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Politics › Re: I Never Slept With Any Man For Money - Linda Ikeji by cococandy(f): 12:35am On Oct 20, 2015
subterfuge:
IGBO WOMEN!!!!
BORN TO FUUUCKKK FOR MONEY
IGBO WOMEN MUST FUUUCK FOR MONEY
IGBO WOMEN EVEN KILL THEIR HUSBANDS WHO STAND IN THE WAY OF THEIR OPEN TOTTO PPUSSY BUSINESS.
SHE IS STILL OPENING HER PUSSSY FOR MORE MONEY O
Even those that sleep with governors and people bigger than governors don't make that kind of money.
Politics › Re: I Never Slept With Any Man For Money - Linda Ikeji by cococandy(f): 12:32am On Oct 20, 2015
Pavore9:
Some will only sleep after they have convinced themselves that some form of immorality or illegality is attached to Linda ikeji's income! cheesy cheesy
Of course.
It's the only way they can feel better about themselves.
Family › Re: Photo: Is this a Child Abuse? by cococandy(f): 7:35pm On Oct 19, 2015
I just think it is very unhygienic.
Doesn't look like a peck but wet kiss. Eww
Romance › Re: Man Who Claims To Have Slept With 4000 Women (PICS) by cococandy(f): 6:27am On Oct 19, 2015
Disgusting walking bag of STDs.
Family › Re: What Kind Of Mum Does This To A Child ( Photo) by cococandy(f): 12:27am On Oct 19, 2015
This is all shades of wrong
Family › Re: Please, Is This The Best Way To Feed A Baby? by cococandy(f): 10:45pm On Oct 18, 2015
Disgusting
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 3:50pm On Oct 18, 2015
armyofone:
cheesy a real war between husband and wife lol.
make sure to watch with your hubby for analysis grin. I read it was a real life events of a once lovely and rich couple.
Really interesting...mehnnn marriage smh
So BoN has violence....I'm a fan of horror movies but I wait grin till after Halloween.
I sure will. Yea BoN has violence but it's not horror.
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 3:26pm On Oct 18, 2015
ifyalways:
Coco, hi. Jisie Ike. kiss
I will.
Thank you smiley
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 3:18pm On Oct 18, 2015
armyofone:
So I can rent Beast of no Nation on Netflix ?
@ cococandy

I rented war of the Roses for this weekend. Have you seen it ?
War of the roses?
I'll look it up.

Yea Beasts of no Nation is on Netflix now.
Family › Re: Igbos Vs Morney by cococandy(f): 3:05pm On Oct 18, 2015
freecocoa:
5minsmadness is igbo? hmm.

Cococandy, kedu ije?
Odi mma nwanne m.

smiley thanks for asking.
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 3:03pm On Oct 18, 2015
These apples look real nice and yummy.
How long did one take to bear fruit?
I love apples die. I might think about planting if it isn't too stressful. At least find something to do with wasting yard space. (Na so I dey talk. I've been planning to start a garden since forever yet all talk no action lipsrsealed)

@movie, You dey fear too grin
I thought I was the only one.
Just close your eyes at the violent parts and ask your husband "have they finished?"

Pray he doesn't trick you to open your eyes when they cutting someone's neck like mine does sometimes grin.
tearoses:
Morning House

Been meaning to ask you Sisi Ewuro, how are your petunias doing/did?
Posting some pics of the apples that came from my apple tree . . . . 100% organic grin
No pesticide or fertilizer and they taste really nice too smiley

Coco I dey fear these kind movies o! embarassed
Im more of a romantic comedy type
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 2:56pm On Oct 18, 2015
edwife:
Lol you know me but i do watch some of these movies;like hotel rwanda,october 1st.......I just don't like the boring ones. Moreover,did you say Edris Elba? tongue tongue girl i will watch any movie he's on it.....boring or not. grin
This one is not boring at all.
The only thing is the violence. I don't like violent movies at all and tend to run away from them. But I'm learning to watch sha. At least close my eyes at the parts where they kill people embarassed

Asides that, if you don't mind the violence it's da bomb movie. Their acting was unique.
Family › Re: Igbos Vs Morney by cococandy(f): 8:26am On Oct 18, 2015
EfemenaXY:
You dey laugh??

That blessing must not pass me by...e go rub off via association by-fire-by-force.

Good morning. smiley smiley
Good morning. smiley
Family › Re: Igbos Vs Morney by cococandy(f): 7:59am On Oct 18, 2015
^^^ grin
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 7:21am On Oct 18, 2015
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 7:18am On Oct 18, 2015
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Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 7:11am On Oct 18, 2015
Wey my Netflix people.

Pls you guys should watch "Beasts of no nation"
I think Edris Elba killed it. You would not believe he wasn't raised ghetto african militia . (Lol maybe he was cheesy)

And that little boy. Abraham attah. Ghanaian boy. this was his debut movie too.
Some superb acting there. Mehn.

Very interesting.

Edwife I doubt this is your kind of movie sha. But still try to watch it.
It was telling the story of how some little boys lose their innocence and end up as heartless child soldiers. Touching too.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xb9Ty-1frw
Family › Re: Girls night out discussions by cococandy(f): 2:30am On Oct 18, 2015
Fashion › Re: Lingerie! A Must Have! by cococandy(f): 2:24am On Oct 18, 2015
EfemenaXY:
Think - sleepovers. It could come in handy for such occasions. How's Omomo kicking? And mami herself? smiley ..
We are very fine thank you smiley
Crime › Re: Six Men Gang-rape 18-year-old At Gunpoint In Lagos by cococandy(f): 12:00am On Oct 18, 2015
You're an ediot.

Alarming cause indeed grin

Yet everyday more people who get raped are kids and decently dressed people. Only in the research conducted by you is indecent dressing the 'alarming cause' of rape.
managermahmud:
I actually intend not to reply all d idyots quoting me, but am actually replying you ma cos your styupidity of high degree. And if we decide to allow your types in d society without cautioning u ppl, its just a matter of time, d styupidity virus in u will affect innocent ppl.
Back to d topic:
Apparently, u are a perpetual repeater while u were in school cos simple sentence u can't understand.
What I actually said was "the alarming cause" and not "the sole cause" that is to say, there are other causes of rape but the major cause is indecent dressing. I don't knw if am speaking sense into ur daft brain ma?
Nxt time pls, before u misconstrue ones statement, take the statement to an educated person for proper interpretation pls. Mayb ur husbandsmiley
U'll thank me later for this piece of advice. Take care smiley
Crime › Re: Six Men Gang-rape 18-year-old At Gunpoint In Lagos by cococandy(f): 7:23pm On Oct 17, 2015
MbashrexBashir:
Thank you my broda am not in support of rapist but like you said you will never hear dat a deeper life sister or an Hijabiya sisters are been raped, no it will never happen bkoz de do dress properly nd it is said "you will be address the way you dress"
M0ron.

People in hijab don't get raped?

What manner of imbecility is this? huh
Crime › Re: Six Men Gang-rape 18-year-old At Gunpoint In Lagos by cococandy(f): 7:20pm On Oct 17, 2015
The last time you check where?
In your house or in the actual society where children are raped and decently dressed people everyday?

That you have 27 likes with this post and some shares shows we have a big ideological problem on our hands. So according to you men are beasts who have no self control? You're an ediot for even implying that.

managermahmud:
The last time I checked, the alarming cause of rape is wearing skimpy clothes esp mini skirt undecided and exposing their cleaves, that's d fashion in trend now
I've never heard that a deeper life lady was raped. Ladies b wise, men are moved by what they see



*Modified* To those quoting me and saying trash... Well, am too busy to reply you all for now. Nys job thou, y'all drew my attention to notice ur existence smiley

Family › Re: How to parent a Stubborn Ward by cococandy(f):
She's a child.
If you're looking for help while convalescing, get an adult pls.
If you took her because you think she's smart and will be a nice ward to raise, then Treat her like your own child. What would you do if your own child gets back home late from school? Expect them to come clean and cook? Yes? No?

Thank god you've returned her to her parents.
Look for an adult next time.
Family › Re: Right Or Wrong? Promising A Child A Reward For Academic Excellence by cococandy(f): 6:23pm On Oct 17, 2015
Mindfulness:
Exactly, you are speaking from an adult perspective here but the topic is about kids / teenagers.
Read the above.

And have a great day smiley
Family › Re: Right Or Wrong? Promising A Child A Reward For Academic Excellence by cococandy(f): 6:20pm On Oct 17, 2015
Mindfulness:
And how will Disneyland or any other reward help them become better?
Do these rewards lead to a better mathematical understanding or do these rewards help write better, more coherent essays, you name it?
Depends on the child.
For this dad to promise him that, he must have been crazy about the place. For another child, it might have been another thing.

So with that reward in mind he will do more work and pay more attention to get more done than he ever did before. By the time the class term is done and he's through with his Disney holiday, he will come back to the next term only to be amazed at himself at how he has been able to discipline his mind to learn the things he thought he could not learn before. Like most extrinsic motivation techniques, the reward itself isn't going to improve your skills but the desire to have that reward is what will push you to work to improve your skills. And skills once learned cannot be unlearned except by brain damage:

The new realization that he can do many things if he puts his mind to it for many a child is usually the beginning of self challenge to do more. In some kids, further extrinsic motivation is not required from then on.
Family › Re: Right Or Wrong? Promising A Child A Reward For Academic Excellence by cococandy(f): 6:14pm On Oct 17, 2015
And more realist than idealist is that school is a struggle. This is coming from a 4.0 student so let's not see it as the Lamentations of a poor student.

So many things come in the way and the manner in which your professors expect you study may not conform with your other life activities.

I've experienced both the pleasurable and enjoyable parts of it and the frustrating parts.

If everyone was allowed to study at their own specific pace, take away some of the bureaucracies that drive you mad in school embarassed then maybe it will be all joy and pleasure and not a struggle.

#speaking from an adult perspective.

@mindfulness.
Family › Re: Right Or Wrong? Promising A Child A Reward For Academic Excellence by cococandy(f):
I know what intrinsic motivation is and that most kids are born with it especially following the feeling of achievement that comes with doing good in some areas. So they tend to keep on doing the things they do they good and in and try to avoid those they don't do great in. Hence the need to chip in extrinsic motivation to nudge them forward. That part is for kids who don't do well academically.

I kind of thought it goes without saying that it should only be once in while. Does anyone really need to be told giving a reward for every time the kids does well academically is not only a bad idea but hardly sustainable anyway. It has happened that one time extrinsic motivation may be all we need to awaken the intrinsic motivation. Because when it drives them to do well to get that reward promised, they begin to see themselves as capable of doing even more and what they thought was very difficult they begin to see in an easy light.

Eventually our approval and pride in them is all they will need to continually do better and that itself is an extrinsic motivation because take it away, and they will slag if that's what's been pushing them to do well before.

So we can't do without either. And where the natural born motivation is not there, it can be awakened by external ones.

Mindfulness:
School does not have to be a struggle. School can be a source of great pleasure and joy. Having said that, toddlers are very different from adults. They focus on the now and not on future outcomes. They don't think "Oh, I am going to struggle learning how to walk so I can do it later." They just do it. They try and try and try and do not feel frustrated by the huge number of times they fall down when trying. We mess up this natural, intrinsic motivation with rewards because we were taught to.

And then we grow up and do things, not because we enjoy doing them, but because we expect to enjoy the result in the future, which never comes because when it comes, it is now, it is always now. You can't live in the past, neither in the future and therefore you can never experience pleasure and joy in the future but only and exclusively in the now.

I find it quite funny and sad at the same time that a person will struggle to make a wish come true for years, like for example buying a fancy car or house, and when he or she gets it, he or she will enjoy it, at best for a little while, and then feel empty again. The thing will become ordinary to them, nothing special and so they will find something else, be it an object or a relationship they think will make them happy and give them joy in the future and, guess what, the struggle begins anew and the result is barely worth the struggle. So instead of enjoying the results, we must learn to enjoy the process, the now. If we don't, we won't be able to enjoy the results for long and always struggle when we actually want feeling of joy. Once we learn this, we will not kill the intrinsic motivation in children they were born with.
Family › Re: Sued For Not Marrying Girlfriend In 12 Years. by cococandy(f): 5:16pm On Oct 17, 2015
Why didn't she dump him after 2yrs of relationship and no headway? She chose to wait?
What some girls don't know is that even the boyfriend is not interested in marriage and knows that you are, the last thing he will do is tell you to walk away and find someone who's ready to marry as you do.
If you like be there waiting for him for 20yrs, he will keep quiet and let you stay for those 20yrs as long as he's getting whatever it is you're giving him in the relationship.

She got served like the mumu she is.
He will invite her to his wedding next month.
Politics › Re: Why Men Die Faster Than Women (hillarious Pictures) by cococandy(f): 5:09pm On Oct 17, 2015
So you're saying men are more silly than women?

Well I agree that men tend to take more unnecessary risks but those ones in these pictures pass "I no get sense". like wtf shocked

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