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Nairaland Forum › Citous's Profile › Citous's Posts
 Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Pull This Tricks? by citous(m): 1:34am On Feb 16, 2012 |
tellwisdom:Angy is a beautiful African woman, tellwat you need your bifocals on.  |
| Romance › Re: Please Help: Can I Still Marry Her? by citous(m): 4:47pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
Sad as this story sound, I have seen it happen even to the strongest and confident of men. Bruhs, find an avenue to channel your thoughts and energy into. The more confidence you have in yourself the better. What am about to ask may seem rude but bear with me cos there is a reason for the question. Do you have low self esteem? Believe that she is the only woman that you will ever be able to keep as yours? If these are the cases, then you need snap out of it and believe in yourself first and foremost and there will be half the solution to your problem. Cheers. |
| Romance › Re: Can U Marry A Lady Or Guy U Meet On Nairaland? by citous(m): 4:35pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
Yes I sure can. The individual determines what steps are taken and not the meeting point. If you feel the person is the one for you, carry go. But shine your eyes when making this decision. |
| Romance › Re: Who Met His/her Current Bf/gf Or Life Partner Through Nl? by citous(m): 10:25am On Feb 13, 2012 |
The chances of meeting on here and hooking up is very slim. This site's setup promotes false life and there are a whole lotta jokers that derail even the best intentioned topics.  I tried once to get something going but the factors fighting the slim chance are too numerous for any thing to hold. The idea of taking anyone serious when the chances of that person being fake is just overwhelming. |
| Romance › Re: Must You Eat Or Drink On A First Date? by citous(m): 7:34pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
Last time I was home and asked a girl i just met wat she does for fun;'I love to go shopping' was her answer. I asked her to change her routine so we can have some fun getting to talk and know each other. She asked me when am gonna pick her up for shopping. I told her to call me after she is done shopping so we can go do something else. She never answered my call after that.  , |
| Travel › Re: Reasonably Priced And Secure Hotels In Near Ph Airport For An Overnight Stay by citous(op): 5:20pm On Nov 09, 2011 |
Imanuelle:[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]I will be there December, 1st week.[/font] |
| Travel › Re: Reasonably Priced And Secure Hotels In Near Ph Airport For An Overnight Stay by citous(op): 4:30pm On Nov 09, 2011 |
[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]I really hope for some help on this topic, [/font] |
| Travel › Reasonably Priced And Secure Hotels In Near Ph Airport For An Overnight Stay by citous(op): 3:28pm On Nov 09, 2011 |
[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]Hi folks, I need some help for suggestions on a reasonably priced hotel near or not too far from Portharcourt international Airport for an overnight stay. My flight will be getting in late and knowing the red tapes involved at airports luggage clearance , it is imperative that I make a lodging plan instead of driving to Imo at that time of the night. I will surely appreciate suggestions on some affordable and secure hotels withing a 20mile radius of the airport so I could rest up and leave in the morning. Thanks Guys for your anticipated suggestions. And If possible include an average price range for them.[/font] |
| Romance › Re: Will You Marry Me. by citous(op): 5:24pm On Oct 21, 2011 |
Thanks ladies for all input. |
| Romance › Re: Will You Marry Me. by citous(op): 11:42pm On Oct 20, 2011 |
bekay911:Dating someone is what happens everyday, what other green light are you talking about. I date them by doing things two people do. Unlike most guys, I dont say I love you until am sure its love. I didnt say anything about intimate in my post. So stop assuming cos it makes an A.rse of U and Me. |
| Romance › Re: Will You Marry Me. by citous(op): 8:29pm On Oct 20, 2011 |
tellwisdom:What is that? |
| Romance › Will You Marry Me. by citous(op): 7:45pm On Oct 20, 2011 |
"You are ripe for the plucking". This is my buddy telling me after I complained about my issues of having all the women in my life moving way too fast for me. I dont know if there is something about me that spells; husband material. Most ladies I go on a date with seem to want to move to the next step within a very short time. This started a few year ago when my ex gave me an ultimatum about marrying her or hitting the highway. Don't get me wrong, I wanna get married to the right lady but I wanna get to know her better before we move to the next step. Asking me where I wanna get married after a month of dating is scary, so is telling me 'I love you' withing a few weeks. The scary thing is that it isn't a race thing. It ranges from African American to African to Asian, Hispanic and white. Is there any one having the same problems on here and please ladies a little advice on this issue. |
| Romance › Re: Okafor's Law by citous(m): 5:28pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]This 'Hypothesis' is way too variable dependent to be a law. All factors has to remain constant for it to work. The hypothesis hold true in a whole lot of situations but there are cases where even if all factors turn out positive, the law still fail. Moral is a strong thing you know.[/font] |
| Literature › Re: Which Books Are You Currently Reading? by citous(m): 5:04pm On Oct 19, 2011 |
[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]Just found a used book place where u can exchange an old book for ones you havent read and only pay 75cents and am reading everything by James Patterson, Micheal ConnelySidney Sheldon, Robert Ludlum,Jeffery Archer, Vince Flynn and David Baldacci. I think am through with almost everything written by these men. So I am running out of books to read. Will now venture into authors I havent been much interested in their work, like Sandra Brown etall. Just wish I could find another Robert Ludlum or Sydney Sheldon.[/font] |
| Food › Re: Your First Beer Experience? by citous(m): 5:27pm On Oct 17, 2011 |
[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]Ist experience was at age 12, got drunk and fall asleep in the rain. Long story short ,I got an a-r-se whooping from my dad after the effect wore off. Stopped drinking like 4 years ago cos I never saw the need/value for alcohol. So bros, leave alcohol if you can help it, it aint worth it.[/font] |
| Sports › Re: Watching Football Is Nothing But Sheer Tomfoolery! by citous(m): 8:32am On Oct 17, 2011 |
[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]Serendipity, you sound a lot like my boss at work who thinks football is not a sport and that baseball is rather what is called real sports. No offense mearnt, are you American? I ask because only Americans have this kinda bias against football as aginst the almost 6Billion inhabitants of the earth. They even refuse to call if by its rightful name , preffering to call it 'soccer'. To answer your question, competitive sport has been in existence since time imemorial, and it is a way to decompress for some people. I live a normal life and football balances it. I eat , breath and drink football especially on my days off after a hectic week at work. I dont know what you do at your spear time, but for most people its sports following. Some people take whatever they do to an extreeme, be it alcohol drinking, drugs, sex or sports following. So calling Football following a 'tomfoolery' is akin to baring your bottom in the public. You are making a mockery of your age[/font]. |
| Fashion › Re: How Many Times Do You Wear Your Jeans Before Washing Them? by citous(m): 5:00pm On Oct 15, 2011 |
BABE!:Just a quik kweshion, u de leak for ur jean? I mean if you can't repeat you jean, makes me wonder sha. |
| Fashion › Re: How Many Times Do You Wear Your Jeans Before Washing Them? by citous(m): 4:55pm On Oct 15, 2011 |
frenchman2:Exactly my thought. Mine no get schedule, na when e dirty but if not I go wear am reach one year self.  The material texture determines the schedule sometimes. |
| Business › Re: New Innoson ‘hummer’ Bus Thrills Transporters by citous(m): 7:43pm On Oct 13, 2011 |
I really need more information on this. This is a welcome trend and must be encouraged. A country that uses most of its workforce and produce things they need internally is the way to go and Nigeria must strive for self sufficience. Kudos. |
| Travel › Re: How to spot a fellow Nigerian in Diaspora by citous(m): 4:56pm On Oct 13, 2011 |
What a comic relief. I live in a predominantly white state, so I no sabi wetin u de talk |
| Romance › Re: In Luv Wit A Girl A Friend Has Already Slept Wit by citous(m): 4:29pm On Oct 13, 2011 |
If you love your woman, keep at it. What matters now is the future . Your past is just that, past. And you use experiences u garnered from the past, today and make a better future. So love you woman, hopefully she will reciprocate and the future is yours together. Don't worry about where or who shes been with. |
| Romance › Re: Why Do Many Girls And Women Find It Hard To Resist Their Ex-boyfriends? by citous(m): 8:09pm On Oct 12, 2011 |
Its true we develop a special bond with an ex. After years of being together where we experience different emotions and life changes, we get comfortable with the person in our life. But saying women find it hard to resist exes is pure baloney. This is generalization at its best. I have seen guys tweaking at the sight of exes, so it goes both ways. 3 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Nigerian Juror Sacked From Mutallab's Trial by citous(m): 4:52pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
Ileke-IdI:Dude you are wrong in that, you only have to be a registered voter a(t least in some states) to be available for selection in a trial as a jury. Every state here have a slightly different criteria for their selection of jury pool. |
| Romance › Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by citous(op): 5:13am On Oct 06, 2011 |
~Mikael~:[font=Berlin Sans FB Demi]I will knw for sure how much swag I have lost when I get home in a few months  [/font] |
| Romance › Re: So Why Do Girls Run From Moi? by citous(m): 7:56pm On Oct 05, 2011 |
After reading this, I could help but think the dude is dancing 'Atilogwu' dance. I hope you are not twitching all over the dance floor. A lil shuffling of the leg and swaying to the beat works better than all the faux dougie crap you are involved in. Move to the rhythm. Don't dance like you had an iPod playing a different song to whats playing to everybody else. You will be ok. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aANQIuUGwAc http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aANQIuUGwAc |
| Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Told ''i Don't Knw How To Kiss by citous(m): 7:24pm On Oct 05, 2011 |
There is only one way to learn em; get the tutorial from her. |
| Romance › Re: Put My Pic On Ur Fb Or Break Up: by citous(m): 7:19pm On Oct 05, 2011 |
The girl is just insecure. Bros, there is nothing wrong in refusing to put her picture up there so long as you are doing it with good intentions. Have you ever given her any reasons to doubt your commitment to her? If not then you got nothing to worry about. Let her see where you are coming from and try to get to the reason she want yours up on her page. Anyways despite the fact that relationships are all about compromise, there are still boundaries. My ex wasn't even my friend on FB. She used to be and then when my crazy buddies make crude remarks or jokes she trips over it and I called her on it and told her to un-friend me as I was gonna do same and we agreed that we didn't need FB to express how we felt for each other. And we were the better for it. And it helps to date mature women too. |
| Romance › Re: What's Your Definition Of Being Single?( A Single Person) by citous(m): 11:16pm On Oct 03, 2011 |
Single is not being in a committed relationship. If you have a girlfriend/bf/married/partner(long term), then you are not single. If you have a boothy call buddy or on-the-side sex partner or just a plain ol player, you are still single. |
| Romance › Re: Talking To A Lady You Just Met;naija Vs Others. by citous(op): 12:43am On Sep 30, 2011 |
~Mikael~:[size=14pt]I gat you bro. Its not that my flow wasn't working here, it was just too weird to most of em. They are not used to someone preaching like Idahosa to them in the name of wooing. I did adapt to it but the experience nearly did in my self confidence. I believe in when in Rome, behave like the Romans. The new mantra came about from painful experiences tho . I still believe we gat guys with flows back home cos right now I don't know if I have the patience or the guile to navigate through the obstacles our beautiful ladies will throw my way if I try wooing them. But to be frank with you, some of our brother's flows are plain hilarious to say the least. [/size] |
