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DubaiLandLord2:
See Asari Dokunbo an Igbo man from Okrika rubbishing his Igbo brothers

Leave the messenger and ruminate on his message. He said nothing but the truth!

If you are a guy and you are not a virgin, I don't want to hear you saying that virgin ghbjkkkkf. Just shut the f***k up! Only virgins deserves their likes.

Who else got this sms? What do you guys think?

InvestorO:
Hello in house Doctors,My niece got hit by hot boiling water on her stomach and leg late yesterday night when her mum was about to bathe her,details from her are still sketchy as this was the only thing she said when she called early this morning on the phone....

The ambulance took them to where she was given birth to but was rejected and they were referred to another hospital in another city where they were hurriedly taken away in an helicopter to an emergency in the referred hospital...

PLS WHAT HER CHANCES AND HOW CRITICAL IS IT ?...Searched the internet to get informations that will give me some hope and make me calm but found nothing yet

The only positive is they are not in a Nigerian hospital where medical attentions are delayed but in Europe....

pardon my errors and typos

I just came across your thread now. Please how is the baby doing now. Sending light and love...

brushesz:
Parents should try as much as possible to avoid divorce.
Kids raised by separated parents cannot be like normal kids.

Toxic marriage is not good for kids either

chatinent:
These are what amateur techies are doing but haven't broken into anywhere because the field is saturated...and anyone would consider a professional again and again.

Which tech field is less saturated that you would advice a woman to explore?

dimmyj:
At sangotedo

Where at Sangotedo?

corbanstevee:
I really support this position and will like to add that you could be suffering from allergies.
This could be from what you eat/drink, something new you introduce to your house/room, toiletries, perfume, air freshener among other things.

Checkout the list and trace back to the time you began noticing it.

Also worthy of note is did you have blood transfusion during this period of 8yrs if yes it could be from there….

Please can you expantiate on the relationship between blood transfusion and the chronic catarrh?

witworth:
am not saying you have seen, see or not now o, but I hope you know how many times you have been failing even recently in your seeings sha.
Anyway God go promote you.
If you like ignore prayer

The guy just they catch cruise

She is more beautiful without the makeup. Happy birthday iyawo Bovi!

I remember that December I couldn't even get transport to go home for the Christmas holidays. The condition back home was even worse! I was the only one left in my lodge at Christmas. I had only little garri left in my bucket. I took it with ordinary water... the garri I took activated the ulcer I had and I almost died at night. I could remember praying that God should just have mercy on me and keep me till the next morning. My neighbors at the next house were deeper life members, so the left for Christmas retreat. I ended up drinking water all through Christmas day. Thank God we don't look like what we have been through! It's over 15yrs now... I look back and I'm thankful

They want to rubbish his image! We need a someone more rugged than him that cannot be easily manipulated by this Northerners.

I know you brought the issue to Nairaland because you were expecting a good bashing for your wife. Feels good to know that you are getting reasonable response here. Op, go and reconcile with your wife. Even the redpillers here secretly slide into Nigerian girls dm.
If she comes back, good for you! If she doesn't, just know you have tried your best. I'm wishing you divine grace in your Hustle!!!

Everyone's mother is the best, yet they say Nigerian women are bad. Abeg, did their mothers come from jupiter?

chatinent:
Hello,

First, I don't support the way she left. Marriage should not be all honey and darling when the going is good.

You guys didn't have any outstanding issue apart from the money thing? No quarrel ...no beating?

If that's the case, I think you should call her mobile phone.

I think you should try to meet her and discuss issues together.

Crowdfunding for public advice may not be too good sha. Awon redpills are coming to tell you to take in another woman.


Wouldn't another woman leave too if it is unbearable?

You don't need to be a redpill. You need to be an alpha gentleman. You need to know your responsibilities as though they were your body parts.

I must say... I hate it when families know husband and wife are having an issue.

We shouldn't listen to our family sometimes.

Check: they are all concentrating on the woman but none of them is telling you be more responsible. Of course, they'll support you with words. Will words help you take care of your family?

When I mean trying your best, I mean living up to the expectations of being a man; it is your responsibility to take care of your family! You don't bear children more than you can take care of.

You may rightly argue differently that you work hard. Sure, you do. But you aren't working harder enough for the family. You need to man up.

Bring your wife back.

Be the husband you'd want your daughter to have.

Be like the man who was sent to the lions to be eaten but came back leading the pride.

Please don't forget to buzz me when she is back make I come chop nkwobi biko.

You are welcome.

You are a good man!

Gaddafi1:
Thanks for sharing I will try it

Please don't try this his recipe

That is interesting! A documentary should be made about that community.

Princecanada:
Hi Nairalanders,

This issue has been bothering for a while now. I am not the promiscuous type. I was a virgin all through my university until I started working in one of the states. She was my first and has been the only one. I have been having relationship problems in the sense that I it's just so difficult for me to get emotionally attached to a lady. I am straight so don't think the other way round. I tried to see if I could work this out with her, but along the line, I lost interest again. So just before my relocation, she said she wants to see me one last time before I travel, I tried to lie to her that I am unavailable,but then she made it seemed like I didn't want to see her, I felt sorry and said no problem that she can come around. I have only had sex with her once but with protection, on this her second visit, she said she wouldn't want protection anymore as she doesn't enjoy sex with condom, and that she wants to enjoy sex before I leave. I told her I am not comfortable with the idea as I don't want her to get pregnant as she is still a student in one of the universities. She said she can only get pregnant if she wants to, and that as a student, she doesn't want that yet. When she came over, the did happened but even then I still used a condom, condom broke on 3 occasions, then I decided to raw, and when I felt I was about to release, I pulled out. Even though I pulled out, I was uncomfortable because I have heard that precum can also get a lady pregnant. I was scared about any possibility of infection too. Took her to the hospital the next day, did HIV and other STD tests which came out negative. We went together to see the doctor for post pills, but she declined taking any that since I didn't release in her, she will be fine. And that she has pills she can take too. I was furious at her, but had to respect her decision as it is her body.

Three weeks after, she called that she thinks she's pregnant, that she missed her period which is very unusual. I was so mad at her and told her, I didn't want to hear any of that as I made it clear to her from the beginning. She started crying and got emotional, that got to me and I told her not to worry, that I will pay her bride price and marry her. I earn about half a million monthly, so I believe I can take care of her and the kid. She paused and said she needs to think about it. Regarding abortion, I already told her, my tradition forbids me from giving any form of material and financial assistance to her to do that, if at all she wants to do it, it has to be her sole decision. I made it clear to her that I won't be involved in the decision to abort the pregnancy. She called back after a couple of minutes that she is not comfortable with my decision to marry her, that I want to do that because of the pregnancy. She asked if there was no pregnancy,would I have chosen to marry her, I told her, I don't know. She said then that she is going to abort it, I pleaded with her not to abort seeing the possibility of me becoming a dad soon, she said she will go ahead to abort, that her friend have gotten her some meds already. She called few days later that she just got the drugs, and have taken them, and that she is experiencing blood flow and stomach ache, that I shouldn't abandon her in this difficult time. I said no problem, so I kept calling to check on her very often. After a week, I stopped calling as usual, and that became a problem. I wanted her to move on with her life.

I kept in touch with her and supported her financially when the need arose. When I told her, I am back to the same city with her, she said she wanted to see me that it's very important, I said what's so important that we can't discuss over the phone, she said when I see her I will know. Well, when the day came for her to see me, I told her I was unavailable, then she coded I was avoiding her. We chatted, and she told me the pregnancy is still there. I told her to stop messing with me as I am currently trying to move on and build a new relationship. She insisted, then I said well, if you are, deliver the child, I will take responsibility. She said is that all I have to say, that I want to make her my Baby Mama? I then asked her, what more does she want? I offered marriage before, but now, that's no longer on the table. When the baby is borne I will take responsibility. Well, long story short, at the end of our chat, she said, she was never pregnant, and that she will only get pregnant if she wants to. I then told her, I am not going to forgive her in a hurry.

Since then, we stopped communicating. Recently,I saw her WhatsApp status with her visibly pregnant in the picture. I have been seeing most of her status update on Facebook and WhatsApp, I feel so sorry for her most of the time. She has done nothing wrong but love me. The problem is me, I can't seem to be able to really love back the way I ought to. Feelings die after few weeks and months. This happened to all the 6 ladies I have dated.

My worry right now is, could she be carrying my child? I didn't release in her, but there could be a possibility of precum. One of her friends once called me that she noticed she is pregnant, and I am the only one she has known to be dating her. She claimed to have called me without her knowledge and consent and ask if she told me she was pregnant.

I was a good boy and should have remained a virgin till marriage if I had known. Now look how complicated my life just got. I never wanted to have kids with different women. I haven't really been myself since. If you are a young single guy, please learn from my experience.

For the mature minds in the house, what do you advise I do about my present predicament?

Bro just chill OK! Since you claim you earn well already, when next she comes up with her usual drama, just tell her you will only accept the responsibility to cater for the child if a DNA concludes the child is yours. You have to be firm this time!. She is the one that is emotionally unstable.

bigtt76:
You are pre-diabetic. This means you have 90% chances of being diabetic in the future if you do not take adequate care in reducing your intake of carbohydrates, refined sugar and engage more in physical exercises.

However, the result may not properly capture your true health status if you are not currently exhibiting symptoms of diabetes. My advice is that you should visit a specialist who would subject you to proper test regimes in order to get your true state. Remember its not a death sentence and no stigma is attached. Read up more from here https://www.diabetes.org.uk/

Many thanks. I appreciate!

Medical professionals in the house, please is blood sugar level of 112mg high? Should I be alarmed? Please help!!!
Update :
I went for HbA1c test and it read 5.5%. I repeated the blood sugar fasting test ith a glycometer an it was 102mg.
So far, the doctor said there is no cause for alarm with the results gotten above.
The reason for my initial hospital visits was because I was experiencing weight loss and frequent urination.
Some drugs have been prescribed. I'd see how things goes. Thanks to everyone for their submissions!

carnal:
For family of 4, our POF was 21M plus 12k pounds but family of 5 will be more however we made sure we had excess due to forex fluctuation. Our application was October last year.
I think main applicant is 9k while other applicants are in the range of 6500k each.You can check gov.UK for further info

That's a lot of money, but it is worth it if one has the funds. Did your wife have to do IELTS?

Handsomebeing:
I would say yes as long as you keep meeting their requirements. Very expensive especially having 3 kids, my wife n myself who will be visiting them up to 5 times in a year till I’m ready to live there permanently

The proof of fund for your family size is how much?

Mercy2006:
Annie,pls hold unto your home tightly with everything you have got o.No marriage is perfect!
As long as he is not beating you or disrespecting you,then pls hold out,all will be well in Jesus name.

He is beating her emotionally, na that one worse pass!

KingOfAllIgbos:
Golden opportunity.

I am surprised. Instead of the woman to take it to social media, she should have gone to the police and they would be arrested quietly.

They would have been baited by the same Facebook account.

She lives in the North. She knows the law enforcement agents will do nothing about it. Read her comment above then you will understand better.

Fahdiga:
Too bad. My child will never live with anyone including my blood sister. Women are generally wicked and irrational

Not only women. I have a male neighbor that constantly abuses his domestic servant. The annoying thing is that the girl in question is related to his wife. All this people that carries church on their head, fear them!

Emperormartin:
Are there some benue indigenes still supporting Apc and Buhari. I just wish to know

Like that mannabbqgrillz guy

Caio:
Good evening nairalander's.
I need your suggestions/help .
I know this place isn't an hospital but I need your idea on what to do .
Have been pooing blood since 2013.Tho when I started observing it it usually come and disappear for months,I taught it was due hard stools.
That how it has been since then still last year when the blood was becoming too much.
I taught it was pile,as I have taken all form of pile treatment (herb ).Last 5 months I was referred to these malams that sell pile drugs so I took it as instructed.
And the blood stops for almost 3 months.Only for it to return back this time very thick(like have never experienced this type before)Now am confused as I don't know if it's pile or something else I don't know.
Wanted going for scan on next week .
Could it be cancer or pile or what I don't know?
Please I need you help here .
Thanks.
As am dieing looking pale as the day goes by.
Please moderators help me push to to front page. Thanks

Modified: Lately for like 3 weeks now,have been have running stomach. Each time I poo I produce much blood in my stool like the pic attached below.(even if I poo 10 times a day )Same and much quality of blood produce.

Please doctors in the house help a brother.

I don't know what it is and I do not care to know! I declare divine healing to you right now, in the power that raised Jesus Christ from the dead. Amen!

Sonnobax15:

I've heard of different stories about people encountering mermaids..Even my own maternal grandmother was one of them....So I kinda believe this shiit...

People who live close to riverine areas can easily attest to that..

Tell us more please!

Offpoint1:
Rango
Ice age
Moana
Zotopia
Mulan (animation)
Open season
Zambiba
Sonic the hedgehog
Bee movie
Life of a bug
Junkyard dogs

You must love animations so much

ItCanOnlyBeGod:
I know it sounds unbelievable. 19? The truth is, there are more people who are like the former me. This is not a drill. You can't tell the shame, the emotional burden, the crushed self-esteem that accompanies this ailment that literally has little or no cure. (Except correctional surgery, which I couldn't afford.)

For the past nineteen years of my life, I haven't considered myself as someone who has left babyhood. What started from infancy was what I didn't stop even at this age. I tell you, this is something you shouldn't pray for your enemies to have. Sleeping on a dry bed and having to wake up in the middle of the night just to find yourself soaked in the pool of your own urine.

I tried a lot of things: reducing water intake at night and setting alarms, yet non was effective. I even started reading articles on bed wetting that I stumbled on a Nairaland post where someone was asking for help. (He was made mockery of, as he was told to wear pampers at night). I still didn't find any solution except temporary remedies. When I was much younger, my mother came back home with some seeds and asked me to chew, saying that it is the final remedy for bed wetting. I chewed religiously, and it stopped for a week. For that week I couldn't believe myself. Waking up on a dry bed was as if I was gifted with a diamond. But then it returned. I chewed again, but this time there was no result. I lost hope. Literally. My only hope and consolation was to grow older and become rich so that I can have a surgery. Whenever I had to sleep outside for any reason, I would spend the whole while thinking of how the night would be. I would be thirsty, but the horror of bed wetting would keep me from drinking. Chai! This thing no be better thing o. Tueh! Not to think that each time it happened, I would be accused of being lazy or wetting the bed deliberately.

Like four or five years ago, I got closer to God. I prayed and prayed and prayed. I worked in the house of God (my local church) thinking that God would at least pardon me and bless me with healing for doing all these for Him. Deep down, I knew I was trying to bribe God. I was that desperate. It didn't work, of course. I cried to Him, fasted and prayed numerously yet there was no answer. That was when I began to question the existence of this God. Perhaps, I was simply indoctrinated to a religion that I was born into. Perhaps, He doesn't exist. Well, I continued working in His house, but only took it as a weekly social function. Sit there and do your work and go home and then return every service day. I started a lot of questioning within myself. Infact, I began to have resentment towards God. It was going towards severe hatred for Him.

Well, during this year's RCCG Convention titled "A New Wave Of Glory", I watched the program on television with my family. When it was testimony time, I began to hear testimonies that were unbelievable and questionable: Of a man who sat down and became invisible after obeying the Voice of the Holy Spirit when he was attacked by herdsmen in his church; a man getting his vision back after years of blindness and many more. Were all those staged? No, Daddy Adeboye should be better than that, I thought. There and then, I decided to put an end to bed wetting! Several days after, I went to God in humility, asking for forgiveness and acknowledged His existence. I cried in desperation and asked God to heal me before this August runs out. It was like a bet, because I told Him that if He did it for me, I would testify to His own Glory. (Actually, that's the only thing I can give Him in return. He doesn't require any other thing from me). I told Him that it must be in this August, so that I will be convinced of His power.

I'm smiling right now while typing this, because from that day which was like the 12th or thereabout, I have been waking up as dry as ever! I would have done this testifying this past week, but my phone was down. I'm doing it now, though the month hasn't run out. It's my way of telling God, "Daddy, I believe You already and I have tasted of your mercy and goodness". I love You Lord!! And I will continue to serve you. This has made me see that God doesn't have to go about proving His existence or Power to people who doubt Him. It's even belittling of Him. Thank You sweet Jesus!
Please Nairalanders, I humbly ask you to help me thank the Lord for me. This will act as a seal to my healing. Affliction will not rise the second time. Never. Thank you very much.

I don't know, but if only you can try God today, you may be lucky enough to be shocked to the marrow by His wonders.

Please, the moderators should help me move this to front page. I don't know who to call, but they should help me reach greater audience that I may do good on my promise.


Mods, Thank you in advance. Righteousness2( This is an honorary mention for being a serious motivation, even though you may not know it).

May your healing be perfect in Jesus'name. Amen

This is heart wrenching! It will never be well with any southern leader who will betray the trust of his people. Hope Uzodinma, your end will be worse