₦airaland Forum

Kimoni:
Who dey pay? Me or you?

troy20:
see the sort of things you come up with.

Kimoni:
Madam Edwife

"emi" is one word not "e mi"

As you and Coco no wan pay me to teach una the language, make I kukuma dey expose una dey go

plaetton:
Totally unbelievable bullshyte.

Even you, oh cocoa Candy?

Be sincere, Would you offer this advice to your own brother?

Truckpusher:
Of course that's the way it is.

When you study your environment and the recent happenings it is important to take step to avoid being a victim.

I was talking with a female colleague and she enquired about my movement and I told her that I'm headed home straight and we live in the same neighborhood.So , she asked me to help her send some physical cash to a known associate who would come around to pick the cash but I refused telling her that I don't carry physical cash that is above 400,000 she laughed and taunted me " Na small money you dey fear to carry for motor" ! What I'm saying is I've seen severally where people have been gunned down over a paltry sum of money and they died for nothing and these crimes have become a reoccurrence in this part of the world - It would be stupidity on my own part to put myself in any awkward position that might attract the same scenario .
Know your place and live according to the dictates of your immediate environment else you'll end up as a statistic.

Truckpusher:
Making a mockery of those salient points about rapes isn't funny at all.

People should be able to minimize their risk level in a society that is awashed with all manner of vile and abominable people and let the society know exactly how to tackle a particular problem .

You're aware that a particular neighborhood is dangerous yet you ended taking a stroll in the same neighborhood dressed like a slut - What were you suggesting ? Suggestive body language can send any kind of signal to a sick mind with a warped ideology and a flawed core value system.
This isn't to advocate for rapists - If anyone rapes my own I'll use every available means to get even with no atom of remorse.

Idowuogbo:
Very serious one

Sorry i'm replying a lil late jare... i was busy doing aproko Yea I had fun, loving my pressies too. Persin no fit do birthday everyday? I wish.

Phema:
Open marriage gone wrong huh?

Deal with it.

By the way, you might actually be the father of that baby. When a scan says 7 weeks, it doesn't mean the kpekus was 7 weeks ago. It means her last menstrual cycle was 7 weeks ago.

Kimoni:
how can you answer this

If your twin sister was on NL, she would be in the best position to counsel the OP.

If I had my way, all twins esp females would marry same day. Too strong a bond to be broken overnight

It must have been mixed feelings for her on your day right? - happy for you but sad to lose her most trusted confidant



@OP - sorry I am not feeling you personally

I was very happy when my elder sisters were getting married oo even though they didn't really know the true reason

Meant less errands, more peace, more space, more everything inshort

I am way down the ladder amongst my siblings but I was finally going to be in charge

SAMBARRY:
I hold you before

this albino sef

don't worry i am not into women

SAMBARRY:
I understand you well now
btw what is hapu maka?

SAMBARRY:
Madam coco what of those pudah women that wear overall black curtains from head to toe. How come their outfits hasn't protected them from rape. I mean the ones that cover their nose and mouth, wear black socks and black gloves. The only thing outside is their eyes. How come those ones too aren't exempted.


You people should say the truth and let the devil be ashamed

hensben:
Hey! Woman watch your mouth Ermm finger (you use in typing).

FrancisTony:
The most ridiculous of all is that the same set of people who would say;
*Nigerian women are cheats.
*Nigerian women are whoress.
*Nigerian women are unloyal et al would get riled when you insult their mother.

The same fingers they used to type a blanket statement, they won't want to accept their mothers, sisters et al are part of what they described/generalised.
If each one of them start claiming their mothers & female relatives are saints, how come they came out with such generalisation?.

Tamee:
Ok, guess you have a green card then, that's the only way them gods will clean for you.

Tamee:
Just catching fun
I'm far out of the reach of gods who kill women anyway, are you?

Tamee:
Even Amadioha recognises that he can not mess with white women the way he does with black women. Amadioha is a man, ain't he? He may not respect Nigerian women but he sure respects white women, the same way Nigerian men slap their wives around in Nigeria but dare not raise a finger against women abroad. These archaic and chauvinistic traditions don't cross borders at all.
That's what I think.

Tamee:
The green card far outweighs the bride price. Besides Nigerian men respect white women more than they do black women and so they won't let Amadioha mess with their source of Visa and Green card. Don't you think?

bukatyne:
I don't think it is religion; I think it is the conservative nature of our society.

A woman is supposed to be innocent on such matters. I am sure that as the society becomes more liberal, such things will be past tense.

Any idea if Calabar women feel free initiating? I know they used to teach their young women/wives the art of love making.

Cc: cococandy

eyinjuege:
Because he's not gay?

xynerise:
Some people sef . Everything na sin. They will start telling you only missionary style is approved by God.

JoeCutie:
The double standard has been growing with impunity for a very long time that it has even almost attained the status of culture and tradition, and it's very bad. We need to speak up against it, condemn it in it's entirety and of course, correct these abnormalities. Thanks, ma'am.

JoeCutie:
What the hell are you saying? So Nigerian women ain't worth it? And Nigerian men are the ones that are worth it, huh? This is a very appalling and stale mentality that has eaten deep into the fabrics of our culture, and it's so so sickening. Like...very uncalled for and quite unbecoming of a 21st century civilized man. Tell me what the women of Nigeria do that the men do not do even more? #DoubleStandard

This very uncompromising generalization of our women is stale already. Let's talk about something else!

xynerise:
Because of how hypocrisy has eaten up the minds of most Nigerians, especially the religious fanatics, we think that when a woman initiates sex, she must be a very loose or spoilt woman. Initiating sex is not one person's job for crying out loud. Gosh! See why I love my woman