₦airaland Forum

It’s been proven that Kids face the most danger from family members and friends.

They usually yarn nonsense in the hopes that some ignorant mofos on here will believe them and run with the lies. Spewing lies about how marriage in the west is against men

I personally know 3 women who are paying child support. In fact one of them was paying child support and alimony to the man because his income was way way less than hers.

They just hate a system where they can’t freely decide to throw their wives out whenever they please. That’s the end of the world to them. If they can’t do that, then it must mean women are in control

dominique:
That's a bloody lie! the duty of immigration officials is to check your travel documents not bestow authority on anybody. Husbands call cops on their wives in the almighty abroad and the wives get arrested if the cops confirm that she's indeed the troublemaker. Husbands file for divorce from their wives and get half of her property IF she's the higher income earner. A nairalander had to sell her house to finalise her divorce from her American husband because the courts declared that both their assets must be combined, dissolved and split into two. They were on the same income level but the house belonged to her. She had to come to Nigeria and chill for some months after the divorce stress was over. You unexposed ignorant Nigerians think women are granted some magical powers to deal with their husbands abroad when in reality there are processes their systems follow.

If you're married and by some chance your husband gets to relocate out of the country, would you give him this advice?

This is what they do and they’ll be lying to their families that they put their wives through school when they can’t even afford anything without credit.

The ones talking about prenups as if prenups aren’t for people with assets to protect

What are you going to put in your prenups? Someone else’s apartment that you’re renting?
Lol.

franchasofficia:
Another thing is this, as a man living abroad, don't lie to ladies in Nigeria of your none existent rich status abroad when you know you are working hourly from hand to mouth and not really a big earner abroad like you made her believe because if she gets there and finds out that you are doing odd jobs or doing unprofessional job and now want to use her own career as maybe a nurse or medic or another big paying profession to uplift your sorry state so that she will be working while you will be spending it in the name of you brought her abroad, Oga it will not work, she go wise up, so know it now and abort that mission!

This

DKM123:
No one actually believe thier preek was stolen. NO ONE. Unless they are suffering insan!ty. Those who do this are using an old stealing trick that was popular few decades ago.

BTW, it's because stewpid illiterate buff00ns believes such n0nsense, that's why the trick is still relevant to this day. No thanks to the different religion tricksters who endlessly preach juJu into thier skull.

Just imagine

mabeni:
Years ago in oyo town, I was 24yrs and a very clean tokunbo Nissan micra. One fateful day, I was expecting a new babe and after calling she was already on bike to my house, I decided to go and sit in my car outside waiting for her.

While waiting, I saw some secondary school children returning from school. They greeted me and I then playfully play with one of them and tapped him (I love children).


They walked 30metres away from me and this boy started crying that he could no longer find his penis. He walked back to me and held my clothes...People don dey gather already..

I asked him to off his knicker to confirm if his penis was there or not. He did. Only to find his tiny penis under his belt. (He was probably having erection while playing with his female classmates and in order not to disgrace himself, he used his belt to hold his penis and he forgot). He screamed "owambe o". E dakun e ma binu..

I angrily seized his school bag and told him to go and call his parents. Him and his friends started begging me. The boy later said it was one of his friends who told him he better check his penis when I touched him because I own a car and was too young.

I gave him his bag and started minding my business until left oyo.

fergieboy:
What if his manhood is actually missing and the victim missed the person that took it and falsely accused you

You don’t want to imagine that

the fact that you believe manhood can be stolen is part of the problem.

They rely on ppl like you who believe in their weird nonsense to mete out jungle justice to those they accused

Look at the thing an average Nigerian is dealing with in 2023. As if we don’t have enough problems already we have to worry about mob Justice from random baseless accusations? Lord have mercy.

radautoworks:
these look awesome even though I hate cooked fruit

I feel ya . But certain fruits cook great.

Case in point

ahnie:
Nice

Thanks.

I usually make this salmon and veggies combo when I’m trying to keep in shape.
Low calorie and very filling

Ribs, fries and coleslaw

Dinner last night

Butter chicken curry, naan and basmati rice

Naan from Costco (I didn’t make the naan)

Blueberry muffins.
So fluffy and yum

aylive02:
Very ugly breasts!

why are you lying?

so all the people who have spent 20 or more of their adult years in Nigeria have saved 30 million??

tensazangetsu20:
She would have been better off never leaving Nigeria. After 20 years and all she can boast of is 30 million naira. .

Fugazy2023:
If I'm that lecturer, that girl will not enter my class for at least 5 classes.

And that’s a just punishment

But punching? Wow. Below the belt

ogaontop:
What of people that kiss, don't they exchange saliva?

But the bacteria doesn’t get into the bloodstream from kissing.

Human saliva is known to contain as many as 50 species of bacteria with almost 108 microbes/ml.[4] This is one of the reasons why human bites are believed to have higher rates of infection than other injuries.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2776367/

Human bite is very deadly

Offpointng:
The Suspect na snake cuz ion understand this typa bite

Artiiclebeast:
Is the suspect a rabid-infected dog?

I suspect a buck shifting.

This is an Emilokan Voodoo Economy-induced untimely death like the many suicide reports nationwide.

TimiRume:
Which book, chapter and verse please

Hi. See my last post.

people just use the Bible to justify whatever little scheme they got going on.
Men are required to provide and women are extolled to be industrious. It seems the Bible is in support of husbands and wives who work together?


Or….you can do whatever works for your family and leave the Bible out of it

Working Women in the Bible

The Bible mentions women who worked in commercial trade (Prov. 31:16a, 24; Acts 16:14), in agriculture (Josh. 15:17-19; Ruth 2:8; Prov. 31:16b), as millers (Exod. 11:5; Matt. 24:41), as shepherds (Gen. 29:9; Exod. 2:16), as artisans, especially in textiles (Exod. 26:1 NIV; Tobit 2:11ff NRSV; Acts 18:3), as perfumers and cooks (1 Sam. 8:13), as midwives (Exod. 1:15ff), as nurses (Gen. 35:8; Exod. 2:7; 2 Sam. 4:4; 1 Kings 1:4), as domestic servants (Acts 12:13, etc), and as professional mourners (Jer. 9:17). Women could also be patrons (Acts 16:40; Rom. 16:1-2), leaders (Judg. ch 4-5; 2 Sam. 20:16) and ruling queens (1 Kings 10:1ff; Acts 8:27). One Bible woman even built towns (1 Chron. 7:24). Many women, and men, worked from home, yet the Bible nowhere criticizes women who worked outside the home in the public sphere

OLAADEGBU:
I Quit My Job To Submit To My Husband

'I want to keep biblical femininity alive.'

Full Story

Biblical femininity you say?
So what’s this?

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She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.
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She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar.
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She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls.
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She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
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She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.
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She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.
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In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.

OmugwoAunty:
Nairaland, please what should I do?

I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.

I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.

My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.

Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.

Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.

My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.

My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.

My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.

The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.

What do I do? How do I approach this.

Send your siblings link to this your story. That way they get a clearer picture of who your mom really is.

DaChosenOne:
Are you a muslim? Imagine believing that I care about the opinion of a muslim aboki. Israel will continue to win against the Arab terrorists. Igbos and other Africans stand with Israel over Arab terrorists. Abokis will stay mad. The important countries with stand will Israel. Coastal West Africans need to treat the Sahelian terrorists like Israel does Palestinians.

I’m igbo.
Speak for yourself

Because I know many igbo people who don’t condone Israel.

Life has been heartbreaking recently. People you never imagined would be okay with genocide are.

I’m shattered.

But okay

Originalsly:
They would not have the courage to open this ..... or pretend they didn't see this .... and continue to display their ignorance and stupidity.

Supporters of Israel reminds me of The Emperor's New Clothes .... unwavering support of Israel .... just doesn't make sense ... but Cococandy figured it out .... this support is based on hatred ... hatred for Islam .... they will support anyone that kills Muslims .... if Hitler were alive and began exterminating Muslims ... they would be cheering him on ... Netanyahu is no different from Hitler. These peoplenare an embarrassment to Africa period.

It’s not the message. It’s the delivery.
You’re not the only person who said something similar.

Intent and delivery matters.

omooba969:
You chose not to acknowledge the message but to focus and address me.

That's the cognitive bias at play and you well know that I'm right, but okay.

No hard feelings though.

omooba969:
Cognitive bias, cognitive bias and ion fancy that either.

Bye

You know what you’re doing but okay

omooba969:
Well said 👍 and that's why we preach it in the Food section for guys to cut down on sugar/salt intake.

When the time comes, na body dey tell person!

I feel like you’re using my post to throw passive shots and ion like that.

TheSuperX:
Why are you acting like you care?

Speedy recovery to MR IBU, nothing bad will happen to you.

Do I have beef with Mr Ibu?

Are you okay?

Some times with unmanaged diabetes, it’s Inevitable.

Then follows kidney failure, dialysis etc.
it’s not fun at all

You’d think they love traditional women who want to depend on them. They’ve seen one now na to insult am.

SMH

Magnoliaa:
I'm sure feminism is the reason behind her cloutinus demand.





Modified: Don't quote me to say shxt. This is a sarcastic comment, because I know some y'all brains do be sleeping.

YourGFsnatcher:
Why are you expired girls turn feminists so bitter about the truth? A 22 year old will never be offended by this. But you people will teach them to be bitter women and join you because he played you and left you for another that you think u are better than.

I was a feminist at 20. As soon I became culturally and socially aware, it was a no brainer to me.

Just because you’re too mentally slow to understand broad concepts of social injustices and how they affect everyone even if not you’re not directly affected, doesn’t mean we all are.

Which part of feminism is against being caring and loving?

legitnow1:
Another 419 is Chiamanda Adichie.


That wan is happily married too.


She be studio feminist but submissive wife, once them enter house.


Look, unless u married a tranny, men generally love a woman that is caring and loving.


No man wants to be with a Mike Tysonn or Tyson Fury or Deontay Wilder.


Everyday wahala, no peace.


person like me go just go work normally from their board plane and fly out to another location.

e go be like film trick