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heartofcity12:1. If you have spent drastically on a woman and she later gives back when you are in need, you are simply withdrawing money from your safe; just like the way you withdraw money from the ATM when you're in desperate need. There is no reciprocated good or love here, you unconsciously made an investment that later yielded. 2. If a woman gives you when you have not acted like a spendthrift, it implies that she has you at heart and appreciates the relationship. Many men misconstrue the former for the later and stop there. |
temi1290:God has finally find a wife for Martinez39s. This union will be fruitful and multiply. |
Algebrah:When I say women are only for fun and fvcks...idiots where are thou? |
DieRich5:Nature doesn't give a fvck about gender equality. When a woman wants to "attack and injure her team mate" she hires men. Feminism and crazy people are like 5 & 6. |
MJBOLT:1. Life's a game, and anything to win that game is welcomed. But the problem is the resultant effect it will have in the long term, not only on you but on others. Since humans are avaricious they will step on toes, do whatever it takes whether good or bad in order to secure their personal gains. That's why it is expedient everyone knows the game and protect themselves, however, impossible! 2. As far as politics is concerned, you must be machiavellic, appealing to the sensibilities of the masses in order to secure their votes. Even if you're 'redpilled' you must talk and act bluepill. Ditto for spheres outside politics. 3. Aside politics, respect is not a commodity thrown around. Respect is based on meritocracy and not on reproductive advantages or disadvantages. The cost of pregnancy is high for women, same way the cost of securing that pregnancy in a woman is difficult for a man. Look: A. He expend resources in getting the woman. B. Once the woman becomes pregnant he must expend his resources in ensuring that the woman and the unborn child are safe all through the gestation period. C. He ensures that the child and the woman are safe, provided with all the basic necessities required for healthy living until old age with little to no assistance. Remember: since he wants to spread his genes by siring many children, he must expend a myriad of resources. D. The risk of pregnancy is high quite alright. But mortality rate during pregnancy has seriously decrease over the years. However, the economic and social status of men is still at the low. More men are still at the bottom of life, and it is their responsibility to take care of the family regardless of any condition. The risk of pregnancy ends in less than 12 months, there's even birth spacing making it more easier for women. 4. You don't fix women into any position because they are women by default. Whatever will make a position---political, social, economic, cultural becomes effective is dependent on the calibre of person occupying it, and that person must be competent, accountable, productive, creative, brilliant, and not necessarily because that person is a male or female. Ouch! Wait, what if men are the ones high in such demands? 5. Almost all spaces, if not all is open for free entry. No unique opportunity is left solely for men at all, it is a game of competition and all are free to play. The winners takes the trophy. Thanks. |
Drella:Africa as a continent, and most especially Nigeria as a country has been seriously bastardized by a plethora of social, political, economic, sexual, and cultural vices. The dirty linen of the African continent is hung outside that even the blind amongst men can see it from afar; even if not through physical sight, at least from the bad odour that oozes from it. As a citizen of Nigeria, know this: it will take a whole lot of competence and intelligence to get along with non Nigerians or other African counterparts even though they are low in accountability and competency. Simple truth is that you must consistently prove yourself in order for you to have a good rapport with them and to stand above your fellow citizens. This you ought to have known before chit chatting with any foreigner. The mistake you made was mentioning Nigeria as your country, you would have dangled her around, let her make guesses without you mentioning anything to her. If the chit chat becomes exciting, no ones country will be be used a benchmark for establishing a good relationship except otherwise. So, next time, make your chats exciting, and keep the name Africa or Nigeria aside except if what are needed to developed it are in consideration. Once the rapport becomes sweet it can mitigate the inherent poisons when telling about your country. Thanks. |
DAY 314, REDPILL 2021 Lazy men are rejected because no good work to test their veracity; con men are appreciated because of their novelty even if the aftermath of their drama is tragedy; and good men are appreciated for the works of their hands and the blessings they bring to others. Let the works of your hands shines so resplendently and men will glorify you. Stay put! Watch out for manipulations! Authority: be creative. |
DAY 313, REDPILL 2021 The resultant effect of lack of options is the same for men and women in the sexual and social game: they always settle for less. Authority: strive for a greater height. |
DAY 312, REDPILL 2021 1. A man that takes delight in his work, being passionate about what lies in his imagination and the transcribing of that imagination into creative or productive work is a man that will always be happy. Depression or despondency is as a result of not being appreciated, but appreciation comes from what is physical, or what is immaterial, yet beautiful to behold and a tranquilizer when being thought of. Great works of art are beautiful to touch; great words are blessings to the soul, every words guiding a man as his step into a new height. 2. Being creative is another form of taking responsibility for himself, which can also serves as a canopy to others. Happiness is in the works of his hands, even if he gets stressed after work, his works automatically becomes a source of hope and blessing to others at the brink of withdrawal. 3. A man must figure out whatever work that is of reputable worth, firstly, a blessing to his soul, secondly, a blessing to others. Definitely, whatever is good will find a space to occupy even in the hearts of the ungodly. Beauty, productivity, creativity is a friend of good and evil; God and Satan. God creates beautiful things; Satan uses what is beautiful to cause wreckage. Even devilish men must ensconced behind beauty and good to cause evil. Authority: be proud of yourself.
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kkins25:I have never tried audio books, but I think I can be able to get myself around them. I prefer physical copies to the core. However, I'm tied to soft copies because of the unavailability of many of their physical counterpart in bookstores around. Amazon isn't a friend of Nigerian readers. Lol! Though, I'm still searching for possible ways to get my physical copies, maybe fairly used from oversea or through mini importation. As for man's search for meaning, I don't think if I can ever read it, because each time I try I end up hardly going pass a page. Funny enough, the book is one of the most highly rated. Well done. |
eclint:Ouch, my bad! Master's program Sir. |
makano:Good day Makano, makanolekiboboe, shupy, justwise et al. First of all, I know it's expedient I read through all the threads and their numerous pages to get all the necessary information as a newbie that I am. But 'biko' have mercy on me, the pages are very plentiful! Please, I'm a newbie interested in schooling in a good Canadian University for a Master's degree program. I will be very grateful for your guidance and counseling. If possible, link me to any of the particular thread/page amidst the sequels where I can get the relevant information needed. Thank you all for your great works. |
1. You're a grown man, you do the leading and she follows. Inasmuch that you're in the right lane, don't take her opinion except otherwise. 2. It is better you start looking out for other women because probably, you might not end up with her long term. She's your first and only love, too bad for you! Certainly, from your writeup you've invested much on her and the relationship so far. 3. The moment you start jettisoning your own desires for hers, making her share in leadership role, dictating how you will live your life and how the relationship should go is an indication that the foundation of the union is standing on a quagmire. 4. Perhaps, she got other options and just looking for a more rational way to dump you. And the first medium is to raise up religious and church issues. Braze up bro, it is either you manage the relationship with the love of your life, a boring one it will eventually be where you would have to please her till the end of day. Or, you take hold of your life and refuse the love of your life with her baggage of manipulations. As they always say, 'the ball is in your court'. Have a nice day. |
DAY 311, REDPILL 2021 For what women will become men already are. And women cannot become except men lead them. However, not weak and emotional men that behaves same way as women. Women that decides to maneuver and find their own way by denigrating positive masculinity, showing a high level of contemptuousness for what has brought them to where they are now will end up becoming a grotesque image of what they tried escaping. This is especially true for feminism and egalitarianism. Men lead, women follow. Authority: positive masculinity. |
pansophist:Good day big boss. Sent you a DM. Please, do correspond. Thanks. |
DAY 310, REDPILL 2021 Whatever is vital is of man. And everything loses its vitality when men ignore its strings. Nature becomes more beautiful as the works and arts of men become ubiquitous. Women become more beautiful because men made them so. Take men away from the equation; chaos is imminent. Make your life beautiful as a man. Authority: positive masculinity. |
DAY 309, REDPILL 2021 1. Having standards on the ways you operate as a man is very essential. Because your standards serves a benchmark that quickly notifies you when you're skewing to the left. However, this doesn't mean that you must stick to standards that has already proven to be wrong. 2. Women test these standards one way or the other. Regardless of her passions for you, she will never allow this testing slip off her. The reason is that women are attracted to dominant men, and dominant men don't compromise on their standards especially if it is one that will reduce their position. 3. Many a times, she will cross boundaries in order to know your reaction; ask funny questions in order to leverage on your replies; bring up funny conversations so as to test your strength and weaknesses. If you're not sure about your identity and what you represent as a man, then, by all means, you will be lured into her abyss, used and abandoned for good. 4. Ignoring her questions, reversing it, diverting, making a parody of it, launching into play mood or laughing hysterically immediately you discover you are being interviewed are of the best ways of not getting hooked by her baits. Good indeed, because it makes you intransigent and unpredictable. And guess what? Women like this kind of men because they aren't easy to figure out. Women will stick until they discover you, and this is how you get them hooked: never make them discover you. Lest I forget, there should always be repercussions for toying with your boundaries and breaking important rules. Authority: be unpredictable! |
ichidodo:Women have affinity for dark men. Don't be surprised, those women have been d!ck flogged by some male prisoners in time past and will again at the right time in future. Anything that induces fear stimulates submissiveness in women. If you become too friendly or make a caricature of yourself, you will become a doormat for them and loses both fear and respect. On the other hand, be careful with women who are engaged or in a relationship. Many women do deny their spouses especially when there's a lot of mystery surrounding your d!ck. Or, when they are in a highly volatile emotional rollercoaster. You can't ask her about her spouse, but she will drop clues that you will use to identify if her spouse is near or distant before you strike. Simps go crazy on the men that cuckolded them before turning on their spouses. Thank goodness, you are an example. Many a times, men are not lucky when it comes to this scenario, so be careful! Have a nice day. |
remi1444: DAY 308, REDPILL 2021 1. If not for the bastardization of masculinity by the mainstream media and the gynocentric culture being paraded, loneliness is a beneficial tool to be used at the appropriate time but not stagnant there for eternity. 2. For a man, loneliness can be leverage on to learn new skills, develop himself more, learn new knowledge, observe things for what they are etc. 3. But as for women, loneliness is an apocalypse. Because women have always been pampered in the hands of men from childhood to old age, they get scared when they lose such attention. Being praised, chased around, loved for doing almost nothing is an aphrodisiacs for women. Women will prefer to be worshipped than to be fvcked! Why? It is an ego boost, a delicious appetizer to their narcissistic self. Even if she's poor, no problem, so far the attention of men and others are in a crescendo. (No wonder you see many teenage girls and young ladies filled with entitlement mentality. And if you observe very well, this mentality drop seriously when they pass age 25 or hit 30 because the ego boost has reduced). Even rich, independent but lonely women still get hit negatively by this lack of attention. 4. An ugly woman in a male populated area will be pompous because of the attention she gets; attention veneers ugliness in women. She can spill a whole lot of shits and still get praised. This is also true of beautiful women! To sequester attention from women is comparable to testing Abraham with Isaac; it is painful and regrettable, like fire and brimstone on women's roofs. 5. Constant attention still works negatively for women because they become myopic and incognizant of their foibles. They hardly work on themselves in order to transcend and become much better. Rather, they will prefer to be on the low, thinking that's all there is, not knowing that the clandestine behind all praise and worship is to get fvked, used and dumped! Hahahahaha, life's a game, you don't need to be stupid! Too bad if the people they encounter are dark triad, sociopathic or predatory. NB: however, for the majority of men, they do value their women and love them and are not really predatory. Ironically, women hardly reverence such men, rather they prefer jerks, bad boys and dark triad men. Hence, they constantly get fvcked, used and dumped! 6. Conversely, when a man is being rejected, he definitely knows that something is wrong somewhere, and will retract temporarily in order to develop himself and come out better. This is how hypergamy builds men. Men are more stronger, more better and more intelligent than women because when they got rejected they didn't start frolicking around wailing or lollygagging, but entered their shell, did their homework correctly and came out buoyant. 7. For women, they keep churning different ways to stay relevant, hence, are the highest patronisers of the beauty industry, cosmetic surgery etc. Men don't have time for these shits because they are superficial! They know what's of value and importance and channel their energy and resources there. Women are satisfied with their lowest positions because there are men that will rescue them be it bad or good. 8. Women can't handle loneliness. It is to checkmate them because they hardly learn when lonely; no attention received; and will channel that period of loneliness into destructive avenues. Only women surrounded by quality male figures to protect and guide them are the ones that survives. Or, the ones that has been able to witness the harshness of life and decide to transcend above the material and superficial. Overall, loneliness is a serious problem for women; and a blessing to the men that utilizes it. Authority: Leverage. |
DAY 307, REDPILL 2021 Genuine desire keeps no record of wrongs. It doesn't even care about the severity of heartbreaks nor want apology. It doesn't care about the amount of evil you exhibit. But it still wants you to be good to her and at the same time obliterating your wrongs. Genuine desire goes miles even before you start your journey. Authority: maintain frame. |
DAY 306, REDPILL 2021 Men must not see weakness as an opportunity to relent into their shell. But that they must challenge what stand before them and leverage on it to whatever benefit that may be embedded. Whatever a man transcend is below man and whatever that scare him is above him. Every man cannot be at the top, however, every man must endeavor to triumph above his present level. Authority: be strong. |
Saviolamemphix:To be realistic she is the one that is shameless and useless. All these b!tches just wake up one day and start spilling rubbish from their unkempt mouths. They want a man to foot their bills, bills accumulated not as a result of a productive work with prospective returns, but bills borne out of discontentment, lust for material goods. These are bills she leverages on to compete with other sisters and also used in baiting men devoid of feminine whims and caprices. These sects of idiots want to always reap without soiling their hands. They tend to gaslight men so that they can easily fall and creep like ants into their pockets. Men that know their worth give women or people out of their own willingness, in fact, they are the cheerful givers. They give because of empathy. Only women that has proven to be of effective use or has behaved in ways worthy of rewards are the only candidates qualified for this act of love; of privilege not right, of luck, and must thank their stars for such a beautiful day. Thanks. |
DAY 305, REDPILL 2021 Give her good fvcks so that when you are away she will masturbate with it in her memory. Be her porn. Authority: be sharp. |
Jman06:Average IQ for Blacks: 85 Average IQ for whites: 100 Average IQ for Asians: 105+ If there are differences amongst these races, it all starts from their intelligence level. It is what is intrinsic in their makeup. Yes, improvements can be made and a lot of positive things can be achieved. But we must first know that the problem stems from a genetic long line amongst blacks. Thanks. |
G0LANHEIGHTS:1. Both culture and nature play important roles in the lives of humans. You can't separate one from the other as both are interwoven. However, the roles of each can easily be defined, how, when and where they operate. 2. Data and statistics are scattered all over the places: children raised by a single parent or step parent perform less in life compared to children raised in a two parent household. Definitely, there are exceptions but that's the rule. A child comprises both egg and sperm, and it is expedient that for them to become mature adults, mothers as well as fathers, must play their respective roles concurrently. 3. The world/culture we are today is unsuitable for long term relationship. It is porous, vitiated, a bad investment which is not beneficial on the side of the men involved. Reproduction is the norm as far as humans are concerned regardless of good or bad culture. And since you are interested in kids you need to put in a lot of work to make it work, that is, to make your sons and daughters reputable and quality adults whether in the presence or absence of their mother. That's the price you pay if you must continue your genetic line. 4. As it is now based on my observations, the wall---religion, patriarchy, traditions, shaming tactic etc that tends to debilitate women's chaotic tendencies only holds on a tiny thread; they're now almost oblivious. And investing on the aftermath of this decline, the fall of women, is tantamount to fetching water with a basket. 5. A man might still be lucky with a good woman, that is, via thorough vetting and scrutiny, however, it doesn't indicate that she's incapable of skewing to the left. Humans tend to do so base on their environment, level of exposure, versatility, knowledge, present circumstance or whatsoever from time to time. 6. Truth be told, marriage in this modern age is a bad bet. But you need a well refined woman alongside yourself if you want to raise well refined kids. If you can do it as a single parent fine, but the odds are against you and the kids most especially. However, you must still position yourself to do it alone should in case their mother is no longer needed or skipped her services. Have a nice day. |
DEMZEE:Settle down and read this again. I understand what you are really trying to say: importance of self interest. However, what you have in mind doesn't correlate with these letters of yours. There's certainly a misnomer. But if you still insist, I most respectfully say you are wrong! (The reasons are obvious, no need for any explanation). Have a nice day. |
DAY 304, REDPILL 2021 Jealousy is rooted in the male psyche. No man wants to see his crush not even to talk of his woman being approach by other men, thereby making their protective instinct protruding. All men must be aware of this. However, when you feel this way, you don't kill another man. You don't start orbiting around her 24/7. You don't start launching queries here and there. All these makes her leverage on your emotions to gain power and control over you. And as she constantly stimulates jealousy in you (unconsciously most times), the more you fall under her whims. How do you get out of this mess? Know this: you can't eradicate jealousy from your psyche! What do you do: ignore and spin plates. Leverage on your jealousy by dealing with several women. Authority: don't be a simp. |
DAY 303, REDPILL 2021 "Cocooning": an attempt to make you stick to your blue pill state when you've made a previous contact with the truth in regards to her manipulative devices. She tends to hold you to a moral sense of justice when she herself falls short; exhumes men that toiled same path but failed; accuse you of not acting right any longer(though, you were acting foolishly); cry and caterwauls all day long concerning your change attitude. Never lose contact with the truth. At the end, either her respect for you heightens or she leap to another parasitic host. Don't just be a simp. Authority: Grow. Maintain frame. |
sajmark:I can bet on the military for a whole lot of things, especially in an ideal situation where political games and corruption are minimal. What the military really does is that it strengthens a man to be bold, calculative, fierce in dangerous situations. It takes fear out of men and make them see death as nothing. However, I can also bet that military men are amongst the highest number of simps. What these men do for pvssy is above the roof. Only a tiny subset of them which I still doubt know how to finagle their ways around women. Women that has military connect especially with commissioned officers and know their game are the deal breakers. These women can achieve a lot within a twinkle of an eye. You see, these men are alphas in carrying out their duties but simps when it comes to women. Thanks. |
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