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HungerBAD:
I will shout HALLELUYAH.

Then i will ask my questions. I am happy for this Couple, but i am a little bit confused here. She waited for 29 Years? so let us assume she got married at 20 or 21, which will make her 50.

I might be wrong, but i thought at 45 Years of age, a woman goes into Menopause and can't get pregnant again? or is Science wrong again?but since GOD is involved, let me just mind my business.

Not questioning God.

Not every woman goes into menopause at 45. The range is usually between 45 and 55.

herzern:
[size=32pt]FTC aqain [/size]


I am not a caterer but I know in Niqeria... Catering is all about having a beautiful face and a killer smile

Please,I want to cook moin -moin........will I use beans?

Nope. Having a beautiful face and a killer smile will not get the job done. Like the OP said, catering is tedious work.

tablu:
Gbongo sikwe stil get IBB for mind oh!

Its Bongos Ikwe.

96

Look closely and you 'll see it is not the same lady. The hair, eyes and nose different. There are two different ladies in those pictures.

They look nothing alike,

Ishilove:
Don't be too desperate so that you don't end up at the wrong hands. Also, don't say your prayers are not working. The fact that you're still alive is enough reason to thank God.

You need deliverance because having dreams of seeing yourself with your old schoolmates is a very terrible thing. It means there is the spirit of backwardness at work in your life.

Have you gone to MFM for counselling?

Ishilove is right. Go to any MFM branch, preferably a regional headquarter and enrol for deliverance. It is free and effective. I can attest to that.

Great news. Maybe now they'll stop taking us for granted and actually consider giving good value for money. They may also want to consider pay per view. I am willing to wager that that number would have been a lot higher if not for sports fans who can't watch certain games otherwise.

They are xenophobic, yet they depend heavily on us for revenue.

rolled:
So this maid baths with cold water then your kids hot water?i saw where you said after putting water on the fire you asked her to go and have her bath.
Madam does she bath with cold water?
If yes that could be the reason she just wore her uniform
under age kids should be left with their parents and it is not your business if they can feed or go to school

Exactly! And if the idea is to help, send them a monthly allowance to care for her. Like I said on another thread of this nature, I am a mother and a wife and I have a career as well. I manage well without a house help so I know it is doable.

chiomaabigail:
Good morning mummies in the house. PLEASE THIS WILL BE A LITTLE LENGHTY. I was so angry this morning, so I feel like offloading the anger by speaking out. I have a girl of 13 years. She is good girl but at the same time she can drive me crazy some time. Several times, when she misbehaves, either I scold her or I beat her depending on the gravity of her offence, most times I expect my husband to atleast scold her whenever she misbehaves but he won't, he will just come and softly talk to her thereby making me look wicked . For instance, I have told her several times when she wakes in the morning, put water on the gas, go and take your bath, then go and prepare the children while I prepare their food pack and feed them. That way, we will go to school early. I have told her several times to do this but she keeps messing up. This morning I found out she has not taken her bath, I scolded her and told her to go and take her bath, she entered the bathroom and after wasting time, she came out without taking her bath. I beat her up, when my husband came out he ordered me to stop beating her and gently told her to go and take her bath. That made me look like the wicked one while he is the good one. At the end I ended up preparing the children, prepare their food, feed them, packed their lunch box etc. Mothers will understand how it is preparing the kids in the morning and the pressures involved. I really don't know the ways to handle this issue because I am angry with my husband for making me feel like the wicked one before the girl. Please mature advice please.

You expect a 13 year old to prepare your children for school? If I talk now, they will start calling me names. To worsen things, you are boldly and proudly telling us you beat her up. I just tire for this naija house help culture. I blame the biological mothers of these helps though.

Madam OP, my advice goes thus:

1. Please get a girl of at least 16 if you must have a house help. A thirteen year old is still a child.

2. Try talking to her gently like your husband does.

3. Prepare all preparables the night before. This approach works for me. Iron and lay out each child's uniform, socks, shoes etc. Cook whatever they will be taking to school so all you have to do is reheat in the morning. Pack snacks, juice and napkins into the lunch bag a night before as well.

Finally get hubby to help out more. You made the kids with him, not the house help. May God bless your home.

Know2020:
You are enjoying your own children but killing other's children. I pity you!

How is he doing this? Just curious.

sweetcocoa:
Really?

He was being sarcarstic, I believe.

thorpido:
Sorry o,Op.We all have to improve as a nation and healthcare workers can do more.
There are bottlenecks that delay services in government hospitals which should be removed.A case in point is not allowing patients to be taken out without government hospital ambulance when they are not enough.
I would have advised you go to a private hospital in your situation.

Those are not a lot different. The truth is health care in Nigeria is really poor. My dad went through something similar to the OP's narration, if not worse, and in the same hospital ironically. We eventually lost him due to negligence and wrong diagnosis, so I understand the pain the OP is going through.

Well, like we always say, may God comfort you and all those he left behind. I really wish something more could be done. We are a rather placid and complacent people and therein lies the problem.

Correction: In Igboland, omugwo isnt done by the mother in law but by the girl's mother. Good morning.

Ewela ko, ewedu ni. If you are going to congratulate her, then get her name right at least. Oya repeat after me: IWEALA.

And while we are on the subject, its OKONJO. It might not be a bad idea to modify your post.

Kakamorufu:
guy irunoobo is igbo. Calm down

I seriously doubt that.

SIRmuel86:
U well so

She is probably battling a few complications that have arisen as a result of ingesting the fake drugs her 'Yoruba' woman allows in the markets.

Www.google.com

fabulousmann:
Yes as a matter of fact I do

So do I. I am allergic to caffeine and a few other stuff.

Alas! He lost his last fight. Rest in peace Ali. You will always be remembered.

Lovalt15:
The problem is called endometriosis ( fallopian tube blockage ) in Yoruba language is called ( EDA) there is blockage in her tubes that why the fluids can't pass. One major cause of infertility read this https://www.nairaland.com/2848744/why-cant-pregnant-easily-women.

False and misleading information.

@OP, there is absolutely nothing wrong with semen flowing out of the Vagina after s.ex. It is simply a gravity issue. All you need for fertilization is just one sperm. I am speaking from experience as both a wife and a mother.

It happens to practically all women, so you have nothing to worry about unless there are other underlying medical issues.

endehT:
Good morning ma,and a very BIG thank you for your words of encouragement. I do appreciate and value your words of advice through and through.

Thank you ma for your effort towards the job offer as well,God bless and keep you.

I can't seem to get any response on the Bua thing. However please send a friend request to this guy on fb. He is a friend who posts job vacancies in your field reguarly.. His name is. Please let me know soon as you do so I can take his name out of the post.

Siena:
[color=Blue]Brother, my heart goes out to you.

But...I feel what you propose to do is NOT going to make things easier for your young family. This is Nigeria, where creditors can chase your next of kin for a debt. Don't do this to your family, rom what you're proposing, there is no going back.

Make a list of your immediate debts, in order of priority, and give the total. I am willing to help, and I'm sure the good people of Nairaland will chip in. Of course there will be some verification details to take care of, but first things first.[/color]

You are absolutely right and your kindness is heart warming. Thanks for proving that we still have humane people around.

@Op, the situation is desperate but there is hope. You are alive and healthy. Debts can be paid and jobs can be found. Hold on, take each day as it comes and we will see you at the top someday. Meanwhile, BUA group is hiring. I'll make a call and get back to you here.[sub][/sub]

kobabe:
THATS NOT THE AHMED MUSA WE KNOW.

THIS IS THE AHMED MUSA WE KNOW

I remember this too.

ogawisdom:
U missed d worst part i e "iwobi is making his first debut for super eagles" when he said this I made him d man of d match

I remember this particular one. Hubby and I had a good laugh over that one.

AirSultan:
Chichi valentine, chichi valerie, chimamanda valentine, chimamanda valerie, chioma valentine, chioma valerie, chinyere valentine, chinyere valerie, chinedu.. Oops my bad!

One of those combos is actually right. Not telling which, though.

Does anyone here know THEY NEST? It wasn't exactly horror but it was creepy all the same. Slither was also creepy.

TiffanyJ:
It seems few know about that film. I remembered it reigned. I will pay a fortune to watch it again, this time, with an adult's eye, and not a child's

Its the whole Antichrist business that makes Omen scary. It really bothered me on some deep level as a child.

Amen.