₦airaland Forum

Infolenka:
2020

Nominees:

Tems
Omah Lay
Bella Shmurda
Oxlade

Winner: Undecided

Omahlay got this ...

Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]

I understand you’re going through hurt and heart break at this time, but best advice il give us to forgive her, and let her be. Move on with your life , it’s not gonna be easy but your inner peace matters, if she valued what you both shared, there won’t be any need for her to be seeing other guys, what is yours will be yours... put it in prayers too for God to direct you, and ask for forgiveness for hitting someone else’s child, she could have passed on from there. And ensure you never do it again.

Gracias

meobizy:
She got fat.

If this is fat in your eyes then you would prefer a tooth pick for a wife or gf ...

Davido is the latest hushpuppi in Nigeria...

Things like this affect the country and prevents foreign investors to come into the country to invest, but our greedy politicians will not tackle insecurity once and for all, just because of the ties they have with these criminals, they feel handicapped to do the needful... one day the issue of “I put you in office, so do as I say“ will definitely come to an end.

They finally made Pretty Mike a full blown celebrity... Congrats to him, King of Social media clouts chase

SpecialAdviser:
You think Allah will forget what you have done? he said. lol

I just want to ask this forum one question and we should be honest in answering it.

If you are in a bus, what will be your reaction in these two cases scenario?

1. " A Muslim suddenly scream Allahu Akubar !!!!"

2. " A Christian suddenly screamed Praise thy Lord !!!!"

3. "In your reactions, which of the two is bringing insults to God's name based on your reactions.

No insults please, just answer the question
People that are ready for a kill for a perceived insult to God have been insulting God's name from generations to generations.

This motion you’re trying to push is what is diving this country till date... Religion has always been man greatest problem, be it Muslim, Christians , Traditional etc... We ought to serve God and emulate the ways of Christ. So that we don’t indulge in sin under the guise of giving glory to God.... As for your question, the bad people in the Muslim religion has dented the image that whenever you hear those words in a gathering with mixed people, it makes you scared, unlike saying praise the lord in a gathering of mixed people. If only we didn’t have religion...... So many confusion everywhere... May God Help us...

Galaticos444:
its not alright

Lol u don vex be that oo

helinues:
When the northerners are ready to stop the insecurities and unnecessary waste of lives in their region ,they should let us know

I’m telling you... they have been too adamant... this crisis has been on before former president Goodluck became president, till date the north has been silent about all the extrajudicial killings By Boko haram bandits herdsmen and kidnappers... Now is time for them to wake up!!! Majority of them were speaking against the endsars movement, but they can’t come out now and speak up to fight this insurgency once and for all... May God have mercy on their souls.

Your post is very meaningful and you didn’t do anything wrong, we are all here to learn from each other. One thing I have realized in my own findings, is that most of these folks don’t have the proper education to teach them about planning before getting married... or even start having kids. That’s why most people that already find themselves in the mess always struggle. On the other hand, life challenges comes as well... you could be the most educated or even have the best of investments, have the best wife and kids with everything secured and things could still go sour... which we pray not to experience. It’s better for someone to first struggle and make it in life than being someone that has made it and now go back to struggling.

I will advice you telling this man in question to find a job or better still if he’s not lazy, you can assist him in starting something up since you’re doing well for yourself. It’s better to teach someone how to fish than to give someone fish.

Goodnight.

R2bees:
Luiz na confirm Coconut head

He no Dey hear worrrrd

Juliusmomoh:
Me i can't stick to one woman till 12years oo...
Imagine eating only bean for 12years. E no go tire u ?

That’s your choice, keep enjoying your single life then.

Mgbadike80:
After the new president takes over in the USA, Nigerian government officials might be hit with extreme sanctions from western countries. Nigeria is a country where everybody in authority behaves like a demigod and our political leaders are the worse.

I’m telling you...

helinues:
Have you people vowed to Amadioha not to contest for the presidency position?

Why always second fiddle position?

But it’s the Igbo that’s the first here.., what are you trying to say?

Calmblaze:
2023 go sweet me aswear

Yes but pray to be alive till then, That’s all we need in this part of the world right now..

debbydams:
See makeup.asif its a wedding ceremony.. RIP MA'AM

Perfectionist!!! Always scanning for imperfections!!

emblem2d:
Well one of my beautiful couzin has been making sexual move towards me for some yrs now... Initially i wasn't thinking in that direction, but hey! She seduced me the day i went for screening in her schl(she's in d uni), i didn't knw anybody thr so i stayed with her for 3dys...
The first night nothing happened; we slept on thesame bed tho. Buh the 2nd nyt we both became Hot and we had a sweet romance, it was so hard that she became wet: but we did'nt have sex. Buh since then i can say my relatxnshp with her now has becom a romantic one.
I'm considering going down with her.
What do u think?
Have u had such an xperienc before?

I don’t understand why you’re coming here to seeking validation for this nonsense!! You already know what you’re about getting involved in is morally and spiritually wrong!!! Yet you come here to ask people on what to do. Better back off!!! And stop every feelings or emotions you’re gradually growing for her.

Bottom line is no matter what always be law abiding... it’s sad reading their stories, as some of them said it’s their only source of income. I just hope sanity will be restored in Lagos and government will make life easier on her citizens someday... cause since the #Endsars campaign ended prices of commodities went high, but no given up. We will continue to be steadfast till light shines on us.

Good make them whip stupidity comot from him head

So many abnormal people in this forum... how can you say the family is trying to cash out from this issue and mr Femi has already visited and showed remorse. Damn! Is it not better for them to collect that money than to take the matter to court that they will eventually lose?? I don’t understand you people mehn.

IamD18:
There's absolutely nothing wrong with that video.

Nigerians are just quick to feel oppressed when the rich do anything.

You talk about your gateman, they'll feel bad.
You talk about your workers, they'll feel bad.
You talk about your maid, they'll feel bad.
You talk about your driver, they'll feel bad.

They just want the rich to behave like the poor.

So many reasons to believe that misery loves company.

I agree with you... you just said it perfectly well...

Nbotee:
Billionaire indeed... A bag of onions sells for an estimated 60k and dats d middleman price who has factored in cost of transportation and extra profit. Do U know how many bags he'll need to sell to make a million?

Don’t mind them ... before you know it some gullible anywhere belle face business men will run to invest in onion farming ... lol

basty:
I don't understand people, is it Gbajabiamila that that killed the man? It is now a sin he visited the family? God have mercy.

Bomb Dey your head I swear and e go soon blow... have conscience and think well before you spew rubbish...

Nigerians major problem is POLICE

judecares1:
The sanction should be,all political office holders and family should be deported with immediate effect

Yes and also prosecute the ones involved in the massacre directly or indirectly ...

VeeVeeMyLuv:
what is preventing Nigeria from rising now? Do our leaders don't like better things? Just look at the neat tidy well constructed roads! What is wrong in having all roads in Nigeria look so tidy like this?

Nawa!

The annoying part of it all is that, they will go to these developed countries and be wowing at the development of the country, but they come back home and find it so difficult to do simple street roads ...

Yenefer:
God bless Buhari
God bless Buratai
God bless Nigerian Army
God bless Nigeria

Shame on you and the 4 people that liked this comment...

360degreess:
Keep fhooling urself.i watched the video over & over,the soldiers did not shoot at the stubborn protesters..all this while,how comes no body has come out 2 say that he/she lost any member of his family or friend?..may God disgrace whoever that is behind/supporiting this fake news b4 the end of this year.AMEN!

It is you and your folks that will be disgraced! Insensitive nip

It’s a shame that our gallant soldiers have been reduced to the level where politicians use them to oppress unarmed citizen, how can you send army to disperse peaceful protesters but they block both ends with their trucks and put out all the light.... which means they went there with the intention to kill all without traces, but unfortunately, the God we serve does not sleep nor slumbers... if not for DJ Switch, a lot of people would have died more than what we saw and heard that night.... with the way the government have been denying the clear evidence lingering everywhere they would also have denied any allegations from a non celeb that dares come out to testify or even possibly kill them. But guess what? with all the evidence on deck... we pray the government will be prosecuted and have this liberation once and for all...

God Bless Nigeria...

otokzmail:
What are you saying? I am disappointed.
You are saying this because none of your relation is affected. If United States can send their military to rescue an ordinary civilian of the States in Nigeria, that shows that the country places value on her citizens. Yet here, our security officials kill us and you are saying that 'we can't change anything'.

Don’t mind her... Typing rubbish