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CAPSLOCKED:
MY PROBLEM WITH THESE "MARRY ONLY VIRGIN" MEN IS THAT THEY EQUATE VIRGINITY TO CHASTITY, OR, LET'S SAY LOYALTY. I THINK THEY'RE MISSING SOMETHING.

1. SEE, YOU COULD HAVE A NON-VIRGIN DECENTLY-BEHAVED GIRL WHO HAS HONESTLY MAINTAINED A COUPLE OF RELATIONSHIPS IN HER LIFETIME AND WOULD POSSIBLY MAINTAIN FIDELITY IN HER RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE WITH YOU.

2. WHILE, ON THE OTHER HAND, YOU COULD HAVE A "VIRGIN" GIRLFRIEND WITH ONLY A "HYMEN" AS BRAGGING RIGHTS.
THIS PERSON HAS DATED MULTIPLE MORE MEN THAN THE FIRST LADY, LIVED COMPLETELY "IMMORAL" LIFESTYLES AND ENGAGED FULLY IN BLOODY CULTISM, AND HAS DONE NEARLY EVERYTHING A DECENT GUY WOULD DETEST IN A WOMAN.

THIS GIRL RIGHT HERE DOESN'T BELIEVE IN HARD WORK OR INDEPENDENCE, OR EVEN FAITHFULNESS. OLD MARRIED MEN AND TEENAGE BOYS, AND EVEN RICH WOMEN, SHE HAS DATED THEM ALL FOR CASH.

THE NUMBER OF DĮCKS AND ALL THE LOAD OF SEMEN THAT HAVE GONE DOWN HER THROAT, NOBODY CAN ESTIMATE. SHE HAS HAD MUCH MORE SEX THAN THE FIRST GIRL ABOVE, BUT WHILE HER HYMEN HAS NEVER BEEN TOUCHED, HER MOUTH, ANUS, AND CLITORIS HAS SUFFERED GREATLY IN HER LIFE'S MIS-ADVENTURE. AND OH, SHE'S VERY CHURCHY TOO AND KNOWS ALL KINDS OF PRAYERS.

HER VOW IS TO NEVER STAY FAITHFUL BECAUSE "JUST ONE IS BORING", AND NOT EVEN YOUR MONEY AND FAME WILL KEEP HER. AND SHE'S THE VIRGIN OF YOUR DREAMS.

THIS IS THE WOMAN THAT WILL LEAD YOU TO MISFORTUNE AND UNTIMELY DEATH.

Dear Sir,

1. This is an exception to the rule, an exception that is rare. And it doesn't in any way disprove the rule. Non virgin women are not in any way comparable to virgin women.

2. It's is a coping mechanism:

A. Men in long term relationship with repentant h0es don't want their hopes shattered in regards to the past lives of their spouses. Hence, they will always rationalise it away making it seems that virginity doesn't matter.

B. It is used by women to saved face when they are about retiring.

C. Damaged women wear an affectations of godliness and submissiveness because their sexual market value has seriously depreciated. In Long term relationship, a safer bet is overestimating her promiscuity even if she will not; that is, if you don't want to get shocked as a man when she eventually falls out of line.

D. Investing in a repentant h0e in this contemporary age is a suicide mission because you are literally sowing seeds on hard rock surfaces. They will fake virtues just to absorb their own share of your resources.

3. Men go for fertility because it guarantees healthy kids, and virginity is a best indicator of fertility in women.

4. Both scientific data and daily observation authenticates the fact that women who married as virgins are more loyal, faithful, happy, less susceptible to STIs etc.

NB: Faithfulness, loyalty, chastity are virtues that transcends gender or sexual characteristics. Individuals should be judge and criticized based on their personalities and what they represents over time and in order to minimize attribution biases.

However, when it comes to the intersexual dynamics, fertility and purity in women comes first when selecting for the best amongst women, same way being a wealthy and powerful man comes first for women in choosing a man before his principles and moral values. (Remember: women prefer bad guys to nice guys).

5. AWALT still stands because it is womens' nature. But going for the best is what matters here. And except under serious scrutiny and real display of modesty and godliness it's not advisable for any man to marry a non virgin regardless of her level of depravity which cannot be truly ascertained even from her own testimony.

Thanks.

palmshots:
Update!!!
Saw the girl this evening, she told me my guy has been sending her money since that day, already sent money for hair and nails and promised to get her a gown for her birthday.
She said my guy asked her to stop seeing me again. What a simp.
RN she's in my room waiting to get knacked

Guys please Don't be a simp

Now, this is a clear example of alpha fvcks beta bucks.

@bolded explains the reason why you must not persuade a woman into sex using your material resources, because definitely, as far as she's fvcking, she will fvck a guy that don't give a hoot about her: genuine desire. It is haste, a need to quench sexual hunger and/or fvck a particular woman that necessitates many men to pay for sex heavily not minding the fact that they are being exploited.

The woman you're paying 10k, 100k, 1million+ for mouth gig and marathon sex will go back to her lodge and fvck Gbenga that has his room upside down. Even "ashawo" (prostitute) have a boyfriend.

Women spin plates and they definitely know how to do it confidently, passionately and comfortably.

NB: you will entertain her certainly and have some fun, but this is a very thin line and a delicate nuance that must not be misconstrued as paying for sex. Going out on a date, street games, cold approach etc are good examples. Even at that, it must be done wisely, else, you fall into simping.

2. I understand the underlying basis and significant feature of prostitution.

PS: don't try to drag me into argument, else, I will wish you happy Nigeria's independence.

The foolish women that says paternity test will disrupt the psychological and social state or well-being of a "fraud child" are the same women who treat their house helps with contempt and inhumanity.

The foolish men and simps who also follows that same line are scared and don't want their illusions to be broken. Paternity test is a mirror that reveals the ugliness of his spouse and all secrets ensconced. Such men are suffering from chronic oneitis. They rather live a lie than have a peace of mind.

Useless bunch of idiots!

heironymos:
I have been following this thread for months now and I must say bravo to everyone that has contributed positively to it's growth.
I have never seen people especially Nigerians this coordinated, and that gets to show the type of minds we have here you are all geniuses(whether passively reading or actively contributing.

I will give my own little contributions of my blue and and redpill experiences but for now my elder brother is the issue.
I am quite introverted and don't normally see the need to advice or interfere in people's businesses, but my brother(40yrs) always argues with his girlfriend over every little things. But the one that got me really pissed off to even post this was when he got on a job interview on zoom(which he eventually got). After the interview which he told her will last for 45min she didn't spare a second and called just when he was telling me about the interview, when he saw her call he clearly was pissed off but kept a straight face, not to give away his displeasure because I had once complained about her narcissistic personality.

When they spoke on phone I overheard him telling her that he just got off the interview, why is she calling to ask why he didn't call her immediately after the interview till she called him without even asking how it went, and she kept nagging about him keeping things away from her he was like what if the interview extended after the 45mins and she calls and distracts him. Long story short he ended up apologizing and could not maintain frame, she always makes things all about her and now that he is starting a new job I don't want him getting distracted because of a woman.
He has spent 10yrs no job, and now getting it with an oil company and entertaining a time and emotional leech is my issue.

Finally when ever I try to talk to him he brings in this OG vibe like he knows what he is doing but this b**ch keeps whooping his ass emotionally but he won't simply learn from a wise sage because of ego(he is 40 I am 28).

How do I advice his egocentric Mr know all self in this regard(cos he feels knowledge and experience only comes with age)

1. You cannot correct an adult. Any adult that changes his way is as a result of his own volition, bitter experiences, and hard lessons learnt. It's extremely difficult to talk an adult from his former position to another. For this reason, argument is mostly futile, except in rare cases where the mental well-being of your audience is sacrosanct or when your opponent is more proficient and intelligent than you.

2. A man in love is never wrong. He will rather whip himself rather than introspect if he is touring the right or wrong route. A man beclouded by romance sees his partner as his god.

3. Oneitis is your brother's problem probably. Perhaps, the woman in question might have helped him in one or two ways in the past, hence, the need for her to always get validated in line with her narcissistic behaviour.

4. Your brother is a weak dude. He has failed to set limits from the onset, and if he eventually resume duty and his schedule gets altered, of course definitely, people will start screaming "men don't care whether a woman started from the scratch with them, they will hit other women when they become nouveau riche". Of course, true. However, not knowing that this one here is one high in narcissism, and without investigating the characters of these women in question.

5. Probably, that woman is also spinning plates, because it is difficult for women, not to even talk of 21st century women to stick to a man in his broke stage. Highest they do is fvck that man and keep him around should in case he experience a breakthrough or deem fit as a h0e retirement plan.

6. Your brother got a good job, now if he is interested in the blossoming of the relationship, he must start vetting her covertly and stealthily. Because his kind of job can make his partner mimic submissiveness and other lovey-dovey affectations. He must raise boundaries and set limits. However, this is difficult and almost impossible, but this he must do if he's interested in the relationship. Or, better still, start from a more fertile foundation by choosing another woman.

7. Managing a personality disorder like narcissism is difficult for the sufferer and caretaker, if your brother is weak there is need for him to develop on his dominance and confident level not only because of women but with people and society at large, or else, he will be dangled like a pendulum bob. Women, whether humble or belligerent cannot be handled by weak men!

8. You might end up engaging in a minor vendetta with him if you continually insists on his character and that of his spouse. So, better be careful "so that two lovebirds nor go come use you settle matter on top bed".

Be wise!

Thanks.

pansophist:
As in eh, the more I read some stuff online, I just say to myself that truly, some people no be am. I don see the thread since, I just choose to respond since it made the front page. See even nedu wife, she even blame nedu for her fidelity. Saying that he didn't ask if the child was his, even get mind carry her matter enter social media. Can people be this daft ?

The brand of stupidity I see daily in Nigeria shakes the core of my bone marrow. Its too much. To be intelligent and live in naija na torture. I swear to God.

I screamed when I saw the title of the thread. In fact, I witnessed few seconds raging madness. What nonsense! How I managed to read the nonsense, I don't know. Anger was reigning over me as I read every bit of that rubbish posted by a single digit IQ woman!

Local man can not can. If I have my way I will beat hell outta that useless woman.

1. Stop investing in a woman that's not procreating for you.

2. Before any woman gains your commitment she must be thoroughly authenticated.

3. She must be highly invested in the relationship before commitment.

4. Never apologize.

5. If she ends the relationship, never apologize. Best: end the relationship virtually before it does.

6. Accept back no cheating woman. Cheating is a sin!

7. Learn your lessons and move forward. Because the more you beg for her return, the more she gains power over you. Let her go!

8. Always be in control why you lead. You take her advice whenever it makes sense, but lead you must. If you are in control, you will not feel too bothered when she exit.

Now, she enjoyed a married woman's benefit without you enjoying yours(passing your genes).

Lastly, sex is reciprocal!

neyoohhh:
Be wary of anyone who believes sexuality is fluid.

Sexuality isn't fluid, sexual perversion is.

These people are the sneaky fuckers we've been warned about.

I don't know if you have seen this article online concerning "bodies with vaginas" (remember: it is an attempt in perpetuating gender fluidity or sexual fluidity, and different sexes outside male and female). The article headline was irritating though, didn't bother wasting hard earned neurons on it.

Another spokesperson, probably a government official claimed that some (women have pen!s) and some men have cervix...blah... blah... blah

Just as a reminder: USA and some other nuisance (Western nation) sisters of hers has more than 50 genders, even some are genderless. Lol!

Savagethe21st:
CaveAdullam bro please I'm mentioning u on this dead thread because its important. So I have been reading a lot of your post and I show my Friends too. One of my friends is in a situation and he needs advice. Years back he was just an ordinary struggling nigerian guy in the university which most girls look past. But there's one girl who liked him despite him being broke. She always called, gave him privacy when he asked, she's a non feminist very respectful but she is average in beauty and doesnt have an attractive body. My friend currently works at jp morgan bank in united states and he feels he needs to settle down. He read "the spiritual man" one of the books u recommended and he doesnt want to fornicate since most nigerian women are being overly friendly to him...Should he marry the girl? He is just 24 by the way

I have seen this mention. I would have preferred an audio chit chat, don't know how possible it is though because it will be more easier and also because that my text reply will be very lengthy.

But should in case I don't come up with a reply as soonest, tell him to WAIT! He is on a rough terrain, if he doesn't hesitate he will fall into danger. Tell him to CALM DOWN! Because the way is not as beautiful as it seems at the beginning.

And a great thanks for mentioning me to your friends.

God bless!

God didn't wanted you to spend money in treating your disease and low fertility, but interested in you spending huge amounts of money treating the ailments of the "miracle twins".

Just hope your pastors can prophetically confirm the paternity of those kids accurately. Because if not, you're still standing on a wack bridge. Perhaps, your wife must have played a fast and smart move on you. "olodo rapata".

What God cannot do doesn't really exists. I agree!

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6772184/dna-paternity-testing-coming-lekki#106180336

Paternity tests are fake!

Cases of paternity fraud are as a result of baby switching in clinics, hospitals and maternity homes. Nurses and midwives do make a whole lot of mistakes during after maternal delivery, hence, the suppose cases of paternity fraud which women are wrongly accused of.

These women are innocent, why cause them pains?

DAY 269, REDPILL 2021

"Hyperintention": if you desperately want to please her, you will weaken yourself in the process, falling into different hedgehogs. You will become overly anxious and lose yourself in depression. With such intentions, you cannot be able to please her, and every performance will be of no effect.

Women cannot love you the way you want to be loved, so stop trying to impress and perform many spectacular shows. Just enjoy the ride while it lasts, but don't overkill! Be considerate about yourself in the process.

Stop trying to create a romantic scene, focus!

If the fire is not for you, move to another because that's where yours is. If she sees you as her desire, she will find you, you can't just force it. Be smart!

Spread your tentacles; let your wings fly high!

Authority: maintain frame.

Nigeria is a cursed nation!

JerkyChan:
Kings please I need your counsel here.
I’ve known this girl for a while now and she’s the only girl among the girls I roll that comes close to the ‘girlfriend tag’


My personal aspirations takes precedence over everybody, followed by my family, then maybe relationships follow. Hence, when I make important life decisions, I keep the females out of completely.

Earlier this year I left for the UK for a 6 months course and this girl in question didn’t know until about 2 months later and she kept accusing of shutting her out of my life.


Without boring you further, I’ll be coming back home next week and she’s asked me to get her a phone when returning. This is my dilemmas.

Now the problem is not the cost of the phone, I’ve got the resources to get her anything I want. It’s the fact that she asked for it, and making me think she’s feeling entitled to it.

The imp in me is telling me to tell her to go fvck herself; but another part of me is thinking to get her the phone.

NB: She’s a nice girl, and I’m the first guy she’s dated (she’s 19); but i know women enough to know that a lot of things aren’t as they seem.

Gents, what do I do?

Since you don't know what to do, let me tell you. But before then:

1. Love beclouds a man sense of reasoning; a man in love is never wrong and will never take corrections, even if he gets burnt, he will blame himself for acting wrongly.

2. A man with money deems TRP irrelevant. Being rich and redpilled with women is like oil and water, they never mix. Outliers are soups (normal soup we eat).

Because he wants to prove that he is better than other men, and that he can take care of his woman without any fear, a man blinded by romance will always want to make his woman happy even at his own expense. The worst is investing in a woman that is not procreating for you, you are simply sowing seeds on rocky surfaces.

NB: showing some romantic care and some lovey-dovey isn't bad, but the problem is that men don't know the scale and when to stop, but will rather prefer to go extreme, and when they get burnt they come up on social media lamenting. (It is extremely difficult for a man with money to stay redpilled and know how to relate with women and maintain his resources around them). Anyways, alpha fvck, beta bucks.

Now my advice:

1. Buy her the phone.

2. Buy her a powerbank (King0G, 2021).

3. Buy her solar panel and inverter.

4. Buy her a big rechargeable lamb.

5. Buy her music box.

6. Make sure you enrol her in a school so that in future both of you can be traveling oversea for short courses.

7. First rent an apartment for her, but as time progresses, ensure you buy a land and build for her a house.

If you don't follow this advise, it means you don't love your nice woman and you are not man enough.

PS: I'm a broke keyboard warrior and it is the truth! Real life, " Na 4 10 naira kulikuli you go classify me join".

Thanks.

Have a nice day!

https://m.guardian.ng/news/bill-to-create-111-additional-electoral-seats-for-women-scales-second-reading/

Welcome to Nigeria: a country that always copy the bad sides of other nations. This is how it starts---like minuscule cancer cells.

If you are ready, I'm ready.

Lol.

angelfallz:
For those of you that keep on asking what is bad about feminism or for those of you that keep asking why people like Martinez39s, Caveadullam etc talk about feminism as if it is affecting them personally. Well what is going in the house of reps is one more answer for you.


they are creating 111 positions for women. So those 111 positions are for women to go and represent women. SMH. We should also create 111 positions for men to go and represent men.

Not that the positions would help governance, not that the positions would improve governance. SMH

You see how stupid we are. Shey those women would be collecting salary etc. You see how stupid we are

Lol.

Well done sir!

Okafor's law in motion.

However, niggas, stay away from married women because if eventually things falls out of place, you will end up six feet or disabled while the husband rot in jail and still gets the pvssy once in a while. Worst case scenario, because of the unstable nature of some nations e.g Nigeria, he might get lucky and escape stringent jail terms, that is, if he got enough money and connections.

Don't out of sympathy get entangled with a married woman, whether for assistance or sex. If you must help her at all, maybe depending on her predicament, her husband and family members must be aware.

Men are heavily jealous when it comes to their mates and territory. Beware! Many "single girlfriends" and single ladies are outside waiting for you---go after these ones.

Don't allow stupidity and uncontrolled libido send you to your early grave or destruction of your well built reputation.

Thanks.

No!

You are still single because you can't date a man below your social status or roughly at the same level with you. And the top men you desire are not interested in you because female hubris and hysteria increases as their social status increases; no man wants a woman that's not submissive and will treat him as trash because her father is a billionaire. Hence, reasonable men stay aloof from you.

Thanks.

Doradorwa:
Tor!
That been said, Nigeria women version of feminism is quite crazy. Feminism should be about the Political and economical liberation and upliftment of fellow women. But some of theirs is teaching hate, filling women with sermon that will destroy their marriage, teaching them to be unsubmissive. That's why I gently distance myself from it.

Whether Western, Eastern, Northern or Southern, no where is feminism good and appropriate. There is no Nigeria version of feminism, feminism is the same anywhere and everywhere! It first pretends to be innocuous, like a newly born cub, but as exposure sets and maturity hits, it displays its inherent behaviors.

As feminism is disgusting, same with the extremity in ways women are being manhandled in Islamic nations. The former enables extreme liberalism in women, thereby leading women to destruction. While the later limits women to an extent that women are only dummies, pretends alot and carryout obscene activities under hijabs and wrappers.

Feminism is void of the understanding of the human nature and sexual differences in Homo sapiens, hence, disorderliness!

Let me stop here.

Have a nice day.