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RomanceRe: The Nigerian Wife by cfours: 3:16am On Sep 22, 2012
HiiiPower: Swallow a c4 and blow yourself up
like a Nigerian terrorist.
Why won't your brain be messed up when you spend all your waking hours smoking weed and hanging out with akatas.
You sure don't deserve a Nigerian wife. were oshi. find your own kind.
FamilyRe: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by cfours:
also that data you put up is questionable. it doesn't include data for teenagers when hormones are at their peak.
also there were two tables. You ommited the one for "healthy non-diabetic" men and put up one that surveys diabetic men.

this is the website :
http://mycontentwizard..com/2010/07/normal-testosterone-levels-in-men-by.html

and a quote from the website reads:
Typically when you’re younger (ages 14-20), your testosterone levels are at it's highest. As you gradually age, your testosterone levels diminish, resulting in a less vigorous, weaker, fatigued you.

Your testosterone levels can influence your thoughts and actions just as much as your physical health.

Testosterone is responsible for your libido, energy and ambitious nature. Without it you will be but a whimper of your former self.

coogar:

i saw plenty of polygamy in the bible - you would have to show me any woman that practised polyandry in the bible! yeah - you would go with the same ol' new testament vs old testament theory but the fact is its excusable for a man to acquire more than a partner, not so for a woman!
women were also not allowed into the alter in the bible. nor were they allowed to do a lot of other things.
we don't live in year 345BC. come on.
those are social decisions and choices used to dominate and subjugate women and are not acceptable nor excusable today.
If Jesus were on earth today, I could bet you a thousand bucks that at least half of his disciples would be women. Things today are different from "those days" maybe because women were sold off into marriage very young and because of the wide age difference between spouses, they were treated like children or property and with lack of respect. to be seen but not to be heard.

of course stuff like that still go on in some parts of the middle east (where they can't even be seen. talkless of heard) and in Africa. These places are havens for polygamy and excess philandering on the male's part. In fact it is a crime for a woman to go out on her own!! female "adultery" (doesn't matter if it was r[size=1pt].[/size]ape) is punished by beheading in our own country, Nigeria. Remember Amina shocked
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amina_Lawal
FamilyRe: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by cfours: 1:44am On Sep 21, 2012
coogar: who's to say what is civilised and what is not?
This is joke right?
Or would it make you happier if I replaced "civilized" with "advanced"?

teenager = hormones + naivety + inexperience
adult = hormones + experience + self control
testesterone is a chemical hormone for christsake. has nothing to do with experience or naivety. It is biology. There are lots of teenagers out there raised in good families who have good discipline and don't act in sexually perverse ways but you can still tell that they are chock full of hormones at a certain age. This is a graph of testesterone levels in males. as you can see the highest point on the graph is 18yrs old but I would think that it's even higher at 17yrs. that is not represented in the graph though.
It drops sharply after that.

https://www.sunridgemedical.com/wp-content/uploads/images/testosteronegraph.jpg
RomanceRe: The Nigerian Wife by cfours: 1:34am On Sep 21, 2012
HiiiPower: Bloody hell!
Who the hell are these buggers?
Find a room and stop talking a load of codswallop on my thread.
HiiiPower: ^Who is this effing pig?
Are you high on wacky backy?
Stop yakking like a wobbly wonky,
eff off if you have nothing intellectually sound
to contribute, douche.
HiiiPower: Learn how to write ENGLISH,
I don't speak nor write NIGERIAN, douche.
Seems like you are the one who is capricious, superficial,needy, and empty up there. Quit projecting your inadequacies onto Nigerian women. Sort your own demons out first.
PoliticsRe: Police Discover Arms Cache In Anambra by cfours: 3:36am On Sep 20, 2012
ossagy: This ZUBBY of a guy must be dying of complex, he needs our collective help to rescue him. Am from Edo state working in SABMILLER in Onitsha, if there is any part of Igbo land or Igbo people I love and admire it is Anambra people. I just wish my Edo people are like Anambra people. They are so hardworking and hospitable people, they work for any money they earn. Even my coleagues in SABMILLER from Anambra are such a nice people. Like somebody rightly said, Anambra people are good at whatever they do...

Below is a picture I took at the famous Onitsha Main Market. From the picture one can see that it is a world class massive market with television sets and ceiling fans adorning various lines. Haven't seen such organized and landscaped market elsewhere, a market that is paved all round without any mud. I took this picture last weekend, I was in the market to do some shopping. I have not been to Onitsha main market, but on getting there I saw young men and women gainfully employed in their respective business. Everybody is so busy, that there no time to gossip.

www.nairaland.com/attachments/826199_Onitsha_main_market_jpgb9cde9923245f14559436fa05734eb6d
this is impressive!
RomanceRe: Pro01,i'm Curious About You.Come In Here Please! by cfours: 3:30am On Sep 20, 2012
pro01: I don't hate women.
I am not 'bitter'
This does not mean that I don't think there are, em, 'good' women. .
You can see that I really love women
lipsrsealed right.
...and I am santa claus
FamilyRe: How To Make My Husband Addicted To Me? by cfours: 2:11am On Sep 20, 2012
become his sugarmama.
sugar is very addicting. especially the kind that you can withdraw from d bank.
FamilyRe: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by cfours: 2:01am On Sep 20, 2012
coogar: did you just say nigeria isn't a 3rd world country? don't make me laugh!


cultural difference and tradition. majority of these men came from polygamous homes and they watched their fathers handle multiple women in his bed. what would that child grow up to be? then in a society like ours where infidelity is almost a norm, of course men would take advantage of the situation! women can't have it both ways - women want to be chased to the point of no return because that's what nature dictates - men must make the first move(you guys don't whip out the sex equality in those instances) but on the flip side, you want sex equality forgetting the hormones that powered a man to chase you can actually power him again to chase another woman! this hypocrisy needs to stop: infidelity in men is not the same with women!
I'm referring to 1st world countries not naija, duh.
yea cultural difference. except one is civilized and the other is not.
and why would I want to be chased to the point of no return. I think that is a very barbaric behavior and I get embarrassed with some , so called, men running around salivating at the sight of every skirt that walks by. disgusting. of course fidelity shouldn't be expected from such animals.
here i'm talking about civilized human beings. with principles.

@ 25, a man hasn't even peaked yet!
you're not serious. if a man hasn't peaked by 25 then there is some serious developmental issues going on with him. that means he is experiencing severe late puberty. teenage boys are at the peak in terms of testosterone levels. the term "raging hormones" is associated with teens for a reason.
FamilyRe: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by cfours: 1:09am On Sep 20, 2012
coogar: wrong analogy!
violence is a crime - having [color=#000000]s[/color]ex isn't necessarily a crime.
oh please. there are many kinds and forms of aggressive and impulsive behavior that aren't considered criminal. although we do try to criminalize all forms of violence. even violence toward animals! and that's because human decency especially in a civilized society requires that each person maintain a level of discipline and self-control. the higher the better. this principle extends to marital situations as well.
we are not a third world country with a man and thirty wives for a reason. nor are we in a ghetto where a man feels free to have 20 baby mamas and counting.
or are you an animal?

40 is not any magic number. if you are 25 and starting to feel some flabbiness, then ur testesterone level is going down. srry. u need to hit the gym to bring those hormones up. some people are genetically built to have high testesterone though. I think esp in the ghetto and among blacks there is natural selection for that. LOL. crime and sex[size=1pt].[/size]ual perversity won't be so high otherwise.

maybe we will be more civilized/more developed if we had less of it.
not to say white ppl don't cheat. but at least, they recognize that it is mainly out of a lack of discipline and self control. unlike most blacks who see it as a manly right LOL
HealthRe: First Mother-to-daughter Uterus Transplant Performed In Sweden by cfours: 12:39am On Sep 20, 2012
Adanyebe: very soon it will be father to son testicle transplant grin
LOL grin
RomanceRe: Your Skin Complexion Affects Who You Fall In Love With by cfours: 12:33am On Sep 20, 2012
Everybody don't fall for this guy's cheap tricks.
He is just trying to advertise his mother's bleaching cream business!!! grin grin grin

either that, or he is mentally colonized/brainwashed as many black people are. too much BET and hip hop videos can do a whole lot of damage to the brain.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nairaland Forum, Brought To You By... Inspiredautos by cfours(op):
Lmao. The founder and owner of this website is funded by inspired autos. Inspired autos is the major source of funding grin
abi o grin
FoodRe: Divorce Celebrated With Cake (pic) by cfours: 12:22am On Sep 20, 2012
Mustay: One could have easily discerned that this 'artistry' was the work of a woman.

What a 'piece of cake'!

Women cool
lol grin
how many male confectionist do u know?
FamilyRe: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by cfours: 12:07am On Sep 20, 2012
coogar: testosterone versus estrogen!
a man does not need to atatch emotion to sleep with any woman - it's not the same with women unless she's a call girl(of which the motivation is money)! for a woman to drop her panties and sleep with anyone, she must have weighed the consequences, advantages of the action and the demerits of it - she didn't make a mistake about it which is quite different from the way men are wired! i don't condone any sort of cheating but it's delusional to compare a man with a woman when cheating is discussed. a man's infidelity can be excused to a certain extent!
your "testosterone versus estrogen" argument is very flawed
The couple is middle age or older. which means that their hormones should be balanced off. a man's testosterone plummets as he gets older while a woman's estrogen plummets as she gets older (which is why she goes into menopause). Males and females also have varying levels of the hormones. ex. a slimmer or athletic woman will generally have more testosterone than a heavier one. this is why birth control (estrogen pills) make u fat and lose interest in sex.
For a man (assuming he is no longer in puberty or early 20s) who is not particularly muscular or ripped, I have no reason to believe that he has a high level of testosterone. In fact, he might have increased estrogen esp if he is starting to get flabby and grow man boobs. viagra was developed for a reason. a man doesn't have a teenager's sex drive after a certain age.

for a man who is faithful to his wife, his testosterone starts to go down as soon as his wife is pregnant. and it goes down lower with the arrival of the baby!! assuming he actually lives in the house with his family and hangs around them. This has no effect if the man is absent from the home.

also, the old man had a affair with the same woman for a whole year!! that is attachment if u ask me. the guy is/was is living a double life. there is absolutely no excuse for that.

if a woman opens her eyes and marries a bodybuilder or football player then I will feel no pity for her if he is unfaithful. But if she is married to a man who looks like a family man, then he should be able to control himself. esp for a middle aged man. come on.

high testesterone also leads to impulsiveness and aggression. so, should we start condoning violence because it is "biological"? mtcheww
FoodRe: Divorce Celebrated With Cake (pic) by cfours: 4:21am On Sep 19, 2012
who is going to eat out of that cursed cake? huh
RomanceRe: The Nigerian Wife by cfours:
Osheshe: You are already deeply biased towards Nigerian babes. No qualms. If chocolate skin doesn't work for you, feel free to explore white skin, mulatto skin, whichever catches your fancy.
Only refrain from castigating in a generalized manner...
haha u read my mind.
Nairaland GeneralNairaland Forum, Brought To You By... Inspiredautos by cfours(op): 1:42am On Sep 19, 2012
Why am I seeing weird ads everywhere? I really don't like it. who else is with me?
At least now we know who is feeding, clothing and housing the site founder grin
RomanceRe: The Nigerian Wife by cfours:
Stupid topic.
PoliticsRe: Kano Town Was Founded By An Igbo Trader by cfours: 1:28am On Sep 19, 2012
lol right.
and Onitsha was founded by an Hausa cattle herder.
EducationRe: Ilesanmi Adesida: University Of Illinois First Black VC by cfours:
Cyberknight: Easy, people, easy. Prof. Adesida has attained a wonderful position, by Nigerian standards, congratulations.
Why is this news on the web, is what puzzles me?
Firstly, as many good people have pointed out, the dear professor has spent ALL his formative years abroad, in their system, so he really actually climbed the ladder to the position he occupies today. Please let us remember that in civilized countries, these positions are not like the way they are in Nigeria where the civil service is full of infighting and killing, and where people do not actually have room to realize their potential, in the absence of a godfather, "connections", or an Okija shrine subscription. Elections to the position of VC in Niaja are do or die affairs. I'm willing to bet that it was not so in the University that has just promoted this gentleman.

Secondly, the position in question. In Nigeria, you become a VC, then you shut down the nearest cathedral/mosque/Pentecostal worship center in your town for a huge "thanksgiving" service to show off your newly-acquired wealth and train of official cars. Abroad, nobody even knows the name of the university president or vice chancellor, or whatever the head of the institution is called. Except for in the high profile schools, their salaries, like that of the U.S president also, can be earned by a suitably experienced doctor or whizz kid IT guy. So even though Prof. Adesida has acheived something wonderful by the standards of our bent, hopeless society, in the society he is living in he has done no more than to acheive his due.
OMG!! what a backward mentality you have. WTH!!
we should not congratulate Ilesamni Adedisa because he can't shut down a cathedral to show off corrupt wealth and swiss accounts? huh
Ilesanmi Adedisa got to where he is because of his exceptional professional achievement. It is not easy for a black person to attain such posts talkless of an African immigrant. Let us give praise to whom praise is due, abeg. he has attained a position where he is able to influence the direction of a major public university in the US. with great power comes great responsibility.
and this is not Nigeria, bro. even the richest people in the US don't go about flaunting it like they do in naija. unless they're insecure.
FamilyRe: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by cfours:
coogar: he comes back home @ night to be with his family! i just don't see how people can equate a man cheating with a woman cheating. a man is different from a woman - i don't condone cheating in both sexes but infidelity in men is excusable - i cannot say the same for women!
siddon there dey recite sharia law.
the guy is even lucky he's married to a nigerian. if to say na oyinbo, his azz will be looking for divorce lawyers already.
EducationRe: Ilesanmi Adesida: University Of Illinois First Black VC by cfours: 3:12am On Sep 18, 2012
The guy should check his youtube page. It has some anti-semitic and questionable stuff in it. The stuff is not by him but he should watch who and what he subscribes to. It's going to be a real akoba adaba if he's not careful.
If anyone know him or his email should contact him about removing it.
http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLELmEGg4wWyR_22DA2Yagg
FoodBad Yam by cfours(op): 10:53pm On Sep 16, 2012
I have a question and need your help in finding out the solution. I got some yams from this lady at the supermarket. I'm not very experienced in buying yams. How can you tell if the yam is bad? When I cooked the yams, some parts were dark and the yam tastes bitter. To me, this is not a good sign. Should I even eat it? Is it dangerous to eat bad yam?
FoodRe: Your Take On The Increase In The Price Of Beans by cfours: 10:50pm On Sep 16, 2012
does the price of beans affect the price of garri? I wonder
FoodRe: Noodle Lovers - Bad Way Of Cooking Noodles! by cfours: 10:40pm On Sep 16, 2012
MSG is a flavor enhancer and the main ingredient in maggi,knorr, ajinomoto etc. it's a kind of seasoning used in place of stock meat/fish and very unhealthy.
I personally try to avoid packaged instant noodles as much as possible.
the wax thing is new to me. I didn't know there was wax in it. ewww
FamilyRe: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by cfours: 7:11pm On Sep 16, 2012
bukatyne: and after the husband confessed, d wife should give him a warm hug and say 'thanks for telling me, i know you love me so much' and life goes on! for once, people should put themselves in the shoes of others before giving advice!
gbam!! some people posting on this topic are just ridiculous.
CrimeRe: God, I Love This Lol!!! by cfours: 6:58pm On Sep 16, 2012
wonlasewonimi: Sagamite needs a therapist.
therapy may not work for psychopaths. In fact, it may make them more "cunning," and we all know how sagamite loves to boast of his "cunningness" all over nairaland.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Why_does_therapy_simply_make_a_psychopath_more_cunning
Foreign AffairsRe: The Producer Behind The Infamous Islamic Movie Has Been Apprehended by cfours: 4:29am On Sep 16, 2012
@chukwudi, nobody said he was under arrest for any crime. "apprehended" has a different meaning from "arrested" just FYI
RomanceRe: Can You Stay Friends With Your Ex? by cfours: 4:25am On Sep 16, 2012
depends on how your relationship ended and also how intimate you were. if you've had sex then stay away!!!
Foreign AffairsRe: The Producer Behind The Infamous Islamic Movie Has Been Apprehended by cfours:
Kobojunkie: Of course they can't get him for making a movie that portrays Mohammed as a pedophile. I mean how do you argue that one? grin grin grin
he lied to the actors and actresses about the purpose of the movie. he could get convicted based on that.
seems you forgot Julian Assange. he is facing death penalty for "sexually assaulting" two women. but we all know what he really is being convicted for wink
anybody can see that what he did really is like a crime although there are no laws against it. he took things overboard and surely will not get away with it. i'm sure he probably knew this too when he was taking the risk.

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