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 Health › Re: 9 Types Of Intelligence As Proposed By Howard Gardner by CHoccolaTE(op): 9:51pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
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| Health › 9 Types Of Intelligence As Proposed By Howard Gardner by CHoccolaTE(op): 9:51pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
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| Nairaland General › Re: Thank You Seun!!!!!! :d by CHoccolaTE(op): 10:31pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
sholasholala: All these thanks just for change of name? This name must be very important to you. Can you share the the story behind the moniker please?I know how much Seun doesn't like random changing of usernames but he overlooked that to help me thats why I am so grateful. |
| Nairaland General › Re: Thank You Seun!!!!!! :d by CHoccolaTE(op): 9:35pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Seun: You're welcome. The change your requested was subtle and reasonable.Oh thanks a million, I was about set to abandon this username because of the number attached to it but when I saw the change.....Man! was I overjoyed  You've really tried for me  |
| Nairaland General › Thank You Seun!!!!!! :d by CHoccolaTE(op): 6:44pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Seun, I just noticed that you changed my username to what I requested, I am so overjoyed man! You've made my day! Thank you so much, I appreciate it tonsss!!! Thanks, thanks thanks thanks, muahhhhh!!!!!  2 Likes |
| Forum Games › Re: What Are You Thinking? by CHoccolaTE: 10:28pm On Jul 08, 2014*. Modified: 6:44pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
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| Family › Re: Disadvantages Of Being A Man by CHoccolaTE: 11:27am On Jan 04, 2014 |
slimyem: ....then I might reconsider but the reality is bleak..It depends on where and when you were born sha. If it is in Africa where women are second class citizens then your wanting to come back as male is understandable. |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 10:26am On Jan 04, 2014 |
Gamboh55: For NOT refusing...twas a mistake and I still stand by those words...shameless cos dey still patronise d married men knowing fully well dat dey've got a wife at home...why not start by saying no to deir advances and see if dey wont go back home to deir wives...u ladies also have a big hand in d problemBla bla bla. The ones that get turned down by sensible girls run to prostitutes and some of them deceive the women that they are still bachelors. |
| Family › Re: Marriage Cannot Be Fair by CHoccolaTE: 10:17am On Jan 04, 2014 |
bilms: Choco, i just stated the independence i mean.  |
| Family › Re: Disadvantages Of Being A Man by CHoccolaTE: 10:15am On Jan 04, 2014 |
taiocol: this will neva happen nd we knw thatIt has already happened in civilized countries like USA and UK. |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 10:11am On Jan 04, 2014 |
Gamboh55: TRUE and d women are shameless bi.t.ches too for refusing the advances of the married menYour post does not make sense. How can they be shameless when they refuse the advances of married men? 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Disadvantages Of Being A Man by CHoccolaTE: 7:26am On Jan 04, 2014 |
slimyem: I don't care about these disadvantages. They are nothing compared to the many advantages.What if the world has become fairly balanced and there is no longer any partiality to women by that time? |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 7:22am On Jan 04, 2014 |
Ewuro707: Sisi Socolate, we need to talk. What's up?What do you want to talk about? |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 7:20am On Jan 04, 2014 |
tintingz: Yeah many women don't like polygamy in terms of sharing their husband with other women, but alas woman are now embracing polygamy as it is the solution to some women in our society eg the widows, divorcee, singles. There are many happy polygamous home as you think there is not, I'm brought up from a happy polygamous homeI didn't say wives in polygamous homes don't put up with each other or that they don't get along. I said they are not happy about sharing their husbands and that is the truth which you won't want to accept because polygamy is in your religion. If believing that polygamy makes women happy helps you sleep at night then go ahead and believe it, am done with you on this thread. Mohammed(sa) as been receiving revelation before he married Ashia(ra), this Hadith only show the unique honor given to Ashia(ra) for her purity and noble characterYes, Allah honoured Aisha by sending Islamic revelations to Muhammed whenever they were romancing on her bed. Allah didn't even consider that the bedroom partiality made the other wives sad. No. He so much loved Aisha's purity and noble character that he choose no other time than the time when she and Muhammed were doing bedroom antics to send down quranic revelations  |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 10:38pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Sweetlemon: See how people are lamenting over the OP being in a polygamous marriage.Yea, this is sad but true. Many married men are shameless dogs that still continue chasing women outside after marriage yet they expect loyalty from their wives. |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 10:37pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
RoyPCain: @[CHocolaTE]; is 3 some like childbirth? come on, woman.You said it is forbidden for women to look at each other's unclothedness, you didn't give any exceptions. come on, man. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 10:34pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
tintingz: There is a chapter in Quran where Allah corrected them. Like brotha Roy said Jealousy doesn't mean hating on each other it is just worrying about what is special to you.My point was that Muhammed's polygamy made his wives jealous and miserable to the point that they quarelled with each other. Why did Allah endorse a practice that makes women so unhappy? There is no woman that likes polygamy, don't let anyone decieve you, it's just not possible. The only instance where a woman will be happy with polygamy is if she has absolutely no love in her heart for her husband. LOL is this an hadith or what?? Mohammed(sa) treated his wives equally.You don't know your religion ba? Yes it's an hadith, biko let me quote it; Narrated ‘Urwa from ‘Aisha: The wives of Allah's Apostle were in two groups. One group consisted of 'Aisha, Hafsa, Safiyya and Sauda; and the other group consisted of Um Salama and the other wives of Allah's Apostle. The Muslims knew that Allah’s Apostle loved ‘Aisha, so if any of them had a gift and wished to give to Allah's Apostle, he would delay it, till Allah’s Apostle had come to ‘Aisha's home and then he would send his gift to Allah’s Apostle in her home. The group of Um Salama discussed the matter together and decided that Um Salama should request Allah's Apostle to tell the people to send their gifts to him in whatever wife’s house he was. Um Salama told Allah’s Apostle of what they had said, but he did not reply. Then they (those wives) asked Um Salama about it. She said, "He did not say anything to me." They asked her to talk to him again. She talked to him again when she met him on her day, but he gave no reply. When they asked her, she replied that he had given no reply. They said to her, "Talk to him till he gives you a reply." When it was her turn, she talked to him again. He then said to her, "Do not hurt me regarding Aisha, AS THE DIVINE INSPIRATIONS DO NOT COME TO ME ON ANY OF THE BEDS EXCEPT THAT OF AISHA." On that Um Salama said, "I repent to Allah for hurting you." Then the group of Um Salama called Fatima, the daughter of Allah’s Apostle and sent her to Allah’s Apostle to say to him, "Your wives request to treat them and the daughter of Abu Bakr ON EQUAL TERMS." Then Fatima conveyed the message to him. The Prophet said, "O my daughter! Don’t you love whom I love?" She replied in the affirmative and returned and told them of the situation. They requested her to go to him again but she refused. They then sent Zainab bint Jahsh who went to him AND USED HARSH WORDS SAYING, "Your wives request you TO TREAT THEM and the daughter of Ibn Abu Quhafa ON EQUAL TERMS." On that she raised her voice AND ABUSED ‘Aisha TO HER FACE so much so that Allah’s Apostle looked at ‘Aisha to see whether she would retort. ‘Aisha started replying to Zainab till she silenced her. The Prophet then looked at ‘Aisha and said, "She is really the daughter of Abu Bakr." (Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 3, Book 47, Number 755) |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 9:56pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
RoyPCain: please don't do 3 some as suggest because it is not permitted for one woman to witness the reaction of another or see her nudity.How do you guys do child birth then? |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 9:48pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
tintingz: LOL, a fool talking to a foolYour using ad hominems don't change the fact that she was telling the truth. The truth remains that: 1. Muhammed married up to 11 wives and commanded muslims to marry only 4. 2. His wives were jealous of each other and had conflicts. 3. Muhammed favoured some of his wives over others for instance when the other wives sent Zainab to complain to Muhammed that he was spending too much time with Aisha then Muhammed claimed that he spends time with her because Islamic revelations always come to him when he is on Aisha's bed, Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 3, Book 47, Number 755 |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 9:16pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Baby mama: I wonder why u hurt so badDon't answer that guy. You are exposing the truth about his religion and its paining him that's why he is all over your case. 5 Likes |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 9:13pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
leMuhito: When he changes, he would be the one begging whenever he messes up. It happens.Abeg that one na sufferhead. I am sure that men will never put themselves through the rubbish yet they expect women to do it without complaining. |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 8:47pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
leMuhito: OP... two wrongs don't make a right. Keep begging. He'd change soon.Na wao  Women have suffered sha |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 8:27pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Tabs2B: Your husband is using silence as a technique to let u know that what u did was wrong. May be that's his own way to teach u a lesson. But he his your husband here or may be he just like u begging him wen ever u hurt him. My candid advise to u should learn to stop doing this that gets him upset. U can get to talk to someone he respects do somuch to talk to him.Did you even read through the thread to know the woman's problem before replying? Which kain person be this one sef? |
| Family › Re: Hubby Won't Talk To Me. by CHoccolaTE: 8:24pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
otalenu: what if the husband is a nairalander?The man is most likely a nairalander sef because the woman was seriously angry when the thread hit front page. Maybe because she doesn't want him to see it. @topic, sorry OP. I don't have anything to add that others have not already said. The mistake you made was living a life of complete dependence on this man so if you can do so, get a job so you can stand on your own two feet. |
| Family › Re: Marriage Cannot Be Fair by CHoccolaTE: 6:27pm On Jan 03, 2014 |
Ewuro707: You reported me?Inside your living room where the irobot is vacuuming  |
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