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ahnie:
Breakfast
Potatoes harvested from my lil farm

These are my favorite potatoes especially fried

Oya blame us. When you’re not giving good rates

Can single men be happy without women?

kayperry:
Single women can be happy over an event no doubt But when we talk of happiness that makes a woman radiate or glow it can only stem from a man's attention/affection

Guy's reaction over these topic goes beyond "likes" or dislike, reality is the watchword here
tonto dikeh tried to cover it up even dj cuppy with all the $$ we see her outburst

Single women can be happy.

You don’t have to like it

kayperry:
Yiimu !! tonto dikeh and aunty linda do pass you until god decided to open there yansh ...
there is no such thing as happily single, even mama jam jam wey dey form i no send "men" was busy getting it from lekki boyz

All those celeb that use to feign amazon/feminist wayback where are they today, you think eniola badmus is repackaging herself for singlehood or for women likes

Even our very own poco that prides herself as lakiriboto, for some time now she can't make two sentence without adding "my man"
women are deriatives of men, unlike men a woman as her urge and womb to contend with, either ways she needs a man

men just want to release, 96% of his problem is solved

descarado:
Escalibur. I already bought this before I got to know about some very pocket friendly ones.
There are so many out there.

If I'm in Nigeria, I don't need that. Just wait for harmattan.
You can use sun to dry your veggies this hot summer. The lady I used her method lives in USA and used sun. Use drying umbrella and cover it.

Thank you

descarado:
Mine has never gone bad and have never put in refrigerator. I do this once in a yr but don’t know how many months it lasts. According to sweet adjeley, if you did lots, freeze some and it can be in the freezer for 2yrs. Bring out small and use.

As long as they were very dry. Kept in a container with tight lid. The veggies took more than 18hrs to dehydrate.
I forgot to add celery.

Commercial ones are added preservatives

Nice. Very nice.

What kind of dehydrator do you use?

pocohantas:
That is what they do. Twist your words and run with it. You should know them by now.

exhausting

Being single is fine for women and maybe men 🤷🏽‍♀️

Same as being married. As long as it’s a choice.

zed7:
Using derogatory words don't make you smart. I aired an opinion and you countered.

Allow me stick to my opinion, marriage is good and should be encouraged. What the society should encourage is getting married for the right reasons.

Stop selling the narrative that being single is fine for women, it isn't. It isn't even fine for men. That's my opinion, either deal with it or kill yourself.

People like you remain married and deceive others, reminds me of Linda Ikeji preaching celibacy and getting pregnant. She would have wanted marriage if not that she was dumped. Silly feminist deceiving others.

Don't bother replying, stuck to your opinion ma'am.

The thing is you’d think it’s clear to anyone with common sense but that’s how they start and spread rumors on here.

The other day one of them was saying I’m encouraging single women to avoid marriage and childbirth. The next this one will start saying I’m asking all married women to leave their husbands. I just tire.

pocohantas:
He seems mentally disturbed. Comparing apples to oranges. No one is saying marriage is not desirable or women shouldn't marry. But until then, allow these women make their choice and breathe. You would think this is common sense or maybe they just pretend to miss it.

If you were haunting unmarried women, they would come up with another talk of women being their own enemies.

Such knuckleheaded dolts.

descarado:
Did chicken seasoning. This time, added some veggies. That carrot was tough but later blended again to get finer powder.

A little bit of cloves, star anise( I love this herb and use it always for my meat), cinnamon and, cardamon. Small salt, small white sugar and chilli powder. The taste is .
From rosy's kitchen but modified.

How long does this last before going bad without refrigeration

Don’t shoot people unless in self defense

I’m not responsible for your inability to use your brain.

Just because I recognize that it’s okay for someone to choose to be single doesn’t mean I think being married or in a relationship is bad. Two things can definitely be true. Which is that either choice is fine and none makes you more valuable than the other. Especially as a woman because that’s who this conversation was centered around to begin with.

If something this straightforward is difficult for you to understand, I wonder how you cope in real life. Simple things must be overwhelming for you. How sad.

zed7:
You're a f** hypocrite. Like I rightly suspected, you're married. When they get married, they start pushing the it's ok to be single narrative. Why not remain single and die an old hag?

The average black person achieves something and then starts telling others that what they achieved isn't a big deal.

Why not leave your toxic marriage and stay single?

Women and men need partners, we need someone to spend our lives with. All these nonsense woke culture of red pill and feminism will only further plunge you all into misery.

What we should be selling is ability to have sense and screen for the right partner. Humans, most especially women are miserable when they are old and unmarried. FACTS.

LaRosa01:
NO SHE CANT BECAUSE SHE DOESNT NEED A MAN,WHAT SHE NEEDS IS TO GET HERSELF A WOMAN.for better or worse is why the man didn't divorce her or chase her away.but if you have no child for your husband after 5 years and you are not making arrangements for another woman to try,then you are a witch,quote me.

This mental gymnastics is to convince yourself because you already know it sounds idiotic

No I wouldn’t.

You simply don’t know me. The same way I’d hope she doesn’t leave him for being impotent is the same way I wouldn’t encourage him to step out because she unable to get pregnant. Not all marriages must produce offspring. Besides Adoption is an option.

Now maybe a good time to face your hypocrisy .

linearity:
You didn’t answer my direct question though, is it because the answer will betray your current position on this issue?

If your blood brother is married to a lady and that marriage has produced zero children, what would you do?

I very well know you will be in the forefront of those making his life unbearable until you get a new wife or get a side-chick pregnant!

TheSuperX:
And killed him too, that isn't right.

If he surrendered then he wouldn’t have been shot. Do you expect the agents to lay down their lives and die at the hands of that dude? Seems like you didn’t read the post

LegendHero:
What will you say if the Nigerian police hunted a man on social media because he threatened to kill Tinubu. Then the police should now come on air to say they killed him because he has firearm with him.

Will you also defend the police like this?

If the president is visiting his area and he’s in the same area making credible threats with firearms to boot, the. yes the safest thing is to arrest him because he has shown he has the means and the intent to do such thing.

gameova:
He should have been arrested not killed Damn you FBI

They went to arrest him.

LegendHero:
If this happened in Africa that an African security force killed a civilian just because he is threatening to kill the president on social media, USA would have been shouting free speech, democracy threat, and calling on UN to act for crime against humanity.

Insulting the president is legal

Threatening assassination is not. Some of you just say anything

The way trump had these mofos high on braggadocio needs to be studied. Did his suitcase of rifles make him think he was a match for the fbi?

linearity:
My sister calm down Jesus, married women have been stepping out since infinity, it is nothing new!

I am 100% that, if this man is your brother, you will be the one to introduce the new wife to him sharp sharp.

Let’s not pretend that, we don’t understand our culture and traditions and the pressure that man must have been under.

Plus, he housed and keep his first wife and never neglected her on account of her barrenness.

Nigeria women, una no dey copy better thing from Bible self….Sarah was in a similar situation and he profound a wonderful solution.

Nigeria ladies, God forbid if your marriage is barren be the Sarah in that family, go out and look for a young and delicate young maid for him, that can bear children through her for you, he will worship for eternity.

It’s the way y’all pick and choose which part of the Bible the Bible is applicable for me

If the man is impotent or not virile, can she cheat too? As long as she respects him?

Dead people don’t know if their names exist or not. It’s ridiculous egomania that makes you think it’s necessary for a dead person to leave their name behind.

family name my foot

Ategberoson:
I lost a friend on this page, he was married 8yrs nothing to show for it, the only child of his parents though his dad was died for so long, he has accident with no kids, he didn't survive the accident, that trauma killed his mom too


if he had a child wouldn't the family name still exist? a family lost their history because he couldn't check out, he impregnated a lady and force the lady to abort which she did. there are many things that's beyond your understanding, that's destiny

LaRosa01:
man pay your bride price,feed you care for you,protect you and not even a child and you think it OK.my dear what are you doing for that man.you step out,I kick you out,go and be another mans problem.

So if the woman cares for herself, feeds herself and is not getting what she expected from the man, can she kick him out or is it only applicable to women? For better for worse is only for women?

The reason why I ask these pointed questions is so your answer can be the thing that indicts you. and also the younger girls reading can get a chance to see how the average dude here thinks. That way, they never feel bad about prioritizing themselves in a relationship with people like you guys.

descarado:
Hmm.
I can see why.
But one can trek short distance na.

Definitely. I walk my kiddo to school when the weather is good

Kobojunkie:
Car culture? I biked for many years from my place of residence to school and then work here in Chicago. Cities across the world have been redesigned to accommodate those who wish to bike around. The excuse no longer exists in most cases. .

In denser cities maybe but most places aren’t designed to enable that.

descarado:
Yep, obesity is there to remind them.
There are some tiny islands before America in obesity rate and theirs is understandable but I don't know why Americans are obese. After them is Arabs. Shocking.
Sapa made us lean like buhari and trekking cos we love food too.

Car culture is one of the contributors to obesity in America. Can’t get anywhere if you don’t have a car. It really sucks because people would love to bike or walk to distances if they can but the architecture is not designed to favor that kind of lifestyle.

Calitoscassius:
Africans really hates themselves, so Tifnubu sanctioned Niger on behalf of France the west, the white man. Naigeria and Niger are supposed to be in allied against France, the west, the white man. .

You’d think with all the nonsense they yarn on the internet about western influence they’d be first to support African citizens wanting freedom from being under a western government’s thumb. It really shows most of them just usually talk with really no understanding of what they are truly talking about.
Just wherever the wind of religion or tribalism or the bigotry of the day blows them.

I thought you guys hate western puppets. Which is it?

mysticwarrior:
The sanctions is not even up to a week and they have stated crying like helpless widows, them never see anything yet, let them keep listening to their motivational speakers from Mali, Burkina Faso and Guinea.

Sleekfingers:
But your people were insulting Tinubu. Una never see anything.

But they sad part is refugees will start trooping to Nigeria. Which is a security treat to our country. Our soldiers need to mount our borders in the north.

zed7:
Be consoling your fellow women. Majority of unmarried woman don't feel fulfilled no matter their accomplishment. They just can't get over the feeling of not being found good enough to be married to. It applies to women even in the western world. To avoid rejection, they came up with the coping mechanism of feminism.

I'm sure most lesbos will become straight if they are guaranteed of having and keeping a man.

Funny enough, it's women who are married that try to push the narrative that marriage isn't important. Swear that you ain't married? Silly, hypocritical females.

That’s what you want to believe and that’s your prerogative

Being married doesn’t mean I have to join the brainless herd that tell women they have no value unless a man sees them worthy of marriage. I’m valuable single or married and my value isn’t attached to the approving gaze of man. You would understand if you had the capacity to

Pretty sure you guys believe in “for better or worse” but only where the woman is concerned though.

Following this logic any wife is justified to step out on her husband if she’s not getting what she expected from him when they got married even though it’s no fault of his?

LaRosa01:
am i missing. something,you married a man for 15 years,had no child for him then you are angry that another woman did.madam you are a witch,you care nothing about your husband or his name,you care only about your greed.

Yoighaman:
"I am a legally married woman with no child and My marriage is 15 years...."

Not every man can endure not having a child for 15 years, I don't support his action though, but let's be objective here; maybe he did the right thing in a wrong way.

Ategberoson:
I can't wait for 15years with any lady on child birth though hiding the babies for you maybe he's scared of your do and undo in your last paragraph


I can only give a lady 2-3years anything beyond that I go find one baby to give me kids outside

TK9680:
The first sentence explains it all. 15 years and no issue.
Madam, this man loves you. Move on.

calabardick:
For 15 years?
Well, I can't judge him, people have different ways of solving their problems. But I think he is a good man to wait all years.

This isn't a side chick but he married her and paid brideprice, sincerely speaking the families of that lady and that of your husband are fully armed awaiting your negative reactions.

For your good, it's either you stay or you move on, raising any problem will definitely bring war to your territory.

In addition, for this man to have his children from his new wife and still lives with you tells you what?

macphilip:
your hubby has been caring and providing for you all these years.
some other men would send their barren wife packing.

your hubby needed children to carry on his name and properties?
Madam, do not be selfish.
some women do far worse things like multiple abortions, paternity fraud etc.

KennethEnyi:
He probably took a second wife because you were barren and couldn't give him a child
You think he's going to wait around for 15 years
Nawa o
U b joker

VIKTO83:
I am legally married with no child.
My marriage is 15years.

U come down again to say men are evil.

When u read this my comment, go to your toilet, sit on d sitter and judge yourself.
Just read the first sentence again. Read it again. Also read it again.
If it's your father, brother would u say same about them?

She might be surprised he’s the barren one. Madam dump the dude and move on.

Basiljoe:
Unfortunately, reality disagree with you.

"Most women in western culture who find themselves single at 38-42 are there after an earlier life that didn’t go as planned. They almost universally carry some kind of baggage." - Rational Male

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-so-many-single-women-without-children-are-happy?amp


“Other research demonstrates how singlehood for women is increasingly viewed as desirable. A study from data analysts Mintel indicates women are more satisfied with being single than men, and less likely to look for a relationship.[ii] Part of the explanation has to do with women working harder than their male counterparts in relationships.

According to Professor Emily Grundy, of the University of Essex, "There's evidence that women spend longer on domestic tasks than men and I think they also do more emotional work — so they still do more housework and cooking and things as well as more emotional labour."

Dr. Grundy also notes that women tend to be more involved within social networks as compared to men, who often rely strongly on their wives. In her words: "Women tend to be better at having alternative social networks and other confidantes whereas men tend to rely quite heavily on their wives for that and have fewer other social ties“

Prestonn:
I guess you gonna love my apartment. My Mama once told me my apartment looks like garden 😃😃

👏🏽 👏🏽 as it should!

Really

immortalcrown:
Too bad, if true. But he is still doing better than Tonto. At least, he lawfully married and spent years before divorcing, unlike Tonto who could not even date for long talk more of making it to marriage.

My comment is not a judgement on who between him and Tonto has the worst character. My comment is that his case is not as shameful or ridiculous as that of Tonto. I say this since bloggers cannot report the news without including the name of Tonto in the news. Also, one commenter above is already trying to use this Churchill's rumoured case to exonerate Tonto.