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And of course yes I think men and women are equal.if you don't like it? take a hike

Or are you saying women are superior?

shizzleStar: Op thank your for your sincerity and good conscience in opening this thread. Quite a handful of ladies will be disappointed in you for laying the facts bare. Nonetheless there is never a possibility of 2 becoming greater than 3, so say kudos to you for opening the thread.

Look at the poster above me already shouting double standard, she is one of the pro-feminists activists we have here, people that believe man and woman is equal ...smh. Do not be surprised that even with those verses you quoted to support your strong argument, some will still try to misinterpret and give a different meaning to submission to suit their over bloated egos and self worth.

babygirlfl: @ cococandy

its added now

No probs.
@shizzlestar ,I didn't think the OP was one sided. I Was just being cheeky in preparation for posts like that your long one-sided initial post.

Look very good.


I even like the size not those small ones that makes you bite your tongue.

beeevan: Cococandy, my version of wheat chin chin.

It's gonna be hot.

OP you forgot to add honor. Apart from selfless love,husbands are also commanded to honor their wives.
As in placing them in exalted positions according to what 'honor' means.


Ehen. So I'm viewing the show from my recliner.
No time for hausa mat like alutacontinua

Let the double standards begin.

Thank you bro
Thank you.

dirtymoney: Greedy, selfish and power thirsty-we-must-rule set of b-a-s-t-a-r-d-s !!! They both had a chance to make a change- what did they achieve? Their actions should even tell Nigerians that these criminals are not even remorse about their contributions towards the backwardness of this nation.. If they were remorse, they would find a cave and hide their face in shame for the rest of their lives.
I'd better vote a 10 year old kid who has never been a class prefect, than vote any thief that had at one time or the other held ANY political position. Nansense!!! Recycling garbage to produce garbage.

This is not nice
Her buttockks are showing.
Haba. No matter how we try to look at it,it's weird for a child to dress like that. Even the pose shows she's showing off her buttockks.
That's sick joor.

I won't even see it as odd if an adult wears it,because hey we understand she's advertising her sexuality.
What's the kid advertising?
Isn't a bit too early for her to understand sex appeal?

Pls tell them

obailala: I can do this for my younger or older sister, I can do this for my mum, I can even do this for just a friend. So why on earth should it be an issue to do this for my wife?.. or do I hate her so much?

How does helping my own wife buckle her shoe (when she's putting on a supposedly tight skirt which makes it difficult for her to bend) make me less of a man biko?.. How silly can people go to prove that they are 'real men'?

www.nairaland.com/attachments/1580568_fam_2_main_jpeg8a0336564b8e9dcd511cd226cb2e7b06

And the shrapnel bashed in the sides of the car like it was hit by a truck?

Whatever rocks their boat duh!

iterator25: all the people commenting on this thread get brain problem.. na shrapnel from the bomb dent the SUV not bullets

Truer words?
Never been spoken.
It is women's fault
And the fault is ours to correct.

bukatyne: While the bottom of your post is sensational, who are the people to fight against abuse in homes?

Did the women complain to you? Even if they did, are they ready to face it head on?

Everybody is wired to remove themselves from harmful situations. What is harmful varies from person to person.

We really do not know what we want in our society. We just mouth stuffs without building a foundation for it.

A child that saw her mom beaten by her dad and they claim to be 'happily' married or have a successful home or lead the marriage committee, how can she dump an abusive boyfriend/fiancee? How can she see anything wrong in battery?

We teach our kids that men & women are not equal and yet we complain men treat women like kids, playthings or properties?

We never hold men accountable and we complain they do not lead by example? We don't let our sons do chores and we complain that our husbands do not help?

We stayin shitty marriages without cautioning the men and we complain our kids esp. sons make lousy spouses?

Husband = Lord & Chief commander and we complain they treat women as subordinates?

We have sown the wind and are reaping the whirlwind. Women ain't seen nothing yet. We all should carry go and not train/caution the men around us.

Goodluck in your women lib program

dagentility: Dont really know the correct spelling 4 dat moniker, cococandy or chococandy. The other is cabinbiscuit, i like d biscuit alot.

Alright

MizMyColi: unquote me, plssssss

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I'm sure there's God.
I'm not just sure if we humans understand him.

finofaya: Is like you are not sure if there is God. But look at it like this; if there is God, wouldn't Luck be under his dominion? So it is not correct to say that being lucky means that God did not have a hand in it.

And why should vehicle design/dynamics favour only me, if not luck, and thus God.

My life threatening disease was curable. But remember that it was not treated, it went away on its own. All the symptoms disappeared. Is the distinction between curable/incurable important?

I hope you know that miracles don't allow detailed analysis, since they involve breaking rules that we barely understand. Just take it on faith, so to speak.

Sure babe

MizMyColi: *raises her hand* I do, a very personal one care to read?

OP you almost made sense with this your thread.
Just tintini small e remain make u make sense

Nothing

Apatheist: Wetin be your own?

OP life is so funny that one day in a few years to come,you'll ask yourself 'did I really mean to kill myself?'
And you'll wanna beat yourself up for ever thinking that in the first place.

It will all fall in place as long as you don't stop trying.
Pls don't stop trying.
It will all fall in place.
The harder you try,the sooner it may be.
Just don't give up yet bro.

He said to me 'I can die for you. I'll put myself in the face of danger and take a bullet before I let anything happen to you'



Biko we are all humans and I really don't want a situation to test such a claim to arise.

You have no idea who you're talking to huh?

finofaya: Amen brah! You will come across another miracle very soon!

You don't understand the angle I'm coming from with the accident example.
If it can be explained by luck or the dynamics of that particular vehicle/road/or crash itself,then it doesn't prove beyond reasonable doubt that it was miraculous.

Not saying I wouldn't be thankful if it happened to be me who was saved.
I just want examples that leave no doubt.

Okay about your illness,what was it?
Was it incurable? Life threatening doesn't necessarily mean incurable.
If it was really an incurable disease you thought you had,are you ABSOLUTELY sure that there wasn't some misdiagnosis?
Did you get a second and third opinion from different specialists what the disease really was?


10million?
I happy well well for you o.
Why haven't I got such free money?

finofaya: Poster, but why do you dismiss miracles that involve saving of lives from terrible motor accident? I assure you, it is a mistake to do so. The principle of miracles is that the odds must be against you and you must be given preferential treatment to help you overcome the odds. So in accident or ill health, it is the same principle. It doesn't matter whether the odds are 1 in 10, or 1 in infinity.

In my own case, I was diagnosed with life threatening disease 3 years ago and on my way to the hospital for treatment session I was involved in a ghastly motor accident that claimed the life of everybody in the bus, except me. Then on getting to the hospital I was discovered to be free from my disease. Immediately I also got bank alert that I have been credited with 10 million naira.

God is Good.

apolonius: Na wahala you dey look for o. You go hear how God of Oyedepo stopped someone from successfully slapping her and all those trash soon o.

What we hear as miracles today are mostly lies;at best they are delusions,illusions,manipulations and hypnosis.

Oya,make we wait na.

Seriously though some of the accounts I read and hear about seem utterly unreasonable

Maybe I'm not a real christain duh
I've received tongue lashing since yesterday because I told my SIL that the visiting pastor who came to their church yesterday might be a fake one.

They've said prayers for my blaspheming soul and asked for forgiveness on my behalf.

The guy said he prayed for a woman who had fibroid and she passed it through her stool/excrement.
Like WTF!?
It would make a lil more sense if she said she had massive bleeding and pushed out the growth through her vaginaa. Hard to believe but a lil more easy on the ears than the story he told.

So I asked what's the connection between the intestines and the uterus? How did the fibroid leave the womb where it was embedded and transfered to her rectum so she could push it out via faeces?

I know fibroid is something that bleeds terribly and she couldn't have had such a massive miraculous surgery without a drop of blood lost.

But I guess that what makes it a miracle right?

Anyway I had to stop trying to explain my thoughts to them in order not to invoke the 'wrath' of God on the family with my blasphemy against a holy man of God



I haven't seen any such miracle before.
I don't believe them

I tried so hard but couldn't make any sense out of the write up in the OP.

It seems like the writer was more concerned about the 'clearly homosexual cross-dressing' issue.


Pls if you understood explain to me abeg.

We all do love america

The wife of the dude must have been scared sh1tless of this steel faced dudette.
If not I don't see how tha affair lasted 15yrs.

RoyalRoy: Lolllz... dont you just love America?

The man is married to someone else why does she expect him to have so much fluid to spare?
And how do you cheat on a side-chick? Confounding.

Anyway me thinks if she's finally released,it won't be long before she shoots someone else

I don't mean the I-was-in-a-crash-and-everyone died-except-me kind of miracle.
I mean it's wonderful but can be explained away by theories of luck or just happenstance.

Have you had any real out of the world miracle like the i-was-blind-for-20-years-and-regained-my-sight-through-prayers kind of miracle?


I have a hard time believing some miracle stories I hear.
Since I haven't ever experienced or seen one up close and personal,I'll sure need some convincing to believe in them.

damiso: @bolded is not negotiable from 0-5 years esp When I want a nap their daddy takes them out.If you are not settling fight you have to explain "why' a million times.

@post Loss of my spouse at a young age maybe.I try to be an optimist and deal with situations as they arise.

This one is a very real fear for me given the dangers of his line of work.
I just consciously avoid thinking about it.
What will be will be

Fear of a ruined body from child bearing
Some women never go back to how they were before pregnancy.
I PRAY I won't be one of them.

And stubborn kids who won't let me have a nap in peace.

Ok I've spread my mat.
Who's sharing the pop corn?


I don't drink alcohol on sundays so bar man bring coke come
Tenks

kulyie: Una don quick do COUNTER THREAD?



nawa o



oya o forward match here if you hear your name




the following people are wanted in this thread as I spread my mat


Cococandy
damphurey
Sophyrocks
coogar
Relationship 101
Feraz


and other well wishers




you are wanted here o



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Look around you. See marital abuse
Come to NL,read their stories that touch
Listen to your fellow women and cringe from their horror stories of what they call marriage.


But hey everyone with a brain knows it's the 'fault' of feminism that women are now able to up and say no to abuse.
Can't you get what the message is?
Feminism is so bad it makes women look men in the eye and say enough is enough.
Even in the society where it advocate equal rights for men/women in the social affairs,govt,education etc.
It must be an evil term to even think of getting the message of equality to those women who are still in bondage or limited and see it as their place in life.

How dare they?
Death to feminism.
Back to shackles.

You get power. You go debate tire today
I don't envy you

kmcutez: It should not take a feminist to tell me what is going on all around me. I have eyes to see and ears to hear. Imagine the audacity of one of my guy friends telling me all married men cheat when I caught him cheating on his wife. Tomorrow if the wife files for divorce, you will come on Nairaland and tell me it is the work of feminists.

Hahaha.

Whatever works for them right?
If it takes mind game for them to succeed. So be it.


@ shaybebaby. I dey follow you.

bukatyne: Reminds me of the Doctor with two lab rats stuff I read here a while back:

Doc was teaching two rats how to press a bell. The two rats were conversing thus:

Rat 1: How is it with the Dr?

Rat 2: He is learning

Rat 1: How?

Rat 2: Anytime I press the bell, he brings my food

The ultimate is for the home to run smoothly. However, it is achieved, fine

Kai nne
Lady code 101 : no matter what happens you don't call a fellow lady
Slutt or bytch
Especially not in public
And over wetin kwanu?
This small matter?

I mean e-fights can be fun no doubt
I've had some.
But those words are not it for one to use on another lady.

sisiafrika: onyi clara or onye ara clara? Cheap slutt like u, aint got ur time.. But ur a bitch!!! A real one at dat @others crying wolf, u are so ignored. Lifeless moths

The word control gives me the goosebumps.
Really rubs me the wrong way.

How someone wants to conrol another person in the name of marriage is very sick indeed.
Some men use the submission message to try enforce control while in truth they are sick individuals who need help with their control issues

While some women use manipulation to control the men. Fan their egos and make them feel in charge while in truth they are just master puppeteers beating them adult men into shape


All in all it's just a sick thing that most people do. Wonder if it'll kill them to let others be themselves.

bukatyne: Most people live the puppet/puppet master game. Who the puppet & master is per time is the issue