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That's a confusing answer.
What's wrong with liberty?
That's all I asked

eighTHREAD: you can't eat your cake and have it. If you want your kind of liberty, don't get involved in marriage which is an institution YAHWEH formed. Simple

And what do you mean by 'your kind of liberty'
I haven't posted on this thread before I asked u the question.
Neither did I say anything about liberty because I ASSUMED every living being has the liberty to be themselves.
So whatchu talking bro?

Equality has never been about having the same responsibilities
It's about each partner having the same level of respect despite their roles in the organisation.

I think you may have misunderstood what some people mean when they say equality.
Hence u type a post that agrees totally with what equlity means and still say you're not for equality.
No wahala sha
I get your point.
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Tallesty1: We have different reponsibilities in this partnership and she needs me as much as I need her.......This line will help you to understand what I'm talking about.

eighTHREAD: you feminists come on the internet campaigning against the status quo which majority see as peaceful but complain when your mission is campaigned against. Mind you, your campaign is corrupting the few good women we have left so pls tell your feminists to keep their ideas to themselves or else guys like me will be on their neck promoting the goodness of submission. Satan wanted liberty later on a lot of angels(one-third) bought thesame idea, if not for a stronger campaign, more angels would have been bought by the evil. Women fell for the feminist agenda which acknowledges no authority in the household, it's only a matter of time before kids toe thesame part cos you need to know how disastrous lack of order can get. An example is what our world has become just cos some beigns wanted liberty Eve seeked knowledge without the consent of her husband and brought disaster to her world. Becarefule of the knowledge you seek...

So I ask again. What's wrong with liberty?

eighTHREAD: you don't get it do you? It starts from somewhere till everyone now wants some form of liberty just as the devil and the rebellious angels did. Right now, what we are dealing with is them suppressing the submission order which if consented to would lead to further confusion like the case of the kids I mentioned which is already taken place in america where kids disobey their parents in terribly shocking ways that will make a stubborn african kid see his insolence as child's play.

Why shouldn't people want liberty?
Is life meant to be a bondage?

It is hilarious when women talk about being equal, or man being the head and women being the neck or some other part of the body. I don't need a marriage where someone is the head and the other person is the neck. That is really not necessary. Why fight for position when it is just us? We have different responsibilities in this partnership and she needs me as much as I need her.
Two soldiers are out in a battle field, fighting side by side dealing with whatever may come their way. They got each others back. This is what I call mariage. They don't have to look back because they each trust the person there.



You don't believe in equality yet you typed this.
How's it different?
As far as I'm concerned that equality right there.
They are side by side and back to back.
Equal partners in the union.
Doesn't necessarily negate the concept of leadership.that's what some people don't get.


I agree with your post except the lust and friendship only part.
Depends on what you call love anyway.
Most people think lust is love too.

Don't even know what to say.

Godmystrength: hoard the child as how?
my sole responsibly is not even only the baby. Long story jare.

Do you hoard the child or what?
I want to understand why he thinks the baby is your sole responsibility.

Godmystrength: I don't have any other money o. in fact, if you remember how much my salary is, you will know what i mean.
Gotten a job ke? what can i say? He got one and my hopes were high and he just dashed the hopes before he even resumed the job. he said he is praying to God to bless his business (he hasn't done any in recent time).

We even had a little quarrel this morning before i left for office because he said i refuse to collect atm for my salary account (because he said it would have been easy for him to go and withdraw money to pay his brother). Since i have tried my best and i don't want to result to nagging, i have decided to just be silent for the now. I can't kill myself from too much of thinking.

Like I said maybe their loved ones were threatened.

I sincerely hope so too.
If not,we have 200 more of such to contend with.
Grim possibilities I must say.

dhammyg: I JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW U CAN BRAINWASH A YOUNG PERSON TO BOMB THEMSELVES AND OTHER PEOPLE


AND I SINCERELY HOPE IT IS NOT THE CHINOK GIRLS,THAT ARE BEING USED

If girls that young aren't terrified to kill themselves,then these people are bigger than what wet take them to be.

Maybe their families are threatened to put them in a defenseless/helpless position

dhammyg: NORTHERN GIRLS ARE NOT SMILING

Female again?

papiforreal: yea.. It is true. Am living in the area . Many are feared dead and the victims are being evacuated now.

it is not Law school. It is islamic school. The name of the school is aminu Kano college of islamic and legal studies. There is no single christian in The school, all of the students are Muslim.
Modify the title of you thread to contain islamic school. Let every body know these animals don't spare neither Muslim nor christian.

It was female bomber suicide bomber that blew the bomb near the students waiting for danfo at the front of the school gate.

Let them test him well o
Before letting him loose in the society

Apply the tips here first o.
Before relying on the blood of jesus.

Segadem: I'm cover with the blood of JESUS no Ebola can come to me and my family.

Yes. I believe in soul mates.

But it is something you build, not like there's someone out there specifically made for you.

A soul mate is a rare person you meet in one of life's rarest moments who understands you inside and out.
Sometimes people on the outside might wonder what it is he/she sees in you or you see in him/her.

The person with whom you have the kind of love that you never forget
The person you can forgive anything if they want you back.


But you have to be careful,as it is not always healthy especially if you're the emotional type.
Losing a soul mate can change your life if you're not well equipped to handle such loss.

Not everyone finds a soul mate.
Most people have a happy life despite never having found a soul mate.

1AngryBird: 1AngryBird.

Is there such thing as a soul mate?
I have never had a girlfriend, nor am I in any hurry to get one. But what I am wondering, is there such thing as a soul mate? I have seen soo many people get in love, then break up. Or get married, then after a few years divorce. So if people keep doing that, how can they find their 'soul mate'? Or will they ever find a 'soulmate'?


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The comments on this thread

There's only few ethnic groups in Nigeria that aren't anti-women empowerment.
Maybe you haven't heard of the urhobo people.
You'll cringe when you hear some of their men-women rules.


So let her not look at that angle but look at the man in question.
Is he enlightened?
Is he a good person?
Is he non-egotistic?
Does he believe in fairness and respect for her?

If yes to all,then she shouldnt be afraid of what the other people around think.

Outstrip: My dad is from Edo state and my mom is igbo but are still married. I don't want to say do or don't because it would reduce this whole thing to stereotypes. Culturally though most ethnic groups in Edo state are very anti women empowerment. If he is God fearing, has a good heart, respects the women in his family, enlightened, has progressive views about life etc then he might be the one.

For the one that can't resist any thread with my moniker on it.
It's good and fine to call me names and insult me without provocation.

I hope you won't start yelping like a trapped hyena when and if I decide to give you just a quarter for each dollar you give

OP call your hound to order,so he doesn't give you a 'healthy' derailment on this your thread.


And like I said, maybe female gender suppression is not an issue
Since it is mostly but not only restricted to the north (the same north that is 60 percent of Nigeria). As long as we have a few places where women are given as much recognition and respect as men.then it'all good

'Healthy functioning brain indeed'


I'll ignore your dumbass$ for now.

jaybee3: Not necessarily ya know...

Nigeria is a country where you can easily cut your coat according to your size.

There is something for all class and one doesn't have to break bones to enjoy/get it

There's only few times cutting ones cloth according to their cloth works.
Uncle Jay just imagine things like not being able to get admission because the department you seek to study in is filled up with those who had 300'-500k to pay in order to get in.
It is that bad
And it happens all the time.

jaybee3: It's really not that bad to be honest.

You will do just fine if you can accept things aren't going to be effective/seamless as your normal place of residence.


The only thing I found challenging is the traffic but then again it's to be expected so plan your journeys wisely.

It's really not that bad if you have money.

naijababe: I dunno about many ladies on thread but I am quite adventurous sexually, I'd suggest other things but heck I am afraid before dem name NL ashi o

I thought you were the resident NL virgin

What will you say for all the women who are doing all those and still go to work and maybe even earn and contribute more to the home than the husband?

Nonso23: .

Like I said,I don't see why I should be discussing adichie
Or any other celebrity for that matter.
Enjoy

pickabeau1: Did u read the write up

Its not solely about chimanda

1. I think its about the fact that she is harping for an ideology she knows little of

Vey comical was the example of her expecting people to lift her bags when everyone is equal

2. Also she raised the practical example of living in a highly feminized society and the fact that marital issues still occur

3. That Nigerian women are also as educated and knowledgeable as most of their counterparts anywhere

I will have expected you to read and critique her points rather than saying she is a hater

if I didn't read it,how else did I know what she said?
I did.
First of all I've stopped having the pointless forth and backs about feminism that we do here,no one manages to convince the other anyway.so why sweat it?

Second it's laughable that she thinks she knows better than adichie about the issue. Smh.
There's a reason why she's the unknown and adichie is the star.(Not that it matters)
But I see it self conceit for her to think she knows better.

And yes she's a hater,how can I not point that out? Most of the vitriol she spewed on the lady gave her away to be the classless attention seeking person that she really is.
Matter of fact how can I see her point when I don't know if the topic is about feminism,adichie or adichie's brand of feminism?
Ok so there are different brands and adichie has one brand all to herself. That's nice


How does Nigerian women being almost as educated as females in other parts of the world nullify that fact that for the most part we are still considered less than men?
And does she want us to rule out some parts of Nigeria while conducting the research about female education in nigeria? How convenient!
I mean if it's restricted to the north alone which BTW is more than half the land mass of nigeria it's all good. Right?
As long as it is in the north. No wahala.
And she says she lives in nigeria.


I still don't get why I should sit and discuss chimamanda's understanding of feminism.
Is she setting the rules for anyone?

First the writer says the problem of female suppression doesn't exist in Nigeria.
That almost renders the whole write up invalid.
I'm sorry it's difficult to take some who says that seriously.
A country where we have to count the high profile women off the fingers of both hands and feet still has a long way to go in women's emancipation.
He wanted her to be specific about the part of Nigeria still in the dark?
I guess we should title the next topic 'emancipation of women in the North' or
'Emancipation of women in urhobo land'
Aren't we all Nigerians?


Second,one would have expected him/her to put their points accross without throwing insults and jabs at the person of chimamanda.
I don't know what this write up is all about,but it is glaring that at the heart of it is a deep dislike for adichie. And hate is one thing I don't do.if I quote all the sentences where she/he said nasty things about the writer, it'll be very obvious this topic is about chimamanda and nothing else.
And frankly I've a life so colorful I don't sit and discuss celebrities.

I think the author of this post should try get such a life too.

Very true

PocketEconomist: Let us be truthful to ourselves.... NIGERIANS RUINED NIGERIA. simple and short. The mess Nigeria is in today is the aggregation of the wrong decisions each individual, or most individuals make in the country on a daily basis starting from the leaders, academic professionals even to the common man on the street.

The Nigerian system is so bad. Let us tell ourselves the harsh truth. and it is only the change in attitude in Nigerians that will change the country.

For christ's sakes she's 27.
Will you kindly stop monitoring her and trying to treat her like a little girl just because she's younger than you?


That said. She's not behaving well and certainly not like an adult.
Don't feel bad if she tries to blackmail you with the 'do you want me to leave your house?' Questions anymore.
If she says so again,tell her a plain yes. If she can't let you have peace,then she should get her own space.
She's old enough to take care of herself. Since she's working let her rent her own apartment and live how she wants under her own roof!

@ 27 she will surely get pissed if you try to police her. I would too.
And you won't be comfortable if she doesn't live by your standards in your house.the one room apartment isn't helping matters at all.
Y'all are too close you can't help getting on each other's nerves. So both of you need to give each other space.

Help her get her own place(she pays of course)
But be kind about it.

I just love this OP
#nohomo

Apart from self acclaimed gays and lesbians?
How do these 'anti-homosexuality vigilante groups' arrive at a conculsion beyond reasonable doubt that someone is gay or lesbain?

I know Nigeria and I know the way such laws can be mishandled.
The chief of the vigilante group in your area can even plan to have you charged with gayism just to get you out of the way so he can toast your babe. Lol.
I don't trust vigilante groups.
Gives touts the license to witch hunt.

Think Aluu4
Think ejigbo pepper sellers.

I think we should rise above such lawlessness.

The king and queen of gifs?
Sure thang,

alutacontinua: cocolovely, remind me when coogar or edwife comes to order for a STANDING OVATION gif for this post!

POST OF THE MONTH!

You that came to NL with a matter that's not your business wetin we go call you?

Na una sabi
@crackhaus and shizzlestar.
I think it's pretty balanced up both ways.

shizzleStar: OK! LorretaUKedu?

I dey ok