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Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Pull This Tricks? by citous(m): 1:34am On Feb 16, 2012
tellwisdom:

Angrybabe, I cant even kiss u, let alone yanshing u sad sad. U look PKAKO. No offence undecided

Angy is a beautiful African woman, tellwat you need your bifocals on. cool
Romance / Re: Please Help: Can I Still Marry Her? by citous(m): 4:47pm On Feb 14, 2012
Sad as this story sound, I have seen it happen even to the strongest and confident of men. Bruhs, find an avenue to channel your thoughts and energy into. The more confidence you have in yourself the better. What am about to ask may seem rude but bear with me cos there is a reason for the question. Do you have low self esteem? Believe that she is the only woman that you will ever be able to keep as yours? If these are the cases, then you need snap out of it and believe in yourself first and foremost and there will be half the solution to your problem. Cheers.
Romance / Re: Can U Marry A Lady Or Guy U Meet On Nairaland? by citous(m): 4:35pm On Feb 14, 2012
Yes I sure can. The individual determines what steps are taken and not the meeting point. If you feel the person is the one for you, carry go. But shine your eyes when making this decision.
Romance / Re: Who Met His/her Current Bf/gf Or Life Partner Through Nl? by citous(m): 10:25am On Feb 13, 2012
The chances of meeting on here and hooking up is very slim. This site's setup promotes false life and there are a whole lotta jokers that derail even the best intentioned topics.
I tried once to get something going but the factors fighting the slim chance are too numerous for any thing to hold. The idea of taking anyone serious when the chances of that person being fake is just overwhelming.
Romance / Re: Must You Eat Or Drink On A First Date? by citous(m): 7:34pm On Nov 14, 2011
Last time I was home and asked a girl i just met wat she does for fun;'I love to go shopping' was her answer. I asked her to change her routine so we can have some fun getting to talk and know each other. She asked me when am gonna pick her up for shopping. I told her to call me after she is done shopping so we can go do something else. She never answered my call after that. grin,
Travel / Re: Reasonably Priced And Secure Hotels In Near Ph Airport For An Overnight Stay by citous(m): 5:20pm On Nov 09, 2011
Imanuelle:

hmmm,  i am a student in the university of ph,  when are you coming?  maybe i can help you make enquiries thats if its okay with u,

[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]I will be there December, 1st week.[/font]
Travel / Re: Reasonably Priced And Secure Hotels In Near Ph Airport For An Overnight Stay by citous(m): 4:30pm On Nov 09, 2011
[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]I really hope for some help on this topic, grin[/font]
Travel / Reasonably Priced And Secure Hotels In Near Ph Airport For An Overnight Stay by citous(m): 3:28pm On Nov 09, 2011
[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]Hi folks, I need some help for suggestions on a reasonably priced hotel near or not too far from  Portharcourt international Airport for an overnight stay. My flight will be getting in late and knowing the red tapes involved at airports luggage clearance , it is imperative that I make a lodging plan instead of driving to Imo at that time of the night. I will surely appreciate suggestions on some affordable and secure hotels withing a 20mile radius of the airport so I could rest up and leave in the morning. Thanks Guys for your anticipated suggestions. And If possible include an average price range for them.[/font]
Romance / Re: Will You Marry Me. by citous(m): 5:24pm On Oct 21, 2011
Thanks ladies for all input.
Romance / Re: Will You Marry Me. by citous(m): 11:42pm On Oct 20, 2011
bekay911:

Den stop givn d ladies green light and also stop Being Intimate. Wt dem its kinda of soul bonding

Dating someone is what happens everyday, what other green light are you talking about. I date them by doing things two people do. Unlike most guys, I dont say I love you until am sure its love. I didnt say anything about intimate in my post. So stop assuming cos it makes an A.rse of U and Me.
Romance / Re: Will You Marry Me. by citous(m): 8:29pm On Oct 20, 2011
tellwisdom:

[size=23pt]GBAGAUNNNNNNNNNN sad sad[/size]

What is that?
Romance / Will You Marry Me. by citous(m): 7:45pm On Oct 20, 2011
"You are ripe for the plucking". This is my buddy telling me after I complained about my issues of having all the women in my life moving way too fast for me. I dont know if there is something about me that spells; husband material. Most ladies I go on a date with seem to want to move to the next step within a very short time. This started a few year ago when my ex gave me an ultimatum about marrying her or hitting the highway.
Don't get me wrong, I wanna get married to the right lady but I wanna get to know her better before we move to the next step. Asking me where I wanna get married after a month of dating is scary, so is telling me 'I love you' withing a few weeks. The scary thing is that it isn't a race thing. It ranges from African American to African to Asian, Hispanic and white.
Is there any one having the same problems on here and please ladies a little advice on this issue.
Romance / Re: Okafor's Law by citous(m): 5:28pm On Oct 19, 2011
[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]This 'Hypothesis' is way too variable dependent to be a law. All factors has to remain constant for it to work. The hypothesis hold true in a whole lot of situations but there are cases where even if all factors turn out positive, the law still fail. Moral is a strong thing you know.[/font]
Literature / Re: Which Books Are You Currently Reading? by citous(m): 5:04pm On Oct 19, 2011
[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]Just found a used book place where u can exchange an old book for ones you havent read and only pay 75cents and am reading everything by James Patterson, Micheal ConnelySidney Sheldon, Robert Ludlum,Jeffery Archer, Vince Flynn and David Baldacci. I think am through with almost everything written by these men. So I am running out of books to read. Will now venture into authors I havent been much interested in their work, like Sandra Brown etall. Just wish I could find another Robert Ludlum or Sydney Sheldon.[/font]
Food / Re: Your First Beer Experience? by citous(m): 5:27pm On Oct 17, 2011
[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]Ist experience was at age 12, got drunk and fall asleep in the rain. Long story short ,I got an a-r-se whooping from my dad after the effect wore off. Stopped drinking like 4 years ago cos I never saw the need/value for alcohol. So bros, leave alcohol if you can help it, it aint worth it.[/font]
Sports / Re: Watching Football Is Nothing But Sheer Tomfoolery! by citous(m): 8:32am On Oct 17, 2011
[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]Serendipity, you sound a lot like my boss at work who thinks football is not a sport and that baseball is rather what is called real sports. No offense mearnt, are you American? I ask because only Americans have this kinda bias against football as aginst the almost 6Billion inhabitants of the earth. They even refuse to call if by its rightful name , preffering to call it 'soccer'.
To answer your question, competitive sport has been in existence since time imemorial, and it is a way to decompress for some people. I live a normal life and football balances it. I eat , breath and drink football especially on my days off after a hectic week at work. I dont know what you do at your spear time, but for most people its sports following.
Some people take whatever they do to an extreeme, be it alcohol drinking, drugs, sex or sports following. So calling Football following a 'tomfoolery' is akin to baring your bottom in the public. You are making a mockery of your age[/font].
Fashion / Re: How Many Times Do You Wear Your Jeans Before Washing Them? by citous(m): 5:00pm On Oct 15, 2011
BABE!:

LOL. Well, you don't have to believe me. I find it difficult to repeat my pair of jeans.


One wash per year? One wash per month? I hope say na joke o. I think we should start washing our jeans more often, to enhance Global hygiene. grin

Just a quik kweshion, u de leak for ur jean? I mean if you can't repeat you jean, makes me wonder sha.
Fashion / Re: How Many Times Do You Wear Your Jeans Before Washing Them? by citous(m): 4:55pm On Oct 15, 2011
frenchman2:

big lie

Exactly my thought. Mine no get schedule, na when e dirty but if not I go wear am reach one year self. tongue The material texture determines the schedule sometimes.
Business / Re: New Innoson ‘hummer’ Bus Thrills Transporters by citous(m): 7:43pm On Oct 13, 2011
I really need more information on this. This is a welcome trend and must be encouraged. A country that uses most of its workforce and produce things they need internally is the way to go and Nigeria must strive for self sufficience. Kudos.
Travel / Re: How to spot a fellow Nigerian in Diaspora by citous(m): 4:56pm On Oct 13, 2011
What a comic relief. I live in a predominantly white state, so I no sabi wetin u de talk tongue
Romance / Re: In Luv Wit A Girl A Friend Has Already Slept Wit by citous(m): 4:29pm On Oct 13, 2011
If you love your woman, keep at it. What matters now is the future . Your past is just that, past. And you use experiences u garnered from the past, today and make a better future. So love you woman, hopefully she will reciprocate and the future is yours together.
Don't worry about where or who shes been with.
Romance / Re: Why Do Many Girls And Women Find It Hard To Resist Their Ex-boyfriends? by citous(m): 8:09pm On Oct 12, 2011
Its true we develop a special bond with an ex. After years of being together where we experience different emotions and life changes, we get comfortable with the person in our life. But saying women find it hard to resist exes is pure baloney. This is generalization at its best. I have seen guys tweaking at the sight of exes, so it goes both ways.

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Politics / Re: Nigerian Juror Sacked From Mutallab's Trial by citous(m): 4:52pm On Oct 07, 2011
Ileke-IdI:

Every registered American is a potential juror.

Do you have a driver license? Are you registered in an academic institute? Is your name in the phone book? etc? There you go.

Dude you are wrong in that, you only have to be a registered voter a(t least in some states) to be available for selection in a trial as a jury. Every state here have a slightly different criteria for their selection of jury pool.
Romance / Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by citous(m): 5:13am On Oct 06, 2011
~Mikael~:

[size=14pt]Ofcourse! There are guys with flows! But if you want to fit in again, you'll just have to adapt a little, and then update it with the flow of where you are coming from! Yeah, i agree with the hilarious flows of some bro's though! [/size]grin

[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]I will knw for sure how much swag I have lost when I get home in a few months smiley[/font]
Romance / Re: So Why Do Girls Run From Moi? by citous(m): 7:56pm On Oct 05, 2011
After reading this, I could help but think the dude is dancing 'Atilogwu' dance. I hope you are not twitching all over the dance floor. A lil shuffling of the leg and swaying to the beat works better than all the faux dougie crap you are involved in. Move to the rhythm. Don't dance like you had an iPod playing a different song to whats playing to everybody else. You will be ok.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aANQIuUGwAc
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aANQIuUGwAc
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Told ''i Don't Knw How To Kiss by citous(m): 7:24pm On Oct 05, 2011
There is only one way to learn em; get the tutorial from her.
Romance / Re: Put My Pic On Ur Fb Or Break Up: by citous(m): 7:19pm On Oct 05, 2011
The girl is just insecure. Bros, there is nothing wrong in refusing to put her picture up there so long as you are doing it with good intentions. Have you ever given her any reasons to doubt your commitment to her? If not then you got nothing to worry about. Let her see where you are coming from and try to get to the reason she want yours up on her page.
Anyways despite the fact that relationships are all about compromise, there are still boundaries. My ex wasn't even my friend on FB. She used to be and then when my crazy buddies make crude remarks or jokes she trips over it and I called her on it and told her to un-friend me as I was gonna do same and we agreed that we didn't need FB to express how we felt for each other. And we were the better for it.
And it helps to date mature women too.
Romance / Re: What's Your Definition Of Being Single?( A Single Person) by citous(m): 11:16pm On Oct 03, 2011
Single is not being in a committed relationship. If you have a girlfriend/bf/married/partner(long term), then you are not single. If you have a boothy call buddy or on-the-side sex partner or just a plain ol player, you are still single.
Romance / Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by citous(m): 12:43am On Sep 30, 2011
~Mikael~:

[size=14pt]Well! I cant say naija style is the best style! Cos obviously, it failed you woefully for almost 6 months! What's best about that? grin You did not point out how the janded flow worked on the naija ladies, so there really isnt anything we have, to base any constructive differentiation from! Societal and cultural values could also play a part in the flow, as against the rest of the world! Every part with it's own values of what is acceptable in wooing a girl or not! I believe we should just adapt to the flow of wherever it is we find ourselves! Never rush into anything just because you feel you have the "Holy grail" flow of wooing ladies! You just might be quintessentially dumbfounded, -as you were when you first got to Nevada- to find out that your flow doesnt work! shocked grin Nothing wrong in studying your environment first, and then, trying to adapt to the flexibility of their own flow! Diving in head first into any situation whatsoever, especially into untested waters, isnt the way to go! It could leave you bemused, or worse still, in confounded wonderment! Thanks for pointing this out though! cool [/size]

[size=14pt]I gat you bro. Its not that my flow wasn't working here, it was just too weird to most of em. They are not used to someone preaching like Idahosa to them in the name of wooing. I did adapt to it but the experience nearly did in  my self confidence. I believe in when in Rome, behave like the Romans.  The new mantra came about from painful experiences tho grin. I still believe we gat guys with flows back home cos right now I don't know if I have the patience or the guile to  navigate through the obstacles our beautiful ladies will throw my way if I try wooing them. But to be frank with you, some of our brother's flows are plain hilarious to say the least. cool[/size]

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