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Family › Re: This is how most Nigerian parents treat their kids.. Its a lil unfair.. by CHoccolaTE: 6:16pm On Jan 03, 2014
Chillisauce: Hmmmm

* bites kola nut*
Emma, chocolate this your story na real life. E sure say this girl you dey describe like this no be lipsrsealed

Ermmm

You grin
Na real life ooo sad

No, no be me.
Family › Re: Disadvantages Of Being A Man by CHoccolaTE: 6:14pm On Jan 03, 2014
Op, you have good points there, it really isn't easy being a man.

Kpele o, guys. In my next life I will return as female. Heaven knows I don't want to face all these sufferhead.
Family › Re: This is how most Nigerian parents treat their kids.. Its a lil unfair.. by CHoccolaTE:
[quote author=Elli-dude]Funny enough..This is one reason why the RUDENESS AND UNCARING ATTITUDE OF MAJORITY OF NIGERIANS NEVER END..
The coming generation would go according to this principle and it'll go on and on..But its something i'll antagonise strongly..[/quote]Please antagonize it very well, hopefully with more people like you, this nonsense will end.

I don't know why many Nigerian parents don't use logic in deciding how to train their kids. It's usually a case of "my parents raised me like this and therefore I must raise my kids like this as well".
I know a girl whose mother acts like this, her mum always gives the same outdated treatment and outdated advice of her own mother gave her.

The mum once severely flogged the girl and her brother with a cable for an offence she thought they committed. When she found out they were innocent she didn't apologize. She said parents are not meant to apologize to children. Imagine. After beating them all over with a cable for what they didn't do sad
Family › Re: Marriage Cannot Be Fair by CHoccolaTE: 4:48pm On Jan 03, 2014
Ewuro707: *yimu like you don't know already?

Sisi socolatè ( in Ibadan assent) , it's early momo here , we are just getting up & off bed. Taking off our pjs and gonna take a hot shower together with hubby.( hopefully goes well as planned and no kid wakes up yet), while the irobot vacuum the entire living room( ya. it's very expensive)

Do whatever please you cos I dontgiveahoot. In other words no need waiting for my post. kiss
See vexing o! Just because I reported her troublesome post on the other thread.

#Hehehe
#Butthurt grin
Family › Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by CHoccolaTE: 2:53pm On Jan 03, 2014
Chillisauce: Stop vibrating . Relax...
She is either offline or doesn't know about it. Why not report it.
You think every mod should sit 24hrs In their PC to monitor what undecided.
Lol, ok I have reported it grin
Family › Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by CHoccolaTE: 2:48pm On Jan 03, 2014
Modified
Family › Re: Marriage Cannot Be Fair by CHoccolaTE: 11:14am On Jan 03, 2014
bilms: Hmm, b4 i go, independence doesn't have to be finance. Weather you are a stay at home mum or working, independent reasoning is a key to sustainable family life.
Why are you making vague and incoherent statements?

Just tell us what type of independence you are talking about so we know what the aim and objective of your thread is.
If it's not financial independence then what is it?
Emotional? Physical? what exactly biko?
Family › Re: Marriage Cannot Be Fair by CHoccolaTE: 9:24am On Jan 03, 2014
Ewuro707: Brb
Hurry back, I cannot wait to read what you have to write.
Family › Re: Marriage Cannot Be Fair by CHoccolaTE: 11:41pm On Jan 02, 2014
Men are known as the head of house because they provide for the family so if the woman starts doing exactly everything the man does than why should the man still be head?
Why should every member of his family bear his name?


Nonsense and ingredients.
I laugh in swahili at foolish men that want to eat their cake and have it.
Family › Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by CHoccolaTE(op): 7:53am On Jan 02, 2014
[quote author=n.oxide]I didn't read your lengthy post but I think it the other way around. Most women actually think their lives wouldn't go on without marriage![/quote]Na lie. It's men that like hyping themselves to believe that all women need them to continue existing.
Family › Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by CHoccolaTE(op): 9:39am On Dec 31, 2013
^OK, noted.
Family › Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by CHoccolaTE(op): 8:53am On Dec 31, 2013
PocketEconomist: I gotta say, i understand some of your sentiments, however, i have to correct some notions. You said marriage don't benefit women, that's not true. It benefits both parties. Women can be happy without marriage? True, and for the record, not all Nigerian men are abusive of their wives. That's a lie from the mojave desert. Good day.
Women benefit from marriages, fine. But men benefit more. Up to 80% more than women and I explained this in the OP.
Secondly, I never said all men abuse their wives so I don't know why you brought it up.
Family › Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by CHoccolaTE(op): 7:47am On Dec 31, 2013
Bump.

Man, this was such a great thread grin grin
Poems For Review › Re: Same High by CHoccolaTE(op): 11:11pm On Jun 19, 2013
So beautiful....I was transported....
Poems For Review › Same High by CHoccolaTE(op): 11:03pm On Jun 19, 2013
As you shed a force come to keep me warm
Oh I cannot speak
The silence turns me on
Oh my eyes were closed
Afraid to think I'm wrong
But the weakest hearts swallow in restraint

We're on the same high
It's a stereo
It's the same song
We're on the same high
So we'll carry on
It's the same song
We're on the same high
We're on common ground
It's the same song
We're on the same high
It'll carry on
It's the same song

And the sweet reward dominates the pain
As each breath we take suffers just the same
Lost inside the void and I'll be in someone
And all I'll do to feel the same as I did

It took you so long to see its beautiful
So long to see
We're on the same high

We're on the same high
It's a stereo
It's the same song
We're on the same high
So we'll carry on
It's the same song
We're on the same high
We're on common ground
It's the same song
We're on the same high
It'll carry on
It's the same song

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