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FamilyRe: Nigerian Man in US Whose Wife Threw Him Out His Own Home Speaks (vid) by CHoccolaTE: 9:04pm On Jul 19, 2022
Something that Nigerian women pass through everytime in Nigeria, we no go hear word now that the man is the victim.

Anyway let me hear the wife side of the story first.
FamilyRe: Why Is The Trans Community So Hostile by CHoccolaTE: 6:05pm On Jul 18, 2022
crackhaus:
It is not going overboard, it's just about me having a choice which ought to be respected. cry

Besides, if I was previously of the opinion that women are below men but I have now come to understand that a man can become a woman because we are the same, doesn't that mean I have moved up in the world?

I can only seek to be like that which I admire and love greatly oo.
Think on these things. grin

CrimeRe: Peace Ofoego Notorious For Breaking Into Mansions To Sleep Arrested In The US by CHoccolaTE: 5:57pm On Jul 18, 2022
Mraphel:
Advice to women


Marry a man that truly loves you don't chase after rich men for marriage.
Advice to men

Marry a woman that truly loves you, don't chase after attractive or beautiful women for marriage.
SportsRe: Transgender, Lia Thomas Nominated For NCAA's 'Woman Of The Year' Award by CHoccolaTE: 10:45am On Jul 18, 2022
FamilyRe: Why Is The Trans Community So Hostile by CHoccolaTE: 9:06pm On Jul 17, 2022
MadarasBlade:
I don't think you have any moral right to tell any human how they want to be addressed. if they want to seen as men or women, it's up to them.

Feminists brought about this chaos, even though it was for the betterment of the female folk, it gave voice to other groups who percieved themselves to be "downtrodden".

Do you know what every dictator that has existed from time immemorial had in common? The ability to stifle free speech, because they know once they give in into a cause, it goes downhill from there.

If this is the price we have to pay for feminism, then so be it. But remember, you have no moral right!!
Feminists brought about transgenderism?
LOL, I can't even pretend to take this trolling serious, bye.
SportsRe: Transgender, Lia Thomas Nominated For NCAA's 'Woman Of The Year' Award by CHoccolaTE: 8:42pm On Jul 17, 2022
Konjiboii:
Women called it upon themselves, feminist movement is the most modern brainwash sweeping the world, I wish I could feel sorry for them but I don't give a fvck.
Do you have sense at all? Who told you feminism is responsible for transgender movement?
FamilyRe: Why Is The Trans Community So Hostile by CHoccolaTE: 5:30pm On Jul 17, 2022
Biglittlelois:
The bolded vexes me the most,

And i just read in another thread that they have a pedophile movement and MAP, very soon all hell will break loose, hopefully it won't be too late.
That's the most disturbing part, a number of trans males are now pushing for pedophilia to be accepted under the guise of minor accepted person. They don't even hide it, they know that people are scared to challenge them and that makes them bolder to make more outrageous demands that cater to their sexual perversions. Trans males in general usually have some weird sexual perversions and a lot of the time, they get arrested for sexual assault or sexual harassment. If they are not MAP(pedophiles), they are usually rapists or autogynephilic.
FamilyRe: Why Is The Trans Community So Hostile by CHoccolaTE: 5:21pm On Jul 17, 2022
Karleb:
The Ts take no prisoner.

They call them TERF. Trans-Exclusionary Radical Feminists.
I love that word, yes let me be a proud TERF instead of embracing madness.
FamilyRe: Why Is The Trans Community So Hostile by CHoccolaTE: 5:20pm On Jul 17, 2022
crackhaus:
When I was a man, you wanted me to support you, to love you, to respect your choices, to extol everything you stand for as woman.
Anything less and I was labelled unprintable names. crycry

Then I became a woman – I finally accepted that being a woman is priceless, it's amazing, it's beautiful, and all I asked was for you to accept me, to support me, to love me, to respect my choices in the same way you wanted from me when I was yet a man... And you have turned your back on me, you have refused to afford me that same courtesy. sad cry cry

Is this thing good? E good for your eye?
Lmao, god abeg oo, so because somebody didn't accept you for who you are, and kept demanding more from you now means you should go overboard and start deceiving yourself that you and biological women are the same?

This your post only goes further to prove how unhinged trans people are.
FamilyRe: Why Is The Trans Community So Hostile by CHoccolaTE: 3:11pm On Jul 17, 2022
bukatyne:
My dear Choco Choco, is this you? shocked

Fantastic submission especially the last paragraph.
Yes, its me indeed ooo grin

I might be feminist but trans ideology is something I will never support.
FamilyRe: Looking For Friends With Benefits In North America by CHoccolaTE: 3:27am On Jul 17, 2022
This is the second time this week I am seeing this type of thread on Nairaland.

You people starting the thread really think an intelligent, beautiful women that is versed in world politics and literature, Ernest Hemingway etc will be so starved of attention and will want to sleep with some random konji challenged guy?
grin

Good luck on your search.
FamilyRe: Why Is The Trans Community So Hostile by CHoccolaTE: 3:05am On Jul 17, 2022
One reason I think they have been given so much power is because of the money big pharma (major multinational companies) make from their hormones sales to trans and medical care given to those who physically transition.
Trans hormone therapy costs quite abit if used for a few years.

I can't think of any other reason why this madness has become so accepted in the many western countries. Maybe too much liberal thinking led to this. I don't know.

Trans people don't even pose so much of a threat to biological men as much as they do to women. Women are really going through hell in US and Europe because of transgenderism. Transwomen act like psychotic entitled lunatics and demand that they must be allowed access to women's prisons and women's hostels and women's shelters and in a lot of cases, they sue to get their way. Some prisons allow dangerous convicted male prisoners to stay in female prisons just because they identify as women. Women's shelters and public bathrooms have become free for all, any man can easily wear a wig and dress and walk into them, There have been many cases of sexual assault and sexual harassment by these men who were granted access to women's private spaces against the biological women there.

Or is their claiming to be lesbians and demanding that actual lesbians date and sleep with them if not they are trans phobic?

Or their forcing their way into women's sports (Mia Thomas, Fallon fox etc) that went into women's sports and had a clearly unfair advantage over the women they were competing against.



Or their language that erases women and reduces women to body parts and body functions eg uterus havers instead of women, menstruating people instead of women, birthing bodies instead of mothers, non-men, birthing parent, chest-feeders, womb owners etc. That's why I see women who support them as airheads and idiots. And unfortunately, many women still support them and validate their madness inspite of the crap they dish to women on a daily basis.
RomanceRe: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by CHoccolaTE: 12:00pm On Jul 14, 2022
Kizzygentle:
Aunty if na Nigerian based u no go force the marriage.. Gold diggers.. As usual will say its not because of abroad but many Nigerian guys wey dey here wey u fit dey see face to face dey ask u out legit and u dey ignore..
Who told you guys are asking her out and she is ignoring them?
How do you people reason sef?

Just typing nonsense everytime to bash women.
RomanceRe: Problem With Abroad Boyfriend,i Need Advice by CHoccolaTE: 11:56am On Jul 14, 2022
First set of replies on this thread is just a bunch of frustrated, poverty striken guys that don't want women to live comfortable lives when they are still broke.

Op DON'T answer them abeg.

And personally I will advice you to leave that abroad guy, he isn't serious about you. If he truly wants to marry you he wouldn't be complaining about your wanting to join him abroad. He doesn't want you living near him that's why he had an issue with your going to him abroad.

Even if you end up getting married, he might ask you to stay behind in Nigeria so he can continue frolicking with different women or doing God knows what abroad.
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by CHoccolaTE: 12:00pm On Jul 11, 2022
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FamilyRe: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by CHoccolaTE: 8:05pm On Jul 04, 2022
So many future dead beat dads in the comment section. See them defending Op's fathers behavior.

There is no justification for abandoning your 19yr old child to fend for himself when you earn half a million. I don't know how some Nigerian men reason. That's just wickedness, especially when you know he is studying a course like medicine that hardly gives time for side hustle.

If you know you can't cater for kids then don't give birth. Simple.

But Nigerian men will always defend each other even in evil doing. One person is already looking for how to shift the blame to his mother sef.
FamilyRe: My Wife-To-Be Provides Everything In The House, No Juju Involved by CHoccolaTE: 7:14pm On Jun 22, 2022
Richy4:
You said that you stay at home 24hrs right..?.. if you don't do online business while staying at home and you don't have any source of income because u can't afford to answer sir to anyone, how do you pay rent? why did you claim ownership of the house or am I missing something here?
That's because the whole story is a lie
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CrimeRe: Anyone Who Commits Abortion In Nigeria Is Liable To Imprisonment — Police by CHoccolaTE: 10:15am On Jun 22, 2022
What about girls that got pregnant from rape?

So they should be forced to carry the pregnancy of the rapist and take care of a rapist's child for the rest of their lives?
And look at the large number of males supporting this law.

When I say the average black man does not wish women well they will start calling me feminist.
FamilyRe: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by CHoccolaTE: 8:51am On Jun 12, 2022
ireneidiva:
And who says I don't? A lot of women hustle! Please, this topic is tired!
Even when the wife is literally the breadwinner and provider, Nigerian men still expect her husband to 'control her' so provision is not even the determinant in marital situations, men just feel entitled to women's subservience regardless of whether they are playing their roles well or not.

@topic, only on Nigerian forums will you see idiotic topics like this, instead of teaching love and compassion and understanding between couples, they are looking for who to control and dominate in marriage.
CrimeRe: Lady Confronts Man For Touching Inappropriately Inside A Bus In Ikorodu Lagos by CHoccolaTE: 10:17pm On Jun 08, 2022
Nairaland animal males are already in the thread insulting the girl.

Dirty dogs with no self control.
RomanceRe: Sex With My Wife Is Very Very Boring, I Need Help by CHoccolaTE: 7:52pm On Jun 08, 2022
All the people their wives refused to kiss, your mouth is smelling. She doesn't want to tell you but your mouth hygiene is terrible.

Even women love kissing but not when your mouth feels clammy with plaque and oozing nonsense odor from your dirty teeth or throat.

Try light kisses, don't jump straight to tongueing, that's how some of you men kiss, just start forcing your smelling tongue inside your wives mouth. Start with only kissing lips alone, kiss, suck, lightly bite lips, don't involve tongue or teeth, you will notice there is less reluctance because your smelly spit and mouth odor is no longer part of the equation.

As for OP, your wife is not being nice by not telling you what the problem is that keeps her from wanting sex or maybe the problem is that she doesn't feel attracted to you and she doesn't want to hurt your feelings that's why she isn't telling you.

I don't even have to ask, I know that those first two years where she was actively having sex, she didn't orgasm or climax, even if she acted like she did, then just know that she was only pretending. There is no way a woman will have satisfying sex with a man for years and suddenly stop cold turkey. You were not satisfying her and she didn't say anything. She seems like someone that keeps things inside a lot.

Over time resentment built up and she started feeling used and started feeling disgusted by sex and losing attraction to you.
FamilyRe: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by CHoccolaTE: 12:59am On Jun 06, 2022
Lmao,
See mumu JAMB questions because somebody wants to answer his mother's name instead of deadbeat father's name.

African men and rubbish entitlement.
FamilyRe: I Want To Change My Surname To My Mother's Name. Pls Help!! by CHoccolaTE: 11:36am On Jun 05, 2022
Runsboi:
I really do not know why some men are triggered by posts like this, your egos are so fragile. What's actually wrong with OP taking his mother's name now? I no even blame una sef, I blame the women who have enabled this gutter behaviour. You don't just up and dump your family who have and are still looking after you cos you married a man! I know you really didn't dump them persay but haba na, you're practically letting a man define you, don't get me wrong here, you can include your husband's name if you want but doing away with your family name entirely is what I really don't get.

If I eventually get married, my partner is expected to retain their surnames, our kids are definitely going to bear both our family names combined, no be only man dey get pikin.
That's one thing I have always wondlered about since childhood. Some of the women throwing away their father's names to answer husband's name are even the ones footing bills and feeding their families.

@Op, I commend the decision you made to honour your mother like this. I wish I knew correct methods of doing the change of surname but unfortunately I don't. I hope you find the info you need soon. Good luck

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