₦airaland Forum

who do you think you are?

beekind:
I am in my mid 30s, very comfortable and a dual citizen of Nigeria and a first world country.
I decided to relocate back to Nigeria because of starting a family and having my own children.
Since arriving the country and based on my experiences so far, my plans have changed.

I decided to first focus on having children as I found out that the Nigerian society has become almost worse than the west in terms of sexual debauchery.
People have sex for indomine, girls commit abortion without remorse, the worst thing is that no one here uses protection and by the time your average Nigerian girl reaches 30 years old, she has aborted 4 times, slept with almost 100 men and contacted several stds in the process.

What this means is that disciplined men like me are left with these category of girls, worst still is that they come very entitled and empty and can even ruin you with their lifestyle as they are usually impossible to reform.

Solution:
I had to go back to the drawing board and re-evaluated my plan, I have an ex-girlfriend (29 years old) whom I am very close with. She fits the bill in terms of who I want as a life partner but she is a single mother.
So I gave her a choice.

Have 2 children for me, those 2 children will automatically become dual citizens and I might consider marrying you and adopting your child but even if I don't marry you, your 2 children that you have by me will be taken care of and being dual citizens of a developed country they can turn to a blessing for you and your whole family in future.

Now, let me explain, I still love this lady and my decision was premised on how uncertain I am of what my choice will be in the future as such I wanted to be very open from the beginning, but even at this point, I can not guarantee I will marry her but I could depending on what happens in future.

She's going to give me a feedback later and I am quite positive she will take the offer.

If it were you faced with this option, what would you do ?

Literally why I have zero XERO empathy for guys like you people

Yugoslavia247:
Your marriage is about to see shege.

Do you bother about your husband sexual feeling the same way you bother about him cheating on you.

Most times that's what you all do.

Like you don't know it is the sex he needs.

Focus on understand his sexual appetite.

If Vicky leaves the scene
Antonia
Anabel
Cinderella
Senorita

Are waiting in line.

Now he would become smarter or furious.

She must have worked so hard to satisfy your husband for her to ask such questions.

Who is sweeter between me and your wife?

Imagine the kind eyes she go dey use dey look you.

Anytime you are at peace with your husband she go dey vex.

Better up the game and claim your husband not just from Vicky but others.

Be insightful.
Observe him
Know why.
What if na the gal give am green light.

You don't need to rush.

If you rush you no go fit borrow oven.

Sit your husband down and discuss it.

It might be difficult but try. Don't try and fight the gal. You go embarrass yourself, your husband and the family.

Call his family instead.

If possible make una go out and settle the issue because you na go too shout.

You need to be smart.

Imagine that you know and act like you don't.

Even your husband go fear.

Leave the gal and face your husband.

Na im get problem.

E Kon be neighbors

Kaya mata self fit dey work.

Maybe the gal dey wear braless cloth and pantless.

The thing he want the gal understand

U want use Vicky hook up play.

She go Sabi suck dick

When last u suck him dick.

That alone go make am never leave Vicky hook up.

Yorubanization?
Lagolization? Who even comes up with these terms

StrongAlphMale:
The earlier Africa is recolonize, the better for us all.

recolonized by whom? Foreigners?
It’s so sad you’re willing to give up your freedom and power to men of other nationalities

Adding to cart for Halloween

eepeepook:
I doubt he’ll be deported. That akata pikin need a full eighteen years of child support. He’ll come out from frying pan to fire as that child’s mother will demand every possible thing he can provide to sustain both her and the baby.

You think they’ll keep in America so he can pay child support? Lol

Gerrard59:
Alternatively, he register on Nairaland preaching how bad America is and why young and ambitious people should not japa.

I will be here waiting for such a fvcktard, patiently.

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tensazangetsu20:
America a country people pick dollars on the floor is where an idiot went to commit crime. Bloody twa.t. He's gonna come back to enjoy agbado after his sentence probably he should run for president in future. His kind are loved in Nigeria.

Lmao at “pick dollar on the floor”. Na so

justwise:
Too little, that criminal deserves longer than that.

He might have been an accessory or something of that nature. If he’s the man mastermind, $200k fraud would have definitely earned him a longer jail term

Karleb:
I don't know why our people are greedy.

America is the last place anyone should do crime for money, there are a million ways to be rich in that country and you are comfortable without even trying.

I don’t get it either

Yes he will

Onefornaija24:
My primary school mate just got convicted in the USA for 36 months.

It had to do with money laundering, aza man issues about 200k USD.

He has a green card but not a citizen.

He has been in the USA since 2017.

He has 2 kids he gave birth to there with naija wife.


He impregnated an akata, akata oyibo woman gave birth while he was in prison because he was already in detention till the court conviction last week.


WILL HE BE DEPORTED after serving his jail terms?

Exceed15:
Oga my own be say they should not try to make it as part of our lives. They should go to Europe where is allowed.

No one will make it part of your life. You will be living your life as usual. In whatever capacity you like. Same job you do. Same places you go. Same hobbies you have. Everything you do will be the same and your personal life will be the exact same as before.

I’m trying to make you see there’s no gay boogeyman out to get you and force you into gayism.
This fantasy of the persecutors trying to portray themselves as some sort of persecuted people is insane.

Exceed15:
. How can I leave fresh boobs and velvet thigh and be going after man's anus.

You don’t have to. No one expects you to. And no one wants you to. Keep loving who you love and living how you like

Ajay7411:
Would you let a man who married his children live his life? How can you support this abomination? Do you think it'll end well for Nigeria if these disgusting beings are given an inch?

We must eradicate all of them

Cue the immediate jump to comparing adult consensual relationships to grown ups who want the freedom to abuse children sexually.

Y’all never cease to show your inner selves. Vile and disgusting

Ajay7411:
They must go to hell

Sounds closeted to me.

No one is more violently homophobic than a closeted gay man who’s struggling to assert his “preference” for women. Lol

You’ll be okay

omooba969:
This is not possible as a law has been promulgated against LGBTQ practices in Nigeria. Don't forget that the Nigerian society is highly hypocritical, therefore not a conducive environment for these lovely guys to fight for their individual rights and freedoms.

It’s not something that happens overnight. Probably not in these guys’ lifetimes but they can lay foundation for it .

Kobojunkie:
Like say you don't forget say Nigerians no too care about anything but self and now first.

Either they are really ignorant about how other countries did their fight to legalization or they have some ulterior motives.

Someone up there said American visa loading and I wouldn’t put it past some of those faces I’m seeing up there to attempt something this extreme for asylum.
Extreme because they had to have known how dangerous it is to do this in the midst of “godly” people who wish to kill them and they did it anyway.

I feel like No truly gay person who doesn’t have clout or influence would be this bold.

Ajay7411:
You support this crap too? Wow, just disgusting

Ajay7411:
I'm not a Christian, I don't claim to be godly so he must die

What a weird sense of morality you have when you think it’s disgusting to live your life and let others live theirs but it’s totally acceptable to you to tell other people to kill themselves. Yay fine morals

Ajay7411:
It shocked me, so sad he is gay... Sha, it's better he exposed himself.

As an abomination, he should kill himself

How very Godly of you

Instead of getting married while it’s still illegal, they should be working on getting to know their representatives. Figuring out who’s on their side and who’s not and how to get more of their sympathizers into government.

This is what is called jumping the gun. How will you help your community if you end up in jail?

And Nigerian men still think they are better leaders.
Look at how many years of male-led government and we have no direction. Country in ruins

And you’re asking every woman on nairaland this question because?

What even makes you guys think every woman should be responsible the actions of one woman? We are not a monolith. Grow up

Who regulates buildings in Nigeria? Why is this a common occurrence that people’s property gets demolished with wanton recklessness like this?

That’s not stealing

What is wrong with you?

SensualMan:
Way to go France! Way to go!

I wish UK can adopt so many laws against these ugly reta*ds that cover themselves up in black, oozing and smelling. Unfortunately these retarded women enjoy a lot in UK cos no one questions them.

The way France has banned these Muhammad piss drinking women from one thing is the same way Ilorin has banned the cowards trying to practice Isese in a land that accommodated them in disrespect to owners of the land.

Pakistani's are also sending their own messages to Christians.

Angelfrost:
Just ban religion, religious activities, and religious inclinations within all schools...!

All of such should be strictly restricted to worship centers only.

I think that’s what they did.
I really think every country needs to do that.
Let people practice religion in their homes and churches

In schools, the laws were originally aimed at removing any traditional Catholic influence from public education, but have been updated over time to include other religions

If they are gonna ban religious expression in schools, then it would be uniform across all religions. Same way if they are going to allow it, then all religions should be allowed. Simple and fair

That’s what they failed to observe.

White men understand this.
They are not innocent of misogyny at all. if anything they exported extreme misogyny to Africa during colonialism. but one thing they truly understand is that publicly degrading your women looks bad on the race as whole. They know that to hold onto power, they have to uplift whiteness as something for others to aspire to hence other races will aspire to be them. And they can’t do that if they continually berate white women for being white women.

What did colored men do? Accept a low position on the totem pole and aspire to be with white women as way to prove that they have finally arrived at the same place as white men. It’s truly sad.

Mindlog:
. Caucasian men who prefer marrying women of African or Asian origin, don't go about labelling Caucasian women.

Heavy on “it’s a process”. We’ll get there

Mindlog:
Our socialization views a woman who is assertive and does not tolerate being degraded as being anti-marriage, anti-family etc It is up to Nigerian women to have the inner strength to row against the tide and give the middle finger to whoever think she has to live her life to suit the diminished view of her personhood.

It is a process and when sustained, we would have future generations of black women whose communities would readjust to the new reality.

Mindlog:
I would say they are aware they would lose if they try that with their Caucasian wives they live with in the West. , so they self-regulate their behaviours,

At some point we have to start blaming ourselves for the level nonsense we tolerate.

We need to get comfortable with not being liked or being the favorite because in a bid to do that, many sisters ride hard for their own oppressors and pressure other women to do so too.

JaneYave:
.. and we want to eradicate white superiority? Do White women also accept that African men are polygamous in nature?

They know better than to use such words around white women. Talk about inferiority complex

izonborn098:
White women has something to bring to the table apart from her pussy which majority of the black lack.... You can't pet a liability' because even black women don't want a liability...

Ignorant statement. Research the ratio of white versus black women who contribute more to the home.