Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Calls Out 'Gistlover' Over Sex Tape Scandal by Charx122: 8:50am On Oct 19, 2021 |
20jaybee: Sex don drop... Vaseline crew, over to you Guy e be like say na engine oil you new improved oga |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Colin Powell, 84, Dies From Covid by Charx122: 9:05pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
baylord77: Oh goodness but his decision wasted a lot of lives in the search for WMDs.
RIP I know Cornell Powell so well e dey dance yahoozee so we'll...R.I.P... |
Business › Re: Checkout The Money I Saved Within 3 Months With My Piggy Bank by Charx122: 4:07pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
brownemmanuel43: U are doing well, but how do u know that big nyash are better than flat nyash Bro anyone just the way you like it ...but no forget subscription fee.. |
Business › Re: Checkout The Money I Saved Within 3 Months With My Piggy Bank by Charx122: 12:16pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
brownemmanuel43: U bi better pikin, keep it up man. Stay away from the below 1. Women 2. Women 3. Women 4. Drugs Lastly but not the least, friends that does not motivate u to do more and save more. If u can keep the above list, I see you up their. Especially big yansh o! |
Family › Re: Bored In Marriage by Charx122: 3:58pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: Hello nairalander, I jus got married march this year, honestly am bored already .
The truth is am an only son so the whole pressure of getting married from my family made me got married although I love my wife she is beautiful, sexy and intellectual but I just miss the bachelor life.
I feel I entered marriage too early am just 29 although am well to do, with my own business and from a well to do home also... but am always feeling marriage is slowing me down business wise and exploring.
Sometimes I just feel like I want to leave the house and do what my fellow friends that are not married are doing.
I am scared I might divorce soon....cause honestly am bored the whole marriage thing just tire me although I go out with my wife and all that...
Please what should I do..??
Is it normal for a guy that is young and just married to feel like that
please advice Live with it..soon Children will come and it's gonna be Fun & Crazy trust me... I have been there..Enjoy the ride. |
Romance › Re: I Find It Difficult To Approach Girls That Look Posh Or Sophisticated by Charx122: 4:55pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
Lenny22: I am a final year student of a popular Federal University. I'm not rich, neither am I broke. Of course, my present financial strength is average. I have a nice physical appearance and I consider myself as good looking. I don't have the courage to approach girls that look exotic or sophisticated. By this, I'm talking about ladies with nice outfits, dope nails, expensive phones and wear expensive Perfumes. I wouldn't like embarrass myself, I just admire from afar but deep down, I want to date one. Ol boy na only cloth and make up o! No fear.. Dem even sef still dey shit dey clean Yash! Waka go meet them forget about embarrassment.. forget nothing dey there..all that Martial nonsense na flash..must of them nothing dey their head o! |
Romance › Re: This Is What I Did To A Young Lady Who Told Me She Was In A Serious Relationship by Charx122: 3:46pm On Oct 15, 2021*. Modified: 4:46pm On Oct 15, 2021 |
kenzysmith: Met this beautiful girl at shoprite, I approached her and we exchanged numbers. After a week, I began asking her out she told me she had a serious boyfriend and she doesn't double date or run paro. I said no problem and I never disturb her.
3 days ago she called me that she needed to do one month sub that her sub has finish. I told her to tell her boyfriend na! She said she was too shy to ask him for cards. It look some how that it don't want to look like she was bothering him. I said OK no problem that I can't access my account at the moment that am at offshore in the middle of a sea that she should send me #200 naira mtn so I can call my bro to sub for her, she send me the card and I text her thank you very much for the card that she is a nice person.
After like 6hrs she called to tell me my bro has not send her the card. I told her I DONT have one kobo to send to her and cut the call.
Did I do wrong my fellow nairalanders  Your own small but I know it isn't fair ...... woman don chop my money with open mind o! But I don chop them pass..didn't have to trick them some of all these girls are kind hearted when it comes to paying...�������������� |
Crime › Re: US Indicts 11 Nigerians For $9 million online fraud schemes in New York by Charx122: 12:40pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
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Celebrities › Re: Annie Idibia & Her Brother, Wisdom Macaulay Go Partying And Drinking by Charx122: 9:54am On Oct 14, 2021 |
elonmuskbaby: bad belle she deserves to be happy If I do my own, You go do your own ........sing along ��� |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy: Everyone Smokes, Not Legalising Weed In Nigeria Is Hypocritical by Charx122: 9:22pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Odewaleadesoye: But I don't smoke Mr. Burna.
Maybe he was high when he was saying this.
Click LIKE if you don't smoke and do not agree with Burna.
Click SHARE if you smoke and agree with Mr. Burna You should understand what he meant... |
Family › Re: My Wife Arrested Me For Slapping Her, We Have Lost Wife Materials - Man by Charx122: 4:41pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Just A Suggestion Admin Of Nairaland by Charx122(op): 4:33pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
ignis: Are you aware we have Art?
Craft can conveniently fall under Art. If you Google Art they give you art not Craft..reasons some many people are focused of drawings, painting,and digital animation ..And not Craft such as things you can make with papper, wood weaving etc. ..Anyways just a suggestion. Thanks |
Nairaland General › Re: Joke Sketch: If Nairaland Was A Real City... by Charx122: 4:24pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
purples25: My little sketch on a Real City called Nairaland ...lol. Very beautiful initiative..Really thinking outta of the box but it could be better .. |
Nairaland General › Just A Suggestion Admin Of Nairaland by Charx122(op): 4:09pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Is it possible you can introduce Craft into the Nairaland form?...Thank you. |
Romance › Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Charx122: 1:14pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
Martinelli35: Although this did not happen to me, but it brought a very heated argument between i and my fiancée.
I saw a video on Instagram where a man caught his younger brother sleeping with his wife. He saw them but they did not see him, he pretended he did not see anything.
A few days later he told his wife that he wanted to surprise her with a gift and told his brother to help him out, he said he wanted it to be a surprise and so he tied up his wife’s eyes with a cloth and then also told his brother he had a surprise for him too, that one also had is eyes tied up.
He then took them both downstairs and gave them both empty cartons to hold. On one side of the carton he gave his wife he wrote “she cheated on me” and on the other side was the caption “with my brother”. She was very excited at the expected gift and was smiling throughout and giddy with anticipation, meanwhile oga was filming the whole drama.
On his Brother’s carton he wrote “my brother slept with my wife”, of course he was blindfolded and didn’t know what was written or the fact he was been exposed and humiliated to the world. Oga now gathered her jewelry, makeups and other stuffs and started putting into the cartoon. Madam was jumping up and down thinking of how many and heavy the gifts were. At the same time oga had carried all his wife’s property and thrown on the road while videoing the whole scenario play out. I leave you to imagine the shock and humiliation on there faces when the blindfold came off.
Now this brings me to my own scenario. Now I love my fiancée very much and as is customary of me, I send her funny videos I see online. We laugh about it and all. So I sent her the aforementioned video and she laughed and then got serious and asked that if I was the Husband what would have been my reaction, I told her that I won’t be violent, but that would be the end of the marriage. I would be done and I would never forgive her, but that after time must have passed, I would eventually forgive my brother. That is where issue escalated o. She said that would be very unfair of me, that they both deserve equal punishment, I told her that he is my family by virtue of blood and that can never change, though he betrayed me, but we remain family and I won’t want my parents go through the agony of seeing there children apart. But that my wife only became family by virtue of the trust we have towards each other and that once that is gone, nothing holds us together, besides I won’t be able to stay together in the same house again with her.
She just started ranting that it means I would choose my family over her and that I won’t treat her equally and that what am saying says a lot about me and she got really pissed at me. She took it really personally.
My question is, did I do anything wrong? Is my assertion a totally reprehensible one one devoid of logic? Or am I being unfair? You should have asked her the same question vase versa ....if you had slept with her sister? You allowed yourself to be on the spot... My brother these no way a marriage will be the same � if such happens.. Fine imagine forgiveness comes to play memories of such event can never be forgotten..hmmmm.. |
Celebrities › Re: DJ Cuppy's Mother, Nana Otedola Visits Her At Oxford University by Charx122: 6:55pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
MadamVanessa: So without pink attachment and wig, Cuppy can't carry any other color on her head. She's too obsessed with pink color. I hope she dye her pubic hairs pink color too. Something that is pink already.. |
Health › Re: Suicide: The Picture Of Olivia James' Boyfriend Who Dumped Her by Charx122: 10:10am On Oct 12, 2021 |
Mercychen: That's love for you. It just develops from nowhere for a person who's not worth it or whom people think does not deserve it.
The same way Christ loved and died for us even when we were undeserving of it.
Love has made many people do silly and crazy stuff. You'll be surprised.
As for me though, no matter how I love, I'll never let it rid me of my sense of reasoning. That's not love..before you can love anyone You should love yourself first She took her own life... Never compare this situation with Jesus He was condemned and cruxfied for the love he had for us.. |
Celebrities › Re: Female Celebrities Join Simi's #NobodyLikeWoman Challenge (Photos) by Charx122: 8:08pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
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Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels Celebrates Her 21st Birthday With Beautiful Photos (Video) by Charx122: 4:13pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Doradorwa: Fine gal.... Happy birthday mama Pretty girl...she doesn't need all that make up makes her look like a maniqin.. |
Celebrities › Re: TeeBillz Welcomes A New Baby, A Son (Photo) by Charx122: 2:49pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Irresponsible men everywhere, it's now normal to be having kids anyhow without marriage. I weep for this present generation. What makes him irresponsible don't women have their own brains to say no to Dicks....If some women don't allow themselves to be used as public toilets let them stop flaunts them big bum-bums ..Let me tell you Dicks also have minds of their own..(Advise) is not every Dick you see that drives a lovely ride your pussies start gushing!!!� Men are Awesome!!! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Lebanon Runs Out Of Power , India And China To Follow ( Pics) by Charx122: 9:02pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by Charx122: 1:21pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
falcon01: I'm sorry to say this but ive tried so hard not to but i literally feel sick if I attempt not to say this but sir you are a big fool! On behalf of men and other reasonable people we are disappointed in you. I mean what kind of a low self esteem idiot are you? Don't you have friends? Omo you just wake enter sucker-way |
Romance › Re: How Many Women will dare to get married If This Is Applicable Today? by Charx122: 12:07am On Oct 09, 2021 |
Pataricatering: it is your ram brain that is making you Yarn senselessly like this o . I didn't mention your name...if your guilty why don't you have a Coke and a smile...I know your not a V yansh.. probably must have opened other branches like your asshole...Dog! |
Romance › Re: How Many Women will dare to get married If This Is Applicable Today? by Charx122: 8:51pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
Toks2008: I saw the attached somewhere and I just can't imagine this law in the present day.
I wonder how many married women will be alive and how many unmarried ladies will dare to get married If This biblical law is enforced in this present day.
This one shock me... V yash or no V Yash must of them chicken brain should I tell you the problem of most Nigerian young ladies now... Too much Porn and Alcohol they have opened their eyes I tell you... They are worse than guys now . .Omo Guys no boast of your babe O! She might just be strafing me in my house as I speak.. |
Romance › Re: Uber And Bolt Drivers Are Harassing My Girlfriend by Charx122: 8:25pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
ajumma: no mind the mumu She no happy for her life she she see Uber maybe she want make you buy am Moto....Guy shine your eyes everything na format she know se you love am small time she go ask for your Moto before you know it you set don dey enter bus... Shine your eyes no se I no tell you O!!!� |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Sex Video: Blackmailer Demands Money, Threatens To Release Sex Tape by Charx122: 9:32am On Oct 08, 2021 |
Gabe427: Baba this old woman too ....like do they know they are bring recorded... If not thatvdiffrent but if it the one you were aware he was taking
Its abbig Shame on you no guy who respects would film while having sex ....person way supposed be confirmed sugar mummy with authority allowing small boys blackmail you
Hope it not kpokpo What's so old about Tiwa? Very firm lady Ye without sin cast your stones.. The only shameful thing about this you should have known better by now aunty Tiwa such a lovely talent please don't venture into porn, must you have a sextape no matter how high the both of you were really uncalled for ..I call it what it is semi prostitution the only place were sex or love making should be kept is in your memory not on a hard drive or phones memories ..I love you so much Tiwa stick to music not porn ....it is what it is.. |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Sex Video: Blackmailer Demands Money, Threatens To Release Sex Tape by Charx122: 8:48am On Oct 08, 2021 |
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Entertainment › Re: Strange Magician walks on water.(See VIDEO/PICS) by Charx122: 10:01pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
360degreess: There is a Jinn holding him there but normal human eyes cannot see them..He must have done some sacrifices to the Jinns, in return, they gave him magical powers.. Simple. Why didn't he do it on a river or ocean ...Anyone can walk on water on man made pool...give me a break, Dynamo the magician did better. |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by Charx122: 9:55am On Oct 07, 2021 |
MaXiK: Good day Nairalanders!!
Please I need your advice. My current girlfriend has all the good characters that perfectly defines a wife material plus she's a scholar and also a virgin (not particularly concerned about this anyway but to evince how disciplined she is) but sometimes she will look attractive to me and other times she will appear unattractive and I won't feel attracted to her at all. To clarify things, this changes has nothing to do with her dress sense neither my beholding senses but real changes in her facial appearance and allurement.
To be frank and sincere, she is just greatly above average in attractiveness but she's not stable in her look, she falls far below average occasionally. Also we're both dark in complexion and I will prefer my children to be lighter than I am, if not fair.
I have been trying to look beyond her look by focusing on other quality attributes she possess but the issue about her irregular look keep on fluctuating my feelings for her.
The crux of it is that I'm in my early thirties I need serious relationship; someone to build future with and finally get married to but here I am with someone that meet up with more than seventy percent of my requirements in my ideal wife but with unstable look that is threatening my feelings for her.
I am concerned about this because of some issues we consider trivial are still crashing marriages these days....
My questions:
How important is look in marriage? Is it me that is making issue out of trivial matters because this lady is receiving a lot of relationship advances from people far better than I am and she's turning them down to maintain her commitment to our relationship? Is there any possibility of stability in her look in the future considering that she's still in school?
Your genuine, mature and constructive advice is highly needed.
I will appreciate ones from those who have experienced what I'm currently going through. From what I understand she holds most of the wife material quality.. Really is not her changing but is you not yet satisfied about her looks..Things will really change if you overlook and truly love this girl.. Remember love is beyond looks work on yourself mentally take your time, they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder.you haven't seen that beauty in her yet that's why the face keep changing... |
Romance › Re: Lady Sleeps With Her Ex-Boyfriend's Father, Mocks Her Ex (Video) by Charx122: 12:25am On Oct 07, 2021 |
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Phones › Re: How Did You Feel When Whatsapp, Facebook, Instagram Went Off ? by Charx122: 9:50am On Oct 05, 2021 |
post=106458027: Honest comments please.....
O go sleep |