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ubunja:
okay, for context, this side 1,200 buys a basic smartphone, what does 32,400 buy that side. trying to ascertain affordability

32,400 can buy a lot of things. Same amount can also buy a basic smartphone in Nigeria. Grades and taste of commodities matters though, but one can still buy a shirt, trouser, shoe, body spray, provisions, some food items and a music box with that amount. How you spend it is dependent on the goods and services you are interested in.

Depending on your budget and how you are able to micromanage with a good scale of preference, 32, 400 can be used to acquire some things you like.

Thanks.

ubunja:
Paternity Test things...

DNA test kits just became widely available to the South African public at 1,2K. How much is this in naira?

#32,400.

If the accuracies of these kits are high...at least some men will be save.

Herbsworks:
Being a patriarch is an African thing if we understand how our fathers did theirs. This new generation is defining patriachy as the ability for you as a man to shoulder the full financial responsibility of the family while your wife sits and enjoy your labor. Let me enlighten some of us who think like that.

Patriachy of old put man in charge of everything. So even if a man is married to a woman who’s richer than him she was still under him. Our great grand fathers had farmlands. What they did then was to share farmlands to their wives to work on. The men didn’t work, they used the children of their wives to work in the farm while those who were rich enough had maids that worked in the farm.

The wives and their children were the ones doing the work and after harvest, these women take some of the produce to the market to sell and give the money to the men. This was how it was until our fathers who thought they’re more educated and enlightened began to carry the burdens on themselves. From the beginning it was not so. I am not from delta but in the time of old, delta (Urhobo, itsekiri, ijaws) practiced true patriachy.
That’s why nowadays, an average delta lady doesn’t put their financial responsibility on their men cos their mothers where the ones going to the market, farms to bring money to take care of the men. That was how patriachy was practiced until men sold their birthright.

Now some men think patriachy means a man is qualified to be called a man by working day and night for the family while their wives stay at home doing nothing other than eating their husbands money

So as a man, if you understand the authority of a man, you can marry a billionaire woman and at the end of the month she will knee and surrender her salary to you If you want to know more about patriarchy don’t ask your educated father, ask your old grand father or great grand father to explain it to you.

In the days of old, when a child gets a job his or first salary belongs to his father but unfortunately religion has taken away that fatherly role. Now people now give their first fruits to their pastors So also it was with wives. Even if a wife is working, at the end of the month she is supposed to drop her salary with her husband. It is now at the discretion of the husband to give her back the full salary or part of it. Ask old people and they will confirm what I am saying here.

The man is the head of the woman and everything the woman has belongs to the man so stop thinking you’re right by saying “a woman’s money is hers while your money is for the family”.

Love and light

I disagree!

Firstly, it is ostensible that modern day men are not given their dues, their authority is being shred away from them daily, no male empowerment group, but yet every one still expects men to perform without grudging. It will not work! Even slaves deserves their dues.

The payment for men's responsibilities are: power, authority, wives, children and more resources. Women are not and cannot be responsible for men, it's not possible. Women and children are under men, therefore, it is within the male jurisdiction to cater and be responsible for them. This is patriarchy! Expecting the reverse is absurd.

1. In our hunter gatherer days, men do the hunting, go to war, build the society. While women take care of children, the sick and elderly and do the house chores. They also helped the men or their husbands in carrying out some duties either in the farm or at home. These are what led civilization to this great extent. If women where the ones responsible for all these, we would have still remained cocooned in the stone age.

2. Men were able to become more pragmatic, strong, brave, muscular etc. because of the circumstances they experienced. Men are higher than women because men are risk takers while women are risk avoidants. Men explore women retract. This is how nature shapes them.

3. In every home that the woman is a breadwinner or takes the lion's share of responsibility, the man will be treated ignominiously. He can only wield his authority by mouth, not actionable. No respect for him from his wife or kids.

Men cannot run away from their burden of performance, not necessarily say relationship wise, but that men are judge by their responsibilities, achievements or work and gain power as a result of it. While women are judged by their meekness and submission to that power and authority. Women are far below men because they can not be responsible for great things. Accountability matters, and can you get such from the majority of emotional folks?

Have a nice day.

Carchoice:
I don’t know if I’m alone in this but I have to share. Over the past months I have come to realize all the ladies around me are actually not offering anything besides sex. No intellectual discussion whatsoever, when you try to discuss something meaningful it’s either they don’t really know what to contribute, While some that can hold discussions are sentimental with their judgements which likely leads to arguments and I don’t do that because a man arguing with a woman is wasting his time.


Here’s what I noticed, discussions ladies mostly welcome is nothing other than sexual discussions,

Eulogizing them

Asking and pestering them to visit you

Talking about sex


Note that they welcome these discussions more because it is the only discussions that strips you of your senses and gives them the leverage to dominate and manipulate you. And it is from here they gain heavily, ATTENTION, TIME AND MONEY which equals you to simp. 90 to 95 percent of ladies are not interested in whatever you have to discuss with them if it doesn’t involves sexuality. They will guide you through this process making you think you are in charge till they get you where they want you. Of course they are not going to outrightly welcome sexual discussions when you bring it up, some will dismiss you immediately but it’s all a set up, the expectations is for you to push harder so you can enter the trap.


All the ladies around me are starting to complain because I don’t pay attention to them anymore. Absolute nothing other than sex talks is where they champion.

Is this the case for all women out there or am I with the wrong ladies?

The screen shot is from two different ladies, and She actually sent me photo of sniper. I know it’s just to get my attention.

The problem with you guys is that you want women to be what they are not. The sexes are different! Get it! Yes, it is good that everyone should develop himself or herself in many ramifications and be versatile. But expecting women to be pragmatic, rational, risk takers, brave, independent and strong as men is impossible. In fact, this is egalitarianism which is been fought for in many countries with chaos as the resultant effect.

If you want an intelligent discussion find an intelligent group or club, or visit the library. If you want good counseling find an elderly male forum. In all, leave women out of it in whatever solution you seek for in life because they can't give you the relevant information.

Women are for fun and fvcks! Despite that, if a woman proves to transcend above this, fine, flow with her. But if not, follow the tides because they can't.

Know women for what they are and maneuver your ways around them. You can't change them, so don't even try!

Have a nice day.

It's in my gene to talk about women, sex and the intersexual dynamics all day especially in a romance section. Get it!

Martinez39s, in Post 3, a slight typo: outlier not outliner. Thanks.

Cyrus giving Adam some good lessons...

Excerpt @East of Eden, John Steinbeck.

sajmark:
After all these if he doesn't unplug them from the matrix then he's just raising strong simps... A father should sit down with his sons, tell/expose to them the the bitter truths about life and ways to manoeuvre it.

Keyword: Preparing.

Have a nice day!

A good father preparing his sons...

MJBOLT:
....

But Adam lose!

Women are attracted to simps quite alright because they want their resources and not because they love or respect them. They come for exploitation! By the way butterflies that launch on flowers pollinates them; so the relationship between both is mutual, natural and understanding. But how many women can think beyond the physical and material? Little to none! (Note: I understand the evolutionary explanation why women are attracted to successful men).

This post is true, but not until men understand the nature of women, they will continue to fall for women's wiles and caprices regardless of their status or success. A whole lot of successful men in different fields and their relationship saga is a lesson only the wise can learn from.

Thanks.

BLOODYSPERM:
A fucking bluepilled social construct is making ignorant betas think that's there is difference between lovemaking and fvcking, lolzzzz , that one involves emotional connection and the other is meaningless empty lust, that one is expected from their NAWALT which leads to spiritual bonding and the other is just a casual frivolous activity leading to short lived pleasure

If you're redpilled aware and you still believe these nonsense, something is wrong with you

Note: for many of you guys, exposure to the redpill is serves as a catharsis to expunge underlying anger and emotions. They call it the 'anger phase' which I understand, but when you guys are expressing it, you do conflate a lot of things.

Though, as one grow he gets to learn, unlearn and relearn.

Now: there are a whole lot of scientific studies working underground and one of these studies involves brain activity and functions as it correlates with human evolutionary biology and psychology. Bro, there is 'difference between lovemaking and fvcking'. It all boils down to the working of the brain and hormones.

1. Love is in 3 phases: lust which involves sex hormones; attraction which involves dopamine; and attachment which involves oxytocin and vasopressin.

2. The last phase is the bonding phase where lovemaking happens because partners see themselves above the material realm or lust.

3. Fvcking is the attraction phase, partners involved are only interested in short term mating in order to quench their intense feelings.

4. But long term bonding doesn't fully indicate enjoyable sex or love making and neither do short term mating indicates that one cannot later become attached to that partner.

The keynote here is that sex is called lovemaking because it's happening at the attachment stage of love while sex is called fvcking because it is happening at either the first or second phase of love. And as stated earlier, all these phases involves different hormones.

NB: as partners must first undergo different medical tests in order to determine if they are medically fit to bond together and raise children, so also different research, and medical examination is currently going on to examine the brain of these partners to predict their bonding capacity. The use of functional magnetic resonance imaging(FMRI) has come out with notable success but further development is still needed.

Thanks.

PUSSYHOE:
You just described my baby mama.

That's martinez39s fiancee you talking about. Have some respect bro!

CAPSLOCKED:
IN MY OWN PERSONAL STORY, ALMOST A DECADE AGO. I MET THIS GORGEOUS HUMAN, BUT NOT MUCH WOULD HAPPEN BECAUSE I WAS "BORING" TO HELL.
A FEW MONTHS BACK THEY'RE HERE TELLING ME TO FORGET THE PAST AND LET'S CONTINUE LIKE WE WERE BEFORE. BEFORE YOU LEFT ME FOR BEING BORING AND TOO SERIOUS WITH ACCOMPLISHING EVERYTHING IN FRONT OF ME.

THE FUNNY THING IS THAT THIS PERSON HAS NO WOMB, TO START WITH.
JOINED A UNIVERSITY, AND IN THE FIRST SEMESTER BECAME A CULTIST. HAS DONE ALL THAT A GENTLEMAN WOULD NEVER DO LET ALONE A WOMAN. LOST HER WOMB BEFORE 200 LEVEL DUE TO MULTIPLE ABORTIONS FOR ALL THE CULTISTS SHE WORKED WITH. I DON'T WANT TO SAY ALL THE DETAILS BUT ANY SANE MAN WOULD RATHER BE WITH QUEEN JEZEBEL FROM THE BIBLE.

THIS IS A SELF-CONFESSED SERIAL MURDERER WHO HAS KILLED MANY TIMES AND HAS CONTRIBUTED TO THE DEATH OF OTHERS.
BUT.. I'M THE VILLAIN IN THIS STORY BECAUSE I'M "PRETENDING LIKE I'M PERFECT".
OUR PASTS ARE EQUAL IN HER EYES. ME THAT WHEN I WAS YOUNGER ALL I DID WAS CRITICIZE NAIRALAND CHRISTIANS AND SPEND ALL MY DAYS ON XVIDEOS

HOW AM I EQUAL TO A SERIAL MURDERER WHO MAY EVEN MURDER ME?

PEOPLE'S PASTS MATTER. WHAT YOUR GUY OR BABE DID YESTERDAY HE/SHE CAN STILL DO IT TOMORROW. I DON'T BELIEVE IN REPENTANCE. PEOPLE AREN'T OBJECTS, WE'RE DYNAMIC. EXPECT ANYTHING. INCLUDING THE WORST.

Please, forgive her. She has truly repented and I know that by the special grace of the Lord Jesus Christ and the great mercy of our Almighty Allah and the providence of Krishna and Vishnu she will definitely give birth to children even without a womb.

But should in case you have made up your mind, and don't need her any longer, you can connect her with martinez39s, he needs a woman like that in his life. I would have connected with her immediately, but that's not possible because I'm a broke and chronic masturbator, and I love it!

Thank you.

DAY 289, REDPILL 2021

1. You must appreciate your small wins as a man before you get hold of the trophy. If eventually you aren't able to claim the trophy, at least you know you made some wins.

2. You don't need to feel less about these small wins because of any woman. Yes, women stand at the finished line to claim the winners(evolutionary understandable), but that is a lazy attitude. Women cannot appreciate small wins because they are myopic, hence, will never be taken seriously or contribute meaningfully to civilization at large. Exceptions do occur, but the vapidity of women in general ensures that their vestiges are hardly seen in any innovation except in reproduction.

3. You ought not to neglect your small wins or wear a grimaced face all day long because of her shortsightedness to see what's beyond.

4. The burden of performance is upon you but you are not doing so to get her glued to you even though it does, but to stand tall amongst other winners and be able to beat your chest like a silver back gorilla, that yes, you made it above all odds. And every win is not solely to prove a point but to prove a point("hey you young lady, go fvck yourself, ain't going to chase you in detriment to my small wins and trophy. Ain't going to get ashamed or get depressed. Everything I do is for myself, like it or not, I can do without you".

Authority: take charge of your life.

DAY 288, REDPILL 2021

1. Women cost time. As a man, you must set enough time for productivity and your mission or else, you lose all your time chasing and frolicking around women. Except in cases of automaton, can a man effectively frolics with women and still fulfil his mission statement. However, this is a rare exception because man's urgency is always required in the field.

2. Women will want you to focus on them all day long, this is how children behave, but as a good parent, you know when and how to cuddle your baby to peace and rest. Too much time allocated to women and children means little time for work.

3. Don't be move by her request for more pleasure and time. She must be able to decide (intuitively) or told to choose between her temporal desires and your mission. And not that you should allow your relationship become boring but must also create time for fun and pleasure. Set good boundaries.

4. Even if she exits the relationship, your mission stays. In fact as the benefits of your mission becomes cumulative her so-called beauty declines. So, you see, you must put productivity first.

5. A man that has been able to calibrate himself on the scale of work and pleasure is one that can effectively manage children into becoming reputable adults and sustain a meaningful relationship with women. Proper balance is all that is required.

Authority: you first!

The moment before the sexual revolution unleash and the next wave of feminism.

Such in this millennia will be rare because of many factors like: sexual market deregulation, dating apps, social media, advancement in technology, sociocultural and socioeconomic status. A whole lot of things has really changed in the past 6 decades and expecting such now is futile.

However, such can still be possible if women will put a clip to their hypergamous instinct by becoming very aware of it but stand by a man who is ambitious and grow with him towards his mission. I say women because men are the ideal lovers while women are opportunistic. Men are ready to make the relationship work. But women, are very sensual, and want all that glitters even if they are not gold. (The multitudes of simps, divorce rate etc. authenticates this).

To sustain a long last relationship involves tradeoffs. Regardlessly, until both sexes are able to understand themselves biologically before their personalities, principles, culture, norms, values etc. then both cannot be able to strive together for long.

Thanks.

Tonnyray:
The issue of violence has crept in and I'd like to make my position clear on it.
Note that this is likely to be unpopular and highly misquoted but I have a reputation of not giving a rat's ass as long as I'm thoroughly convinced on my position.
I have no issue with violence. The real problem is men not being able to manage themselves in the face of extreme provocation. I understand morphological exceptions may occur that may invalidate my position. I however wonder what will make a 65 kg man date a 90 kg woman. Anyway, to each his own.
At 6 ft 1", 90 kg I stand head and shoulders above 90% of Nigerian females, and females above 5,8" 70kg hardly ever appeal to me any way.
Men, I beseech you, learn to manage yourselves emotionally. Throwing punches at her face may end in Linda Ikeji or instablog headlines and possible NPF wahala but there are more subtle ways. Have you ever had your arm twisted behind your back before? Such that your humerus almost feels like it’s gonna pop out of the shoulder socket?
Have you ever had a crushing handshake before? Such that you can’t use the hand for the next 30 mins?
The idea is not to cause any overt or far-reaching physical damage but to register the kind of pain that sets her thinking back to default submission settings stat. The problem with this as I earlier stated is majority of us are way too emotional to define the limits. We are men. We are physical. Backing down and walking away is what gynocentrism has taught and demoted us to but it is far from our intrinsic nature. Of course if taking a walk is the best way you can personally manage things, by all means adopt it.
Fortunately I have not been pushed this far before (at least since I gained my own home-grown “red pill” awareness).
Note that the first and most important rule is
1. NEVER to have any dalliance whatsoever with insolent or abusive females. This is what I believe has kept me.
2. The second is to attain and maintain such a frame as to command the respect, awe and intrigue of whatever females are in your sphere. When you do this in addition to rule 1, the possibility of physical confrontation reduces to well under 5%.
3. Acquire a death stare. I'm not sure if/how this can be taught. If you are naturally dominant enough you will have a peculiar gaze that freezes a woman on the spot and will require you not uttering a single word and at the same time paralyzes her transiently.
Even though I’ve yet to have any form of provocation to violence in over 8 years now, I subtly test the arm twisting and hand crushing thing on my girls during simulated playfights that I deliberately initiate and the transient, almost excruciating pain registers an unmistakable dominance effect on them. It’s a pity the only thing full grown men of this our generation get to see and imitate nowadays is rose petals, candle lights and chasing each other on sandy beaches. Sad.
With the way we are losing grip and dominance, we may never again (and for some of us never ever) experience what it is to be real men. Unless of course there is an apocalypse of sorts that dovetails into some total global social reengineering sometime in the near future.
Feel free to attack this post all you like.
I said what I said.

I agree!

In addendum:

1. Violence against women by men is minuscule because using the rate of homicides, male are the highest victims and the highest perpetrators. Male-male violence is more prevalent because of quest for reproductive mates, territory, status, resources, power.

2. Women are more neurotic than men, hence, their emotional tendencies: pain, anger, sadness, joy etc. are easily expressed.

3. Though many a times, we act off guard not minding the circumstances around us. In every social sphere shit tests are ubiquitous and a larger percent of them happens subconsciously. To be able to rebuff shit tests or revise it in such social dynamic is an expression of dominance i.e it forecast who is in charge or "I will not take such nonsense from you".

You don't counter shit tests by becoming overly emotional and belligerent; men and women who act that way are treated as kids and will always be less respected.

4. The best strategy to counter altercations with women is silence or walk away before violence erupts. Even if you fight and win her, she won too because she has successfully dragged you into her melodramatic display. Not only that, she will win more sympathy because she's a woman and society will first consider her plights first. In some cases, you as a man might face conflicts with the people around that environment regardless of whether you are right or wrong. Remember: women are the most valuable sex!

5. Another good strategy is to use their words against them or heighten the intensity of your own shit tests especially when it comes to insults. Narcissistic people care much about themselves and do consider others less, gives the most of shit tests because they want to be the only ones on display as they deem others as threat to their existence. If you are able to smear their image, you've won.

6. Sometimes, you ignore, but make sure everyone gets a dose of the medicine they prescribe often.

7. What of in cases where women hit first? I do have this strong believe that a woman will not walk straight to a man and land him a dirty slap on his face if they've not first being involved in raucous debate or altercations. If the man can quickly put an end to this beforehand, I doubt if a woman will result to physical violence.

However, in situations where a woman out of demonic possession results to physical violence first, she should received a double dose of the medicine she just prescribed. It will register in her that you aren't one to be toyed with. Respect might be lose but the fear is stamped! She will always avoid you and same with other people.

Nobody has monopoly of violence with impunity! Everyone must be held accountable for all of their actions.

Thanks.

Martinez39s:
Chai! Caveadullam, over to you.

Seems you are new to this place sir and that you don't know the KING of the zhanga. Therefore, I honourably pass this "baton of honour" to him.

I'm only but a broke masturbator! Anyway, thanks for the honour sir.