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Romance › Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by CHoccolaTE: 7:35pm On Nov 09, 2014

freecocoa:
You all are just a bunch of shameless hypocrites, she's materialistic because she wants to use her boyfriend's car, swear with your worthless life that you've never collected anything from a boyfriend and die by thunder, you people are disgusting to say the least, even people who have no cent to their names dey follow talk, NL don suffer sha.

Rotflmao

abeg this post still dey make me laff grin

Romance › Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by CHoccolaTE: 5:21pm On Nov 09, 2014

ocelot2006:
No, it is NOT okay. As a matter of fact, I view such men as shameless gold diggers with zero iota of self respect. Most men with our pride won't do that.

Tufiakwa! So many people have never been in a loving relationship their whole lives. Its beyond sad......as for me I can give a man I love one of my cars if I have any to spare and if it makes his life easier. I see nothing wrong with it, its just me being a caring partner. The heart ache from decades of painful 'maga'ing of Nigerian men by girls has turned them to tight fisted paranoid scrooges tongue

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Romance › Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by CHoccolaTE: 5:16pm On Nov 09, 2014

freecocoa:
You shouldn't be commenting on this thread if you've never had a boyfriend since you obviously don't understand what's being discussed here, goodnight.

Abi oooo! Everybody wants to talk even those that have never dated or even have any friends from the opposite sex. Nairaland is where all the pathetic losers come to shine and be famous cool

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Romance › Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by CHoccolaTE: 4:51pm On Nov 09, 2014

freecocoa:
You all are just a bunch of shameless hypocrites, she's materialistic because she wants to use her boyfriend's car, swear with your worthless life that you've never collected anything from a boyfriend and die by thunder, you people are disgusting to say the least, even people who have no cent to their names dey follow talk, NL don suffer sha.

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Romance › Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by CHoccolaTE: 4:26pm On Nov 09, 2014

I think this topic begs the question of where to draw the line between what you are entitled to and what you shouldn't demand in a relationship. If both the boyfriend and girlfriend are not entitled to each other's possesions just because they are not married then what about loyalty and fidelity in relationships? Why do people feel they are entitled to faithfulness from their partners before marriage? You are not entitled to take each other's property but you fully expect them to remain faithful and loyal to you alone and not date/have sex with others as if you two are already married......ironic isn't it.

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Romance › Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by CHoccolaTE: 3:59pm On Nov 09, 2014

ocelot2006:
but note this: unless you are MARRIED to the man, you are NOT entitled to his cars. IT IS NOT A RIGHT.

But is it ok for a woman to let her boyfriend drive one of her cars because he doesn't have any and maybe his place of work is far? Is it ok for women to do this? Or is it forbidden?

Romance › Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by CHoccolaTE: 3:01pm On Nov 09, 2014

freecocoa:
Then you practically nothing about most women, what makes you think most of these girls won't think same if they were in the OP's shoe? as far as I'm concerned, the crime OP committed was not presenting her case in a good manner, forget all the rants you see here, majority of the girls here demand from their boyfriends so don't be f00led, how many of them do you even think are working class ladies? I can bet on one of my balls that most of them are students, so let's try to be realistic when we do things, it's the internet therefore everyone wants to appear perfect when we know that in the real world things aren't that way.
It's not a crime to want to share your boyfriend's stuff so long as you are willing to do same for him, just leave matter abeg.

No mind am. I just saw the post and laughed. No need to type reply. Women hate each other unfortunately cry

and unless you don't interact with them you would know this. What makes him think there is any logic behind their attacking the OP? Infact let him go through the thread again and see the bitterness and vileness in their posts then compare it to the men's post before coming here to talk about how they are doing it for noble reasons.

Romance › Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by CHoccolaTE: 11:03am On Nov 09, 2014

jaybee3:
Yes you are right but that's because they choose to not because it's the girl's God given right to demand such

Sure thing. Spending or doing things for others should be done cos of personal choice because the truth is that once you are an adult, nobody is under any obligation to buy anything for you or make you feel better about yourself or stroke your ego

. But relationships, whether between two people dating or between friends or family, tend to work better when those involved sacrifice and do nice things for each other and yes women should spend on men, it shouldn't be one sided. But with the way African men are so patriarchal they interpret a woman spending equally like her boyfriend to mean that she is trying to rule over him or exert authority over him or even to mean that she is desperate for marriage even when she has good intentions. This is why many girls just don't bother to do it and have even started seeing it as something wrong and abnormal.

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Romance › Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by CHoccolaTE: 10:39am On Nov 09, 2014

jaybee3:
Should relationships be about that though?
Do you think being in relationship is enough reason to be indebted to someone at that stage of one's life?

No. Not at all. But men are far more willing to spend on girls in real life than they are willing to admit. Especially if she is fine. The finer she is, the more they spend; even without her asking. So what's with the online pretense?

Romance › Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by CHoccolaTE: 10:35am On Nov 09, 2014

MissMeiya:
She's a venomous, hate-filled excuse for a human-being. The only thing I'm sorry for is that I seem to have made someone feel sorry for her. There's nothing that I hate more than an evil person. Not just a passive evil person, but a campaigning, persistent evil person. You can check my posts and see if I indulge in silly e-beef. She's the only one who ever managed to make me despise her. I don't think I even hate anyone in real life the way I hate her.

Are you mzdarkskin? You sound so emotional like her.

Romance › Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by CHoccolaTE: 10:32am On Nov 09, 2014

freecocoa:
This thread has gone a long way to show that women are really their own worst enemies, one of the reasons why some men will keep disrespecting the f00lish ones, just imagine ganging up on a fellow woman just to save face/gain favor with the men folk when in reality most of the ones talking crap can't pay a guy a visit without requesting for transport fare, tufiakwa! inferiority complex laced with jealousy is a killer disease.
The day some women will grow some balls and stop seeking approval from online touts who parade their miserable selves as men, that day the men will start respecting you, shediots.

But how else will they get husbands naa? Abi you want them to end up as 45 year old spinsters? huh

You know the funny thing? If this topic was about a girl not giving her bf her free car you will not see men attacking each other at all on the thread. They will gang up against the girl and call her all sorts of names even when they know very well that they are wrong angry

........but I don't think all women are like that. Its a Nigerian/African thing. I have participated in similar discussions on foreign forums; UK and US forums specifically and the women support each other when it comes to things like this. I believe it is the damage to African women's self esteem that makes them behave and think like this. From birth they are told that God created them to be help mates to men instead of being their own person and furthering their own ambitions. So of course they end up with this warped way of thinking.

Romance › Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by CHoccolaTE: 9:09am On Nov 09, 2014

Hian. Thank God I'm not the only one that has seen that Missmeiya is taking her beef too far. Firsteva wetin you do miss meiya before? It must have been very strong for her to gather all her power and time to attack you on this thread. Tell am sorry kwo? Make the thing no dey pepper am for body again.

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Romance › Re: Mr Nairaland - December 2014 [Nomination & Verification] by CHoccolaTE: 9:03am On Nov 09, 2014

Abeg make una try to do this one without rigging. Miss Nairaland was rigged to oblivion. Thank goodness I didn't bother voting. I nominate this guy https://www.nairaland.com/pcguru1

Romance › Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by CHoccolaTE: 8:58am On Nov 09, 2014

freecocoa:
My dear, just too many hypocrites everywhere it's actually disgusting.

Majority of men are just noise makers and braggarts. Take what they say seriously at your own peril grin

. People that can wash their gf clothes and sponsor her recharge card bills from 100 to 400 level will come online and be forming no-nonsense hard guys. Abegii.

Romance › Re: How Do You Define An Independent Woman?. by CHoccolaTE: 5:17am On Nov 09, 2014

Freecocoa; don't get worked up over that car thread because the truth is that what you read on Nairaland is very different from what obtains in real life. Real life relationships; except they are fraught with greed and selfcenterdness, are usually symbiotic. Bf helps gf and vice versa. But online they come here and make noise about how she is not his wife so its very wrong to do anything for her. Start a thread writing of your intention to withhold financial assistance from your poor boyfriend and watch them scream for days about how you are a liability because you don't improve his life. That's just the way of things on this site and I don't know why maybe cos there are so many children or so many introverts online....... Real world is different.

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Romance › Re: My Man Has Two Cars, I Trek Around, Isn't This Selfisness? by CHoccolaTE: 3:44pm On Nov 08, 2014

But Nairalanders can lie shaaa.
Real life they do A and on the internet they claim that they did B.

Abegi make we hear word. Men that can dash you thousands and thousands and buy different gifts in the vain hopes that they get sex from you in future are now pretending that they are not world cup champlons of the Maga tournament tongue

Anyways OP, he is under no obligation to give the car to you although you might not like hearing that. But still, he could be nice and let you drive it once in a while. . . . .
Just make sure you don't cook or do any wifely duties for him since he is the type that doesn't fancy living as husband and wife while dating.

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Celebrities › Re: King Sunny Ade’s 7 Beautiful Wives by CHoccolaTE: 5:48pm On Nov 07, 2014

EvilSeeed:
[b]Ban me all you want..

All4Naija is KNOWN for how little he thinks of Africans..

Thats the only reason he described the Picture as 'NAUSEATING'..

I have sworn to go at him ANYWHERE I find him trying to run Africans down.

The Boy is a low life filthy Pig.. And I stand by it.

Ban me if you like.. I will be back with a new moniker and continue hunting him down..

You would do well to stay out of this.. If you dont know the History of it, dont get yourself involved..

Abeg leave all4naija alone. I dey gbadun him posts sometimes; they sound progressive. At least the ones that are not the inferiority complex types.

Celebrities › Re: King Sunny Ade’s 7 Beautiful Wives by CHoccolaTE: 3:42pm On Nov 07, 2014

Mods; obinoscopy, mynd44, please ban that animal called Evilseed. The way he jumped on all4naija's case for no reason is baffling.
I don't know why some people think they can just wake up and transfer their frustrations to other members of Nairaland just because NL offers anonymity.

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Nairaland General › Re: Finally A Sensible Mod, R231 by CHoccolaTE: 2:21pm On Nov 02, 2014*

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Romance › Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by CHoccolaTE: 9:30am On Oct 30, 2014

Let me add this important bit:
If you want to marry a woman who is self reliant and who doesn't get money or sustainance from you then for your own good and peace of mind, do not expect submissiveness from her.
The whole idea of woman being submissive to her husband is built on the premise that the man will be responsible for her upkeep and daily needs. That was how our grandparents intended it to work when they decided how leadership would work in marriage.
Don't expect that you will live under the same roof with a woman and then demand obedience and submission when you two are contributing equally in the marriage. Infact she is even doing more than you because she also takes care of kids and cooks and cleans and donates to running the family.
Don't expect her to humble herself before you because it won't happen. If she is the considerate or pretencious type, she'd not show you arrogance to your face. She'd wait for you to turn your back or leave the house before discarding whatever rules or laws you made and doing anything she likes instead.

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Romance › Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by CHoccolaTE: 1:50pm On Oct 29, 2014

Gorgeous58:
Wow! The term 'Tiger' as used in the post is not anyway derogatory. I don't know what to say other that what you speak reflects who you are! By the way I aint a dude!

Offspring of Mr Tiger and Mrs Tigress, I hope your homosexual äss is enjoying the attention your PM senders are bombarding you with.

Romance › Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by CHoccolaTE: 11:44am On Oct 29, 2014

Gorgeous58:
Easy tiger! That's just my opinion in my post. Attack the post not my person. By the way, I'm not looking for a man cos I've got my own... Cheers!

Na your mama and papa be tiger, no be me.
Shameless jobless man.

@zboyd, excellent post grin

Romance › Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by CHoccolaTE: 10:24am On Oct 29, 2014

egopersonified:
Op, on a lighter note, how many pms have you received? I am just curious oh.

Thank you jare. That was the first thing I thought when I read OP's post. Either this is a jobless and poor dude looking for a gf to support him or its some lonely woman desperately seeking male attention. His/her points had no depth, no meaningful intellectual analysis, nothing in short. Just shallow aspersions.

@zboyd: Men like your hubby are just a delight. I am not even the type that wants to depend on a man but I can appreciate guys that are capable of taking care of themselves and don't need a woman's help.
So many lazy and pussified slobs these days. You want to lead me and at the same time you want me to take care of you and your house with my money.
Pure crap.

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Romance › Re: Why Ladies Don't Want Short Guys by CHoccolaTE: 11:09pm On Oct 28, 2014*

Lol
post modified.

Health › Re: 9 Types Of Intelligence As Proposed By Howard Gardner by CHoccolaTE(op): 8:51am On Aug 10, 2014

firestar: Universal Intelligence. Is that meant for mortals?

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Health › Re: 9 Types Of Intelligence As Proposed By Howard Gardner by CHoccolaTE(op): 9:56pm On Aug 09, 2014

That's it.

From the pictures you can find where your strength lies, which of these kinds of intelligence you possess.

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Health › Re: 9 Types Of Intelligence As Proposed By Howard Gardner by CHoccolaTE(op): 9:51pm On Aug 09, 2014

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