And we are in a political era were women are screaming equality and want to prove " what a man can do, a woman can do it more better ".
Therefore, you can't necessary blame anyone for allowing women into the workplace. At least it will make them have a first time experience in observing the tugs of war men fight in order to bring food to the table.

2. By the way, I can bet my balls that men will 100x more prefer to switch jobs with their full time house wives and will do much better if their wives are willing to enter the workplace.

You are talking as if you go to the market and cook everyday; mop everyday; wash and clean everyday. Men also involve themselves in taking care of the kids. If not for their jobs that take them away from their kids early and come back late from work, they do a better job in raising kids than women!

3. If you use 5-7 hours in a day to do the normal housework at your own convenience and do school runs, what then happen to the remaining 19-17 hours?
Remember: most men are hustlers, even the few office workers that stay in the office from 8am-4pm and above, do their works under pressure, bootlicking their bosses and clients so as to secure their jobs. The other men who are in the majority, stay under the sun, or inside the inconvenience of their cubicles or migrate from one road to another in search of clients or customers. And you think it is easy and comparable to full time housewifemanship right?

4. You women already see men as your retirement plan, no wonder each and everyone of you is bothered about marriage, and when it's not forthcoming, you all caterwauls from dawn to dusk, running helter skelter from pillar to post; fry pan to fire! And yet when you eventually secure a (beta) husband rather than behave yourselves and act accordingly, you start whining and murmuring about house chores because you all have entitlement mentality rooted in yourselves.
You are not willing to transcend, but settle down for mediocrity and expect a reasonable man or human being to take you seriously. You all don't want to grow and improve because a man is already there to clean your asse$ and mop your shits.

5. The op wants his wife to be productive, a good plan from a good man indeed! Yet, you and the wife don't see the need because of women's lackadaisical attitude and complacency, but later will start yelling and screaming equality and feminists bullsh!ts.

6. Is there anything wrong for a woman to run a small business of her own to support her husband? Is there anything wrong if the woman learns her husband's kind of work in order to support him? What if the man die, how is she going to run family affairs?

Hahahahaha! You want to do 5hours work everyday, then after, spread your legs wide to watch TV, gossip and browse the internet during the day, and serve a stale boring sex at night.

7. You women should learn to grow up. I understand your natural tendencies, limitations and psychology, but despite that, growth and development is necessary for every individual, both male and female.

With these few points of mine, I hope you get my point.

Have a nice day!

Akinbahm:
I remember a lady who accused me of being bitter towards women that she wonder if I have a happy family, I told her my sisters both jnr & snr I helped them sometimes to go market and get some stuff because I know the job waiting for them in the house especially kitchen can frustrate one completely but the moment I sensed their entitlement mentality omo if them use God beg me ah no go go.

At the bolded just to prove to her am not a bitter man and at the same time I don’t condone second class behavior because you have boobs and yansh.

I know about women nature small and I have been using it to balance things up that’s why I do buy into ubun.ja and caveadulla.m ideology with the way they balance things up without bias.

"Iffa slap you"...winks eye...

"You nor go mention my name well...abi NA cos I be broke masturbator?"

DAY 317, REDPILL 2021

1. Victim signalling is a manipulator's tool to exploit the unaware and ignorant. Women are good victim signallers because they are the weaker sex, ergo, will always endeavour to capitalised on that premise to get whatever they want or behave in whatever manner thereby avoiding the need to be questioned or sanctioned.

2. Victim signallers always claim to be oppressed but yet, will tend to be belligerent and work a revolution to overthrow the existing power. They still claim victims even after they must have succeeded the throne room so that others can be dissuaded from competing with them. They use such opportunity to further their manipulation. This is true of feminism!

3. In the modern day society, women now have free leeway into men's spaces, a non negotiable quota system in many organisation, maternity leave, highest number of graduate students, more female empowerment programs and a whole lot of other incentives. Yet women still complain about oppression and the tyrannical patriarchy. If that should be the case how come the majority of men are not enjoying much of these benefits in a patriarchal society? How come there are more men than women in prisons in a patriarchal society? How come men have a lesser life expectancy than women in a patriarchal society?

4. Victim signallers are scared of accountability and responsibility, hence, they will project their sufferings in order to scale to the top. High value people leverage on their poor conditions to become better.

However, it is easier for men and difficult for women because men want to claim a victory of their own because no man respects a weak man. While women already deem themselves weak, will "rather wail and sing loud songs of lamentations like Rachel weeping for her children in Ramah".

Authority: Grow

KiNg0G:
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Ps: this isn't even necessary,

When I came across this thread early February this year, it did change my thinking, my lifestyle, from hóeing around, lodging in different hotels.. frolicking with different women..had to stop some of those things.
Some of my experiences with this ladies have shared, some arguments have engaged on just to prove a point..

ever since I stepped on this thread, have been attacked numerous times by different monikers just for the fun of it
for one reason or the other. and not even ONE PERSON SAY MAKE I SPEAK UP FOR THIS DUDE.

AND WE CALL OURSELVES REDPILLERS!

NOT EVEN ONE PERSON, SAY MAKE I LOOK INTO THE "ROOTS" OF ALL THIS ARISING MATTERS.... wetin dey even happen.

AND WE CALL OURSELVES REDPILLERS!!

WE CALL OURSELVES MEN

Discussing women and their manipulatives tactics up and down... WHEN WE WE SELF NOR LIKE OURSELVES.

WHEN WE MEN DEY CHOSE PEOPLE TO LIKE, AND PEOPLE NOT TO LIKE

WE CALL OURSELVES REDPILLERS!

Have been painted black and blue, been called different names.So many lies were sold just to tarnish my image...to the extent one of them takes me as a competitor like am dragging something with him due to the pay for sex arguments we had since February.

the post I made today was a simple comparison, an opinion between mgtow and game players.

If it didn't go well with you, what happens with coming in with a constructive criticism.

(Imagine someone quoted me and started his post with WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM?.... ) lol.

Well This might be my last post on this thread.
Am leaving on my own accord because I finally realized something this evening.

I've always viewed you behind your posts and I observed few things you constantly proved. This post just broke the camel's back. Your real problem is rejection and low self esteem coupled alongside narcissistic tendencies. Even your money couldn't masked it properly. This problem keep screaming from inside.

I don't know what you experienced when you were a child or as an adult. I can work with you so that we can grow together if you choose. We'll try and manage your ego.

KiNG0g, please come back lets grow together. Sorry for ridiculing you. I LOVE YOU BRO!

Good day.

PS: I will continue to mention you till I get a reply from you.

Spin plates!

Go out and have fun with other women!

Don't let her occupy any pedestal in you heart or head!

She is not saving herself for you but the highest bidder!

Be wise!

Wonder what kind of discussion both of you had before marriage.

1. You must understand that it's difficult for adults to change their mindsets, especially when these mindsets or ideology comes with incentives and comfortability or a medium that serves as an escape route.
True for women when they get married. They don't see the need for constant improvement because all they've wanted was to secure a man that will cater for their expenses through thick and thin despite their poor nature, bad attitude, amoebic body shape, damaged mentality, complacency, entitlement mentality etc.

2. Your wife's laziness is rooted in the comfortability you've placed her and to make her become productive you must upset that foundation. (She may however vacillates between changing for the better or seek another greener pasture for laziness).

How do you do these:

A. For the main time, pretend that your remote work is failing or has failed. Move from home early and daily to do your work outside and come back late like a normal job seeker. When you come back tell her the experiences you had when searching for a good job.

B. Reduce the amount of comfortability through the extra things you provide for the family. This will rhyme with your recent "joblessness".

C. Be the one that should start telling her to keep master's degree program aside because things are not as rosy before. (By the way, she doesn't need it, except otherwise). Because it's high time expenses must be managed.

D. Act broke with her and others and let it rhyme with the aforementioned.

On the extreme, if her unproductive nature hinges your prospect and progress tell her it's high time to cut off the relationship. She can't be enjoying life while doing nothing.

Enjoy your liability!

BigBashiru:
@ your first paragraph, men were compensated with youth in the girl he was marrying in addition to authority and control.

Very correct!

Women, resources and more territories comes with authority, power and control.

BigBashiru:
And for their selfish ends! For any man that wants a gf relationship or marriage the first question he should ask the girl is whether her money is hers alone and my own money is for me and her.... this is will give you an indication of if the girl wants you to labor for her all ur life never mind she's already been used up by numerous previous bfs b4 she met u.... disgusting selfish gender!

From @bolded,

1. This might sound harsh though, but do you guys even understand the meaning of hypergamy? You want her money to be your money and vice versa or whatsoever but don't know that it borders on equality sang from the crooked larynxes of feminists and manginas. Men bear the burden most in a relationship but were compensated with authority and control which has now been eroded by the interference of the government in family and sexual affairs.

Even in egalitarian societies, men and women still display their instincts, men want to take the lead while women want to follow. No matter the rationalisations, redpill lessons, hate etc. Women will remain women and hypergamy goes no where! It is what it is!

Even if she says no, it doesn't obliterate hypergamy from her instincts.

2. The problem of men when it comes to relationship is that they think that there's something special in a particular woman, they want to go to any length to exhume it thereby expecting women to be what they are not and expecting women to give what they don't have. And when they are certainly unable, turn bitter, angry and heartbroken.

3. To be a father and husband or a patriarch is not a job done and dusted within seconds, it is a risky business for a man that is concerned in raising sons and daughters to take care of his empire when he's deceased and further his genetic line. That's why it is pertinent that men should act from the standpoint of abundances when dealing with women. Except in short term relationship, leading women and children is not an easy tasks, if a man is not buoyant, strong, and in authority, he will lose control.

4. Women takes from everything that furnishes a man, that's why a man must understand women and know the redpill before engaging them. It is an art that men must learn!

5. We get shocked when people act in certain ways because we've boxed them in our own minds not to act in any other ways except the ones we know them for. And when they skew sideways, we murmur and complain about them, not knowing that humans are also flexible and can act in myriads of ways unexpectedly.

Men always think that women will love them sacrificially but get burnt when these women display their true biological nature.

6. The best way in dealing with women is to border on their nature and work with the currents. That way, you wouldn't become stupefied when they act within their borders. Double win for you if they prove exceptional.

Am I saying women shouldn't support men or their spouses? No! What of men, should they relieve themselves from vetting women?No! Should women remain mediocre and stupid?No! These are necessary, but a man must be prepared should in case the relationship tends to become stale when things didn't go as planned.

Thanks.

Have a nice day.

Miracood2:
Kings I need help from you all.

I'll be 22 in few months from now, but I'm really concerned..

Like I've being made to believe that 20-25 yrs old is the time at which ure supposed to be at ur strongest.

I mean that strength of a Youth should be overflowing in you.. to me, the reverse is the case. I always feel weak and I feel like an old person. How can I improve myself in this kind of situation?

(I fap about twice a week. *I'm seriously trying to stop the act*)

I guess this post was ignored because of the (f) in my moniker. Well done kings.

I'm male, and I've reverted it to the original state.

What a fresh and beautiful age.

1. If you are always feeling weak, perhaps, it might be as a result of your genetic make up and body biochemistry, especially if you know that you always ensure a healthy lifestyle. However, it is difficult to ensure a healthy lifestyle if your biochemistry is off the cliff, you will need a good amount of money to live well. Those that are hale and healthy despite the poor conditions of Nigeria and Africa at large need to thank their gods or stars daily. Whether rich or poor, you must try your possible best to stay healthy, not easy though.

2. 20s means work has started for you as a man, and if you want to be well respected in your community you need to start putting square and round pegs in their respective holes. And you do this by developing yourself, broadening your view and your knowledge repertoire.

At this age, you will not be taken seriously except you are from a high socioeconomic background. Therefore, you must make good use of your time and when you do so, you will reap what you've sowed in fruitfulness.

3. Don't limit yourself to one area, try and know what's happening in your neighbor's bedroom. (Hope you know what I mean). However, this doesn't implies that you should be a jack of all trades; find what is highly productive and useful, invest and focus on it. Only few things are relevant in life; do these things. If you can manipulate the irrelevant into relevance, double win for you. The human brain cells cannot be exhausted, as it can do many things, except in poor health.

4. I don't know how you guys cope when smooching your penile tissue. That tissue is too fragile for crying out loud! Perhaps, masturbation and pornography contributes to your low energy because same line crosses every testimonies.

If women are the reasons for it, calm down and be patient, brush up yourself here and there and you will get women. If not, you just have to stop except you find it beneficial for your well-being.

Take care.

Reminderz:
Me I kuku like you. your posts are mostly unbiased because you don't comment with hate or rage in your heart.. you say it as it is even if it's inconvenient for some people.....even bible and quran prove some of this sef.. gbayii bro

Lol!

If you see me playing with a woman today you'll doubt if I'm the one posting all of these sentences daily. I swear, you will doubt. Why? Because I understand women to a good extent and don't expect from them what they cannot provide. Hence, this phrase: women are for fun and fvcks carries a special insignia in some of my statements.

The respect is still there and they always say that I'm weird, harsh, strict, too focus and solitary blah blah blah. But these are the factors that keep them glued which is unknown to them; knowing when to switch as time and situation demands. And by the way, despite AWALT, I have gained benefits from all of them one way or the other by maneuvering around their nature.

Any man that harbours hate in his heart in regards to women nature will get himself consumed because women are here to stay till infinity. I understand that the political and economic terrain has been vitiated making it almost impossible to enjoy a good and healthy relationship. That's why it will be of utmost importance that both men and women understand their nature and differences and if possible work together in maintaining a stable relationship. And if this is not done, the effects of the chaos will eventually overwhelm everyone because the family is the basic unit of civilization. If men and women are not acting as the complementary units as they are they will never find good in each other because men have their reason for disdaining women and vice versa. And both will lack the benefits each are able to provide if there is no polarity. Not until then,each will continually optimises their individual survival schemes regardless of its disadvantages to the other.

Know this and know peace.

Thanks.

CAPSLOCKED:
WELL, HISTORY HAS BEEN PROVEN WRONG TIME AFTER TIME. AND THINGS CHANGE.

It is now left for you to prove to us where women has harems of men. Even the most powerful women at their time still sought the most powerful men. E.g Cleopatra, and her relationship with Julius Caesar and Mark Anthony. What about the Queens of England?

Things change, I agree, but your biology is still there.

CAPSLOCKED:
POLYGAMY CANNOT BE SYNONYMOUS WITH MEN "AT THIS TIME" WHEN YOU LOOK AT HOW WOMEN ARE SHOWING TO BE SEXUAL THESE DAYS.

Polygamy is polygamy bro anytime or day! Men are polygynous by nature and it has nothing to do with our sensibilities or what we've experienced or experiencing now.

Quite alright, I agree when you say polygamy is not feasible "AT THIS TIME" which is of course true because the burden that comes with polygamy doesn't worth it at all for the man, especially in this current economic and political sphere we are in.

However, whatever are our reasons, polygyny is polygyny and it is true of men.

CAPSLOCKED:
WHILE MEN CONTINUE TO BEAT THEIR CHESTS AND OWN THEIR FLAWS AS POLYGAMOUS PEOPLE, WOMEN, OUR SUPPOSED EVERLASTING SAINTS, WILL CONTINUE TO PLAY IN THE BACKGROUND AND BE MORE POLYGAMOUS THAN THE ACCLAIMED OWNERS OF POLYGAMY.

Don't allow emotions to cloud fact and reasoning bro, scientific articles and research and other observable evidences has concluded about this long time ago. In casual mating, men are still of higher propensity than women. We are surprised about women because casual mating for women is lower than men and now become pronounced while that of men has been existing. It was there before, but that of men ensconced women, but now that things has change, men not getting sex, the casual mating of women is now observed.

Another confusing thing here again: in this present time, men are less engaged in sexual activities than women. Simple answer: Hypergamy! More than 80% of men are at the bottom of life and unattractive to women. While more than 80% of women aim for the 20% of men at the top. Despite this, women still desires one particular man that will optimise their hypergamy rather than hopping from one man to another. Dual sexual selection now comes into play when women are unable to optimise hypergamy via 1 man. When it comes to sex, women are more emotional while men more physical.

CAPSLOCKED:
SAY WHAT YOU LIKE BUT YOU HAVE TO KNOW THAT THESE DAYS THE AVERAGE POOR GIRL IS LIKELY TO HAVE MORE COUNTS THAN THE AVERAGE POOR BOY. DEMANDING TIMES FORCE MEN TO FOCUS MORE ON ACHIEVING, WHILE MANY WOMEN...... WILL JUST KEEP BEING WOMEN.

As explained above.

CAPSLOCKED:
YOUR WOMAN IS HIGHLY POLYGAMOUS. THIS IS WHY YOU'RE VERY LIKELY TO BECOME A VICTIM OF CHEATING/PATERNITY FRAUD IN YOUR LIFE. THE ODDS ARE NEVER IN YOUR FAVOUR, DON'T BET ON IT FOR YOU'LL LOSE.

To reiterate: humans have three mating strategy; monogamy the obvious, casual mating and polygyny.

Polyandry is not same as casual mating. Hence, no where in history do we see women having harems of men. Till date in many cultural and social spheres, many men still have more than 1 woman under their roofs in addition to their casual mating.
Women are also involved in casual mating just like men but not to the same capacity as men.

Paternity fraud is true of women but what is the percentage compared to the number of marriages and children? A man cannot be a victim of paternity fraud except he doesn't know the concept or blinded by love. When men know about this, even paternity fraud that is still at the 30% level will drastically reduce. And if a woman chooses to frolic with other men, a reasonable man will know it is time to dump her. Every thing here is a matter of the head and not the heart even though on the average we are emotional.

These things are not black and white as we want it to be, they contain a whole lot of nuances, but by the time we stick to a particular narrative without considering the other side of the coin we end up holding half truth which equals lie.

Have a nice day.

heartofcity12:
True

Hypergamy is not sound, rosy and reasoning. It is what it is. Women will always date higher men. However, since all the women cannot get the top men, they must compromise on their hypergamy if they want men; difficult though.

Men don't care if a woman is a billionaire or independent, they just want a feminine woman with big butts and boobs. Not that having a productive woman is not important in a relationship but that feminity and a nice body physique comes first before her bevy of degrees. Masculinity wants power and control, if a woman acts like a man in a relationship automatically there becomes a struggle for power and dominance. We all know and have heard stories of how men were viewed with contemptuousness by their spouses after they lose their jobs or experienced a decrease in their income even when these women were able to finance the family. By the way, the most productive woman desires the most productive man.

The economic terrain as well as social, political, cultural, biological terrains etc. play their individual roles in the intersexual dynamics. All these must put into considerations for achieving a healthy relationship.

Thanks.

CAPSLOCKED:

YOU'VE BEEN LIED TO ALL YOUR LIFE.

YOU ARE NOT POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE. YOU JUST LACK SELF CONTROL AND DISCIPLINE.
WOMEN KNOW YOUR FLAWS AND THAT'S WHY THERE'S AN ENDLESS SHAKING OF BUTTS & BREASTS ON/OFF THE INTERNET COMBINED WITH EXCESSIVE MAKE-UP AND FILTERS ALL EMPLOYED TO GET YOUR ATTENTION.

THAT THEY DON'T DO IT FOR MEN IS THE BIGGEST LIE. OR WHY DO THEY DELETE POSTS/PICS WHEN THEY DON'T GET ENOUGH LIKES, OR FEEL DEPRESSED WHEN THEY'RE NOT GETTING ENOUGH ATTENTION AND VALIDATION FROM LOSERS?

I WANT YOU TO UNDERSTAND THAT WHAT YOU DON'T CONTROL, CONTROLS YOU.

BEING REDPILL IS NOT EXCLUSIVELY FOR "HAVING GAME" OR LAYING EVERY WOMAN IN THE COUNTRY. I'VE GONE THROUGH ALMOST 30,000 POSTS ON THIS THREAD AND MANY MEN BELIEVE THE ULTIMATE THING TO DO AS A REDPILLED MAN IS TO GET SEX FROM ALL ANGLES (ESPECIALLY WITH ZERO CASH & EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT). THAT IS A STUPID IDEA. AS A MAN YOU HAVE NO VALUE IF ALL YOU LIVE FOR AND ALL THAT CAN BE SPOTTED ON YOUR MIND AT ALL TIMES IS WOMEN AND SEX.

YOU CAN BE A SUCCESSFUL AND REFINED CAREER-FOCUSED INDIVIDUAL LIKE MARTINEZ39S WITH ZERO BODY COUNT AND I TELL YOU IT'S BETTER THAN LOSING YOUR TIME, EFFORT, ENERGY, CASH, SELF WORTH, AND EVERYTHING ELSE CHASING THESE CLOWNS.

YOU MUST TAKE COMPLETE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AND SEXUAL URGES, OTHERWISE YOUR ENLIGHTENMENT OR "REDPILL JOURNEY" HASN'T BEGUN. YOU RENDER MANY THINGS POWERLESS ONCE YOU FIND SELF-CONTROL AS YOUR ATTENTION AND TIME IS OF UTMOST VALUE AND YOU CANNOT SUCCEED AS A PERSON IF YOU CONTINUE TO GIVE IT ALL AWAY.

CUT THAT WHATSAPP/FACEBOOK CHAT VALIDATING AND EULOGISING WORTHLESS GOOD-FOR-NO-USE GIRLS AND GET TO WORK.

Nice summation: The take home point here is that men should be sexually disciplined, make good use of time and be productive rather than lollygagging with women in every passing of the day.

1. However, it is a false statement to say that men are not polygamous in nature! This can easily be debunked anytime or day. Quick ejaculation, short life expectancy, millions of sperm cells, body physique etc. are evidences for their polygamous mating strategy.

Humans have three mating strategy: monogamy, casual mating and polygyny. In the last two mating strategy men are of very higher propensity compared to women. That's why we see that across history, men have harems while women don't.

2. Even if you become extremely productive as a man you will still desire women. It is in males instinct to mate with women as they come and go. Check Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos etc. (monks, popes etc. are outliers). The most important thing which of course is the relevance of the redpill is to know how to finagle your way around women and society at large.

3. Having several women or fvcking several men comes with their pros and cons, so it is of utmost necessity that individuals know and understand the nature of the game they choose to play.

Thanks.

emmaodet:
I once told my mates in church that did they noticed that 90% of the married women in the church are either jobless or underemployed (virtually just doing something to be busy but not productive enough to fund the family).
I told them if we swap the situation and our women are the one gainfully employed while we are either jobless or struggling with a megre job that most won’t have dated or married us and any of them who did it did it accidentally and not deliberately- that is, the man was earning well above the woman but on the long run lost his income thereby becoming an accidental decision.
Most women I know always detest their husbands when they lose their incomes. The women mostly get tired of the marriage and want to elope from it. They see the men has unnecessarily burden that is not productive anymore.
My mom was always complaining about how tired she was when my dad retired and bringing in little income into the family from his pension while my mum was still at service as headmistress. If not for the olden days tradition and culture imbibed in her, she would have eloped.
My MIL same, no difference. When her hubby was earning higher, working as a doctor in Dubai in early 90’s and had a high SMV as a man then, she was enjoying the man and proud to be the wife of a well to do man. She was the envy of the average lady then in my area.
Today the man is broke and partially paralyzed and my MIL has lost interest in the marriage because the man is more of a burden to her than asset. He is a liability. If not for tradition and culture plus religion, she would have eloped.
She once said when she paid us a visit that now a days ladies are enjoying. That they can decide to pull out of a marriage if it is not meaningful unlike in the olden days when a lot of people would frown on them and the stigma was very high.
That if she is a modern woman, she won’t have married. She will just give birth and enjoy her freedom since she is a principal.
I told her too that I won’t advise a modern man too to marry because the stress, liabilities and all outweighs it’s benefits.
That if am to marry now, I won’t. I will just get a baby mama and enjoy my freedom. Travel round the world the way I like.
She was jolted up with that my statement. Said a man needs a woman in his house at all time. Moreover, I am a very selfish person.
These two women are traditional women. Religiously inclined yet still thinking this way how much more a modern liberal minded woman.

Hypergamy is rooted in the female psyche; women date men higher than them and more genetically fitter. While men date lower and as well, genetically fit women. This is simple nature and no amount of redpill lessons, can obliterate those instincts. Women will be women and men will be men.

The best for you as a man is to make sure you don't alter yourself into an ox, piggybacking every problem you come across. A man must be able to prepare, develop and maintain himself at the moment and into the future: the essence of the redpill.

If a woman will remain glued to a man, what first attracts her must either be maintained or improved, otherwise, her attraction dwindles. For that alone, not only to keep women attracted, a man must constantly grow, and if at the end he's unable to get women attracted(not possible/true though), his growth still remains.

Know this and know peace.

Thanks.

Workch:
You can see something closer to the truth in biology textbooks and I respect your submission. Quite matured.

However, it doesn’t mean that you should question whatever you read in the science books, question it until a testable or reasonable evidence is provided. Thanks for ma nigga

Thanks workch!

Do calm your nerves. Lol!

Have a nice day.

Workch:
ok. Don’t you think we should take by bit by first addressing the OP before creating another topic entirely?

Do you believe the flood happened? If you do, provide evidence for how Noah could have contacted everyone in the world 4000years ago warning about the flood.

Lol!

Workch, you would have seen my answer from the first time I mentioned you, but you were too rash. Anyways, I understand!

Of course, I don't believe in the flood and Noah's ark. However, this doesn't entirely implies that there are no good lessons to learn from the Bible or other religious texts.

By the way, I didn't asked you to create another topic, what I asked is that you should recommend good books and articles in relation to espousing truth like the way you are sounding now and with your bevy of threads in the religious section.

Thanks.

Workch:
what request ?

Have you addressed the op first before making a request?

Don't get yourself worked up on arguments bro. Calm down!

So, what form of address is pertinent to you?

Workch:
Another Show of poor background in biology.
We didn’t evolve from apes bro, humans are apes. Ss1 biology already addressed this

Calm down bro!

I never stated that humans evolved from apes which of course is false as I clearly stated before. You see it that "humans are apes" which from same angle bears same correlation with saying: humans share a common ancestry with apes.

What about my request?

Workch:
Lol

Whenever I hear someone say evolution is just a theory, it’s a pointer that the person probably doesn’t have a science background or failed to concentrate in classes.

Religious people are funny, always saying rubbish without evidence

Man evolved from dust and air but not from apes. Wonderful!

By the way, and as far as I understand, humans share a common ancestry with all other living things. Religious people simply think that evolution is one living thing changing into another(macro evolution), which I think is not. And funny enough, these are same people that believe that a rod can change into a snake! What a fvck!

Please, do recommend good articles, books and literature that are good purgatives.

Thanks.

heartofcity12:
Can’t blame this dude tho. If she wants it, why can’t she pay for it herself?. It’s good he learned on time before he tied the knot. Setting all the standard on another’s pocket, smh. Imagine him getting married to this type.

If she can't dress like prospective corps members in NYSC camp in Nigeria, it implies that she is not ready for marriage.

Jessepaid, someone need your advise.

luminouz:
Damn straight!!!

Imagine a 33 year old lady telling me I'm being misogynistic for telling her point blank I don't have interest in 'above 30' babes. She wants a tall, dark handsome, rich mudafucker-- and he must have 6 packs too. I threw back my head in laughter. And I told her 'you ain't getting shiit with your tummy looking like pregnant sow' Guess her reply?

"The man will find me and love me for me"

I just shook my head and walked away. I'm not interested in women delusions

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luminouz:
Yet society and these women want me to somehow be grateful that they agree to date/marry me and have my kids?

Nope nigga!!! I have had it to my teeth with women like that. These two just lost Lumi (or whatever version of me they liked) because they are permanently on blocked mode. Let them find a husband material somewhere else.

Buh...buh...you wanted a harem.

Anyways, martinez39s wives will just keep increasing. Win-win for Martinez, if you deprive him of wedding eve party and the party itself, he can as well have the opportunity fvcking your intended brides. Lol.